₦airaland Forum

WhisperedNoise:
Channel your frustration to whatever has irked you this afternoon. You may not speak to me in this manner. I'm not your problem(s).

Okay then.
Peace ✌

airsaylongcome:
Na wa! So someone who’s neck deep in tech, struggling to keep his ahead above workload and Nigeria economic neck-pressing is suddenly wicked because he doesn’t mentor some self-entitled prick? Do you guys honestly see mentorship as your right simply because you asked someone to mentor you? Do you know the mental drain it takes to mentor someone? There has to be a relationship and a good one at that for someone to them decide to escalate that relationship to a mentorship. Like someone up there said, “No one owes you shi shi”. A mentee has to show considerable level of initiative and willingness to learn to for a more experienced person to take on an unpaid role to mentor them. Many experienced people didn’t have mentors. They literally learned on their own overcoming all the odds. Make una rest with all these emotional blackmail. If because person no mentor you then that person is wicked , then yes they are wicked. How many people do you think Dangote, or Otedola or Elumelu mentored? How many people reached out to them for mentorship? Does the fact that they declined 99% of mentorship request make them wicked?

If this makes you sleep well at night.
If you are sensible and not truly wicked, you would realize, that the role of a mentor is so so different from that of a teacher.
This same nairaland, someone contacted me and said he wanted me to mentor him on graphic design, I gave him my number and we talked on whatsapp. I did not spend 24hrs of my time teaching him or anything, the least I did was reply to some of his questions and within months, he was good to go.
It won't take anything from you to be nice to others. We all need help sometimes

WhisperedNoise:
No one owes you anything, bro.
The earlier you realize that, the better your life becomes. Take responsibility.

You taking about nobody oweing anyone anything, I hope everything you know as well as the degree(s) you possess all came to you when you slept and woke up.
Dropping hypocritical comments just to sound intelligent.
Mtcheew.

WhisperedNoise:
No one owes you anything, bro.
The earlier you realize that, the better your life becomes. Take responsibility.

Yes, i know no one owes anyone anything, but come to think of it, is being stingy with knowledge the best? Nigerians feels life is about competition, when they know something, they try to keep it to themselves so others won't know what they know. But the question is "to what end?"

Yes! You read the topic right. Why do several tech guru's here on nairaland find it difficult mentoring upcoming tech enthusiasts. No matter how hard you send them pm or mentions, they would hardly reply.
In conclusion, Nigerians find it difficult giving back to their community.

tensazangetsu20:
Just use PHP. I don't think there's any core PHP DSA course but you can transcribe from the languages used to PHP

Boss, I'm trying to follow in your footstep. Want you to know that I have learnt a lot from you so far.
Thanks

udemzyudex:
You laptop trip off when it start to heat up or the fan itself trip off?

Is it a timing occurrence,like even 10mins when you power it on or it just trip of at anytime?

It actually trips off anytime but in most instances, it happens when it heats up. Its not a time occurrence

ebab:
Change it

Please how much is it going to cost me

Engineers in the house, please help, my pc cooling fan has issues and it trips off wen it starts to heat up. How much will it cost to fix it?

Charpell:
I just downloaded your app. Why do I have to upload my document to be verified before booking a ride?

We require users to upload their documents before carpooling for the following reasons:
1 Safety and Security: The safety of our users is our top priority. By uploading your documents, we can verify your identity and ensure that only genuine and trustworthy individuals are participating in the carpooling community. This helps create a safe and secure environment for all users.
2 Trust and Transparency: Uploading your documents helps build trust among carpooling participants. When others see that you have provided your identification, they can feel more confident in sharing rides with you. It promotes transparency and enhances the overall carpooling experience.

Rest assured that we take privacy and data protection seriously. Your personal information will be handled securely and in accordance with our privacy policy.

I have been following the development of this app and I'm really pleased to see the progress so far, please, invest a lot on advertisement, like your adverts should be aggressive. Try to place ads on tv stations like channels TV and the likes.
I hope this beautiful invention of yours exceeds your expectations.

SKIBiNSKI:
Yea right! in Naizooria? You mean share my ride with kidnappers, Armed robbers, pickpockets, terrorists, riualists, yahoo men and women, prostitutes, scammers and herdsmen? NO WAY!!!

Guy shut up, we enter Keke and buses daily and don't get kidnapped, how is using an app to book a shared ride any different?🤷‍♀️

emerged01:
Hope ritualist no go take advantage of this good initiative.

Stop being negative, we all have once or twice entered a random bus or Keke filled with other travelers and nothing happened. How is the car pooling app different?

agbonkamen:
Some Delta men are useless!
Dem get pride inside poverty.
Turn their women to bread winner while they stay back at home, drinking their future away. Especially urhobo, isoko, ughelli and itsekiri.

Marry an educated man, you said now. Now look at ur senseless complain😂

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Short man devil😂

Which kind bald head these British men carry😂😂

I witnessed wound dressing of a diabetic patient
Omo, I almost vomited

drjprince:
am not supposed to be wasting time on a cheat like you but I have fact anyway, the two pictures below of a game controller was shot by you with that disgusting fingernail, then the cherry shot by chester with the same disgusting fingernail, so you are not trying to fool anyone chester, no one is a kid here

🤣🤣💔

ufotunang:
..the schools and universities in Sudan is better than the schools and universities in nigeria...so let the nigeria government make our schools and universities to be good and better.. so that nigeria students will not travel out to other countries and Sudan to attend schools over there

Who is this attention seeker

Omo if this is true, then Mr Eazi is the real Baba olowo

kyber:
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hurting:
Good day all! I never thought I will never create a topic like this because I believed I had a perfect love life. I have to create this moniker just for this topic that has and still eating me deep. I will try to make it as brief as possible.

I have been a relationship for 7yrs with the lady that I love beyond measures. I do anything possible within my reach to satisfy n make her happy. She has also been wonderful and almost perfect (nobody is). We started dating from uni days and where d pride n envy of many even after school.

After my service, I started looking for job but as things get murky in d labour market, I started a little ICT troubleshooting hustle, just to keep body n soul together before d job comes. Now this lady has been supportive all d way, after her service she moved to where am based, we managed what we have. She got a job while I was still doing what I do, I could provide for d daily running around like food, clothing, small bills, etc. I could pay my rent sometimes but atimes my siblings support me. When biz haven't been good.

Now this my lady resigned from where she was working because her female boss wasn't treating them well, tru one of my friends I secured a better paying n welfare job in a construction firm for her. We have been doing fine all this while but when I proposed to her she said we should wait till I get a better paying job. I make an average of 35-40k at d end of month but because I spend on what we need in d house I usually don't have it in bulk at d end of d month. She earns around 80k plus a car. Her new boss gives car loan to all his staff down to d secretary. She is an engineer there. She have been having this fear of lack because of what she faced as a child, so whenever d issue of marriage comes up she says I shld wait till I get a job n when ever her friends or mine wedd she cries n complain that I dnt want to marry her. I have promised her that we can make it with our present earnings n with time I will get that job. I knw I live far better than some married men in terms of finances.

This year I made up my mind to ask her for hand in marriage on vals day, but last week she gave me d shocker of my life, but telling me she had moved on because of my employment status. I have begged like I ave never begged anyone before, telling her that am very sure d job will come before d babies start coming. She told me she has found someone else and that she has made up her mind.

She still loves me, but the job issue I her phobia, dont get me wrong she is very decent n has been faithful all our yrs together. Right now my heart is torn to shreds, I don't sleep at night, I cry every night, I cant eat well, I have lost weight. Am I beginning to scare my self with d kind of suicidal thoughts I have these days. I have built my whole adult life around her, I try to let go but cant.

Pls nairalanders advice me before I do something drastic, I need all the advice I can get, am on job sites 24/7 now just to get something n probably win her back. She is not after riches just d basics. And for those that will lash me, I need it too, it might cheer me a bit.
Pls help a brother.

pls help me push this to FP I need all d advice I could get before its too late for me.

P.S. Sorry for any grammatical blunder n punctuation errors.

Please come and give us update

Negroid001:
I chop the woman money no be here oo.

Drop your convo with the husband

domiron:
Tamiesa i quite agree with you. I wonder who put gay arsed politicians on the list?. They don't count. Only genuine business men should count. Politicians?, no way...Me?...ten years from now, I'll be UN-top of all dem lot.

It's 11years already, you nor still dey the list 😫🤣🤣

I'm sure alot of people don't understand what the op wrote up there.
How can u spoil a son before his father on his death bed? Well, na God go help your sisters
Funny how I'm facing something almost similar. I don't know how a sister can be jealous of a brother because in her delusional mind, the father cares for him more
At the end, we will all be fine