₦airaland Forum

yadi yadi yada,  if they tell you say any of the girl you wan cheat with come get HIV, you go sleep with am?? I guess not! we do many things cos our life does not depend on it. you thinks love is just saying "I love you" every morning you wake up? Love is practical and my friend, you do not love that girl! move on with ya cheating ass. why be in a relationship?

any woman who plan to enter a long lasting relationship should know/learn how to cook. How long can you buy mr. Biggs eeh?

the most important person in this situation is your child you are carrying! I think you should go back to your family/relative for now to secure peace of mind and to take proper care of yourself and your pregnancy. is there someone in his family that you could talk to?perhaps his parents? someone else really need to wake his ass up so he could take care of his responsibility job or no job! there are different ways a man can take care of his household even in a financial crisis.

In a normal relationship asking where he was is not SUPPOSE to be a problem. So I will ask and expect an answer.

Islam is pure EVIL, And nope am not going by what Muslims do because by that criteria, Christians would be worse than muslims.

My conclusion is based on reading the Quran. Its full of vile hatred, violence and intolerance. Subjects such as Apostasy how does that justify tolerance.

Encouragement of retaliation, killing those that oppose islam its just too violent for a civilized world.

And before MUSLIMS attack me, first deny that such issues I mentioned above are not propagated in the Quran

I have been studying with the JW for some time now and many things make sense but I hate the fact the I must have to agree with all the things they teach. Is like if you disagree, then you are of the world! My birthday is special to me and I hate that I have to give that up. I started celebrating my brithday again cos I did not see anything wrong with it. Christimas, yeah I could see the point in not celebrating it and I can also see the point of celebrating still. And I hate the many people are asking me when am gonna get babtized. overall, they are nice people and so are the many people in other religion.

Fhemmmy:
You have a good point, but i think till we get rid of so many ideologies, and sayings, many marriages are doomed be4 they even started.
Cos men will always go, woman will always go and na padi go remain, that is not enuf to to give the woman/man enuf chances to see how it will work out, once a man or a woman enter into a relationship with plan B, plan A will surely fail, mind you, i am talking to myself too when i say this.
i think it is time we all have the mind that marriage is to work out and till do all possible.
I love my mother and i wanna love my wife if not more than my mother.
My mother has done her own job on me and i will forever appreciate all she has done, but it is my wife's turn and it is important for me to love her, cherish her and celebrate her till death do us path, or till she is tired of me 

I could just kiss you for that response

where can I find a guy that would give me allowance? I don't think they exist in the US

^ seems like you are new here , if so, welcome aboard!

kizzyaka:
About 6-7 years ago the above will be true, and that was because California didn't use to do reciprocity. As a result of this non reciprocity the chain pharmacies did not always have enough pharmacists to fill up the vacant positions. You see a lot of pharmacy graduates from California schools then (UCSF, USC, a little less UOP) tend to apply for the clinical positions. In recent years though as California started accepting NAPLEX (which was obviously pushed for by the community pharmacies), more out of state pharmacists are finding it easier to become registered in CA, hence a lot more retail pharmacists. One thing though is retail pharmacists tend to get higher sign-on bonus (I guess to lure them in for "the drama and dirty work" than the institutional ones.

Oh ok. have you heard about the new system that was suppose to encourage the reduction of pharmacist by doing many of the retail work online and mail order?

I was raised by a single dad until I was 10 them my dad remarried and I lived with them untill I was 17. then, my mom and my step dad took over. I can't imagine my life without my step mom and step dad. My step is so good that nothing I could ever afford would be good enough to compensate him for his kindness to me. My step mom on other hand was nice too but I want my to marriage to very much work out becuase I am a christian and I want my children to grow up with their father and mother. @ poster: sometimes reverse is the case. I am determined to do whatever to keep my family together! I was lucky to get nice step families but my children may not.

these are two different people who deserves different categories of respect.

NO! we are all family! just groose! so my mother inlaw would be my aunty? wierd

9 of us and am the oldest

i dont understand what your deal is. just leave the woman alone! is between her and her hubby!

nairaland

Nope! I love to interact and deal with hussling and bustling with people in the real world and believe me , he WON"t take that away from me. this have little to do with the money I may earn but is more like aquiring experiences that will help me grow as a person. if you have a problem with this, then you can't handle me!

i don't see why not. My step dad married my mother who has me and my sister already from previous marriage and he is more sweeter than my real dad . He even wanted to adopt us formerly to answer his last name but I opted coz I no wan my real dad to be pissed! oh yeah he is from Anambra state so he is a real igbo man both of my dad will walk me down the aisle by Gods grace. so this is very doable. I really dont see what the fuss is about. This is 21 century!

^ I know right

I need to learn this trick but my venom may just be too much to conceal

@poster: ya friend to talk to the wife or better yet talk to someone close to wife if she doesn't feel like talking about it with him.

tatooboy:
Chaircover. I must say ur the bomb. I must say at this juncture that when people come here to seek for solutions, please for those of you that dont have solutions, must u talk? Is it difficult to keep quiet? People come here to share their pains and seek sincere advices, i think we should be more solution oriented rather than still focusing on problems.

From what i have learnt lately!!!

Sincerely, i f God has given one a good wife, it should be acknowledged. After all said and done, i think distance can be an issue really and most of all i think i need to give myself a chance to make this work. No matter what it takes. I cant imagine a divorce. I really think its the devil's tool to ruin family and families that have a bright future. I really think that the tricks the devil comes with come in different ways that men would interprete with their own understanding. Not knowing its a trick to ruin their future. I give God Almighty the Glory for this. And what is this thing called love sef? A woman that cares for me to the teeth? A woman that all that concerns her is how i am happy? So which other kind of woman can i get appart from this? Abeg all women in this world can go to hell. I need and would always focus on my wife's extreme kindness to me and all, I believe the love would build up from there and sex wont be a struggle.

LET ME SHARE THIS TESTIMONY
I am a christian, aliberal one at that, but i really dont believe in all these our noisy and loud prayers in Nigeria. About 4 or 5 sundays ago in church, the pastor asked us to ask God for something and all i said was "God, i am not happy, please heal my marriage in any way", i wasnt loud about it. Sincerely, i just prayed it but i didnt think it was a serious prayer. And somehow, a few people in my church had come out that morning to share testimonies about a particular CD (the essence of Life) (not necessarily a marriage CD message) my pastor had preached a while back (i have never  listened to it once up until now), but something told me i should buy 6 copies and sow into the lives of those that might not be able to afford it and i did. Sincerely, by the time i got home later than day, it seemed as if the scale in my eyes started falling and i know God has never failed before, He ordained my marriage and he would make it work. He created me and my wife, whatever is required to fill the gap,he has more than enough supplies.

For singles, you dont know what it takes to be married, so when married people are talking, stay quiet, try and digest what they are discussing and learn from it, rather than criticize.

dude you were looking for advice and you didn't say who you needed it from. It is quite insulting to tell single people to shut up just becuase their advices were not suitable for you and your situation. people have opinions and is up to you to take it or leave it whether it came from a married person or not. And why didn't you think all women should go to hell when you were cheating on your wife with them? abeg comot joo,

That not withstanding, I am happy that you found a solution to your problem becuase marriage, family, and life are hard to deal with generally.

it depends. I will substitute olive oil mixed with paste tomatoes for red color in egwusi soup and ogbono but for bitter leave soup, I really don't know if this would work. or you could try cooking the palm oil for a while to get a clearer color there by lessening its cholesterol. best of luck

so what exactly is their role if I may ask 

maritalman:
Are Women Intimidated By Attractive Men?

I think is a matter of confidence. A woman who lacks that will many times be intimidated by an ugly and a fine brotha

^ that is very true but I thought retail pays more than many positions becuase that is were the drama and dirty work happens.

Una welcome oo all the JJC

aieromon:
$100,000 p.a
I used to think it was an average of $3,500 - $5,000 a month.

Nope! even nurses make make more than $3500 in a month in the US and Pharmacist make more money than them

I want to be extremely happy but this will never come to pass. accountability in Nigeria is in shit! how is this suppose to happen without 24 hour electricity? we are not even talking about the numerous unqualified doctors and nurses. and lests not forget that even if this happens, it will most likely benefit the rich. middle/ poor people may not be able to afford the medical bill which is where universal healthcare system is needed. we just need a total halt of nigeria system by miracles!

I was going to be offended by the UK for even suggesting to bring down their criminals to naija but these criminals are residing in the UK illegally so technically, they are Nigerian government problems because government takes care of its citizens. In other words UK are doing us a favor! they don't have/need to help us build some more semi nice prison for these criminals, they could just deport them and leave them on the streets of Nigerians states which my in turn jeopardise out society. my two cents!

Retail Pharmacist in the US makes about $100,000 yearly or more. Not sure how much they make hourly.