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Odunharry:
The best way to get him out of your mind is stop calling,tell him u dont like how he treats u if he dosnt change den tell him to stop seeing u.though its very difficult to 4get som1 u love so much but u just av to try coz they are millions of guys out there who wil love and care for u.i am nt sayin u shud leave if u stil love him talk to him about it,give him sometime if he dosnt change, if i am in your condition i wil leave him cz i think its better for me than to be putn all my best in a relationship that is makin me sad.

queeneve:
Chic,

It seems though that you did not get the closure that you need.  Whatever allegations that he accused you of you need to square that with him because if you are not guilty of the allegations then you have the right to confront him, However, I wouldn't go back to him at this time because if he really love you he would have taken the time out to discuss whatever feelings he had and BOTH MUTUALLY come to an agreement to take a break while things are sorted,

IT seems to me something else is going on that he is not telling you or maybe you are not looking at it from a different perspective.  It could be that he feel justified by the allegations regardless if it true or not.

What I suggest that you do is write a letter detailing how you feel and mail it to him, BECAUSE YOU NEED TO GET YOUR FEELINGS OUT and ask him if he want to talk, HE IS WELCOME but let him know that this is not an attempt to get him back but to understand what went wrong SO THAT YOU CAN GET THAT CLOSURE YOU NEED,

Breakups are not healthy because someone ends up hurting however it best in the long run,

Hope that helps sis!

Creamish:
@ poster . .herez a guaranteed way to get an answer for your intelligent question . .

stand in the middle of 3rd mainland bridge or any other busy road of your choice (your aim here is to get crushed beyond repair . . pls take note) . . . . .then on your way to HELL, take a 5 mins detour to HEAVEN and ask God y he gave ALL chicks stretchmarks . . .feel free to ask him about d other SMART questions your deformed brain musta conjured . .but remember : u have ONLY 5 mins to spend there . .

. . .lastly . .n most importantly . . . when u get to HELL, dont forget to fill d oda foolz askin d same dumb questions in. . . goodluck!

queeneve:
Google,

You want a bambina?

Somebody want me to have a bambina, why do men want women to have bambinas at a young age?  What wrong with having bambina at older age?

MrPrsdent:
just be mute

thats it

parki:
mr brownjay, please what r u on about? i can see u aint married or av friends within that age

the fact that many people are doing it is irrelevant here as we all know that many crazy people do crazy things around the world.(your statement)
which is true. . . . . . . . . .
i posted that one of the reasons why a gal might want to sleep with her friend's man is because she thinks her friend aint all that.
when u make a statement like urs above then i dont see what u r arguing against.
you only succeeded in being ignorant and have taken the subject matter away from context.

CHEATING IS WRONG
NO respect for the relationship they are in and definitely NO respect for themselves.

for a man of low reasoning, u seem to judge pple alot.
yea it is wrong, doesnt mean it doesnt happen everywhr and for your point of info
that u r more loyal doesnt make u better respectful to your significant other or ursef.

also no human is perfect and everyone have got their habit including u, maybe for him he get excited when he sees a woman
maybe for u, u get the thrill seeing a man, or as a killer, u get the thrill from killing. drining, smoking gambling.
all r frowned by the society but do not think cos u r more faithful then u r a more respectful or better being but which ever the case they happen.

abeg my friend read what i posted cause i laid more emphases on why lady friends do what they do. . . . .  simple