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shogsman:
You obviously got it all twisted,the human mind works different, think differently,we are not the same, even identical twins don't function the same,you might not need mentions to feel alive but someone else might do, what scares you could make me stronger vice versa,so the point is don't think she's weak because she took her own life for what you believe was irrelevant because that Is what YOU think, don't make the mistake of thinking she did not know the weight of her action, she simply thought differently it doesn't make her weak,it's just how people are,I know of people that doesn't scare when they face death but are devastated by what someone like you will call irrelevant things.

I know this already but my point is, suicide is a selfish heartless decision.

Why?

Number 1, you are someone's child. Meaning, there is a mother or even parents that love you and need you alive.

Number 2, family. There is a family, no matter how much you annoy and irritate them, they still need you alive.

Number 3, trauma and psychological pain. Do you know the trauma and psychological pain parents or siblings of suicide victims go through?

That pain that is caused from not really knowing how to have satisfied or helped that love one not feel so bad and depressed enough to kill them self.
It's a horrible and sometimes damaging pain.

Forgive me, because when I heard this story. All I could think about was a mentally unstable, selfish, self centered, heartless human being!

May she rip anyways.

This man is a calm liar.

There is nothing worse than someone who can lie calmly.
SMH

shogsman:
You just proved my point,a person without an ego problem wouldn't take what I said as an attack.

When did I call it an attack?

Wait, you are making me believe you need mentions to feel alive because I have searched for your point and I still cannot find it.

shogsman:
I don't need a psychologist to tell me that your behavioral pattern is what influenced your comment.
You're egoistic and you can't help it,so it's not surprising that you don't understand what this girl went through.

What are you even on about?

All these human beings who read comments without understanding, I sincerely need to learn to ignore yall. Smh

shogsman:
For your informs Instagram hides number of likes for some accounts for this sole purpose,the Nigerian in you won't let you understand that this organizations takes this cases into account.
Like I said Nigerians have little or no knowledge of mental health that's why things like suicide equates to stupidity to y'all, if you know how vast and dangerous esteem issues are you'll understand.

Save your energy, I know about that. It didn't fly.

Out of 100%, less than 10% have likes hidden on their account.

The widespread condemnation did not allow the company fully enforce this!

midnighter:
You didnt get it; Instagram said they were going to add a feature that would keep likes hidden so that people woudnt feel bad.

And it was done in some countries but widely rejected.
People with large following kicked against it, most big brands even kicked against it.

It is a bad idea for businesses.

And in these times, every business must be online for it to thrive.

These brands want to be sure about engagement. What is engagement?

Engagement is how you get paid on Instagram.

If you have at least 5k followers and usually on every post you make, you get like 1500-2000-3000 likes and maybe 100 or more comments. You can approach companies to advertise for them, especially fashion companies, hotels, restaurants etc.

These companies before giving you the job, would view your profile and study your engagement before giving you the job and paying you for it.
You then post for them, advertising for them which should generate more customers for them and increase their profits.

That's how it works.
So many people kicked against it and Instagram listened and left it.

People like Ronaldo with over 190 million followers and at least 3-4-10 million likes on a single post gets paid by Instagram for every post he makes.
Instagram pays him because of the popularity of his content. People open new accounts and jump to follow Ronaldo, Kylie Jenner, Beyonce etc.
Instagram pays these popular people to keep posting, bringing engagement to the app.

See? Likes and comments is what even makes Instagram.

These mentally unstable people should seek help and not be blaming apps for their issues.

KingAzubuike:
The thing can be very painful Sha. When you upload your best picture on social media and na only 3 people like am

Hahaha true but likes should not define anyone.

midnighter:
But that wasnt why she committed suicide so in this context, it was worthless.

Na you Sabi wetin you dey argue.

I said it wasn't worth it (wasn't enough reason to kill oneself because one post did not generate as much likes as she would have wanted) but Instagram likes and comments aren't worthless.
People actually get paid off these.

Try and read with understanding sister.

shogsman:
Thought they did something about this like thing already.they gon chop another court order soon,they should quit showing it to people with low self esteem.

Does this comment make sense at all to you?


How can they hide it from her?

Did anyone force her to join?...

These platforms are also used for business, entertainment, information and a lot more.

You should be blaming her family for not forcing her to get help, not the social media apps.

Kingosytex:
Just because of some useless and worthless instagram likes.

What on earth is she gonna tell her creator?

Some folks on Nairaland can do same, judging by the way some struggle for the first to comment stuff as if their lives revolve around that.

Ndi ara na ata guava!!!!

It's not worth it but Instagram likes isn't worthless.

If you're modelling or advertising a product for a company. Likes and comments matter if you wanna get paid.

It's my field. I know.

Smh.
This is just stupidity.

Some days Ronaldo the most followed person on Instagram gets up to 10million likes, some days same Ronaldo gets 3 or 4 million likes.

Does this mean once likes don't reach 10million, he should kill himself?

Over something he doesn't even control?
Over something Instagram self doesn't even control?

Truly stupid.

Abyima:
Please, I am a male corper posted to Abuja. I want to start my service fully this year in Abuja but I don't have any accommodation. I don't mind paying a part for me to live in with someone or stay for a little time.before I get a place. Please help. Thanks.

...

Send a DM to make enquiries.

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Reffone:
After 4years and no job I hustle to save up and start a business yet d business is about to close up cause of low capital to meet up market demand, still went ahead to seek investors which hasn't brought any result yet God help us ooh

What business is that?

And are you constantly advertising your business online to get customers?

Any business that isn't online in 2020, will lack customers and profit.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Well, I dived into business when I couldn't take d 8 to 5 anymore.
When a govt appointment comes knocking, ama dive back.

Nice!

What business do you do?

I'm a social media manager. I can help promote your business online and push more customers to you.

You know every business must be online if they are willing to make money and have customers every now and then.

Vaughanlanrewaj:
There's a kind of special danger Iran poses to these people they are not telling us. I think President Trump will eventually apologise and US pay restitution to Iran. There's this sinking feeling that Trump behaved badly in this case because he has no military background and underrated that General before approving his assassination. He could have stopped the threat without killing the war tested General. He made a mistake killing that man and should own up. Period. Unlike the celebration that greeted other killings by US forces, this one truly and really didn't sit well with Americans and that mammoth crowd at the funeral and the weeping Iran Leader was most touching. The ghost of that man will haunt President Trump.

Why do you live in delusion?

One4me:
There are American casualties already, it seems you are living in a cage in Sambissa and your news is coming to you WITH DELAY.
I am not in the White House but l am were l get privileged information.....relatively though.

Privileged information my ass

One4me:
I agree with you, he is an egoist who thinks more about his "ego" than what is good for the country.
He will be so "Orange" right now, he could pose for a Get-Ready-To-Stop Traffic Light.

Yes, he will Tweet the most angry words we have ever read, very soon.
He will order attacks on Iran but it will only go downhill for him, from there.

America will and can finnish Iran but it will be at an UNACCEPTABLE COST to American lives, that is what will make him lose the election.
We should also not forget that Iran has just too many Islamic Sympathisers all over the world and these smal-small groups will continually hit Americans and their interest, all over the world. One just happened in Kenya today, American soldiers and Equipment demolished.

You woudl expect that Iraq will support US in this fight but the last straw for them was when [b]Trump said he will destroy Iraq with Sanctions, just because they said they ALL foreign forces, including the Americans and Iranians, should leave Iraq as they dont want them to turn their country into a battle field for proxy wars. Even the Nato allies were horrified to hear that!
Trump just showed in HOW MUCH CONTEMPT he holds the Iraqi people and government.

#Breaking: Pentagon meeting finished, President refused to issue any Comment, all officials have left!
Seems Trump is getting sober and facing reality?

It is always very dangerous to fight someone who has nothing to lose, someone like Iran.[/b]
i said so a few days ago.

You're a dreamer.

Wait, let there be American casualties first.

Stop typing like you're in the white House. You're forcing us to believe you're delusional.

Trapping:
US will pay dearly for this folly. Killing a government official Openly and admitting to it is the most foolish thing that has been done since world warII.

What Trump had effectively done by Killing Soleimani is that he has established that in this war of attrition between nations killing foreign diplomats is a fair game.

I repeat US will regret this action, and this may hurt trumps chance of reelection. Iran is no pushover!!

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Story.

If you think The US would be the bigger loser in this war, then you clearly have no idea what the United States of America is capable of, military wise.

Just sit back and watch.

Iran should brace themselves for America's response.

Guess this means war!

PHijo:
Being rude is not in anyway necessary! It is not called for. Your San Francisco is behind Moscow. I know some years back Moscow use to top the ranking and New York was second. Currently New York ranks 1st and Moscow 3rd. That does not in anyway change the import of my position.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.forbes.com/sites/cartercoudriet/2019/03/07/richest-cities-in-the-world-the-top-10-cities-with-the-most-billionaires/amp/

Outdated.

Please update yourself

grandiose4ever:
An Israeli or Iran direct face off would be unpredictable. Iran I argue is far more dangerous than Egypt. Today Isreal is very weary of a war with Egypt even after defeating Egypt twice.

But I am certain Iran would make a move for Isreal. It's the most strategic place for Iran to begin a war. Middle east is very complex and for US to successfully defeat Iran it needs Arab allies like the GCC. A quick strategic attack on Isreal would prompt Israeli response. An Israeli response would shatter an Arab coalition the US intends to build against Iran.

However, Iran underestimate how much Isrealis trust and love trump.

An Attack Against Isreal Would Not Be Met By Any Retaliation By Isreal!


The US would plead for Isreal not to retaliate just the way it did back during the war against Saddam Hussein. That time, Saddam fired scud missiles into Isreal after American provocation. He hoped Isreal would retaliate and shatter any intending Arab coalition. But Isreal responded not and allowed US and the Arabs to deal with Iraq.

Quit deceiving yourself.

Most middle Eastern nations dislike and do not support Iran.

America has sufficient allys in the Middle East.

Saudi Arabia and Turkey will gladly respond to the US call to take down Iran.

Plus, in case you're wondering Israel is more than enough to deal with Iran.


Keep underestimating the US because of Trump. Let Iran strike.


Watch the response

PHijo:
Germany, Italy, United Kingdom, France, Spain etc all have a smaller population but they all have more billionaires than Nigeria! There is something inherently wrong with the way things are done in Nigeria.

If that wasn't the case, she should have several dozens of billionaires.

Until Putin put things in place Russia was largely chaotic. Today Moscow has more billionaires than any other city in the world. This is not to say Russia doesn't have challenges but they've made significant progress in the last 2 decades.

Always endeavour to confirm what you spill. San Francisco is the city in the world with the most billionaires. Smh

No need adding lies to prove a point.

Use Google. Its educative and factual.

Why am I not surprised?

This man has a mental problem.

Retardation and an ancient way of reasoning is his problem.

DonFreshmoney:
Nobody wants a white stripping ashawo in the streets of Lagos. She should apply for citizenship in Togo or Ghana... we don't need her type, she would end up spoiling and converting all out ladies to strippers

If you still judge people like this in 2020, I feel sorry for everyone in your life.

Your mentality must be zero

Nice!

Beats the heat anytime.

I rather be cold than hot.

Amen!

Rip

Really?

GENEGIRIA:
Let me educate you. Nigeria is contracted to supply 120 million scf of gas daily to Ghana under the west Africa gas project. Supply is very erratic. Most times, Nigeria supplies about 60 million scf per day, which is half of what it is contracted to supply to Ghana. The beautiful thing is that Ghana is getting more than 400 million scf gas daily from its own oil and gas fields. If today nigeria decides to stop supplying gas to Ghana, Ghana won’t even feel it because Ghana is getting enough gas from its own fields.

On top of that, some private investors have built a gas Re gasification facility at Tema, which will allow Ghana to import LNG if it needs more gas. So it is completely false to suggest gas from Nigeria is what keeps the lights on in Ghana. This is a deliberate attempt to mislead people and you should therefore withdraw what you said. Ghana’s electricity is NOT powered by Nigeria’s gas.

Go and sit down please, your write up is senseless..

If Ghana is self sufficient, why are you guys still dependent on Nigeria for gas?

If Ghana can do without Nigerian gas, why even bother? Read what you write before posting, one might think you need to visit a Dr for mental evaluation ASAP.