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You need to quit alcohol, change your lifestyle, get involved in activities that would occupy your mind and develop a closer relationship with Jesus Christ

I suggest that you follow the Japa route through studies with your family. That way, you won’t need to pay school fees for the kids anymore, and both you and your wife will be working.

Omo I had to login my nairaland account just to comment on this topic.
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I would suggest you stay away from alcohol for a start, get a family member, relative or friend to stay with you.
Then you can start getting yourself involved in extra activities that would take your mind off sex e.g committing yourself to God’s work.

There’s nothing wrong with your wife. I would advise you start applying lubricant during love making.

My brother, get something doing that will keep you occupied mentally and physically so at the end of the day you will be tired to think of masturbating. I’m sure this would help a lot.

The bride’s family mostly takes care of the wedding with little support from the groom. I don’t understand what is going on here

Gbas gbos

I’m a married man also and it hurts me when I read about such things.
Please just be patient with him and try to talk to him first probably he’s frustrated and if no positive response, then open up to his mom or someone he respects a lot so he/she knows what’s going on in your family cause you can’t just keep quiet over this.
I pray God restores love and peace in your home in Jesus name.

Wahala .... well you gotta face the consequences cos you deserve it bro

divineappo:
herbalist

As in, Babalawo things

Not at all bro. Herbalist are those that deal in plants and herbs. Babalawo na native Doctor na

I feel your pains honestly cos I used to have this. I used herbal concution and it worked honestly.
Pm me so I can give you the herbalist’s number .

Ogboni dem

I believe you are already man enough to make decisions on your own.
It’s your life and whatever decision you make either good or bad, you gon suffer the consequences alone so go for whatever makes you happy.
And pray to God for sense of direction. If you both are meant for each other, everything else will eventually fall in place.

My sister, you’ve not found true love yet believe me.

My brother, I know it’s hard to get over her maybe you should give her a break and see what eventually happens moreover she doesn’t seem matured enough and ready for marriage.

Welcome to the reality of life bro. You just gat to have a cordial relationship with your creator, stay focused and hustle harder for whatever you want cos nobody will help you and be more hungry for success than catching feelings at this stage of your life. I pray God helps us all

Yahoo ni babalawo �

Godliness with contentment is a great gain for those who know

Bros she is yours since you already married her. Money or no money go claim her back and bring her home then talk senses into her.

A soul is where the spirit lives.

All these ones are from marine world o

There’s a popular Yoruba street slang called ‘ Shibinshi’

This guy has always look gay to me.

Infidelity is hard to forget even if the culprit is eventually forgiven

Holy shit! Seem the story would never end.

I’m very sure this guy has finally been disowned by his family .

Love is wicked!!!

She has a striking resemblance with Bobrisky

Geez. All these immoralities are mostly caused by failed parental duties and responsibilities

Street vs Momma’s girl

Female folks always support themselves whether good or bad. There’s no point arguing with them