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This man don chop "vegetable"...I swear!!

Where is the op?
He should come back to defend his story o...
Was it a premeditated intrusion?
Have the massive twin peaks and crazy physique held him hostage and making him imagine things that are not?
Op, answers pls!!

biolabee: Good point also

However it is such young couples as you see that become old couples that have lived apart for a while

what i meant is that some of the posts on NL who benefitted from the early wave of green card
Some moved and found out it was a mistake leaveing their O & G jobs, bank jobs to live in the strange land

The next gen of migrants sent only the wife and kids abroad to hold on to their jobs in Naija

Just last week, a friend sent his wife + 2 kids to canada and he works in an oil coy
No be money go pay for house over there
No be money go ay for child care over there

What do you guys suggest

I like realistic examples, which is why i said those of you who have access to ESA may not be the best to see it from this POV

I think this just defeats the whole purpose of getting married and "family"
Why get married if the plan is to stay apart while chasing all these things with almost equal alternatives you could browse in sacrifice for that which should be more important?

Are cute babies going extinct?

Awww....
Sad sad!!
...no one would ever know what really happened...
May his family be comforted.

^^Duh!!
You better read the write-up and learn to smile and do all those other things so you can grab a man before you hair starts falling off!...

Duh!!
Any right thinking person should know that..
Pity it was late before you understood!!!

If person manage date this kain bobo on top say hin get money, na so so bad bad dream person go dey dream for night.
...or make person wan go piss for night and dem don carry light,person con see this face.na die be that straight!!!
If its Bance or like Bance,I'll pass...Thank yo!!

[quote author=tpia@]get used to it, there always is.[/quote]Trust the old witch to show up where slimyem is involved...
[quote author=baby_123] [/quote]...and the young one grinning foolishly on..

biolabee: i am sorry but there is a flawed assumption in your statement
That this couples are not friends that is why they bundled their wife abroad

No.Its why its easy for them to live comfortably apart for those long lenghts of time IMO.I have seen old couples who have been inseparable all their lives even when situations demand that they do otherwise.Its a matter of valuing each others presence and comfort over vanities,careers and capable adult children.
Couples who are or have been true friends of each other would not be so at ease living apart permanently like the article described.
Moreso,most of those reasons are not serious or inexcusable.

I have a senior uncle who won a green card and sent his wife/kids abroad because he works in an oil coy
I have another friends uncle who when the kids went to school (bsc) the wife moved abroad to provide as a ward to the kids

these people love their families.

You are moving away from the real topic of discourse.This isn't about young,struggling couples with school children but old/middle aged ones with mostly adult and settled children.

Some of you commenting, your parents did same. now its the parents dont love each other

because youve been opportuned to get stay abroad
If you were in naija here u would do the same

I assume this wasn't directed at me as it doesn't at all describe the reason for my opinion on the issue.

I smirked all through reading this piece.
Vivid description..i tell you!!
So many of those single husband around you can't help but feel sorry for them..
Its a problem with no solution per se and cannot really be forestalled except for the few who weren't just a couple but have been friends of each other over the years

Nice!!
Other men should emulate them..!
.....working mothers are not aliens...

You can be sure she'll deliver!!

If this murder was premeditated,it shouldn't be this easy to nail him.
....or how did he think he could get away with the act?or maybe he just wasn't thinking at all
...or there's just a blind side of what went down that we don't know..

Dfrenzy: Cute dude but, me think JOHN DUMELO is hotter.

....say whaaat?

...anything to remain in the news...

Did I read Dele Taiwo performed with him?
...been so long I heard about that guy..

meekness

I don't care about dislike button.It won't change anything IMO..
All i want is that Seun lets us know the posters liking our posts so we can know who the two-faced,bad belle pipo,haters and fans are..

TCP and chocomilo are still in market but not popular like it used to be..

Pronto was such a sweeet beverage.
...and Cocosheen...days I used to go make my "ipako elede","shuku" and "police cap" at the "Onidiris"

...sounds like a scene from a movie...
I don't believe it!!

They are your parents.You can't change that.You can't change them.Learn to love and accept them the way they are.
About your dad being perverted,are you sure you are not the one seeing what is not?
If that actually happens..the checking out your bum thing,I assume you are an adult so you should have nothing to worry about.
All families have their own issues and there is no stereotype or formular for "normal families"
If you don't feel happy around them,spend more time away.
You say you don't want them anymore as if they are some kind of toy you can change, throw away or donate at will..
They are humans like you with faults.Accept those faults as a part of them and learn to live with or manage it.
All the best!

Anybarry!!

That kiss.....ayama
This nah opportunity to organize "owambe" nor be so the love shack them reach..

Mods should help him move it to the front page...

Stabbing stabbing everywhere...this one na even on top one miserable blokous somewhere..
Hian!!

mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

Why are you looking down in all the pictures?
..or is that the reigning pose for "legal adults"?

Your own better..!
My friend craved for "burnt beans" during her pregnancy.It even got so bad one day that she burst into tears when her maid poured the beans into the freezer and washed the pot.The poor lady had to go re-warm the beans for her and get it burned on purpose.
I have also heard of pregnant women who begged for things like roasted corn and stuff from total strangers
Its your time.Live it!
It'll soon pass!