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obowunmi: love her.

Ashawo..

ogugua88: [size=13pt]I actually don't see anything wrong with Genevieve's dress. People hate it because it wasn't Halle Berry or Jennifer Lopez that wore it. The same people who condemn Genevieve's dress have praised Halle Berry's see-through dress and Rihanna's semi-unclad poses. We continually find every reason possible to hate our own stars and have no problem defending westerners, even when they're wrong.[/size]

Nigerians are largely conservative people.We don't celebrate nudity especially not from one of the few respected ones.
Its dissapointing coming from someone like Genevieve.

Is your sister a kid or handicapped that she can't make a choice whether to leave or remain with the beast?

Smiled reading through this...
Shallow reasons for real...!!

It seems that the society has redefined its
norms that now people see it as normal
thing when men cheat.Little wonder [b]a
friend that is yet to marry has concluded
that he is going to cheat and even girls
that are yet to marry has believed that all
men cheat.[/b]This has really downplay the
importance of fidelity in marriage.

Like the above posters have said,It is us women that have allowed and accepted it...and it still all boils down to self-esteem and the MRS status symbol.
...and that's why the men have taken advantage of it ad can get away with it.
I for one has never and will never suscribe to the "All men cheat" ideology.Until we learn to mark out the limits of what we would or won't take/accept in a relationship/marriage and act in those regards,nothing would change!!

That thing just has a mind of its own sometimes..

Its forgiveable especially since it happened when she was young and silly.Don't crucify her.Its just a story of how she came to love her skin.
We all pass through those times either as kids or young adults where we just need someone to make us realise how very special we are.

Happy birthday Mynd...!
Long life and prosperity!!

Why the need for the research when its already so obvious?
Generally speaking,women talk more..Its po po po po from morning till dawn.There's always something to yap about.
The few times men talk excessively are probably over green bottles.
Men who talk too much are not attractive.

airmark: Instead of them asking 2face to swear he won't bang other ladies after this marriage, they asking if he is still potent.

This should have being the real question!!

lmao@Royal's posts..
Trolling obviously..

[quote author=♥Royal♥Charm♥]So we are just gonna ignore the Fact,That Ole Boy Looks like he poured a Bucket of Bleach on his Whole Entire Body....

Word is that prior to African Award Shows, Sales of Skin Bleaching Products SkyRocket Drastically[/quote]What's with your beef for Denrele? Free the dude.He is in his own world..
Besides,this thread aint about him.

biolabee: Me sef no understand o but the realities is that there are a lot of stereotypes among the ethic groups and even within tribes as the example shows.

He dated the woman for a while and comes up with a flimsy excuse on dialect, skin complexion etc

Honestly I don't know but I guess there are many calculations guys look at before they decide on their choice

Tribe, religion,dialect,Submissiveness, family connections, s.exual dynamism, level of 'domestication' and homeliness,friend and family recommndation etc

E plenty

That's the op/writer's point.You(A woman in this case ) can have or be all of these things and more and e nor go sure for you still so the best thing is just to keep being yourself,breathing, living and enjoying it as it comes your way not hoping desperately and living for the "diety" only to have your hopes dashed continually.

eriegua83: Which language, please?

Ondo Egin!!

Y'all just oohing and aahing over Toolz..
Make she comot the dress,una go know wetin dey..

temosan..

biolabee: Nice response slimyem, seems the issue is the myriad ways to land in the inner sanctum of the 'deity' because no one formula exists to obtain the favor of this being. Lol

Pray tell why the reference to the ijebuness of the lady and coogars gif
Is there something I don't know or am missing.
House pls fill me in

Isn't it ridiculous?
Did he not know that she was ijebu all the while?
Where was this sudden realisation when she was doing all the cooking,cleaning and whatnots?

A friend was dumped after a four- year relationship equally for one of the most ridiculous of reasons.
The guy said he was told not to marry a fair complexioned lady
You should fill me in here too.

Much as we like to believe that the "village girl" stereotype is an unfair one,this girl fits well into it.
Your fears and concerns appear to be well founded and is understandable IMO.I wouldn't leave my aged parents with a kid that devious/cunning.
I think she's just acting her age though plus the factors surrounding her presence in your house and your parent's reluctance in disciplining her appropriately might be catalysts.
Take Ileobatojo's advice.
Help/assist her from a distance.

biolabee: 1. Should the next generation of women be trained to be good cooks, excellent home making skills as the previous and current generation of women were and are?

Yes.It is and should remain a basic.

2. If so would you say that these skills are not going to be relevant as part of the complete packaging that a woman needs
after all women are physiologically similar so what differentiates you is xter and your comportment in the home front is part of the package

In the African and traditional sense,they might/used to make for complete packaging but of course its becoming obvious that we are shifting away from traditional values and requirements.Character and comportment doesn't seem to guarantee the diety's approval or acceptance no more.

3. The archetype which Stella represents as against the less well behaved women who were married earlier than she was
is it being implied they did not know how to handle the home front

My questions for now

Nothing per se is being implied here outside the fact that there is no tried,tested and comfirmed formular to land the "diety".

Interesting read...!
The usual cycle..

..or I'll assume you are just being sarcarstic..

[quote author=♥Royal♥Charm♥]mgbekelicious

What mgbekelicious mean?...is that like saying she look Ibo-ish or something?...[/quote]Mgbekelicious means "bush" or "local"

Seriously,your point of view on beauty is warped if these women are what u call "Kweens"

[quote author=♥Royal♥Charm♥]Yes [/quote]Post another picture of her maybe i'll see the beauty from your angle..

who is so fine?
The mgbekelicious woman in that picture?

She looks better than she usually is IMO

[quote author=♥Royal♥Charm♥]
Onila give me the Website to this Photo Album Yo....I Tried Manipulating the Link but i can't get it.

This Bish is Beautiful

I Came Three Timez Already.[/quote]Smh!!!

Depends on time,period or situation..
Can't say per se..

I'm not a fan of his so...

BluIvy: Thank you Slimyem!!! We have started girl. He has started getting withdrawals and the worst thing he keeps telling me and her girlfriend about him being so unfortunate this week, aas he keeps loosing deals. And we smile and say really shame, sorry surely its nothing serious things will get better.

I think the sad part is that he thinks all is forgiven and isvwater and the bridge. Remind me of the movie "sleeping with the enemy". His throwing a party for the girl friend next Friday at his house.

There goes his son's expensive private school tuition fees. It will be so said for him going back to public schools in Nigeria.

Revenge is sweet especially when the person you are dealing with is soo unsuspecting.

Haha!!
You really serious about this mission...
Wish i had this kind of energy,time,emotions and resources to do similar sometime in the past..
Some men people really deserve what's coming to them.
You should remember this saying though.."When you begin a journey of
revenge, start by digging two
graves: one for your enemy, and
one for yourself.”
All the best!!