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good for her. I want her to be happy. see seems very sweet!

many of you men here are quite horney! the guy might have had a girl friend then, or he may be gay, or he is a geek, or better yet not attracted to the girl! Assuming that they had something with each other during her serving years, it is prior to the wedding and I don't see why the poster should be panicking! If you are about to marry someone you don't trust then, it will be a good idea to withdraw but really, you (the poster) is the problem!

isn't this another fat generalization?

by the way, I am good chica with a good brotha . so I am excluded!

OgidiBoy:
Ashawo

This is very rude!!

sexybabes:
Says who?

many of the guys who responded to this topic

in that case, I bid you good luck and best wishes

you have a good intention and I pray it works out for the both of you.

yaloo:
THEY ARE NOT STURBORN, BUT I THINK WE GUYS SHOULD REALY TAKE TIME TO STUDY THEM,
EVERYTHING IS ALL ABOUT UNDERSTANDING.

and if you can't understand them, let them be,

Any other choices??

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=280875.msg3992388#msg3992388 date=1244422802] New England. def way cooler than the old one[/quote]you mean New England in Maine almost moved there for University of New England but it weyyyyyy toooooooo quite over there. am I right?

@poster: I believe you already know what to do in your situation. You should just follow your heart! we could write pages on how better a Yoruba guy may be for you as per culture wise, etc but all that will be a total waste if you are not in love with the person. So if a white guy rocks ya boat, then go ahead and I believe your family will come around as time goes on. good luck!

190:
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Sharrap dia
does it mean these sturborn gurls cant or wont get married

^{e be like say u sef sturborn}

Wetin I do naw? and dont tell me to sharrap! me and u no be mate ooh
my point is: you should not be dating/marry person wey u dey complain about like dat

[quote author=Igwe. link=topic=171845.msg3991757#msg3991757 date=1244411277]what would be your joy when she dies? [/quote]Abeg help me ask the poster?

chukz4real:
My sister, though we all have equal right to expression. But believe u me, if u are my relative or my wife', I dare not allow u get close to my kids; ur name alone had spoken  well enough of u. So?

We are Africans and I'll forever be proud being a Nigerian. Y can't we copy only good things (practices) from the whites and leave the ugly sides with them? I know someday, u will educate us on the importance of not being under a man in the name of marriage or a tutorial on the benefits of being gay! Ride on dear as it suits u, Nairanders will be watchin.

I am not sure whether you read my initial comment befor the one you highlighted! I never fancy tattoos and I think that is not very classy. so what is all this yan regarding my name and what not? I can never be your wife if you can't coordinate simple written sentences/messages!

what a baloney!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I don't know why some guys think that ladies live for them alone! I got family and friends who need and love me more than that list! sooooooo?

@waladis: I am kindda concered about you becuase you barely know this girl. did you meet her aunty, mom, her friend just to confirm all that story she told you? Now you up and rented a place for her and now you want to send her to school? there is nothing wrong with doing charity work oo! but this is Naija we are talking about and plus you are in the Uk so that makes you a potential prey. By the way, does this girl still want to go back to school? I understand that she intiatially came to Lagos for that but is the zeal still there? Not being able to read and write as many people have said is not a disease and can be changed but while you enroll her in school and all, u need to make sure u want help her as a friend because there are no guarantees that she will marry you upon her graduation! my two cents

sorry ooo

"honey is not you, is me! I am just not good enough for you"

for the first time I am re-examining my drinking habit.

I must be bad then since I drink henny without coke

I undestand the part that he said that he is at work and beside he didn't know why she was calling but the yieling? naaaaaaaaa, his ass is stuck up. why must he yell to inform her that he is at work? very uncessary and won't/cant tolarate people with such temper! I mean if he yields just to tell u he is at work what else would he do when the girl does something worth yelling about? Dump him!

i tell u men, people I believe complicate their issues;

why are u with a girl you can't handle? she is stubborn, proud, too loud, broke etc

Two timing never PAYs

some women sef! 

@poster you already said this guy doesn't have feelings for you then leave him the H, L alone!
when he decide to take advantage of you now, then you will turn around and post another thrend that reads: 
"After all my love, he DUMPED me"

I don't understand why people tend to make their lives harder than it is. your friend should tell his brother or better yet, let the girl in question tell his fiance. It will be much worst if the big borther hears about this after the wedding.

nope! whether you like it or not "life goes on!"

having lived in the US, I really do not see anything wrong with dating/marrying different races. I just won't do it becuase I have a passion to have a full blooded africans as my children

ha! this one pass me ooh
so assuming father later agrees, how would he sustain his young marriage without his john thomas?

ever heard about eloping?

what happen to your first wife?

must have:

must be a MAN
must be educated(atleast bachelors degree)
must beleive in God/christian
cant be short (sorry)
must be understanding/humble

No ways:

Illiterate
arrogant (wont even finish a first date with him)
loud (hell no!)
geeky(naaaaaaaaaaH)
ethiest (u can forget it!)

C2H5OH:
because pa kosoko is a family man   

uhm, the poster had a crush on a guy, it should be in romance

moureen can't even talk right