₦airaland Forum

Ujujoan:
It's called reverse psychology A.K.A syking. She probably lied about the circumstances and when. She's maybe even still cheating on you now. Either way, you are screwed man. She lived with it for 16mths '? Pssssh!

Anyway, who are you to judge!

u so read n said my mind.

saintneo:
eat enough moi-moi, chin-chin, do-do and any food that its name is a repetition.
this is very serious

Fhemmmy:
Make love to you wife in the Elevator on the second floor and make sure 2 people that are twins are watching you.
trust me, it works like magic

LOL[b][/b]

Buring my head in shame!!!
cant face Nigeria

How can naijas av food allergies with all the Agbo jedi,okpa eyin et al.
HUNGER NO SABI ALLERGY

the male specie-MAN,is inherently programmed to be a polygamist.its encoded on some codon in one quasidominant DNA.

pele!

Agreed,"deporting"them is wrong in context-they being nigerians.awever,im pretty aware,that there is a cartel that ships most of them from their homes in the north to come n beg here in the south especially lagos n they pay commission to these guys.
i believe it is the proper n humane thing to do if these people r returned to their families on the grounds that they r being exploited.further more unearthing the groups responsible for these human trafficking n bringing them to justice would be a more complete.

allycat:
PARDON my long sermon.I believe that there are many doctors in Nigeria that should be sued. But also I beleive the average Nigerian expects miracles from the doctors in this environment. The Nigerian doctor is first and foremost a NIGERIAN its just because health is involved all his or her failings are magnified times 100.
Having worked mainly in government hospitals I will tell you that some doctors are performing miracles considering what they have to work with. Many patients come to hospital only after they have attempted to treat themselves either at chemists or with Native medicines of which neither they nor the doctor have any idea what they contain or the names or they have prayed and fasted all the while getting worse. Then they come to the doctor expecting a miracle and some will even lie about everything from the duration of illness to previous attempts at treatment.

Next the doctor is expected to miraculously make a diagnosis with his bare hands and with none functional laboratories- ( a very large and busy teaching hospital has only one microbiologist serving a patient load of over 500 patients a day with ancient obsolete equipment and eratic power supply). If he needs an urgent xray it may take anywhere from 3 to 48 hours because there are only 2 or 3 radiology technicians on duty serving about 300 patients a day again he can only work when there is electricity. The patients dont make it any better. I have had patients refuse to do any investigations or even take the drugs prescribed come back months later and complain symptoms are getting worse.


When a patient requires admission there are only 2 nurses on night duty on a ward with 30 patients- Imagine them giving drugs that should be administered every 3-6 hours, taking vital signs , dressing wounds, cleaning up patients that may soil themselves and feeding those that cant feed themselves.Each patient may require 1hrs attention or even more-please do the maths. Remember that these nurses are human beings and not robots.
God forbid if this doctor character needs to operate at night, the average teaching hospital will have one anaesthetist and a maximum of 3 residents on duty and if you are lucky 2 scrub nurses. And if it is a busy night there may be anything from 1 case to 10 casses requiring anaesthesia that night, so the patient joins the queue and waits for his turn. If that night you unfortunately have one case of multiple gunshot injury, that may be the only case that can be done and in three days time the queue can be as long as 20 to 30 emergencies.
Or what if he is the only neurosurgeon or cardiothoracic surgeon or gynaecologist or even general surgeon in the hospital and 3 seriuos cases come in that same night. He can only do what is human and not more.

I am not making excuses for anyone who is negligent but you dont give someone stones and ask him to make bread. The doctor does not work in isolation neither does he work in a perfect place. So when you sue make sure also you have done your part to make the situation in this country better because its all interrelated. The country cannot be a mess and health care or doctors by some miracle will suddenly be perfect.

way forward:
1.patients must SUE if they fill they av not being properly treated.
2.Drs n other health workers should attend to a patient only if they have all the tools to diagnose n properly treat the patient,otherwise politely explain the situation to them then send them home-chikena!

BrOwn*Suga:
Group B

Netherland
Nigeria
Germany
South Korea
,

babes u wiked no be small.
[b]VIVA AFRICA[/b]the mother city is on fire tonite

i use to have 1 big pack.
as a matter of fact,, STILL DO

@poster,
what i'd like to know is,is this a recent event,cos if it is,with a pregnancy test,u can find out, at least, that she had an abortion.now whether it was as a result of rape or ur girlfriend betrayed your trust n got down with someone else-more stupidly without protection.
awever,if indeed ur lady was raped,i'd advise u go see her.make her understand that u'd always be there for her.BEING RAPED IS NOT EASY TO DEAL WITH..cheers

@poster
have ur sister go to your girlfriend on her knees pleading for forgiveness for having the audacity to lie her brother's bed ,watchn his DVD,open her mouth to say hi to her.infact she should reqyest that he should pour hot peper water on her, onye zuzu

Ositades:
Dear NLanders I met my fiancee on bed with 2 guys a month before our weeding date, how do I treat this issue?

more gist now aw can u stop there?
what did u do there n then?
did u join in on the act.
what did she say?was d devil one of the guys dat lured her into bed or na him even b the 2 guys-dont underestimate the devil ooo.
common with more details.
just asking so we can advise u better.

kissing in public shouldnt b a biggie.
a brief kiss on d lips or a peck pretty close to the lips with someone u r intimate with could be really kool .
frenching in public can be really inappropriate most of the time.

I choose YENK.
for all the BrEaST reason!

i choose YENK.
for all the BrEaST reason.

its only in naija u r worried for u get sustained power for a day or longer n quite rightly rejoice when it s taken.

those theiving brits should borrow a leaf from the french n return our stuffs.OLE NLA

THE-AMAKA:
keep on dreaming.

living the dream is what i do best.

!amebo no1:
naliakar do you have to mention omotola on evry thread you walk into?

them use omotola swear for you?

I beg amebo n amaka make una leave naliaka alone na his dream woman wey no dey available be dat.im also so crushed on beyounce(i dey wait for jayzee to Bleep up) so i understand.

Libido:
This is not true,it is just a made-up scenerio ! If you were able to get your test result in 30 minutes flat,how come you are now(or still)waiting to update us about your fiancee`s result.Some people just make up false thread to allow people to run their mouth,believing that we all dont analyse what we read(some dont).

there are different types of screening methods available.some are almost instant(rapid)while others take much longer time for determination.

Ameobi must play at the world cup for the Super Eagles in 2022

i dont do luv.
for me trust is everything n she just murdered it.
SHE GOTTO GO

Obinna31:
do love actually exist? People can deceive themself that love exist because they are young such as a black man that went an marry a white Lady in the name of LOVE at old age the man will be full of regret then he understand that he has lost even the lineage and children even her wife all because of love. I warn you people, there is nothing LOVE, Which previous generation understand but this modern generation fail to understand IE why parent,elder and relation select wife for their young ones.
Today their is prove that show that marriage with courtship is prone to divorce than marriage without courtship .Ask God to show you who you will marry.

OP!

dude keep walking n never look back.
remeber the rule of 3s,if she said 3months,it was at least 12months with that guy n 2 other EXs.

kobikwelu:

THE Federal Government has moved to ensure that electoral materials are not tampered with after elections by constructing two ICT Strategic Data Storage Centres where all electoral documents would be stored for maximum security.


JOKERS!!! BUNCH OF JOKERS!!!!!


will all this prevent ballot box stuffing
will it prevent diversion of election materials to strong men hauses?
will it prevent rigging?
will it prevent election result tampering?


peeps in government are bleeping JOKERS!! with the I.Q of a lab rat
as usual another opportunity to award KWANTRACT to their cronnies

why u dey insult the lab rat now?

@poster
dude if thats what u really want,then go for it.discordant status between couples, is pretty common n there r ways in which u can live a fufilling life n av an enjoyable relationship without also picking up the infection.
av read some people quick to jump at the assumption dat for her to be positive,she must av cheated on u.FYI,there r other ways to get exposed n subsequently infected.
like some av raised,and i whole heartedly agree, u must think it through thoroughly n b prepared for the emotional n sumtimes physical strain it can put on u.
Seek professional advise on your options with regards to raising a family so u can be adequately informed.
BEING HIV POSITIVE IS NO LONGER A DEATH SENTENCE.

lanle:
hey guys!
is it true that lady that is still a virgin at 25 and above will have complications when she is ready to have sex?

yep! will be pretty boring in bed.
side,taking nothing away from "virgins",it takes alot to hang on to it in present times.if for nothing at all,it shows strength of will.
awever,when i decide to settle down,i definately aint looking for no virgin

dude u've been given what a lot of married guys could only dream of, a second chance at being single!.
guy forget about her n go out n enjoy ur self joo.nothing do you.
awever,u didnt mention if there r kids involved.that changes the complexity.

sheriffman:
Fellow Nairalanders most of us have heard or watched the TV reality show Big Brother Africa at one time or the other.
My grouse with the concept of the programme is what legacies it intends to bequeath the youths and younger one addicted to it.On several occasions we have heard about some really sad news concerning the way contestants behave inhouse,how some contestants are molested and even the message the contestants do send out.Am sure we have not all forgetting the story of our own representative on the show was treatewd sometime ago,currently there is a controversy in Malawi about the conduct of it's participant on the show which as even gotten the attention of the country's president.The truth is that the programme does in a way promote immorality and untoward social behaviour which are not African.
So my question to the forum is Should the show be banned,reprogrammed,censored or what do you think is the way forward?

Yes because they banned shower hour.not cos of all u raised above.

chidichris:
@poster,
from which angle of life are you writing from? i mean if you are speaking from the religious aspoect of life or the much talked about internet age which every privates and tom is fighting to embrace.
by the way, which authority are u seeking their attention in banning the programme? the govt of malawi,nigeria or the Organisation of african unity?
it does not make sense to post issues that you cannot handle.
remember the instruction is that the programme is for adults that is people above 18.
if you are 18 and above, u know what you want.
on the other hand, you have the choice of changing your channel whenever they are about to start.
if things are done the ways u want them, there will be no programme on the Tv and to me, i will then suggest we ban the tv.
please poster, look for another topic.

u too sabi.if dont like it change the channel or better still smash ur decoder n/or tv u'll definately wont be influenced albeit negatively.

experience it