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Little by little, the "Porn show" which many have knowingly deceived themselves to be Reality show is gaining general acceptance and most undeserved parents are clapping.

We are now in a world where Porn stars are being celebrated, applauded and loved, but the true pastors are openly blasted. Devil at work?

Now, if you tell people the truth, they will say "you are judging me"... Devil has succeeded in making people believe correction and warning by saying the truth is people Judging them and most money-mongers who arrange themselves as pastors will not openly preach against it, so not to loose their members but will enjoy to loose them to hell.

I am not writing as a perfect being who has never sin, but the difference between a righteous person and a sinner is that: the righteous person fears God and is always trying to please Him by observing His commandments and God gives the grace to that person: Matthew 5 vs 6 Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled, but the sinner is contrary. . Many who claim to love Jesus are just hypocrites! in John 14vs 15, Jesus said "IF you love me, keep my commandments.". Do you love Jesus? Let it be found in action, not by words.

Daddy Freeze attacks and mocks Pastors, yet i see him tweet how he enjoys BBNaija. If that man possesses the spirit of God, he would also condemn the gross immoral show.

If no one uphold the truth by speaking it, there will no pastors or preaching of the gospel, because maybe the people don't need people that will judge them by saying the truth to save their soul.

Do we even think of Life after death? do you even think of how your JESUS feels about you when you swim in immorality after he suffered all things to save your soul from hell and even sending his servants to remind you of His sacrifices. Yet people blast the servants and called them all kinds of names.

In the issue of Tithe, the House of God which is the church needs tithe. Renowned Evangelists like Revd Dr Uma Ukpai don't collect tithe because his calling was not to have a church, but to just preach the gospel from place to place. That was why Jesus didn't collect Tithe because he did the work of an Evangelist, rather he commanded the people to go to the house of God and give their offering after receiving miracle. Matthew 8 vs 4 Then Jesus said to him, “See that you don’t tell anyone. But go, show yourself to the priest and offer the gift Moses commanded, as a testimony to them.”. Jesus came to fulfil the law, not to make it Void. Pray to God for the Truth, He will reveal it to you.

No matter how you try to defend yourself about BBNaija, and you go to church on Sunday and speak in learned Tongues, Jesus Christ is still crying on the street for the children of the World to turn away from their ways and come to Him.

Does Jesus Christ or God love BBNaija? Does His Commandment support it? Answer that my brothers and Sisters

Thanks.

lilyfaith:
Best friend quite unlikely but HUSBAND...NEVER! I can't marry a man who argues and rants like a sissy

well, i know him well than you.... He is not what he is displaying on social media. Those things he wrote still marvels me though, because he treats me with much respect and attention even as his worker.

I still believe thats not him.

KINGSLEY IWU

Sope Aluko may not be widely known in Nigeria, but the US-based Hollywood Nigerian actress who has made name for herself and has also made Nigeria proud internationally.

Recently, she landed a role in Marvel’s Cinematic Universe to play the role of Shaman in the upcoming, already commercially acclaimed comic movie, ‘Black Panther’.

Already making impressive strides in American television series like ‘Bloodline’, Law & Order SVU’ and having had recurring roles in ‘Army Wives’ and ‘Graceland’, Aluko is poised for greater heights in her acting career, as she is starring in a Marvel film scheduled for release later this year.

In an interview with The Nation, he actress talked about many areas of her acting career, most importantly, of how she is being treated as a black, African, and married woman with two boys in Hollywood and America.

Recently, Rose McGowan wrote a book, Brave, which centers around the Harvey Weinstein’s sexual harassment of her. She is a white woman in Hollywood and you are a black woman, basically a minority. How do you relate to that story as a black woman who is also in Hollywood?

There’s been a lot going on right now in Hollywood about the #metoo movement and female sexual harassment in Hollywood, but it’s not really about… I think the #metoo movement isn’t really about Hollywood. Okay, that’s kind of bringing it more to light for everybody, but it’s really about women in all forms of profession that have been experiencing sexual harassment from some powerful male figures, and that’s really the message as opposed to just Hollywood. For me, as a black person, as a Nigerian, as an African, I cannot tell a lie; I have always experienced racism even from schooling in the UK, I’ve experienced harassments of all kinds. I can’t frame the question of just sexual harassment, I have to frame it from a perspective that I’ve always been accosted to prejudicial situations in my life and there are still some instances that happen in this profession as well, where as a woman, I’m probably not taken as seriously as my male counterparts. So, it’s good that we are finally opening the conversation about this, but we still have a long way to go and I always think of myself as a triple minority, because not only am I a woman, I’m also black, an African at that; then also I’m a mum and a wife and there are also prejudices about everything; being a certain weight, a certain look, a certain this, a certain that and one cannot afford to focus on that. I honestly try to focus on my faith in God to sustain me through.

SOURCE: http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2018/02/as-black-person-and-nigerian-ive.html

lilyfaith:
And who asked you?

HAHAHAHAHa... Sometimes, lets act like we know the future. He can be your best friend tomorrow or husband. A small world you know.

KINGSLEY IWU

It is so shocking how some married women comfortably cheat on their husband without remorse.

A married woman made a confession together with other Ghanaian married women who disclosed their sexual escapades with other men outside their matrimonial home on Facebook in private inbox of David Papa Bondze-Mbir to share on his wall to the public on condition of anonymity when he asked for true confessions on why some married women cheated on their partners.

Below is one of various confessions of married women on why they cheated on their spouse:

“I love my husband to death, however, if I am cheating on him today, it’s basically because I have an excuse: I was young (24 years) when he married me. I hadn’t had my fair share of fun. I was, and still am an idiot, even though I know how to act all innocent and ‘good’ in his eyes. It was my plan to quit this habit of cheating when I turned 30. I am 31 years this year, and I have fallen in love with the one I am cheating with.

He and I have been seeing each other for the past Seven (7) years, and he’s one of my husband’s closest friends. He’s married. I really wish I could end this affair, however, my heart is already in it, full-time. And, he doesn’t try so hard to please me sexually. He’s just better than my husband in ALL angles. Dave, I orgasm, just at the mere sight of him. I think I am partly in love with my husband because he provides the security (financially) and comfort that I need as a woman (just ask any young woman married to a mature rich man). I spend almost half of it on my boyfriend though.”

See more confessions here: http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2018/02/i-orgasm-just-at-mere-sight-of-my.html

A Nigerian fan has jokingly called Superstar, Davido, a "Lucifer" after the singer tweeted that Heaven will be sweet and that he can't wait.

Well, we don't know the "Heaven" Davido is actually talking about, because we are in an era where guys uses many names to picture sex moments and all that.

See below;

SOURCE: http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2018/02/lucifer-between-nigerian-fan-and-davido.html

lilyfaith:
I see what your problem is...

https://www.nairaland.com/4358379/she-dumped-me-after-pretending

Which girl would want to be with a sore loser like you? Go hide your broke bum in shame. I am selling sex...yes i agree and it ain't my fault you can't afford it. Broke ass loser claiming he's rich and handsome and pretending to be broke.

If you are broke, you are broke and you sound like you are sooo dead broke

You said this guy is broke? I wish you know him. You will humble yourself.. thats all i will say.

Though, i am in shock he is sounding that way on girls, but personally i know him and knows he is a gentle guy, you probably provoked him. i Know he wouldn't say all that to your face in reality.

He is my BOSS

MhizAJ:


You can help her in getting a new phone if you have more than enough

There's nothing there

She's over demanding doesn't mean she's not a nice girl or she doesn't have good characters

Asking for money might just be her weak point

Mumu claiming to Know​ something are everywhere.

I Know​ you are just like her... Be useful to yourself and stop being a thorn on someone's fresh.

Hungry girls. Bullshit

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A bewildered event played out between two lovers as the male lover who is the younger mate suffocated his older female lover to death and hanged himself in a single room apartment.

The bodies were identified as those of Timothy Ndirangu, 23, a welder, and 27-year-old Grace Wanjiru, a teacher at Wapa Primary School.

Thika East Police Commander Julius Kyumbule said preliminary investigations showed that Mr Ndirangu strangled Ms Wanjiru on Saturday evening before hanging himself using an electrical cable at her house.

“Initial investigations show there was a scuffle between the two lovers before the man killed the woman and hanged himself,” Mr Kyumbule told Nation.

Mr Ndirangu’s parents said the two lovers had been having problems in the past one week.

“On Monday, we received information that our son was locked up at Ngoliba Police Station over some misunderstanding he had with a woman, and we went to check on him,” said Mr James Musyoka, his father.

Mr Musyoka recalled that when he arrived at the police station and asked his son what the matter was, he instead asked him who had told him of his detention.

“I told him what I knew and he asked me not to worry because the person who had had him locked up was coming to set him free,” said Mr Musyoka.

True to his words, Mr Ndirangu was set free, and in the presence of his parents, the lovers agreed to end their relationship.

“That was the first time I was seeing this other woman. I had only known his legitimate wife, who lives with him in my compound with their two children,” said Mr Musyoka.

After that incident, Mr Ndirangu went home to his wife on Monday evening.

“While at home, the woman kept calling my son, telling him that she would look for another man with whom to have children because he had rejected her.

“Every time she called, my son would give his wife the phone and ask her to tell her (Wanjiru) to stop destroying their marriage,” said Mr Ndirangu’s mother Priscillah Njeri.

Ms Wanjiru reportedly moved out of the house she shared with Mr Ndirangu and rented a single room near her place of work.

This is where their bodies were found.

The family said Mr Ndirangu stayed home from that Monday until Saturday, when he left his father’s compound.

“On Sunday, his wife became anxious and we began looking for him ... then we woke up to the sad news of his death this morning (Monday).

Ms Wanjiru’s body was found lying in her broken bed while that of Mr Ndirangu was found hanging onto a wire tied to the roof.

The bodies were taken to General Kago Funeral Home.

SOURCE: http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2018/01/photo-23-year-old-man-chokes-his-older.html

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A Fulani gateman supposedly murdered his boss in front of some of his Fulani friends, stole her jewellery and properties.

As shared by Curtis from Edo state…..

‘THE EVIL THAT MEN DO!

THIS HAPPENED IN MY OREDO LGA.

ANOTHER FULANI HERDSMAN STRIKE IN UGBOR ROAD GRA, BENIN CITY LAST NIGHT.

THE FULANI HERDSMAN GATEMAN KILLED HIS EMPLOYER IN COMPANY OF HIS FULANI BROTHERS, BURNT THE WOMAN AFTER ROBBING HER OFF EXPENSIVE JEWELRIES

BEWARE OF FULANI HERDSMEN GATEMEN.

WE MUST SEE TO THE END OF THIS MATTER!

I call on the Edo State Police Command to ensure that all those who perpetrated this evil act upon this innocent woman are brought to book and justice must prevail.

I am Curtis Eghosa Ugbo and I just want a better Oredo LGA cum Edo State cum Nigeria for the masses of the people’.

SOURCE: http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2018/01/fulani-security-guard-set-his-madam.html

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A man and his wife from Methi village in Maragua Constituency of Murang’a County died after the woman set their house on fire following a row.

Their three-year-old daughter is nursing serious burns at the Kenyatta National Hospital, Nairobi.

According to Beth Nyambura, grandmother of Daniel Mwangi, 23, he and his wife Dorris Miriam, 19, had been having disagreements over a period of time and she had been trying to reconcile them to no avail.

Ms Nyambura said she heard the two quarrel on Saturday at about 8pm but after one hour, there was silence and she thought they had solved their differences.

However, at about 2am, she heard Mr Mwangi screaming, asking his wife where she had kept the keys.

“When I went out, I saw huge flames coming from the house and I desperately started calling for help from my neighbours,” said Ms Nyambura amid tears.

By the time neighbours responded to her distress call, the fire was too big and had destroyed everything in the one-bedroom house, said the granny.

However, the man, his wife and their child were taken to Thika Level Five Hospital and were later transferred to Kenyatta National Hospital.

Ms Nyambura said they received the news that Mr Mwangi and his wife died at 2am and 3am respectively.

The distressed granny said the child is still recuperating although they were informed that she had serious burns.

Neighbours have called on the government and well-wishers to assist in paying for the child’s medical bills since the extended family is unable to raise the money.

A neighbour, Mr Esther Wangui, said from the look of things, the girl will be in hospital for long.

“The child may need specialised treatment and the family is not able to meet her requirements, we urge the government and well-wishers to chip in and help,” she said.

Murang’a South OCPD John Onditi confirmed the incident and urged families to solve their disputes in accordance with the law.

Mr Onditi said they had received the reports that the woman had been vowing to end her husband’s and child’s lives due to family problems.

“We are investigating to know why the woman decided to kill herself and her husband,” he said.

SOURCE: http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2018/01/young-couple-burnt-to-death-after-wife.html

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Mrs Victoria Isaac, a 29 year-old woman whose intestines, fallopian tubes and other organs were allegedly damaged by a medical doctor in Abuja in her search for a child has died.

She died on Sunday around 4:00a.m. at the Maitama District Hospital, Abuja according to her husband, Aondovihi Isaac.

As at Sunday afternoon when Daily Trust health desk reached out to Isaac at the hospital, he was making arrangements to move her corpse from the hospital to Benue State for burial. Late Mrs Isaac was hospitalized in August last year till the time she died.

The couple’s lawyer, Barrister Jimoh, said in spite of the woman’s death and the purported death of the doctor, the case was still going to continue in court.

Isaac told our reporter that he didn’t know whether to continue the case with the death of his wife and the alleged death of the doctor, but added that he would seek expert advice and act accordingly.

The story of the couple was first published by Daily Trust on November 7, last year. Victoria had undergone some surgeries before the publication but a follow up operation could not be undertaken till her death, because she was not stable enough for it, Isaac said, quoting his doctors.

Thirty-two-year old Isaac, who is a farmer and student had taken Victoria, to see the doctor for medical assistance on their inability to have a child thinking their condition would get better. It however turned for the worse.

They had been married since 2012. “So we decided to go to a doctor at Orozo, Abuja who owns Niquad Clinic,” Isaac told Daily Trust in November last year.

He said the doctor, later identified as Dr. Aqson Warigon, asked them to go for a scan and when they brought the result to him, he told them Victoria had ovarian cyst at the left side and required surgery.

“He asked us to come back on the 7th of August this year. He requested for N50,000 for the operation. He later reduced N5,000 after I begged him. The operation was done on the 7th, and he discharged my wife on the 9th after I paid the money,” Isaac said.

However, Victoria could not excrete two days after leaving the hospital and they went back to the hospital on Friday 11th where the doctor placed her on some drugs, he said.

“Immediately after giving her the drug that evening at home, her breathing became fast and her body became weak, so I called the doctor and he asked that she be brought back to the clinic.

The doctor later referred them to Maitama District Hospital, Abuja where another surgery was done after several scans.

Isaac said that doctors at the hospital told him that the previous doctor had damaged his wife’s intestines and used some objects to tie the intestines up.

“They asked me to come with them into the theatre to witness what happened. They showed me what was done to my wife’s intestines by the previous doctor,” he said.

According to him, three surgeries were performed on Victoria at the Maitama hospital. After the third one, the doctor said that where Dr. Warigon damaged had been corrected “but that they have to bring out the intestine so that whatever she eats will come out through the place the intestine was before,” he said.

When our reporter visited the couple at the Maitama District Hospital, Abuja in November, Victoria could hardly utter a word. She was very skinny and pale. She also had a colostomy bag on her.

Isaac said her intestine was still outside her body over a month after the correctional surgery and that whatever she atedrained away almost immediately.

“But the doctors are making plans to carry out another surgery to return the intestine into her body, and they have asked me to buy some formular they called TPN formula. They asked me to buy at least six packs which cost N24,000 each,” he had narrated to Daily Trust.

Aondovihi wrote a petition to the Commissioner of Police, through his my lawyer, Barrister Hameed Jimoh, and the CP referred them to Maitama Area Command and the doctor was invited.

“At the police station, Dr Warigon denied cutting my wife’s intestines. He said he did not remove anything from my wife and that he is a general surgeon,” he said.

However last year when our reporter called Dr. Warigon’s number, one Barrister Warigon who identified himself as his brother answered the call and said the doctor died on Wednesday, November 1.

The Investigating Police Officer (IPO) at Maitama Police Station, Sergeant Akinola Kayode confirmed that the couple’s lawyer, Barrister Jimoh has notified him about Victoria’s passing.Asked the status of the investigation, he said “Since we were able to confirm that the suspect died few months ago, the investigation was suspended. Now that we have heard that the complainant or the victim herself is late, the investigation remains suspended. The question is, who are we going to investigate?”

A copy of a medical report from Maitama District Hospital signed by the hospital’s Senior Consultant General Surgeon, Dr. K. Osisanya, had confirmed that Victoria was seen by the unit on August 13, 2017.

“On examination, she was ill looking, in pains, a febrile, anicteric, dehydrated. Multiple fibrinous adhesions involving loops of small bowel and uterus was visualized but both ovarian and fallopian tubes not seen,” Dr. Osisanya said in the report.

The couple had said then that they were in dire need of support to meet Victoria’s bills and medical needs. However, Isaac said they did not get any financial assistance from government or organisations till her death.

SOURCE: http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2018/01/photo-woman-gives-up-ghost-after-doctor.html

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Some people would swear that it’s a scene from a movie or an excerpt from a book — the single woman of a certain advanced age sitting alone on her veranda, miserable and surrounded by cats. It’s not the case with Clara and Adhiambo, two women in their mid-40s who have never been married but say they are happy and fulfilled in their lives.

Mona Ombogo put their views together

“I suppose every girl dreams of meeting Prince Charming and building a wonderful home together, it’s what we are taught. I wanted those things too once upon a time. I haven’t written off the possibility of finding a companion and getting married but it isn’t something that stresses me anymore.”

These are confessions of Adhiambo, a 46-year-old woman who says she has never been married and is still a virgin.

In a society that dictates the steps men and women should ideally follow to fulfill our roles in propagating the human race, Adhiambo says revealing her choice of lifestyle would make her stick out like a sore thumb. Being unmarried at her age is not such a big deal any more. It’s the confession that she has never been sexually active that would make her look alien. It’s no wonder she prefers not to reveal her identity.

But how did she remain single and celibate all these years? From Adhiambo’s narration, the reason is simple and straightforward; the right man just never came along.

While most of her friends were dating and planning for marriage in their twenties, being with a man was the last thing on Adhiambo’s mind.

“My dad had just gotten a second wife and his focus on our family changed completely. My sisters were still in high school and college. As the first born, it fell to me to take care of them. All my time and energy went into trying to figure out how to make ends meet,” she says.

Adhiambo only started paying attention to men when she was in her thirties. “In my generation, most men got married in their twenties. So by the time I was coming up for air, the eligible ones were gone. Perhaps I’m not being fair saying this because I did meet a former college mate and we instantly clicked. But it was one of those, on again-off again relationships. We did this for six years!”

Adhiambo says it took her a while to figure out why that particular relationship refused to stick, though they both tried. “We loved each other but we valued different things. I used to tell him he wanted me barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen. After years of taking care of my siblings and working for myself, I just didn’t fit that bill. I wanted marriage, yes, but I also wanted to keep my career. My identity. I wasn’t even sure I wanted to take his name. I think this was always our stumbling block. It’s just a shame it took me six years to figure it out.”

In these six years Adhiambo and her boyfriend remained celibate, following their Christian beliefs. “It was only after I broke up with him that I realised how difficult it was to find a man in my age group who was single, never married and willing to wait until our wedding night for us to be intimate.”

Adhiambo admits that perhaps she held onto this six year relationship for as long as she did because subconsciously she feared that she would not meet anyone else. “After breaking up with ‘Henry’, sometimes I felt cheated because it seemed like I had missed the boat. Sometimes I felt angry at God. And sometimes I felt stupid, it was like I was searching for a unicorn, not a human being.”

Clara, a 46-year-old Project Manager has a similar story. She frequently travels around Kenya on contracted projects. “I work in a predominantly male industry. I meet men all the time and I get plenty of attention. I’m not a virgin for lack of options, because I get many offers. The thing is, most of these men just want sex. I want more than that, I want marriage. And he has to be ready to wait. I know it’s a tall order but that’s my conviction,” Clara tells Eve.

“I will be honest that I am not a saint. I have needs and desires like every other woman. Is it sometimes difficult to say no, especially to a man I have clicked with and find attractive? Of course it is. But then I ask myself, this guy is married, or he is ten years younger. So we will do this thing, and then what?”

Clara, like many older women, came to a point where she accepted that perhaps marriage was not in her cards.

“There was a time the thought of being single for the rest of my life literally made me sick. It didn’t help that my family and friends kept pressuring me. Some people told me to pray and fast, I did. Some told me to take up different activities like joining book clubs or hiking clubs, I did. I was in church worship team, prayer team, you name it. The funniest was when I was advised to go and pick any man from the village and clean him up. A man is a man after all, they said.” Clara shares. “I drew the line when a relative said I must be cursed and needed to go upcountry and ask the elders for cleansing.”

After years of intervention from all corners of her life, Clara had enough and decided she would stop going out of her way to find a man. “The worst possible thing a woman can be is desperate,” she says. “It’s difficult to resist especially if you want children and the clock is ticking. I have friends who have opted for artificial insemination, some have adopted and others have asked a friend to ‘father’ a child with them, no strings attached. None of these options have been appealing to me.”

Adhiambo agrees. “Many of my friends, who hit 40 while single, decided one of two things; either settle for the first man who showed them interest or have an affair. I don’t judge them but none of those friends are happy. I’d rather be happy and alone, than miserable in a relationship.”

Adhiambo knows she has set high standards and the pool she is fishing from gets smaller as years go by. “It also gets lonelier as more of your family and friends get engrossed in their own lives and new families. The trick is to keep busy and fill your life with things you enjoy; I run, swim, work out, watch movies and I’m always in for a good luncheon.”

Adhiambo has not lost the faith, “My guy will come. Until then, I’ll just keep being the best, happiest version of me that I can be.”

For Clara, meeting a man is quite low on her list of priorities. “I wish I could say I am putting myself out there, but I am not. The irony is often I’ll find myself on a road trip or a party with my male friends. Of course, these are not eligible men but in an odd way they make up for the otherwise lack of ‘maleness’ in my life. I can’t complain. I am happy.”

SOURCE: http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2018/01/meet-45-and-46-year-old-women-who-have.html

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KINGSLEY IWU secured an article which might look controversial, but explainable.

The article is written by a Kenyan lady who generally agrees that all women are 'gold diggers'.

Read, share and comment below;

Someone once said that all women are gold diggers. It doesn’t matter our social status or line of work. We are all gold diggers. I was thinking about it and realised it is kind of true.

The independent woman is a myth. Here is why: even the high-rolling career women are looking for rich men to marry. Take me for instance. I think I am doing pretty well for myself financially.

I am not exactly rolling in dough, but I get by fine on my own. However, I am still hoping that a stinking rich man who will fly me off to exotic locations and ply me with champagne will sweep me off my feet. I know for a fact that even if I was living in the lap of luxury, I would still want to marry a rich man.

Rapper Lil Kim said it best: “Why spend mine when I can spend yours?” There are so many women out there trying to pass themselves off as independent women who don’t want or need the financial support of a man, but they will never look twice at a struggling up-and-coming bloke or an unemployed one.

They know very well that they are all hell-bent on snagging a rich man but they will never admit that they are gold diggers. When you think of a gold digger, you think of uneducated and unemployed young women or struggling college girls.

You don’t think of the corporate women earning a decent living.

Every woman, no matter how much money she makes, subconsciously sizes up a man by his net worth. A long time ago, it was only the women who couldn’t earn the money that aimed to marry into money.

Nowadays, it doesn’t matter whether you are earning the money; you still have to marry into money. Sure, women today are working harder than any other generation and are reaping big from their efforts.

Still, they don’t want to be financially independent. Even the most enlightened and opulent women still view marriage as an alternative or supplement to the wealth they have already amassed. The so-called independent women will never pay for dates and still expect to be spoilt with expensive gifts by the men they date.

Sure, there are a few women out there who occasional blow out big money on expensive gifts for their significant others. But those cases are few and far in between. To be honest, being independent is overrated.

Deep down, we all want a man who can take care of us. Doing it yourself gets old after a while. First of all, you can’t take a break because you have a lifestyle to maintain.

With a rich man by your side, you can kick back and relax without worrying about how your bills are going to get paid. Don’t be cheated, the lazy, unemployed woman and the well-to-do career woman are both hunting for rich men.

@roxannekenya

Source: http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2018/01/all-nigerian-women-are-gold-diggers.html

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A pregnant woman was allegedly beheaded on Sunday by her drunkard husband who suspected her character in Kosdani village of the district, India police said, according to IndianExpress

The incident occurred in the morning when the accused, identified as Pramod Pawar, had a heated argument with his wife Seema at their hut, they said. In a fit of rage, Pawar allegedly attacked Seema with an axe, police said.

On hearing her cries, neighbours rushed Seema to local hospital, where doctors declared her brought dead. Police have registered a case of murder against the accused and have launched a search to arrest him. According to police, Pramod was a drunkard and did odd jobs for living. During an argument, he questionned the fidelity of his wife who was expecting, a Arni police station official said.

SOURCE; http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2018/01/drunk-man-cut-off-his-pregnant-wifes.html

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A Nigerian man has narrated how God saved his life after escaping two accidents within a day. The Facebook user, Chinedu Bernard shared photos of the accidents that occurred on his street in Agodo, Egbe, Lagos state.

He wrote;

Two different accidents happened, 15-20mins ago, in my street, while on my way back from hustle. Thank God, I was protected or God shifted me to d other side. If not, my legs would have been damaged this evening, by a child. A 6-yr-old boy wanted to become a man, all of a sudden. He took his father's car keys, entered, started the car and zoom...off he goes. When he couldn't control the car, he managed to jump out before the car hit the gutter pavement. The other accident was committed by the wife of a certain church pastor. He was actually teaching his wife how to drive. But it's obvious that she couldn't handle it. Devil wanted to strike but I believe God intervened, spiritually. Most times, children will be everywhere, playing in the street. But today, they weren't there. To God be the glory.

Source: http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2018/01/how-i-escaped-two-fatal-accidents.html

A 94-year-old man has been arrested by police in Nakaseke District on suspicion that he killed a female domestic helper whom he had failed to rape, Monitor reports.

The arrest of the elderly aged man, whose identity we cannot reveal due to legal challenges, followed an investigation of the murder of Roy Kulode, 40, on January 20, 2018 at Kalagala village, Kyamutakasa Parish in Nakaseke Sub County, Nakaseke District, Uganda.

Savannah Police spokesman, Mr Paul Kangave, said the suspect first reported a case of aggravated robbery at his home in which the deceased was killed.

“He said robbers had attacked them and cut the deceased. But our investigations show that the suspect first asked the deceased to have sex with him but when she rejected, he turned physical. He then cut the deceased using a machete in the face until she was unconscious,” Mr Kangave said.
In the morning of the fateful day, the suspect informed police that found Kulode alive but too weak to talk. She was taken to Nakaseke Hospital where she died later.

Mr Kangave said scene of crime officers examined the house and found gaps in the narration of the suspect.

“He said the robbers attacked him first and then turned to the deceased. But his clothes have blood of the deceased yet he said he didn’t have contact with her. These gaps have been stitched by the investigators to conclude that he participated in killing,” he said.

The old man had recorded a charge and caution statement with detectives.

Source: http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2018/01/94-year-old-man-machete-female.html

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Residents of Nairobi’s Umoja Estate were last weekend treated to a bizarre late-night free-for-all drama.

This was after an unidentified man, said to be a well-endowed Casanova, differed with a suspected woman of easy virtue, whom he had brought home for a randy romp.

It is said the woman changed her mind and unsuccessfully tried to flee after she discovered the man is hung like a donkey.

He made matters worse when he confessed to her that he had taken Viagra to boost his performance that night.

What began as a small argument between the duo over the woman’s change of heart quickly spiralled out of control and turned into a shouting match.

It all started around midnight when neighbours were woken up by noises from the usually quiet home. The tipsy woman was heard telling off the man, repeatedly shouting that she be left alone because she can’t sleep with a man that big.

Libido boosting tablet

Much as the man is said to be randy and always entertains different women at his house, some whom residents say are of questionable character, this was the first time such an embarrassing and dramatic incident had taken place.

Some of the curious neighbours stepped out of their houses to check the source of the noise. Some said they initially thought the home had been attacked by thugs.

They knocked on the gate when they heard a woman demanding to be left alone as the man yelled in a bid to calm her down.

He was heard pleading that he had spent a lot of money on her and had even invested in libido-boosting tablets, just because of her. He was heard vowing that he was not going to let his heard-earned cash go to waste.

The inebriated man ignored their knocks initially, only to give in later. They found him bare-chested, dressed only in white boxer shorts as he seethed with rage.

The man was remorseful for waking up the neighbours as he tried to explain what had transpired.

He informed them the woman was his guest and that nothing much was going on, they had only differed after she refused to pay his debt.

The woman, locked in the house, unashamedly shouted through the window, laying bare the scandalous details of the incident to all and sundry.

She revealed that she was a stranger to the man and they had met that evening at a restaurant in Nairobi, where they dined and wined together.

The woman added that the man had paid her to go with him home for some good time. The furious man could hardly contain his anger as he recalled he had spent close to Sh5,000 buying her beer and roast meat, plus another Sh2,000, which he claimed he had given her as pocket money.

Cash refund

After he was forced to deny or confirm the woman’s allegations, he owned up but wonder loudly why she had changed her mind. Some of the residents asked her to refund the man’s cash since she had not rendered any service.

“Lazima alipe ushuru ama utalilia kwa choo (She must refund the money or suffer the indignity and consequences),” a cheeky resident was heard saying.

The visibly angry man cracked up his neighbours when he revealed he had even taken some male vitality pills since he did not wish to disappoint the woman. To this, a woman in the crowd shouted, “Ashindwe”.

One of the neighbours accused the victim of being naive. “Buda, unalipa aje fare na hata gari yenyewe haujapanda (Why would you pay bus fare before boarding a bus)?” he chuckled.

It took the intervention of the neighbourhood association chairman who solved the matter by ordering the man to set the woman free. (SDE)

source: http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2018/01/prostitute-wakes-neigbours-with-deep.html

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Dr Caroline Ladzekpo, a gynaecologist at the 37 Military Hospital has revealed that getting a lady pregnant during honeymoon is likely to be fatal to the health of both the new mother and baby.

Speaking in an interview with Accra-based Adom FM, the health practitioner indicated that a condition known as preeclampsia could occur if care was not taken.

In explaining the issue, Dr Caroline Ladzekpo is reported to have indicated that couples who had not had intercourse before needed to shift plans of getting pregnant till after six months into their marriage.

She advised that ideally, after six months, the woman’s body would have adjusted to the fluids from her husband it was going to prevent the risk of preeclampsia.

She added that it was a way of getting the woman’s body to get acclimatize to the fluids of her husband before they could think of reproduction. She said sometimes, early pregnancies like that could lead to the loss of life of mother and/or child.

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She said that it was important that newly-wed couples had intercourse a number of times before working on pregnancy so as to ensure the safety of both the mother and child.

Preeclampsia is a medical condition characterized by high blood pressure and signs of damage to another organ system, most often the liver and kidneys, according to a source from the internet.

The condition is believed to start developing after 20 weeks of pregnancy making it had to tell that a pregnant woman is suffering from the condition.(YEN)

Some of the symptoms that come with the condition include swelling in the legs and water retention.

source: http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2018/01/impregnating-your-wife-during-honeymood.html

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Bisi Adebiosu, 34, on Friday told the Tinubu Chief Magistrates' Court that he mistakenly in vexation bit off the tip of his wife's nose.

Adebiosu, who resides at No. 34 Verimacqueen Str., Lagos Island, is facing a two-count charge of assault, domestic violence and occasioning harm.

Inspector Nurudeen Thomas, the prosecutor, told the court that the supposed offender committed the offences on January 9 at the couple’s resident.

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The Prosecutor said that on the said day, the accused physically assaulted his wife, an auxiliary nurse and a mother of two, and bit off the tip of her nose.

He explained that the couple, who got wedded in 2007, started having marital issues when the wife got employed at a private hospital.

He said the husband, who owns a a boutique in front of their house, started complaining about his wife’s new dress style to work.

“Adebiosu beats his wife and does not provide for the family.”

The offences contravened sections 11(a) (b) of the Protection Against Domestic Violence Law, 2007 and the 176 of the Criminal Law of Lagos State, 2015.

While 11(a) (b) prescribes five years imprisonment with or an option of N100,000 for any one found guilty of the charge, Section 176 stipulates three-year imprisonment for offenders .

Bisi who pleaded guilty to the charge of assault, notwithstanding, said he was not guilty to the charge of domestic violence.

Adebiosu, told the court that he unknowingly bit off his wife’s nose in vexation.

Mr Bisi told the court that on the day the event played out, he got home and met his children crying and when he asked of the whereabouts of their mother, he was told she was at a party two blocks from their compound.

“I met my wife finishing off her fourth bottle of Stout in the midst of men; I had to force her home and during the struggle, I mistakenly bit her nose.

“I do the best I can to take of our family, but my wife does not give me the respect that I deserve as her husband.”

The Chief Magistrate, Mrs. Kikelomo Ayeye, however, remanded the accused at Ikoyi prison.

Ayeye adjourned the case until February 12 for further hearing.

source: http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2018/01/i-met-my-wife-finishing-off-her-fourth.html

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The gossip surrounding Yvonne Nelson's man, Jamie Robert has refused to take a chill.

However, the actress who newly welcomed a babygirl fathered by the UK based Photographer has marveled Ghanaians why she chose a white guy over many handsome Ghanaians asking her hand in marriage.

Well, in an interview with Zylofon, the actress said that fate brought them together. She went on to say, the first time she met Jamie that she felt, “Yes this is the man I want to be with.”

Yvonne Nelson also said that she has turned down many marriage proposals from Ghanaian men because she felt that “Jamie is the right man she can start something with.”

“Someone proposed and I didn’t even marry him. I felt like this is the right guy for me,” Yvonne stressed.

“This is what I call fate. It can happen to someone at 25 but mine happened at 29 and I felt like I had to start having kids because that’s what I wanted,” She added.

Source: http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2018/01/why-i-chose-white-guy-over-many.html

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Rarely would you have people opening up on the details of their life, especially when it is full of vices that society frowns upon.

But that is not the case of Elorm the Zionist, a young beautiful Ghanaian lady who could be between her late 20s and early 30s.

Elorm The Zionist appeared on the ‘Late Afternoon Show’ hosted by Berla Mundi as a guest on Monday to share her story and this was monitored by YEN.com.gh.

She was on the show with Mr. Patrick Amegashie, an officer with the Ghana Narcotic Control Board and others guests.

The topic for discussion was ‘Abuse and Addiction’ to hard drugs, and alcohol.

Taking her turn to speak, Elorm the Zionist disclosed that she had long been a drug and sex addict before getting married to an older man in England, where she moved to in her early twenties.

She was smoking cannibis, marijuana, and was so much ‘in love’ with cocaine that not even marriage could stop her, Elorm revealed.

According to her, her sex addiction got even worse after marriage and because her husband could not satisfy her sexual needs, she had to look elsewhere for sexual gratification.

Consequently, she was always roaming the streets of England just to get a man to sleep with, Elorm revealed.

She narrated how she came across a lot of young men who were also using and trading in hard drugs and were always ready to sleep with her in turns daily.

In her own words, “I couldn’t control the urge. I had to sleep with many men in a day and still I was never satisfied. I found a lot of young guys who were at my beck and call ready to sleep with me all I want but still no satisfaction.”

Continuing her narration, Elorm said it got to a time she was tired of roaming the streets for ‘clients’, and so she invited the men home, who could call her on phone and come to her home at anytime.

All this while, she had stopped going to work in order to have more time for her addiction while paying no attention to her husband and according him little respect, Elorm revealed.

Therefore, her husband got fed up one day and threatened to end their marriage. Now she was faced with deportation.

According to Elorm, she realized that she was deeply drowning in her addiction and needed help.

So she wrote letters to the Ghana Embassy in England requesting for help out of her woes but it was all in vain.

Elorm later found her way back to Ghana again and was living with her father.

Finding herself back home couldn’t help salvage her addiction situation, in fact, it rather increased and she was doing her usual thing right under her father’s nose without him noticing.

But one day after taking in a heavy dose of hard drugs, Elorm said she started hearing voices and that really scared her into thinking that she would go mad if she doesn’t turn a new leaf.

Therefore she started praying to God and gradually distancing herself from the many drugs she had at her disposal.

Soon, she started seeing a change because this time, her drug intake and sexual demand were reducing with each passing day.

The improvement was good and so she started praying fervently to God to help her overcome her drug, sex and alcoholism issues.

Elorm the Zionist is now grateful to God for helping her to successfully overcome this habit which had become part of her life for a longer period of time.

She added that she looked to God, words from the Bible and also self-discipline to overcome addiction.

Elorm is currently on a mission to help other with similar stories to recover.

source: http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2018/01/i-couldnt-control-urge-for-sex-and.html



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Police in Uganda have apprehended one Harriet Nambi, 24, a resident of Nakiyanja Village in Kaliro Town Council who supposed stabbed her husband Musa Batera, 25, for refusing to sleep with her ever since she delivered a baby boy through caesarean two months ago.

Batera was a husband to three wives and he was also the chairman of Kaliro District Boda Boda Association since 2011, while Nambi is a primary school teacher in Kaliro Town.

Their neighbour Hasifa Babirye, said that the couple had developed a misunderstanding following accusations by Nambi that her husband refused to sleep with her.

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“She told me that her husband was denying her sex yet she needed it. I asked her to wait since she had just been operated upon but she was obsessed,” Babirye told police.

“I tried to ask her to give it time but she said she was going to harm him and when the husband returned, she stabbed him.” She added.

According to witnesses, she enticed the deceased to their house, and as soon as he entered, they started quarrelling which developed into a nasty fight.

Kaliro District police boss, Joseph Kihamba, confirmed the incident, and said that Nambi had been arrested and is going to be charged with murder.

The body was handed over to his relatives by the Police for burial as investigations continue.

Source: http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2018/01/24-year-old-fed-up-wife-stabs-husband.html

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A university employee admitted in an interview with Parent magazine that her daughter snatched her husband, according to SDE.

Mercy Igoki, a Kenyan 48-year-old senior assistant registrar claims she has forgiven both her daughter and her husband for the pain they caused her.

“I share the circumstances under which my marriage split up hoping it will inspire someone to start her own journey to forgiveness and restoration, as opposed to bitterness, anger and death,” she says.

In 2006, while working as a teacher and counsellor in a local high school, Mercy met an orphan girl. She took her home and adopted the girl who was three years older than Mercy’s first born.

Mercy says the girl bonded very well with her family and her problems began when she had to resign from her job to recover from an accident that left her with multiple fractures.

“I enrolled for an undergraduate degree in education in Meru. I would be away from home sometimes up to three weeks or longer at a time because of my studies,” she says.

“It was while travelling back from one of these trips in 2008, just after my daughter had finished high school, that I received a phone call from one of my neighbours. She told me, ‘Just know that girl you are living with is not your daughter but your co-wife. I was shocked.”

Mercy says she decided to investigate and discovered clandestine correspondence between them. “In anger, I confronted them and to my shock, my husband blamed me for the affair, saying I had brought the girl to him,” says Mercy. She has since forgiven them.

Not surprisingly, cases of older women snatching husbands from their daughters, or daughters snatching men from their mothers are hardly reported due to embarrassment and stigma. Experts say such deviant behaviour is among many modern ills placing the traditional family unit at risk.

source: http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2018/01/my-daughter-has-sexually-stolen-my.html

A Nigerian lady, Juliet Okoye, who was involved in a fatal accident on January 1st at Ifitedunu, Anambra state, has shared with KINGSLEYIWU.com.ng how she survived three fatal accidents in 2005, 2016, and 2017.

Okoye who hails from Enugu state, told KINGSLEYIWU.com.ng that her first accident which threw her into coma was in 2005 and was rejected by every hospital she was rushed to because they thought she had died. She said:

"I was in still in secondary school when the incident happened. My mother had left the house and said she won't be returning that night, so i was left with only my elder brother in the house. On that particular day, we removed the rug in the parlour in order to wash it, so i prepared food and ate, then turn on a local lantern and decided on lie down on the bare floor. That was the last thing i could remember that night before i slept off then woke up with large fire on my cloth. I screamed and rushed out of the house that night, and my brother together with his friends rushed me and tried to removed my cloth but my cloth had glued my skin. I was rushed to several hospitals but they refused to admit me, thinking i was dead. My family later carried me back home and contacted our family doctor who after check ups discovered i was in coma and started treatment on me. God saved my life."

Thanking God that she defeated death, Juliet who is also a model, also recalled the fatal Okada(motorcycle) accident that occurred in 2016 at Omole, Lagos. She told KINGSLEYIWU.com.ng, "Everyone thought my skull had broken". She said she boarded a commercial motorcycle with her colleague at work and the motorcycle she boarded stormed the road first before the motorcycle her colleague boarded. She said she fell from the motor bike and the bike man who didn't quickly noticed continued moving and dragged her on the road. She was rushed to the hospital after sustaining few injures.

Juliet who said she has been called by God severally but has ignored the call didn't know the next shocking fatal accident was going to be on January 1st.

KINGSLEYIWU.com.ng reported the news following the accident that played out on Jan 1 ➨ see it HERE.

See photos below;

source: http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2018/01/exclusive-how-i-survived-three-fatal.html

The Nigerian army has disclosed on Friday that the factional leader of the Terrorist group, Boko Haram, Mamman Nur, has been deeply injured.

See the military statement issued by the spokesman of the Operation Dole counterinsurgency force in northeast Nigeria, Onyema Nwachukwu, below:

“Ongoing artillery and aerial bombardments of Boko Haram enclaves in the Lake Chad region by troops of Operation Lafiya Dole has continued to yield positive results.

“Currently an evaluation report of the ongoing operation indicates that a major factional leader of the terrorists group, Mamman Nur has been fatally injured in the bombardment as he and his sub commanders fled from the onslaught.

“Several of his foot soldiers have also been killed by troops, while many of the insurgents who escaped are now surrendering to Republic of Niger Defence Forces, following the Amnesty granted the insurgents by the Government of Niger Republic”.

source: http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2018/01/nigerian-troops-brutally-and-deeply.html

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The controversial tithing issue in Nigerian has extended to Ghana as a controversial and celebrity lawyer, Maurice Ampaw is arguing on the necessity of paying tithe as a Christian. He argued that he is yet to see any importance in paying his tithe explaining that he has not seen any financial change in his life for 49 years of paying his tithe.

However, after making such utterance, he maintained that he is not going to stop paying Tithe.

“You don’t expect to see the benefits of what you have invested or paid for immediately, it takes time. I have attended church service and for my 49 years of paying tithe, I’ve not seen anything or improvement in life. I have given offering and fasted for about 10 years when my wife was unable to conceive but I didn’t stop paying offering and tithe, he argued in an interview on Zylofon FM.

Back here in Nigeria, the issue of Tithing has never cease as OAP Daddy Freeze is making the #Freethesheeple movement boarder as he is taking on other issues like firstfruits and planting church outside Nigeria.

The issue is also rising in Ghana because many argue that pastors, especially from pentecostal churches are using tithing to steal from their members.

source: http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2018/01/for-49-years-of-paying-tithe-ive-not.html

Angry residents of Kigomba A village in Kasambya sub county, Kakumiro District, Uganda have lynched a 68-year-old man for allegedly poisoning his young sister to death.

The deceased, Dodoviko Kasumba, a resident of the same area was waylaid on Thursday at about 5am by angry residents who strangled him and crashed his head with a hard object and left his body lying in a pool of blood.

His killers reportedly accused him of poisoning Lovina Namata, 40, who died on Wednesday morning as she was being rushed to hospital.

By the time of filing this story, Namata’s postmortem report was not yet ready.

Mr Ronald Kaganda, the acting LC1 Chairperson said Kasumba was last seen by mourners at his deceased sister’s funeral rites on Wednesday evening where he spent the whole night.

However, residents were on Thursday morning shocked after learning that he was killed in purported revenge attack.

‘‘He came and spent the night with us here at his sister’s funeral and he left on Wednesday early in the morning. We later learnt from residents that he had been killed on the roadside. I sealed off the scene of crime and called police for intervention,’’ Kaganda said.

He added that the deceased was found with deep wounds on the head with one of the ears chopped off. Residents immediately informed police who rushed to the scene.

Mr Joseph Birungi, the deceased’s son said that some of the suspected killers had misunderstandings with his father over land and other property.

He said that: “Those who have been arrested had misunderstandings with my father for a long time. They used my aunt’s death as a scape goat to attack my father.’’

Kakumiro Police led by operations officer, Mr John Kyaligonza arrested three suspects to help police investigations.

Kakmiro District Police Commander, Mr Hassan Katumba Mugerwa has condemned the act and urged people to avoid taking the law into their own hands.(DM)

Source: http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2018/01/angry-village-residers-lynch-68-year.html

A Nigerian lady, Juliet who hails from Enugu defeated death in a fatal accident that happened on her way to Anambra from Enugu state.

Juliet speaking with KINGSLEYIWU.com.ng on the car accident that happened yesterday said the blue BMW car she boarded from Enugu tumbled after hitting a red car.

The victim who is currently at the hospital told KINGSLEYIWU.com.ng that she sustained injuries on her waist, leg and spinal cord.

KINGSLEYIWU.com.ng gathered exclusively from the victim that it is the second fatal accident she has experienced in her life.

God is really with her.

She also posted on her Facebook wall to thank God for saving her life, she wrote;

"I bless God almighty for helping me survive this fatal accident yesterday evening been 1/1/2018
God you are great
I cant thank him enough for this"

source: http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2018/01/nigerian-lady-cheats-death-in-fatal.html

A Kenyan girl and her kid brother nearly died in a New Year fun after chains to their Merry-go-round swing went out the hook.

The girl quickly held one arm of her hand to the metallic chairs and the other hand to the loose chain while her brother held tightly to her.

The crowd was moved in high shock and started shouting, seeing the kids in the face of death.

The girl and her little brother was later rescued.

See more photos on how she was rescued below;

http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2018/01/kenyan-girl-and-her-kid-brother.html