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Emmynator:He sure knows his stuff when it comes to psychology and its relevance to human behaviour and social issues. In his lectures, he connects myths and the sociopsychological facts behind it, to issues of the present. Politically, he seems to be a vanguard for the right-wing, socioreligious conservativeness and that earned him great fame, being politically-incorrect in a society that has gone leftist "WOKE" to the level of insanity. His book, 12 rules of life makes a good read for motivation and finding direction in life. The only issue were he seems to be lagging concerning the red pill, is his lack of understanding of what young men (Gen X to Z) have to deal with, in the present intersexual dynamic which has changed a lot from the time he was raised and got married. Being a baby boomer, who was raised in a time where feministic ideas were almost nonexistent, patriarchy was the norm, no gynocentric laws and women being submissive to their men, he spills classic traditionally-conservative (TRADCON) ideas that keeps him out of tune with the present reality. All the same, he is worth listening to. You made a great choice. |
ubunja:I just got online. Logik29 reply has covered it all. "See-finish" is the the Nigerian street term for familiarity that breeds contempt. |
ProphetJeroboam:At the emboldened, the mistake that guys make, in thinking, that women are not that sexual, is tied to their blue-pilled indoctrination/delusions. Women are more sexual than men, because sex is what women have and control, knowing that it is what most men WANT from them. Women discuss sex often than men do, as it is what most of them can offer men, being that they look up to men for survival, but men, being filled with more testosterone than women, have the drive and make more move for sex than women, making them think they are more sexual than women. Just like women's hidden ovulation, women have evolved their observable attributes like coyness (being tricky and not direct in conversations), least sexual interest and neoteny (physical and behavioural attitudes of children) to fool men and to boost their own survival to great advantage - a reason we consider them to be naturally red-pilled. Last weekend (on Saturday), I shared photos of old, professional bodybuilders in their prime, who I admired and followed in training myself, on my WhatsApp status like Dorian Yates, Ronnie Coleman, Dexter Jackson, Kai Greene and Chris Bumstead. I observed the comments of the men and women who responded to it. The men were like "This is great", " How do I train to be like this? For the women: a lot of the comments were related to questions about the size of their diicks. One of them that used to be on my rotation and got married in 2018 pointed to the photo of Kai Greene, saying that "I want this guy to fuuuck me silly". Another one I know who got married last December commented on Ronnie Coleman's photo saying that "this guy looks scary" and I replied her saying "but you'll like him to pull your hair while banging you from behind". Her reply: "You know my favourite style" with a wink and kiss emoji. Lol The next day (being Sunday), more than half of the ladies who made sexually-related comments on the photos I shared, posted religious-themed messages or photos of them in church on their status. I was just laughing. This girls be wilding out in their primal nature (sex is primal) as they barely evolve physically and mentally like men. Men evolve (which is great for advancement) with a lot of them losing their primal nature in the process. |
Francis95:Nothing to be scared about. Man up and play the game to your advantage. Women do that all the time. As far, as your relationship with women isn't detrimental to your finance and other life goals, keep them around. If they want to go, let them go. You lose nothing as long as you can attract other women. For the single mother in question, she CHOSE you and you should take the advantage to enjoy whatever she brings to the table without giving your precious COMMITMENT (marriage/cohabitation) which I suspect, she wants from you. Giving your commitment to a post-wall, single mother always end in disaster for the most part. As she spends on you, keep your brain intact. Avoid see-finish. Avoid the pregnancy trap. Some of these ladies tend to be diabolical too, so you have to be smart. Her statement, "I'm the jealous type" is bullshiit. Being pre-selected by other women is one (among several) reasons that she chose you. Spin your plates and keep her long enough till she gets bored and move on to another boy-toy. Regardless, you also have the great option of REJECTING her. Whether you accept her and play the game or chose to stay completely away from her, you took the right path, as you are your first point of focus. |
Trex4:As far as the red pill is concerned, I have never been a fan of him, seeing him having multiple baby mamas in a highly gynocentric society that targets, and rip off, men that are considered to be financially successful than the women they date/marry. His relevance to the Red Pill is the lack of oneitis/spinning plates and that is great. I shared similar sentiments on this thread in 2020 and cited celebrities who did similar things in their prime thinking they are smart but not knowing that they were playing themselves into the hands of the women-worshipping society that they are living in, as another useful, disposable slave. Some of them, became dead broke, and fell into multiple mental/health issues. Some, even committed suicide. I remember a guy coming for my head for questioning Future's red pill "credentials" and I remember telling him that his actions may seem okay at the moment, but considering the society that he lives in where pets are ranked higher in the order of importance above men, he is setting himself up for disaster in the long run, with overcharged child support, numerous law suits and even me too-ed. For me, spinning plates to your own personal detriment and having multiple babies with women who, for the most part, are not on the same or greater level of financial status than you are, and are in for the benefits, at your own loss doesn't seem like a smart move if you look at it, deeper, from a red pill lens. |
sajmark:As you chase your dreams and build your value in life, women will come and this is when you have to be very careful, so you don't revert back to the blue pill. Avoid the beta-buxxx/beta provider role for used-up, damaged women like the cum-dumps of other men (women with high body counts who have been established not to pair-bond), single mothers (excluding those who lost their husbands to death), gold diggers, women on the spectrum etc. Below, is the tale of your typical, nice guy, high achieving, career-focused beta provider and damaged women who are only in for the provision after enjoying being banged over and over by other men.
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I don't know who made this post but it was shared by one of the biggest rich SIMPs I know in person. I'll observe him for some time, before considering, discussing the red pill in full, with him. This is a great level of awareness despite his wealth. Shoutout to @BabaYeghar on Twitter/Instagram. Like Shola, he needs to be protected.
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ubunja:Facts. Unknowingly, you just put a lot of Nigerian dudes on "mate-guarding" mode. A lot of them are obsessed with being wealthy (not their for their own sake), thinking that women's natural tendency for hypergamy will make the women, loyal to them. Lol. I'm in full support of men getting that bread/wealth, though, before folks misconstrue the purpose of my post. From what I have seen so far, some of them use some basic tenets of the red pill, observed from basic sociocultural facts and evolutionary biological proofs, to justify their blue-pilled ignorance. Recent scientific facts, prove that they (Nigerian men) are not very good at mate-guarding, regardless of wealth and social status. Nigerian women are ahead of the game. Lmao! |
Elxandre:Contrary to the bullshiit of "women are wonderful creatures - men are evil" themes, women are less moral than men and would find every justification in the world to be immoral. |
ubunja:I highly doubt the emboldened, though, I understand your point, as the present sociocultural narrative portray female humans as being cuter than male humans. Michael J Ryan, in his book, A Taste for Beauty:The Evolution of Attraction described the Female Choice: where in certain animal species, the females selected for beauty. Same have been observed in humans and our ape cousins: Bonobo Monkeys and Western Gorillas where females selected (or chose) male species for their beauty. Factors like the ability to acquire resources, or aggression to acquire territory wasn't ruled out though. |
Winnerly:I've said it once here before that quite a lot of greenlights that guys would get would be very manipulative, and whether you hot, warm or cold approach, a deep knowledge of the red pill would make you figure out a time waster and a manipulator in no time, from one who genuinely desires you. I have been involved in many false greenlights myself with female strangers and those who I am familiar with. I never fail to acquaint myself with immediately but keep my red pill sensors on high alert for any sign of time wasting and I'm out. If they come back with sex (if I find them sexually attractive), or submissiveneess and commiting their time, energy and sometimes, resources, I back track and see what can happen in dealing with them. Once, they don't respond back, they never desired me genuinely and I was right in escaping their orbit and friend zone. Regardless, know that when you get constant greenlights from women, approaching them or not doesn't matter, Know that you are treating yourself right and not "invisible" to women, and have a potential to get favourable treatments from them in the future. |
oza20:Locusts are grasshoppers who, due to certain hormonal changes in their bodies, change skin colour (usually from green to brown) and start exhibiting crowding (swarming or mobbing) behaviour, destroying vegetations including planted crops as they mob around. |
heartofcity12:You are welcome, bro. You all are saying the same thing bro. Egos get mixed up in a lot of discussion like this and gets it more complicated than it is. I stay away from them for this reasons till everyone has calmed down. Except, you really don't go out that much, you'll get to deal with strangers on a daily and definitely, the strangers would also be women. A lot of time, I meet them and approach them when they have something to do with my hustle or some other purpose they may serve to me, outside of sexual attraction. Women are shallow in thinking and emotional which is why the halo effect works on them a lot than on men. Guys on average, look deeper. A reason why a guy may not bother much on your appearance, as long as you approach him respectfully and you are competent. Women do. I would usually be on my best appearance (not tacky and not overly flashy. Flashiness works too but be used sparingly not to attract gold-digging time wasters). Women are usually receptive when they see this and some might be downright nasty attempting to shoot you down. I guage the body language like facial cues and body openness for reception. Once she is grumpy and hostile, I'm out. Even at that, I don't usually follow up and delete the numbers afterwards. On rare occasions, I did bed one on the day we met. It was a day after she just broke up with her boyfriend and was emotionally down. We never exchanged contacts. Cold Approach definitely has its pros but a lower success rate than hot and warm approaches. It must be used sparingly and with caution, so you don't look creepy and get "me too-ed". It should only be done with women who are open and confirmed to be eager to continue with the interaction. Approaching them without gauging their body language and eagerness to continue interaction is not sensible and in some highly gynocentric societies, a recipe for disaster, being accused of sexual harassment or falsely, as attempted rape etc. I find the earlier PUA style of seeking out 100 girls in a week and hoping for that one that would drop her panties, unreasonable. But then, it can work for guys who have a lot of time on their hands and just coming up in the dating game. It should be done with sense, as women are generally not worth that time. |
Tonnyray:You and King0g are no different. Brainless trolls. You are actually more childish than I thought and not even practicing what you preach in your "motivational" quotes, being an unnecessary loud mouth. Some monikers here already figured you out but are trying not be confrontational by dealing with you at the level of your understanding. I know you won't stop hanging around here since this thread is filled with men of deep knowledge comparing notes in improving masculinity and other life issues that are specific to men. One that you may have never encountered in real life. Ideally, you should read quietly (or anonymously) and take what might be useful to you but as the loud mouth, attention-seeking ignoramus that you are (just like a girl with a penis), you called the red pilled guys on this thread "losers", constantly derile them and being the real loser that you project on them, you hang around and to share your foolish opinions in a discussion that is not meant for people like you. Caveadullam, Junnior etc. might be nice to you just to avoid conflict and get along (and even pedestalize your ignorance at some point), but I, Skepticus would never get on that bandwagon and won't hesitate to call you out and expose you for the fraud that you really are, in leading young, impressionable men back to the ignorance that they are trying to get away from. |
DaniWhizbang:If it is not deep psychological issues that require therapy or straight-up, mental retardation, why would I, having claimed to everyone that i am an Amadioha worshipper (for example), go on a Christian thread, to put my loud, ignorant mouth in a deep discussion they (Christians) are having about the Trinity and get mad that they are not taking me serious? I'm for all forms of approach: cold, warm or hot. Like heartofcity12, I'm all for the strategic use of the cold approach and being used within limits that doesn't tip into simping which I did in my early 20s when I had a lot of "time to waste". Personally, I don't follow up on cold approaches, as i only see them as "cruise" with a low success rate. Hot approach and Warm approaches (recommendation) does it better for me. Being much older now, 24 hours is barely enough for all I want to do, so, it would be foolish for me (at this stage in life), pursuing random girls for numbers and sex that would pay no bills nor improve my life, with the arrival of social media, making the entitlement level of this girls higher than normal. This is one of the reasons Pick Up Artistry lost steam and its earlier adherents like Mystery and Neil Strauss abandoned it, as they got older and had better things to do with their time and lives. In fact, mystery fell into suicidal depression as a result of wasting his younger years chasing aimlessly, after women and not rising in his career of being a magician. #Edited |
Benee1000:100% facts, bro. Let me continue where you stopped: This is the HOE/WHÓRE Test (credit to Paul Proteus): If your getting sex from a lady you are with, is tied to providing her with money, and other material goods, or services, you are dating a HOE/WHÓRE. To confirm the test, remove the money, material goods or services you provide, and if she constantly withdraw this sex (even with made-up excuses), accept it as a bitter-to-swallow but legitimate fact that you are dating a HOE/WHÓRE. Guys may console themselves that this doesn't apply to the girls that they are with, as they didn't pick her up for one night stands/hook ups at brothels, hotels, clubs, whoring hook up apps (like Tinder, Badoo, Codedruns, Instamessage etc). I'm not talking about those. These are mostly HONEST WHÓRES. The ones I'm talking about are the DISHONEST WHÓRES that men "package" as serious girlfriends, fiancées and even legally-married wives. |
Tonnyray:Dude, just rest it. Except, you are dyslexic (cannot read), have poor self-esteem/psychological issues, it should be clear to you and other level-headed thinking folks that this thread is not for you and others who think like you. As it is now, you are almost being a nuisance on the thread. Create a thread of your own and go start up your blue-pilled "common sense" there. Other like minds will join you to discuss whatever ideas you have on your mind. I'm glad that you claimed it, several times, not to be red pilled nor being aligned with it. OR Since you crave the attention and may still want to be here for that purpose, I'll advice you to continue stick to your "motivational quotes" which is okay for folks that are yet to find their feet in life or "gbam" those quotes you agree with, rather than argue on points you know nothing of (concerning the red pill) and making a fool of yourself. |
SarcasticWords:Thank you! |
WildPrimate:There is nothing more to be added to it. Male virginity is at an all time high despite the high increase in female promiscuity. Sexless marriages are quite common than people think, much to the dismay of men who think marriage is an opportunity for endless sex. It's a valid truth that the sex market has been highly deregulated. In the past when women's hypergamy was greatly limited, men strived hard to be highly competent in whatever society expected of them like being warriors, farmers, blacksmiths etc to be deserving of women and they simp for this women as they were worth it: Extremely low body count, submissiveness (not docility) etc. Now, the sex market is worse with a high sense of entitlement and promiscuity. Some guys are just taking what they can get from the market of trash. Some abandoned it all together. |
luminouz:What you are looking at, is the Juggernaut Effect where SIMPs and sexually-frustrated men, think that women who are above average and average in looks, are difficult to attract and fûck, so they all rush to give attention to women who are below average in looks or downright ugly, fuelling their high sense of entitlement. A lot of this ugly women get attention than average looking girls because of this Juggernaut Effect. This skinny, less-attractive woman isn't expressing this unreasonable sense of entitlement only because of her innate hypergamy, but being flooded with attention from SIMPs that fuels her delusions. There are tons of guys who would gladly fulfill her wish for a taste of her smelly, worthless snatch (pussssy). |
U viktor88:When you tell men to have sexual discipline by not bonking every woman that comes their way, whether they chose you or not, whether the environment/time is right or not, using your head, intuition over your foolish dick, they'll give you mocking replies that reveal their foolishness like: "You are not getting pusssy" "You are an incel" "I am a womanizer, (simping plates), so I understand women" "MGTOW guys are just scared of women" etc. What these foolish dudes don't understand is that the generally accepted meme of "women are wonderful/men are evil", halo effect, women's neoteny/coyness already put men at great disadvantage in both patriarchal and gynocentric societies. So, as you build value, you are prone to being a bigger target in a society that already adjudged you as evil for just being a man and won't mind treating you with disdain as the disposable gender. I'm on par with Zabiboy's vibe on: what is so special about a woman's pussssy that men put their lives at a great risk? Or what would they do for me that I can't do for myself, outside their smelly hole? Well, Greenwood's case and the issues that surrounded it reveals all that has been said here. Attraction to women is natural for a man and there is nothing bad about it, but if you don't use your head over your dick on how to operate with women, you'll land, where other foolish men before you, did. You guys have been forewarned. |
Klchnjoku:Facts! |
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thinkmoney:Lol. You know all of this but still pay these destiny destroyers for just a few minute of pleasure? You should use your own advice. You need it more, if you want to go very far in life. |
Calibrator:You won't find them on this thread. Some of our earlier critics have already swallowed the red pill and fallen in line. You can read more than 20 pages of undiluted red pill wisdom on this thread and not have sense, except you are condemned to be forever stupid by your village folks. |
franchasng:At the emboldened, that line of she cheats on you if you are struggling financially is outdated. Women of today cheat on rich and broke men. Sometimes, they don't even need a solid reason to cheat. With the advent of weak, pussified men, women have become more encouraged to cheat and be disloyal as we fail to call them out or check their excesses. Get off Nairaland, sit down quietly and ask yourself, why Nigeria rank second on the list of paternity fraud in the world, which is suffered both by poor and rich men in our society? By the way, I don't envy men who save this overused, disloyal cûnts every weekend. Marriage to ladies of today is a foolish waste of time and resources. |
saintnegroid:Why take money from him, when you don't intend to date or fûck him? Na from smooching, fûck dey take start. From asking another man for money, na there cheating dey start. Kaleidoscopeman is right to be worried. That woman is showing strong potential to be a crook for taking money from another biologically-unrelated man she intends not to date/fûck (if it's her intention which I doubt. Her conversation is open, leading the guy on), while in a committed relationship with someone who intends to marry her in a short while, and a disloyal woman. You guys encourage Nigerian women in their despicable and disloyal behaviour and act surprised when they cheat on you or bring home bastard children for you to raise. Rubbish men! |
posty56:This is the primary reason, I don't reply a lot of mentions that has to do with "my girl" "my love/fiancee" "I want to date this girl" "I want to fuucck this girl" "Is this girl attracted to me because of how she treats me/catwalks in my face?" "Ubunja, is this a green light?" "this girl has a fair/light skin that glows so much (even with surgery/bleaching creams) that it made my life brighter, "She is so cute/beautiful that you'll kiss the earth that she walks on" though she is a whöre who charges multiple men to sleep with her (in the words of a simp who once, dropped a comment here). Oneitis is the worst thing that can happen to a man. You are literally, stunted for life. You don't have to be in love, or openly dating. You can stay temporarily away from women or totally avoid them without having the "Oneitis" syndrome. Once, you find yourself obsessing over that one girl/unicorn, you are done for. Just kiss your red pill, goodbye and enjoy your bluepill. That delusion is necessary for primal reasons. |
heartofcity12:There is something about providing comfort for a woman that ends up doing the opposite of what most men expect - it dries her pusssy towards these men. She must constantly be stimulated and put on her toes emotionally, even on short term mating options to keep her punna wet. |
Martinez39s:You already covered all that I would say, in simpler, decent language. I won't go further, not to diminish the small "hope" that a lot of men still have in women, as I can tell that a lot of Nigerian guys still want to "love" women, even when most of the women can't do same in return, as women are not naturally wired to love men unconditionally. COOL10, I hope you are good. |
HarunaWest:That was what caught my attention, first. I thought I was the only one who noticed it. Jos Boys and their love of Timberlands no be here. ![]() |
Also, don't let any man shame you for your choice, if you made a deliberate intention to stay away from women temporarily or permanently for whatever individual reasons, when you can attract them. Some men, don't even like the player lifestyle and find the attention of too much women, distressing and distracting to their life. Truth be told, you are not missing a damn thing and your red pill is still intact as you are your first point of focus. If you don't like the player lifestyle or staying away from women, you still have to learn the game as Ubunja, and other brothers spill it from basic facts and their "on-the-field/street" experiences. There is a lot to be learnt from it in understanding women as you'll be dealing with them as random strangers, coworkers, bosses/subordinate, business partners etc. Even, if you decide to stay permanently away from women and society (going "off-grid" in MGTOW terms) or becoming a hermit monk for religious reasons, the knowledge of sex game is still valuable for life knowledge, and in advising other men. |



, "I must get that girl bro", "if I no get that girl I fit die","omo that girl na the finest girl I done ever see", that's how your mind (emotions) will start to deceive you, suddenly, you will start suffering from oneitis, your mind starts portraying her as an angel