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You would have involved the police so they get his boss

Lucrative business

She will come back to you because the pastor will dump her. I know the style of these young pastors, they chop and clean mouth and forget what the lord said.

The question now is will you take her back after the pastor chop and clean mouth?

rasheylaw:
Contract job??

They recruit for companies and your salary is paid by them and not the company.
You will be a contract staff to the company they will send you to.

I never really do advise wife's sister coming around unless she Don marry, born scatter her body.

It may not be intentional from the man but when a man is exposed to some sensitive parts too much especially when the wife cannot perform her duties, he is 95% likely to yield.

Reschedule two that you are not in the state now
Then go to one
Make sure the two you reschedule are close to each other

Or go to the two in Lekki since they are close to each other, prioritize one as I see the other is a contract job(staffing solutions)

The government is responsible for security, a minister of defence saying this is gross incompetence and should step down.
So is he asking we fight people holding guns with woods/sticks. Is he indirectly legalizing arms.

We do not prayers in Nigeria anymore but action to unseat all these unqualified elements.

Why will state governors provide land for people's personal business. Rather the south will start their own cattle business.

We are yet to digest the fact that they creating railway from Nigeria to Niger. Now Ruga, next south should move to the north and north to the south.

These people are the richest in Nigeria, they are in government yet they want our lives also.

This is not time for prayer for Nigeria but taking action to protect ourselves

See Tinubu people are worshipping keeping quiet on these issues.

How does this help the country solve insecurity and poverty.

If bobrisky get better job will he go and bleach himself?

Read this up and stop asking questions you can research on in few seconds

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Soursop

Why can't these people come out of their pretence and live a normal life.
All the restrictions did not stop these guys from misbehaving
Here in lagos, the northerners take drug more than the southerners.
If yoruba man drink agbo and smoke igbo that na his drug.
But the northerners sniff different terrible things.

They should allow them drink beer and feel free to smoke. The more the restrictions the more the abuse

His death may not connected to what happened oh, before interpreters will come and start explaining how he died

See how they quickly came around
But when our people are been killed these guys keep quiet and will watch the whole show unfolds.

Nigeria which way

It is obvious the presidency is Miyeti Allah
We should all defend ourselves

You do not need a woman to bounce back
Start working on yourself to bounce back then look for woman later

Mechanic recently stole the one from my friend car. He had to involve police.
Why don't they mass produce it to be cheap rather than this stealen.

I hear they sell it 80k and hope is not Nigerian's stealing it

Wetin he want take his life do now
They Don finish the guy na

Doubleoh7:
This right here is the point where you should have taken a walk and never to look back. So if I may ask you, on what basis are you now resigning from your previous place if there is no offer yet? On what basis did you compare your previous compensation package with what you were offered? Do you know you could have shown up to resume this work and they tell you sorry, they no longer require your services and there is absolutely nothing you can do as there was no offer made to you? The thing is most times we are so in a haste to leave our current place of work that we fail to do the elementary things we ought to do. Now you've left a permanent position for a contract one that from your narrative doesn't still measure up to your previous compensation package. Sad experience indeed

You are right my brother
That is why I made this thread for others to learn from. However, there has been a burning flame in me to leave where I was as 99 percent of the staff are depressed and mentally drained. Nobody is thinking but want to leave at the slightest opportunity, it is that bad. When I resigned almost everyone I know are reaching out to show them the way out.

You are right but some businesses will frustrate you to make a rash decision

This guy really talks too much oh, he left his problem he shared with us dey discuss covid-19 money.

The guy case pass us ohhhhhh

I have a friend in need, he is the senior son and in real pressure. If you can help I will appreciate

Floxytran:
Okay, I feel led to comment on this topic and give my advice. My advice is very simple and could help the next person that might make this same mistake. Here is my suggestion.
1. Get the offer letter from the new job and make sure you understand it very well, ask questions at every point if you are not clear then ask them to give you time to resign from your present job. Don't be desperate.
2. Since most of them will not be entiely open as in this case, don't resign from your current job rather take a leave from your annual leave, casual leave or any leave available, call in sick for 2 days if you like.
3. Use those days to resume and try out the new job and watch for the red flags. Usually within the first week of your resumption you would have known if you will stay or not.
4. If it's good, go back to resign properly even if it means you might forfeit some things, otherwise go back to your old job peacefully without notifying them.

I have a lot to say and I know there are different cases. I will be glad to help if anyone has further questions.

You are making sense but not all company will give the offer till you leave your former work place. Some will ask for confirmation of your resignation
Also for the minimum wage thing, I quite disagree. Look at shell, chevron, agip are you saying they use the Nigerian minimum wage structure.

My brother it is our own fellow Nigerians that are killing us. The country head of my previous company earns about 3m monthly and does not care about the staff.

There was one stupid company I had about 5 stages of interview and test with that told me at the end they cannot pay up to 150k. I was really disappointed and had to let go

BuySweetOrange:
Although you have resigned from your previous place of employment... Try to find a way to go back and beg the management/ management. They might take you back

Even if they will take me in my previous place, I won't go back. The slavery there is depressing. Imagine an international company that is supposed to be paying 20 dollar an hour paying 1.3dollar an hour in Nigeria. Meanwhile its fellow competitors pay the normal money

Hello guys I will like to advise us on job change
because I was so frustrated with my recent job, after going for interview with another it took them time to reach back and told me to resign from my current job to process my new job.
After resigning, 3days before I went to the new company I was called that I will be trained for 2yrs which was the second red flag.

The first red flag is that all the top officers of the company were women which I was uncomfortable with.

I got there yesterday to pick up work tool and all I saw was a turn off
1. IT guy asked me to turn on my data to set up the laptop they will give me
2. We will be working from home till Corona clears out. No power (Gen) support, I asked for data and the hr guy said I will reach out to Admin.
3. No pension, hmo, housing scheme, transportation, I was already boiling inside of me
4. He said I am resuming as a contract staff and they will make me full staff at their convenient time. That I just heard that day.
4. I will work one year before I am entitled to leave. I will be under supervision for 2yrs and cannot leave the company within that period
5. Most annoying part is that he said it is a Christian company I nearly slap the guy.

These and many other red flags I saw.

So guys do not resign from your previous job before taking another offer. If the new offer is not good enough turn it down and continue with the old job till a better one comes.

I understand stand u very well

When people see me they say I'm very quiet because if I start talking I don't know when I release info I should not release.
Other times someone tells me of something I told him/her and I will be like when did I tell u. It was that bad. I had to learn to stay quiet and try to answer questions I was asked.

Hope this helps

7 wasted yrs, if they have kids it will be at least 6yrs old
What have they been doing for seven years, praying and fasting?
Ladies after a year and he is giving excuses about marriage move on.

Obingo:
speak and a kangaroo panel with be set to investigate you for one thing or the other and next no salary till the end of the woman's tenure.
That was the sad fate of those who dared to speak

And what they do now is not speaking?