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@poster, i meant that u shld try dating ladies and not underage girls,u never told us her age and 4rm what u told us(if it is true which i doubt) i personally deduced dat the girl is probably a minor, leave the kiddies and date ladies cos ladies dnt request a jeep 4rm evry man dat shows interest in them.

Ujujoan:
I agree with JB . . . Only a stoopid girl will go about asking guys she just met for 4mil naira cars!

Banom you must have bragged to her about how rich you were and how you can do ANYTHING for her!

exactly,dats wat they all do, i think the chic was stupid and am sure she is below 20 yrs of age cos her test is extremely immature plus i think the poster is scared of smart women!

ooohhh industrial chemistry is the koko, am a chemist too

am loving this!

queeneve:
Yes Sleek! You right not all Nigerian men bad EXCEPT MR COCK AND MOBO,

Yorisb, if you are Igbo, You might be, He has a big family and they say I look like them! You know we having a big holiday festival in the ibo village in December going to be a big festival, why don't you come and celebrate with us, we will have enough eba and ogbono for everybody!

I might even cook my famous meal, I might cook my version of jollef rice with scramble eggs,


Love is a wonderful thing with the RIGHT PERSON, don't hate on love!

wow,send pics of the celbration, i love happy moments, and i think the town is enugukwu, spent a christmas with a family frnd there in 2006.babe,u resure in for a good time cos its a lively town and the ppl so lovely, am ibo and my town isnt very far 4rm there,same local government area bt sadly i havent been to my town since i was 9

gestapo:
Ha ha what did i say that was wrong Berra get that hot head of yours into some coldroom or deep freeezer if you don't want me to cool it for you, onye beri beri

aturu awusa,u re the silliest NL girl i ve ever met on any thread and ur suggestion(even though u meant it as a joke bt thank u) shows hw brilliant u re, and my head isnt hot u nanny-goat!

MOBO444:
I have noticed you have been picking on me and following me from thread to thread, i have a feeling you are wet right now and want me, but guess what i am so far away in England i dont need me a Black negro girl right now, you need to find a solution to the wetness between your legs, try self services.

aah mr egghead,if only u knew, bt if i say much,i wld be like u.u re in england?i dnt doubt it cos am sure u re an illegal worker no wonder 35 pounds sterling means heaven to u and FYI,i wldnt follow an azzwipe like u anywhere not even online!

annawhite:
(with a suprise look )
who is this? another  has been let loose
do u think you can handle me, if you got game bring it on

am not interested in handling u sugar(wld leave dat 2 ur bf)am just after the nitwits insulting nigerian women.

jaygetta:
Wow @ OP. U seem confused. U can't stand blacks, thus u "went" white, Then u couldn't stand the whites either. Is it that the problem is not the black Nigerian, and the problem just might be u!

exactly@poster,if u think nigerian girls and the white sisters arent good enough for u,then marry ur money(if u arent just another broke azz parading himself on NL)

parki:
@omo to dun. . . . . . so since u joined u havent created that your most intelligent thread yet and i thot we had sub groups in nairaland what r u looking for here.

mobo444 HAHAHAHAHA! (naija gals no go kill person, they so so ignorant)

am sure ur mother and other female members of ur family re ignoramuses well here s good news for u,not all nigerian woman was cut from the same block as the mentally-retarded women u re related to plus the ones u usually attract(probably cos u re no different)

MOBO444:
^^^ Annawhite i have been thinking about you, i have come to respect your view and the way you come out of tough situation, i am begining to like you, really you must be hot, you are single, but if you do have a lover he must be a lucky dude, i can imagine what a lady with her never say did altitude can do to a guy in the bed room, you have this hot rush about you, most guys will want you on top of them, you no longer a black lady in my view.

pathetic,dickless and brainless poverty stricken fool, like i said earlier,go get a life![quote author=Mr-Cork link=topic=533347.msg6957542#msg6957542 date=1287316589]hinduism , madam aint u suppose to be in India?  do u know what £35 will do for your life  over

there  in india?  Its women like u that encourages cross culture,   No one dates Nigerian women in ithe UK anymore

coz of stress  (truss me) [/quote]u re a 1st class mugu, wat can 35pounds do?the poster said it cld feed one here in nigeria for a month, i live alone bt 8000 doesnt even last 4 3wks on just feeding,unless of course u feed solely on soaked garri and perm kernel, 35pounds sterling only makes a noticeable change in ur life if u re as poor as the poster!

ITbomb:
HOW TO HOOK A NICE IGBO MAN. CONDENSED VERSION

go fall in love and quit hating

queeneve:
Well Zimdrill,

When my husband first approached me I did not know he was Nigerian not that I have a preference of what type of man that I like, I do but I am not strictly picking but I have my standard, I spent time getting to know my husband while we were dating and when I found out he was Nigerian I was shocked because he looked like any other African-American people walking in America, and plus he is igbo,

As you know Igbo men have them noses, because few of my friends are igbo and they got them noses so that how I was able to tell they were Nigerians, my husband speak like an American mainly because his family is both American and Nigerians.

Although he is Nigerian-American, he practices the tradition of igbo culture so I was introduced to his family and they gave him approval, but BEFORE I EVEN said I would date my husband, I got to know his character by seeing how he interact the females in his family and his behavior with me in midst of other people.

I wasn't expecting to marry a Nigerian or an African because their are alot of good black men in America despite what the Media portrayed black men to be,

My husband and I was gelled, which is unique because we have two DIFFERENT cultures but we made it work, and I know Nigerian men HAVE BAD REPUTATION around the world, BUT I ALWAYS SAID, ONE NIGERIAN MAN DOES NOT REPRESENT ALL NIGERIAN MEN,

To sum it all up Zimdrill, I looked at all the GOOD QUALITIES MY HUSBAND had despite the fact he is NIgerian and it overweight the NEGATIVE QUALITIES,

No man is perfect and that what I tell the ladies, you will never meet the PERFECT MAN, but I married the RIGHT MAN FOR ME,

SORRY FOR THE RAMBLE, as you see I love my husband and enjoy sharing my love of him to others

sorry to counter u babe bt nigerian men arent the only ones dat can be full of bullcrap.all the same dearie,am happy for u

Clayton:
@ Sleekch1c,get a visa and go after him

really smart

odiaero:
i dont hv bad breath, some gulrs are dying to kiss me, but they are whites

why the racist comment?a woman is a woman no matter her colour, roger that.

heroes1983:
what d fk is wrong with you girls. Must it all come down to a criteria of digits to prove how much a guy cares for you. That guy can be a student and he sacrificed alot to prove a point to a lady. Virtually depriving himself of his tomorrow's necessities. Tell me really who would you go for, someone who earns 50 a weeks and spends 32 on you in one night or someone who earns 500 a week and spends 50 on you in one night? But come to think of it, were i a girl, i would choose the latter cos the former guy should have been an f00l to spend that much percentage of his money in 1 night and still got no returns and thus proven himself to be unreliable

boolsheet,u guys prefer pretty girls yet we dnt moan and create threads like 'WHY DO MEN PREFER PRETTY WOMEN?'dude,money attracts women the way beauty attracts men dats a fact and u cant change it by lamenting abt it so deal with it,get a life and quit whining! [quote author=omo_to_dun link=topic=533347.msg6955905#msg6955905 date=1287277459]Ok, I have freaking had it. What the hell is wrong with some men on NLanders? Most folks here are dim-witted, ignorant, obtuse-minded, and cannot create an intelligent thread even if their lives freaking depended on it. I barely joined this site a month ago, hoping to engage in intelligent and sound discourses, but all I invariably see are juvenile threads created by dumb nincompoops. Useless and jobless men on NL are always condemning our black sisters, always finding faults with our black sisters, and always placing Caucasian women above our black women. Aren't our mothers black? Aren't our sisters black? If you look for a freaking responsible girl, your lot will greatly improve. Maybe if you brainless animals stopped dating atutupoyoyo kind of women while expecting them to be the best women in the world, then, hopefully you will see improvements.

Black women bashers: they are everywhere, like ants and roaches, refusing to die, and spreading like STD.

Yes, I know that I could have chosen to ignore this thread, but I felt like someone needs to straighten out fools like the OP, especially that brainless, hopeless, mindless, and uniquely dumb character called MOBO. Always black women this black women that. Haba![/quote]thumbs up bro.

MOBO444:
Please excuse my manners, why should a guy spend so much money on a Black women in the UK.

i think u re as stupid as ur meaningless name.

MOBO444:
Damn i am so angry, you should not have spent that much money, Black ladies are cheap, no Black woman deserve that much money, am so pissed right now, so angry.

fool of the first order, if u are black and just said this then i hope u die screaming u hopeless slowpoke!

aguiyi:
not even one word on education. na wao . has UNIZIK called off thier strike or he was also blind and dumb about dat
anyway dogs na dogs and politicians na politicians
dats easy to comprehend

i think u meant ANSU not unizik, we arent on strike.

asha 80:
is unizik not a state university?

babe,when u wrote JAMB,didnt u get a brochure, sorry,maybe u havent written one yet,

poweredcom:
dem don come again

Like say na Only Anambra get brain, abi brain to dupe

Check out the roads in Anambra state is nothing to write home about and it is a very industrious state , crime in Onitsha market and hatred amongst the Anambra people no co operation because of Too much Love of ego-Money and dirty streetz

If you are from Anambra you dont have Money you are a fool , Small boy will step on you,

infact the only Man in Anambra i can say i cherish is Philip Emegwali

i cant believe u just say dat, if u re brainless,see a brain surgeon 4 a transplant and stop posting boolsheet here!

it hurts hurts hurts when u dnt get to hear it!

stop dating underage girls, try a mature girl,she wld never choke u dat way!

i think u re ryt queeneve, a good meal,a good lay and a comfortable bed then u got a man's heart!

she really is lying!

[quote author=omo_to_dun link=topic=533359.msg6955464#msg6955464 date=1287270254]@OP
My dear brother, you have not only put yourself in a tight spot but have also turned yourself into a punching bag for NLanders. The folks here will roast you alive, and feed the leftovers to the dogs. Quite a bit of an exaggeration, but I think you get the picture. I find it hard to believe that a Nigerian man would resort to finding a potential mate online, especially on Nairaland; however, if your motives are sincere, I commiserate with you, because I categorically believe that you are in the wrong place.

Did you tour this site and investigate former threads and posts of NLanders to see if there was any woman whose views paralleled yours? Not that her views might be a complete representation of her character, but, at least, you would have something to work with.

I wanted to take a couple of shots at you for being so naive, but I am feeling a bit nice today; however, if by tomorrow, you are still here begging for a wife, my brother, I may yab you.
[/quote]

Firearm:
hehehehe
see venom!

that's y I luv my Tj
even if u dont respect me,
u'll always respect my Tj

@sleekch1c
u got me all wrong from the beginning
I just pray u'll understand my personality
am friendly; and I've never traded words with anyone on NL

yeah right,i dnt respect u one bit,u may bask under the respect i got 4 ur TJ.

Firearm:
^^^
thx my luv for understanding

and
until some ladiesand even gents imbibe self-realisation within them
that is; realizing how invaluable they are
and dont allow people to give them poo
they will never stop crying over Ex bf/gf.

I repeat:
I will prefer a broken relationship that a bad marriage not to talk of broken marriage
Losing a bf or gf is not the end of one's life
All you need is a little time to urself and reflecting on the just ended relationship
Find out what went wrong; and what could have been done better
Most importantly is to bend your knees to the floor and PRAY
But the first lesson to helping you out of your position
is for you to understand your personality

Remind yourself that you are a lady; and most probably a pretty lady (at least from your profile pic if u are the one, I will score u 60% )
Realize that some dudes will be crying and will be on their knees to have u as a g/f
then, you take your time, talk to God
and see light come into your world
Another point of note is never to rush and get another guy to subsitute in
relationship is not a football game where u substute immediately whenever a player is down
so go back to your drawing board, realise who you are, talk to God, and see changes come into your life

my 2 cents as promised

this is what u shld ve posted 4rm the beginning bt i really dnt want to knw wat u think now.[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=532864.msg6953939#msg6953939 date=1287255610]@ Sleekch1c

We ARE ALL WITH YOU.  You are hurting.  I read Firearms remarks from the beginning - he was really being supportive.  I think that you are sensitive right now.

He was trying to be helpful - many times when a man offers his phone number to be of assistance or tells you to contact him at times we women will think he is trying to be more personal with us than he is trying to be.

When he let you know that he was with TJ - he was trying to assure you that he is being genuine and not trying to get into your panties.  This was his way of telling you so you wouldn't take him the wrong way.

I think you mistook him somehow and thought that he was being rude to you when he wasn't.  He has offered himself to others as well if they need help.

You are hurting right now and we just want to help you through your hurt. Because all of us understand and do sympathize with you.[/quote]God bless u 4 dat bt i dnt think i misunderstood firearm.the guy is just so full of it!

Remind yourself that you are a lady; and most probably a pretty lady (at least from your profile pic if u are the one, I will score u 60% Grin Grin Grin)boolsheet,i choose to ignore dat.

tjskii:
aaww sweety im sorry ure going thru such a painful phase,time heals all wounds,though its kinda become a cliche,but its the truth

first off, don't get involved in another relationship at the moment,twon't be fair to u or your partner,ull merely be on the rebound

don't try hating your ex,twill only make u bitter,undermine your confidence(bout your decision making abilities,afterall u made the decision to be with him in the first

place),and ull end up feeling worse,

as queeneve said, take time out to grieve,there's absolutely nothin wrong with that,

then pray,my dear there's nothing like prayer when ure hurting,

i totally feel your pain dear,been there,done that,if u need som1 to talk to,lemme know, we can hook up on YIM

oh and by the by, forgive firearm, he meant no harm

aw,u re just so nice,i think firearm is rude bt dats not me headache.i told him to post on my thread and he assumes he knows y my relationship ended badly.dats a horrible thing to say.thanks a lot,i wld contact u.

Odunnu:
Do you have bad breath?

thats ryt,b4 u verify dat ur breath is golden,ask a good female frnd, those who ve bad breath never knew dat they do!

Firearm:
your words here tell a lot about you
I dont want to be drawn into a war of words with u
but I think I am beginning to understand the guy dat dumped your silly backside

fire nyash or watever ur sorry name is,wat i didnt understand at first was wat a pretty girl like tjskii was doing with a scumbag like u bt hey,i once dated one too, u re running off all this steam cos u want a private talk to 'help' me and i wnt ve dat, if u re happily married to ur love(i dnt doubt that) why does dat bother u?am not having a verbal war with u cos u arent even worth it, i wonder wat u got in dat skull of urs as brain.i advise u to back off nw cos i like ur chic and wnt want to insult u further.

i already ve my hands full , am not cut out 4 cyber-dating!

Firearm:
hehehe

u dont seem to know me too well
anyway: it's your cross not mine
u'll see my comments when I have the time later

i dont want to know u sir,u may stuff ur comment anywhere u pls bt not here cos i think u re full of urself, pardon my stupidity 4 thinking i cld get a reasonable advice 4rm u, duh!

Firearm:
but the most important advice I will give to you is this

you need to realise who you are
you are priceless and extremely valuable
no man, I repeat; no man has the right to maltreat any lady

ladies are special blessings to this our universe
and as such; should be treated specially

What you need to understand first is SELF-REALIZATION
see me offline

fyi,
I am happily married to Tjskii
she is my one and only
so dont ever think I have hidden motives
just contributing b'cus I have my name in your OP

i really dnt care about ur marital status ok?u can be married to the queen of england bt dat doesnt concern me at all, if u cant help me here,then dnt bother.i asked for u guys specifically cos i love ur comments.queeneve has been most helpful so shoot and stop giving me ur geneology!

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=532864.msg6949846#msg6949846 date=1287195833]@ Poster

First of all dry your tears because mark my word and UNFORTUNATELY - THAT loser will be back in your life.

What I hate is that you will take him back because you are weak for him.

PLEASE GROW A BACKBONE.

The reason you are crying over him is because HE DUMPED YOU.

Had YOU DUMPED HIM - He would be devastated right now.

For some odd reason - the one who is dumped is the one who usually cries the hardest, longest and loudest.

I wish for YOUR SAKE that he was a man of significance so that once he returns AND HE WILL RETURN, he is worthy of you.  But in this case HE IS NOT AT ALL.  He is NO PRIZE to cry over.

Make a list: 2 Columns

1) List What you Like About Him
2) List What you didn't Like About Him

Post that up for you to see - DAILY - do this for yourself because from the sound of it - the negatives will outweigh the positives

Also, just so you can stop crying - START DATING, good looking men, funny men, just date to soothe and relieve your mind - you need to be spoiled right now but be honest with them and let them know you are just getting out of a relationship and please don't tell them what you just went through.

Also, don't mention your ex or regale anyone with stories of what you shared with the clown.  You want to laugh in their presence not make both you and your dates cry over your stupidity and over the manner in which you ALLOWED YOURSELF TO BE TREATED by your Ex.

The next time he saw me and any time thereafter - I would be looking like a million dollars.  But I would be looking like that for myself and NOT FOR HIM.

Start going to the gym, taking long baths with candles, cry hard and get dum-dum out of your system, go out with female friends, start dating, visit your family.

That [boy pretending to be a man]  will be back - PLEASE MAKE SURE YOU AREN'T THERE WHEN HE POPS UP.  START DOING YOU.

She can have him - Both of them did you a huge favor.  Praise God - the shackles are off your feet - YOU CAN DANCE.[/quote]thanks 4 dat

gestapo:
Please don't stop loving him, why would you wanna stop? What crimes has he committed that is unheard of? He said he never loved you, NOTHING SPOIL? He calls you trash, SO WHAT? He calls his ex frequently and dumped you to go back to her, KINI BIG DEAL


aBEG CARRY GO AND CONTINUE LOFFING YOUR MAN, LUCKY YOU

i hope u catch syphillis and doesnt get diagnosed till ur nose falls off and ur balls turn black!

queeneve:
So you saying BEING MARRIED IS THE GREATEST achievement of them all?


WTF?!!!

my sister,help me ask o![quote author=High_Chief link=topic=532859.msg6949466#msg6949466 date=1287185584]@Queeneve
Yes, cos a woman that is married gets more respect even in her immediate family, no matter what a woman has achieved in life, its still incomplete without a man[/quote]boolsheet! this is 21st century dude!