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Events › Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by slimfine(f): 4:43am On Jun 18, 2009

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=284076.msg4046851#msg4046851 date=1245287993]u r sayin it like we r asking too much of u girls and by the way, yes i can pay 4 my daughter's wedding as long as i am assured the guy has a future. like sum1 said earlier, it is customary 4 the bride family to take care of the wedding bills here in the usa but funny enough the nigerian girls refuse to observe that part of the american culture but when it comes to cooking and other stuff, they quickly dump the african culture and claim westernized, yeye![/quote]I guess you will also pay for your daughter's rent and all while she lives with her husband after the wedding as long as he says he has a future abi? Everybody and their opinion. i will gratuitously fund SOME of my wedding expenses but will not fut the whole damn bill unless on the circumstances I listed previously. I still don't understand why the guy can't wait until he is able to do so instead of looking for a girl to dwindle!

Events › Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by slimfine(f): 6:24pm On Jun 17, 2009

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=284076.msg4040706#msg4040706 date=1245219111]well he might have lost his job, he might be poor, he might be in school etc but most importantly, he is praying somewhere and asking God, hope this is not a big mistake tongue

[/quote]well if he is in school, I will wait for him to graduate and get a job! if he lost his job and we are planning the wedding ALREADY, then I will sponsor the wedding, if he is praying to God for money as he doesn't have any, we will wait until God ANSWERS his prayer.

If a guy can't sponsor his own wedding what's next, I have to buy my own ring too, pay the rent, insurance etc come on!

I have a questions for you gentlemen, what if the lady in question is your daughter or sister? so you the father or brother will deem it ok for your sister/daughter to spend your family's money while the guy continue to pray to God? please lets get real! If you are not ready for the financial aspect of marriage, why marry? Wait until you can reasonably afford it!

you men of nowadays expect ladies to work, clean, bear children, be sexy while at it! during the time of my grand father, women were home makers while the guy makes most of the money! now you want women to come and marry a man and cater for all the eexpenses give us a damn Break!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Romance › Re: Can you Date your Ex-Lover's Brother or Sister? by slimfine(f): 7:03am On Jun 17, 2009

naaa, seems really embarassed

I am more concern about the the guys family. they must think I am a s,,t shocked

Events › Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by slimfine(f): 6:54am On Jun 17, 2009

so what would the guy be doing while I am sponsoring for my own wedding alone?

is it that he doesn't have a job, or, suddenly broke, or in school or what?

I really do not mind to share the bills but I need some sort of explanation to what this guy would be doing while i am spending my money alone?

Romance › Re: Marriage Is A Beautiful Institution But Why The Break-ups ? by slimfine(f): 6:44am On Jun 17, 2009

posakosa:
To all Nigerians out there, a sucessful marriage often times has nothing to do with religion. Most conversations I have with Nigerians they more than always want to involve religion when discussing issues related to marriage. As someone has stated previously, there are some atheists out there with successful marriages.

Any kind of success in this world, has to do with self.

Agreed! but ONESELF almost always involves religion. I cannot count my weekly activities or even my thoughts without including God in it. I practice christianity. and what I do, is who I am!

Romance › Re: Marriage Is A Beautiful Institution But Why The Break-ups ? by slimfine(f): 6:40am On Jun 17, 2009

Meldrick:
People like u who claim to be adults in the game and prove to know everything about marriages end up hitting the rock. May thay not be your portion. Say AMENThis is part of what civilization or copying the so-called western culture has caused. Ladies nowadays feel so comfortable been single parents and they see no big deal about it. They feel free walking in and out of any marriage the way they like. No xtra commitment.

what about men who starts affairs and even walks out on their marriages? this not a matter of women seeing single parenting as casual.

Romance › Re: Marriage Is A Beautiful Institution But Why The Break-ups ? by slimfine(f): 6:35am On Jun 17, 2009

REAL TRUTH:
Even Pastors in naija gets Divorce,,,so how do you reconcile that??There was a particular lady(check the romance thread) who got married and wedded in churches three times within a year,,,and two of these men were Pastors,,,,
The answer is that most people get married for the wrong reasons

Just becuase someone is a pastor does not mean that he/she upholds bible principles. Just my two cents!

@POSTER: we all have to be selfless for our marriages to work but many of us love ourselves better than anything/anyone else!

Events › Re: Duties Of A Chief Bridesmaid And The Best Man? by slimfine(f): 5:28pm On Jun 16, 2009

Koncept:
@slimfine
so sori bout that,but what really happened,n why not try n mend things, as they say "Friends are forever"
, lol

it is not that easy! you want a friend that you will be there for and when it comes to you, she will equally be there for you. With my friend it seems like our friendship is a one way affair. So I think is time for us to move on. I was fun while it lasted. Thanks for the concern thou cheesy

Events › Re: Duties Of A Chief Bridesmaid And The Best Man? by slimfine(f): 8:04pm On Jun 15, 2009

[quote author=~Lady~ link=topic=275271.msg4027976#msg4027976 date=1245016612]Exactly the duties of the chief brides maid, with the exception of frying goat meat. Why was the bride frying goat meat sef?[/quote]this was on Friday morning. not many people were around then and beside the goat meat was frozen so we had to defrost it with hot water there by incurring more work.

Fashion › Re: Ladies Whats Your Bra Size? by slimfine(f): 8:00pm On Jun 15, 2009

lalaboi:
You didnt even answer the thread. . .dont tell me you've never worn a bra. . . .That be say. . . .you are. . . , erm. , .em. . .

it was a joke! tongue

Culture › Re: Have You Ever Dated A Black-american? by slimfine(f): 7:58pm On Jun 15, 2009

@nwaka77: thank you

Romance › Re: Ladies,how Do U Feel When A Guy Walks Up And Starts Toastin You? by slimfine(f): 5:41pm On Jun 14, 2009

bambash:
Your guy is a lucky chap then aint he

yeap! and he knows it too cool

Culture › Re: Have You Ever Dated A Black-american? by slimfine(f): 5:35pm On Jun 14, 2009

KB1:
So are you insinuating that ALL Black-American men have kids?

do not put words into my mouth!

Nairaland General › Re: Why Are Men World Leaders? Are They More Intelligent Than Women? by slimfine(f): 5:31pm On Jun 14, 2009

C2H5OH:
Don't be kissing on another man like that unless you are fed up of your current boyfriend or something.

take ya mind off the gutter! I was only give u kiss on the cheek grin

Fashion › Re: Ladies Whats Your Bra Size? by slimfine(f): 5:28pm On Jun 14, 2009

lalaboi:
C'mon. . .prove it and shame me . . . .

naa, I will leave it ya imagination! grin

Events › Re: Duties Of A Chief Bridesmaid And The Best Man? by slimfine(f): 5:17pm On Jun 14, 2009

I was a chief brides maid for my friend last year so I can tell u from experience. This is in the US mind you and realistically, I was more than a chief brides maid. my job was as follows:

I did my friend's (bride) hair and makeup, made sure that all the brides maid atires were ready and maintained, me and my friend (bride) fried all the goat meat cry

, I made sure we had the hair dresser for the brides maid were on time as well as the florist, I kept an eye on our outta state guests and made sure they are fed on friday befor the wedding, on the day of the wedding, it was my job to make sure that the bride's changing dresses/traditional wear came to hall with us, I helped her change when it was time, I secured our belongings in the hall so there are no misplacement of items, I made sure the bride and groom ate at the reception as well as packed some extra food for home. I was at the high table some of the time but managed to make sure that drinks, food were served at the appropriate time! of course, I had to give a speech prior to toasting, and finally I made sure that my friend was looking her best at the whole event!

oh yeah and I had to hold the dress train when we were taking pictures and stuff! Sadly, we are no longer that close. shit happens right?

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Family › Re: How Do You Deal With Insultive Kids by slimfine(f): 9:56pm On Jun 13, 2009

spank him or her and give time outs! if he/she have video game, seize and buy him no snack when he misbehaves.

my little brothers dont mess with me when am around ooh! since you can beat them here in the US, I sieze their games and refrain from droping them off to mall or to a friend's house! if they didn't do the dishes, I carry them drop for their bed grin

Family › Re: Is There A Limit To Making Love To One's Wife? by slimfine(f): 9:49pm On Jun 13, 2009

only three time a week? wow that is too small ooh! if you ask me tongue

. but then you are the guy try and do something to spice up your sex life. romantic texting during the day, maybe some flower, take her out for dinner every now and then, kiss her on the lips/forehead when u see her after work and try to help her in the kitchen every now and then. it is quite romantic. u will get ur freak on often if you get her in the mood

Family › Re: Please Help by slimfine(f): 9:38pm On Jun 13, 2009

@ poster: 1st, you sold your house willingly and decided to relocate!
2nd, your name was in the business you started so were you not able to get some money off it?
3rd, you should have known the kindda of husband u married!

Family › Re: Honestly, Wht Would You Do? by slimfine(f): 9:28pm On Jun 13, 2009

apologise to your dad undecided

Fashion › Re: Ladies Whats Your Bra Size? by slimfine(f): 9:16pm On Jun 13, 2009

lalaboi:
iS IT?? Prove it

Olodo!

keep waiting for me to bring the prove. I no wan make u wet on your pant sha cheesy

Romance › Re: Ladies,how Do U Feel When A Guy Walks Up And Starts Toastin You? by slimfine(f): 9:13pm On Jun 13, 2009

bambash:
Slimfine,do you do these things even though you like the look of the toaster? Just curious

yes becuase I am in a commited relationship. no room for toaster. I am a one man woman cheesy

Nairaland General › Re: Why Are Men World Leaders? Are They More Intelligent Than Women? by slimfine(f): 9:10pm On Jun 13, 2009

C2H5OH:
you already know baby.

Culture › Re: Black People And Christmas Gift by slimfine(f): 8:41pm On Jun 13, 2009

becuase giving gifts is not required! hell, christmas is not even required as well! so why bother?

Culture › Re: How The Rich Bury Their Dead by slimfine(f): 8:36pm On Jun 13, 2009

i guess burying folks in the village is alright becuase people dont buy and sale houses there like white people do. can you but a house knowing that someone is buried in front of the house? burying in front and at the back in the village is okay but inside the house? ha! i don't think soooh!

my cousin's dad was buried inside their chapel in their mansion in the village, guess what? none of us uses that stair case that lead there anymore while the mom still expects us to go in there and pray! ha!

Culture › Re: A Friend Of Mine Wants An Igbo Name by slimfine(f): 8:26pm On Jun 13, 2009

kanene= make we dey look grin

Culture › Re: Why Is It That Most Guyz Dont Appreciate Virginity ? by slimfine(f): 8:08pm On Jun 13, 2009

is still boils down to good character. a woman character rises above the state of her private part undecided

imo

Culture › Re: Have You Ever Dated A Black-american? by slimfine(f): 8:03pm On Jun 13, 2009

never dated an Akata manbut have some as good friends. dont want that whole baby mama drama!

Culture › Re: Enugu: When A Man’s Father Dies He Must Buy A Horse And Slaughter It. by slimfine(f): 6:57pm On Jun 13, 2009

how can people wey live in hut afford a horse? as if the dead person will wake after that huh

Culture › Re: ~Does Your Name(first/last Name) Have An Influence On You/your Destiny . . .?~ by slimfine(f): 6:53pm On Jun 13, 2009

don't think so! big baloney

Culture › Re: When Last Did You Visit Your Village? by slimfine(f): 6:50pm On Jun 13, 2009

Dec 2005 @ Arondizuogu kiss

missed the stream and firewood cooked food

Culture › Re: A Woman Combining Her Maiden With Her Husbands Name by slimfine(f): 6:46pm On Jun 13, 2009

I will prefer to keep my last name as well as add my husband's last name too. my last name is a form of my identity. I just can't throw that away!

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