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[quote author=Ms. Potato link=topic=542921.msg7053241#msg7053241 date=1288566578]Ok, say this is my freinds story. No be mine ohhh! 

Lets say this girl is living with her bf in an apartment and they are living with this housemate whom happens to be a womanizer. Well, he is a new housemate but they all have known each other for years. The lady knows that he was a playah before cause she have seen him going out with multiple females and when he notic this lady finidng out about his excapads, he would tell her not to tell her bf cause he dosnt want to break the trust and friendship between him and her bf. She doesnt give a hoot cause it aint her business but ever since he moved in to the house, he doesnt go out with ladies anymore and he doesnt sleep around anymore so she thought maybe its because he is scared that her bf would find out about his personal life so she just moved on.

Talk about moving on, one fine day, he came up to her and ask her this:

Did you notice that I stop going out with females and stop sleeping with them?

And she said yeah, thats cool.

And he said well, I have a reason for that.

An she said yes, I know you want to my bf's trust in your friendship.

And he said not that. I can still rent a hotel and sleep with girls bhind his back but Im doing this cause I think I have fallen in love with you



Than he said this: If you go out with me and give me a chance, I will never ever see another woman again. I swear. . . havent I prove myself to you up till this poin? It has been 3 monhs now.


WHAT ON EARTH DO YOU THINK THIS LADY SHOULD DO [/quote]a guy that wants his frnd's woman?that guy is a snake and not to be trusted!

;d ;d ;d

aca77:
No you have got issues, serious weight issues (if thats u in d profile pic). Why not deal with that, rather than look for who to nag?

I think you have a very valid point.
A lot of girls can't seem to make up their mind on something and can easily be manipulated by friends and whatnot. Makes it scary to think whether they can be dependable.



I would think thats why divorce exists. Isn't it more honorable to leave him than to live a lie, since only the first two words of the 'for better or for worse' clause seems to be happily observed these days, the last two words are disgusting to the senrses, I guess.

aca77:
You should have at least attempted to confirm, dispute or explain the issues raised, rather than basically saying 'he is more guilty' in response to the simple and direct question 'are you guilty'? What's the correlation? Btw, why not try to be sure of what the word "whining" means b4 using it.

now i see mister,u got serious issues!

kayc33:
so what makes you think he's after citizenship

because most guys dat leave nigeria in search of greener pastures are simply desperadoes, not all but most!

mediatrix8:
So does it mean , no more Nigerian guys who are serious and not after money or documents in Marriage?

dear,u sound like a nice woman bt i was only trying to warn you, nigerian guys dnt date foreign women with only love in mind, some even ve girlfrnds waiting for them back home.sad but true.am not telling u to distrust ur man bt am only advising u to be careful about long-term commitment!

ovo4u:
Na wa for u ooo. Well am from Delta state and i don't like the line of generalizing stuff like you put there,just drop your comment and stop bringing this tribal thing on the floor as it normally happen in many other forum.

am ibo too but dat wnt stop me frm saying the truth and if it hits too close to home,its not my fault!

aca77:
1. My husband is rich, but he has no time for me - thats why I cheat.

2. My husband is there for me, but he is too poor to meet my needs - that's why I cheat.

3. My husband is rich and always there for me, but I don't love him because he is not physically attractive - that's why I cheat.

4. My husband is too nice, caring, and possessive to a choking extent - thats why I cheat.

5. My husband is too uncaring and shows me no attention - thats why I have to find it elsewhere.

Why can't they understand that in life no one can have it all. And learn to live with the choices they made (with eyes wide open) without complaining and finding excuses to misbehave?

men are worse liars and cheats learn to deal with it and stop whining, its boring!

[quote author=Mr.Bones link=topic=538928.msg7042138#msg7042138 date=1288383814]U don't go about bullying ladies, give them some respect jor for pete's sake.

Btw did u jxt insult me or jxt a bluff cos u wont like the other side of me i truly tell ya[/quote]the other side of u??

wat 9ja guys wld do for citizenship!

mediatrix8:
LUAP, I perfectly understand the view of your wife with regards to marrying other race.When I was young I was afraid of blacks because I was build up with a wrong perceptions against Black people.I thought most black guys are bad,gangster,scammers,drug syndicates and so on, I made up my mind that I will never come across with any black.But this wrong perceptions have changed totally,When came to China.I met this black guy who is from Nigeria.At first,I was afraid of him,I wasn't interested to know him more.But,when he told me he likes me.He never stop calling me ,sending message,some gifts.Persuaded me to love him.He showed me gentleness,passion,care and love.He was really wonderful and amazing.I am an Asian but I never met any guy like him.The best qualities he have that made me love him is that, He is a God-fearing man.He taught me to become closer to God, Every single day he gave me reasons to love him more.I just love him with all my heart and promise to be with him.support him and love him forever.Now,I LOVE EVERYTHING about NIGERIA and AFRICANS, I found them very beautiful.That is why made this thread not bcz i don't trust him but simply bcz I want to show him everything he wants in a woman.
I have learned that we shouldn't generalize people, there are good and bad people in every race that's for sure.If majority of them are bad, certainly ,there are still some if not few of them who have the heart,the conscience and have fear in God , with this they can't do anything against others.Good luck

sounds like a typical nigerian man, if he is ibo or deltan then the engagement means nothing, pls be careful babe though i sincerely hope it works out for u two.

[quote author=Mr.Bones link=topic=538928.msg7031837#msg7031837 date=1288265589]
Look she has lain down her weapons>>>

so i advice u stop insulting her.[/quote]mumu,wat re u?her watchdog or just another member of the retards' club?

something is fishy, women rarely leave their matrimonal home like dat,the man isnt telling the whole story.as for his numerous business trips was really business or was he nesting in the laps of a delilah?men sef!

Corky Joe:
yea, Nigerian babe askin for moiney, as usual

how brilliant!

Idowuogbo:
^jaybee ban dis idiiiiiot  cus her  thick skull doesnt understand derailing , blawwdy bat
so blind she couldnt even read the drop the drama comment , ignorant animal 

Idowuogbo:
^i swear in as much as i dislike your gutts , u jus made me laff
silly boii , okies i havent forgiven u oo
ignoramus , i didnt buy trouble now , stop it , i aint gona reply anymore cus u making me  derail
Peace

spoken like a true madwoman!

and no,i refuse to fight a verbal war with a bimbo who has congealed grease as brain!

Idowuogbo:
y u frustrated , listen dont pick battles u cant finish
i read his post and i was not d only 1 that noticed his comment
yes he explained himsef later but i was not convinved enof , so i sed my piece
but u have decided to b his bodyguard , wot a nice job lets c how far u moronic fool hold d job 4
besides if your bisected brain registers information properly u wud notice he started d whole drama attacking about my pigin english ,but stupidity has wiped half your memory , and me mugu shey i don blame u blawwdy retaaard

@zim
are u happy now your campaign is a success
your felow protesters beleive in u ,
u dare cal me a slowpoke when charity was hard for u 2 spell tink again dummie

he made just one grammatical mistake but u made many, who is thick-skulled now?babe,from ur reaction to that guys post reflected exactly what u really are,a fool of the first order, u re pathetic,was this the type of english u wrote in WASC?because i seriously doubt if u ve ever passed UME!

queeneve:
God showed me my husband,

He do not need to tell A PERSON TO TELL YOU,

He can tell you directly whether it through a dream, picture, voice, or whatever it is that HE need to do to get your attention,

A pastor can tell you in confirmation what you asked of God, But he SHOULD NEVER TELL YOU WHO TO MARRY,

exactly.

Idowuogbo:
we are not hitting on dem ,  he attacked some1's mum den we cautioned den along d line  2 den he decides to tell me population of pips in zim dat are illiterates , he called 4 it friend , now he has brot is fellow entourage to bring up d dead matter , if i talk quanta go buss,besides xynerise na my person i wont  derail his funny thread . cus i dont no y evry discussion dey have has to be  political jeeeez , evry one of dem wants to b mugabe dammmn  

am ashamed of u,go back and read zim's post, if the poster is ur bf,i wnt be suprised, birds of the same feather flock together afterall,u guys deserve each other, empty heads!

ZIM DRILL:
bullcrap do you know what is an attack on mum

you are daft as the thread starter you slowpoke

ignore the mugu,its obvious she cant read well!

slap1:
Nice post. A great blueprint for divorce.

BULLCRAP

dangerously in love by beyonce,

steeze:
Nonsense! Can a woman urinate while standing? We are allowed to philander, women are not. Shikena. The punishment for women who commit adultery is stoning to death. Worst case scenario is a few lashes of cane on his tushie. MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT EQUAL! Yes, life is not fair. Deal with it. Besides, if u wan dey play away game like us men u will suffer d consequences. And your punanie will also suffer d consequences. So choose wisely!

i pity ur woman if u ve any, so u can philander eh?i wonder who gave u such silly orientation.keep philandering with those orange hawkers,i hope dat syphillis u re carrying wnt be diagnosed till ur nose falls off and ur balls turn black, duh! [quote author=d#anie link=topic=537996.msg7010765#msg7010765 date=1288016780]jeez
such adumb topic
really its U naija gals that are cheap more salt.
My guys, just dress fine, shave fine, hold some cash in ya wallet walk up to a gal, fool her even lie to that u r dangote's cousin
if your lyrics fine, she go fall sharperly. all because of money. ok take am slow slow.
d nxt day call am tel am say u wan carri am go chop. find like 4k. just lie to am say u neva get chance go atm.
na d 4k u use carry am go 1 eatery, tell am make e sidown, go order order like 2-2meat pies for two of una, plus ice creams, even plus malt sef. after una chop tell am sey make una reach your friend plc. afta una reach there entertain wit films wey go clog im mind, also make u and your frnd dey talk bout thingz wey be say go scatter m head like when 2 of una jam for yankee.
later tell your frnd say mak m excuse una
she sef go dn melt, she go dn no wsup
SHE NO GO FIT REFUSE
uselees n cheap naija babes wey dey find money like mad, dm dey hungry like hyenas[/quote]keep going 4 cheap street girls, anyway,dats the only group attainable for a loser like u

i wld not 4give, cheating is the highest form of disrespect in any relationship.

googles:
Oh. . . the chic most def has a point,I just wonder why all the guys attacked her like dat   guilty conscience ?  

if its a girl-bashing thread am sure you all will be singing the nairaland anthem "seconded,ride on poster" but the coin has been flipped now

you all developed dyslexia. . . shior

one day bush meat go "cash" the hunter
one day bush meat go "cash" the hunter
one day bush meat go "cash" the hunter https://lcontent.ebuddy.com/web/va1.4.12/gfx/emoticons/yahoo/65.gif

IgboGirl:
@ poster
don't forget the Nigeria men that travel to the village to marry wives then bring them abroad and force them to become nurses while the men lazy around in the house doing absolutely nothing. or the ones that kill their wives.
the only thing Nigerian men are good at is 419 and kidnapping

correct girl,i second that.

cold:
OMG!Just logged on after a good day out to see this.Was it me this good for nothing,obesed damaged goods was refering to?And to think i was being polite.Who gives a damn what dialect tongue your mum speaks,who even cares whether she even has a tongue or is just as dumb as you.
How many years did it take you to learn how to breathe?You're so st*upid if you threw a rock at the ground you'd likely miss.I strongly believe your whole purpose in life was to serve as warning to others.Now we understand why some mammals eat their children
One more thing,please don't thank me for insulting you,the pleasure's been all mine.

banom:
@ pdone,

Baby ride on and tell them truth, those guys are Gold diggers as well, and they like to point accusing finger on you innocent girls,

Ride on, you can be rest asured you have my support.

guy,this is the smartest thing u ever said on NL, i wld never yab u again

ariblaze:
the pistols are never far away in the romance/sexuality section

gah!!. . . .missed the madness in here




@ poster

you became an object of what you are speaking against (generalizing )

you do know,most men wont support you nor see reason with you(even if its just to tick you off)

as a matter of fact i am replying outta boredom

next time,be a lil sensitive in your delivery

truth hurts u know,

banom:
I sincerely apologise for having the time to respond to your earlier post, i am here to catch some fun with reasonable guys and gals and not to engage in any form of name calling with any body, thanks for calling me aturu, i appreciate.

sorry i hurt ur feelings dear, was only trying to set u straight.

slap1:
You girls are missing a rare chance. Mr Cork got moiney o!

i seriously doubt dat.[quote author=Mr-Cork link=topic=538104.msg7005602#msg7005602 date=1287943426]**hmm, i bet on my BMW X5, 2006 that the chick wants me, truss me** [/quote]broke azz [quote author=Mr-Cork link=topic=538104.msg7005280#msg7005280 date=1287939164]sleekch1c (f) <<<<<<<< Racist [/quote]am no rascist sweethrt

****walks by,throws a bullsh1t sign and hurries of*****

if loving u is a crime,let me be a criminal!

koolchicco:
^^See this Womaniser still dey toast another girl here? Banom biko u no dey tire? So wat if you bought a new Jeep([size=2pt]even tho inspired talk say u still dey owe am sef[/size]) and that's why u think all 'em girls should be digging your way? Nah, If u think so then u're about as interesting as the paint dry . Onye oshi dika gi!

Hope u've not forgotten how I dealt with u last time and this time I will, be it ever so repugnantly, destroy you. WORD!!

if dat aturu has a jeep,then Barack Obama is really a yoruba man

banom:
what has that got to do with the obvious fact that mobo444 is trying to raise ?, though i am not defending guys, they can be terrible with lies, but you women are hard born pathological liars,

But wait, i hope you are not working for that looser called Koolchico, i have crushed him before and i am ever ready to do much more any time any day, you far better come to myside ( the winning side), due to our all time victory, there is no more room for new entrants, but for one reason best known to me, i will make out a position for you, the offer is open for just 48 hrs,

congratulations.

nope,just stating the fact dat the chic isnt the only one dat lies here, even u have taken ur fellow NLs on a jolly ride and no,i wnt join ur retards' list!

banom:
@ Koolchico,
womanizer i know i will see you in this tread, is only in women tread that you reply, casanova, that is how you wanted to drag my sweet heart openlovely from me , but you failed, she is pregnant for me now,

but wait ooo, that thing on the plate in your profile picture, is it your peni*s ?

arent u the guy whining abt hw a girl asked u for a 4m jeep in another thread? well,girls arent the only ones dat lie,

MOBO444:
I wonder what she was thinking, why did she mislead us and lied to us, what was she thinking, her name is ANNAWHITE and she has murdered sleep on Nairaland romance section, she is educated, beautiful, sexy, lovely, single (Facebook page evidence and past post on NL), she got a well paid white collar job, she has most of the stuff most guys want in a Black woman. But why will a Lady lie, this goes to prove my point that all Black women are treacherous, evil, deceitful, dangerous, cunning, sleek and selfish, please see below a thread she made up were she said she was married, 27 years old and had 2 children and her female house help were sleeping with her young boys and all this was a lie, she was Single. (WHY DID SHE LIE TO US), see link below.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=500023.msg6603192#msg6603192

hello NLanders
I'm a 27yr old lady,i got married at 23 and i have two kids(boys).as a marketer in one of the new generation bank, i rarely have time for my boys except on weekends(please stop with the eye rolling),due to the nature of my job,i asked my mom to look for a house help for me and she got one from the village,the house help in question is very hardworking and has never given me any doubt but recently she did something that almost made me kill her.i came in yesterday form work to pick something from the house and when i got in i saw my house-help sucking my kid's manliness,she was doing it one after the other and my boys in turn were sucking hers too, i was speechless for some minutes cos i couldn't imagine my babies doing what the should be doing in the next 20 years or so, i dont know what to do to her cos i want her to feel my pains, i couldnt concentrate at work ,the picture keeps reflecting in my head, please someone should tell me what to do

dude i beg u,go get a life cos u dnt ve one!!

dns:
pls Mr. lecturer we not in a lecture hall. thanks

dnt worry dear,we all knw dat mr.cockerel is full of bullcrap.

dns:
if your girl is pregnant and u eventually get to know about it, and then ask her to keep it but she refuse with an excuse of i love u, but i dont want to keep this baby what is the love in there?

maybe she thinks u wnt be a good father to her child, we women have very good intuition(dat is wen we decide to acknowledge and use it)

[quote author=Mr-Cork link=topic=535633.msg6989437#msg6989437 date=1287702518]sleekch1c, madam aint u that gold digger afta my moiney and my BMW with alloy will? [/quote]u broke-azz nuka,u cant even afford to buy me good food for a week, mumu,were u not the one whining abt hw u spend 35 pound sterling on on a chic? i am forced to diagnose u with spiritual poverty!