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^^^^anytime!

I will like her to fight but how do you swallow such a thing? this is not a mere cheat! he got the sister pregnant for crying out loud! nna this one pass me ooh! I just can't phantom this honestly. I am in no position to give advice because no matter which way you go, she will be telling/dealing with this story for the rest of her life. I say pray to God for Guidance.

peace

^^^^^ you are a lucky girl. please focus on your OLD guy and stay faithful. some men like what they cant entirely have, maybe that is why that new guy wants you. just stick with your decision and things would work out fine for you. Good luck!

you would never understand until you actually feel it. when you do, nobody would need to tell you that you are heartbroken. you would not want to live, you will be desperate for hope, you will cry in your room if you don't wanna be seen by other people who you proclaimed you had it good, you would be among your family and friend who loves you and yet feel great pain and sadness, you would wish you were never born, you would loose couple of body weight, and you would be depressed! my advise to anyone going through heart break, never be too depressed to pray! no matter how much other people tell you "oh u can do better" yea, it doesn't help! just summon the courage and pray and call on your heaven father! it worked for me.

I say, dont marry her cos u will never be satisfied with her since u love very pretty women.

being the first child is ok but I will like not be the first next time

my uncle: all that glitters are not gold
Aunt: the world is not a bed of roses
Mom: don't show that you are in desperate need of anything because the devil will use it to tempt you
dad: if it makes you happy, go for it.

I plan to retire from clubbing by the time I get married.

hell will be crowded as hell then!

u guys really think the almighty God is concerned about women wearing trouser? wow,

pandemonium!

Christians living in the mist of Muslim in the north is a big no no! maybe if they don't find christian to kill, they will start killing themselves. barbarians!

not a good match. but if they are happy, who am I to say otherwise

I was reading this in class and I almost got upset at this poster. are you serious? just because you have had unsuccessful relationship doesn't mean that all naija girls are good for nothing. I can only speak for myself. I offer to my man; unconditional love, I cook for him, clean, give advice, intimacy, romance, gifts, even monetary support when is necessary. my point is, when you care about someone, there is no limitation to what you can do for him or her.

Alicia Key " have ever try to sleep with a broken heart"

the boy is even ibo or a humanitarian there!, what a waste of title!

you really need to be firm, why must you beg him to not go and insult your boss? I could have said more but first you need to talk to me about ALL your concern. if that is not effective, then I will say more

I will never ask my mother-inlaw or my inlaws to leave my house. I believe that they raised my husband well enough for me to marry. And quite frankly, I will hate for my brother's wife to ask my mother outta their house. The same goes to my own family, my mother is a tough cookie! all I do is node my head and go on to do what I wanna do. Talking to your mother -inlaw about this situation is useless because no matter how you put it, it will seem disrespectful to her because if her opinion you are challenging her. My strategy if I were in your shoe is, cook your dinner when you want to. if she says is at six o'clock, tell her mama, dont worry i will take care of that. no need to argue with Nigerian mothers. If my own mother is quite hard to get along with, another person's mother will most likely not act otherwise. If she is the kind that yabs you, give her no chance to do so, call her less frequently, and dont be afraid to say, "hold your thought mama I will be right back" and don't you feel guilty about it.

Some of these guys here are talking about "oh my mother raised your husband therefore you should/must obey her" and so on, you also have to realize that the woman come from a home too and the things I will tell my own mother and she is cool with it, if I tell it to mother inlaw, she will take offense.

my boyfriend sister was acting up sometimes ago, I guess she expected me to be licking her ass or something but am not the kind. even if I want to, something in me just doesn't condone that. I quit calling her but occasionally and mind you this is a person I use to talk to all the time. she says all these crap about me to my boyfriend but she failed to understand that the relationship i have with her is not the same I have with my boyfriend and soon to be husband. I channeled my energy to the members of the family that seem to care. ignore, ignore and ignore!

I will pass. lol

I don't understand why this is a problem. did you bring up other topics and he didn't respond?

Talk to her folks

I dont believe is a compulsory but I will gladly wash my husband's clothing and underwear!

the question should be, should you give up the love of your life becuase of distance? is hard but is doable. I have been in my relationship for five years and just recently moved out of state from my guy. we are living a hell! but when you care about each other, you will/must stick it up.

My last name is a part who I AM. So I apologies for not eliminating it.

so ?? you guys should speak your local language or pigin english. maybe sign language sef,

yea, like those colonial masters are still not there,

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=304461.msg4307699#msg4307699 date=1249546916]pele![/quote]nothing to pele about. I got this!

my love is still blind. ask my boo lol

I will not be put in such situation by the grace of God!

Krayola2:
haha. Like say if Usher or one kind model show up for ur room u go chase am comot. abeg leave storee!! 

model? those skinny energyless guys? abeg! I go carry cane chase am commot! lol