| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Nobody: 4:22pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi:
I do know sometimes when I do try to quite it I would wake up with wet dreams I have had that experienced about four times now in my life . Ignore the wet dreams and do what I asked you to do. 1 Like |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Uchenaija: 4:24pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
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| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Godblessamaechi: 4:25pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
I feel your deep concern and by the grace of God if and only if you will take a step further to do the right thing that I will share with you, you will be free indeed. Masturbation is a wicked demonic influenced act. Once you are locked in the prison of this immoral act trust me you cannot be released again from the prison except you receive knowledge. Only true knowledge can set you free. John 8:32. Just the right knowledge applicable to your ordeal will set you free. Hosea 4:6. New birth in Christ popularly known as "born again" is not enough but trust me that undoubtedly is the foundation upon which you can access and enjoy the truth (knowledge) that will ultimately set you free from the stubborn spirit behind masturbation in your life or anyone else who is interested to regain his God giving dominion. John 10:10.
So my beloved brother or sister who is reading this contribution and the Op if indeed you are willing and ready to be free chat me up on WhatsApp 08033730233. And don't listen to anyone even if it is a Doctor that will tell you not to worry about your experience that it is normal. Lies from the pit of hell, this are some unknown to them they are being sponsored by the same wicked spirit behind masturbation to encourage those in captivity to continue with what they are doing because they themselves are slaves to the enemy of humanity.
God bless your understanding. |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by DragonFire433: 4:25pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi:
I don't even listen to such. No one can come up and tell me mastubation is not a problem .its demonic and its evil Maybe you have to preach to naira marley |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by capnies: 4:25pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Kennedyiheme02:
masturbation spiritual problem?... why do we always blame the demons  its a proven fact we as humans can get addicted to things, people get addicted to gambling, video games, movies... would you say they have spiritual problem? Yes they are spiritual problems because those addictions are manifestation of weak spiritual standing. Shows lack of spiritual control and can be solved by being more spiritual and less fleshy. That's where God comes in to help you deaden your flesh and liberate you from addictions 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by hollarunji08(m): 4:27pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Bro, I feel ur pains.
But to tell u the truth, problem shared is half solve not proparbly solve
U can DM on whatapps 08152208346, if u can follow and obey you'll forget what is masturbation bro |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by EkoTemple: 4:27pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Nuttella:
You can quit masturbation if you really put your mind to it. I want you to do a 10 days midnight prayers starting from 12am. Its not actually your fault, succubus is behind it, a demon that sleeps with men and it brings the urge to masturbate, masturbation also introduces spirit wife to your life, there are so many bad angles of masturbation spiritually, it is not good, I know a person that was addicted to masturbation like you too, gave their life to Christ and its been 5 months without masturbation. You need to give your life to Christ totally, you cannot stop masturbation on your own, forget what people are telling you, masturbation is very spiritual,you need God to help you.
Now follow these steps.
1)confess your sins to God in prayer, if you are a Catholic, go to confession.
2) do a 10 days midnight prayer and a 3 days fasting, as long as you can do the fasting, it mustn't be 6am to 6pm
3) pray this prayer in midnight "by the power in the precious blood of Jesus, I break every covenant with spirit wife in Jesus name and I destroy every spirit of masturbation in my life.
4) make up your mind not to masturbate, remember that God is watching you and the holy spirit will help you overcome, the first one month will be tough but stay away from watching porn or any thing or person that will trigger you to masturbate. Take care brethren. Masturbation is bad, evil and demonic. It is spiritual and I guess you start attacking it from a spiritual stand point first. 1. Confess your son to God and accept Christ as your Lord and saviour. 2. Also follow the steps outline in the quoted comment. I think it will go a long way in helping you. 3. Also send me an email via ekong.temple@gmail.com I will link you with someone that will counsel you for free. God bless you 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by FunFact: 4:29pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
UDUJ:
I hope you know you are a man and not a woman?
Do you know what that anti-testosterone drug is for? It's to reduce your testosterone levels. Reducing your testosterone levels is bad for a man, you start having side effects like developing man boobs, your semen production and male fertility is adversely affected etc.
Please don't take any drug not prescribed by a medical professional. I was just laughing when I saw his comment. Anti-testosterone pills are for trans -women or queer men, or just men who want to be feminine. Also testosterone has alot to do with a person's drive, drive to work, drive to succeed including drive for sex. The op had already stated that he didn’t have any drive for sex at all bc of excess masturbation which means he is already having a decline in testosterone. The guy still went ahead to prescribe pills that will kill his drive even more, making him masturbate more for the rest of his life. He just provided a way to improve the problem instead of solving it. 1 Like |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by owoshuyi(m): 4:30pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
I used to be a chronic mastubator, but now it's been over a month or two that I have done it, and the thought of doing it now is disgusting to me. This was only possible by letting God know I really wanted to stop it, and so I surrendered everything to His power because I tried to stop it my own way but I continued to fall for it. Also not looking at or watching any nude or pornographic on computer or phone or movies helped a lot. Faith in stopping it without your own action is dead.Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.
Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.
It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.
I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..
My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.
I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.
I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .
Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.
Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...
It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...
For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .
Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved. 1 Like |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Adeedris(m): 4:33pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Uzomacharles:
Masturbation Na Bleep Up....
Avoid Watching Porn And Avoid Being Alone...
Watch Christian Related Videos Were Pornography isnt displayed And lastly, get yourself busy! get so busy that you won't have the time to be alone, then write what addiction you wanna stop boldly in a piece of paper and stick it to your bedroom wall, remember to add date to it. Then relax and watch magic happen. |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by JahBwoy: 4:34pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Nuttella:
You can quit masturbation if you really put your mind to it. I want you to do a 10 days midnight prayers starting from 12am. Its not actually your fault, succubus is behind it, a demon that sleeps with men and it brings the urge to masturbate, masturbation also introduces spirit wife to your life, there are so many bad angles of masturbation spiritually, it is not good, I know a person that was addicted to masturbation like you too, gave their life to Christ and its been 5 months without masturbation. You need to give your life to Christ totally, you cannot stop masturbation on your own, forget what people are telling you, masturbation is very spiritual,you need God to help you.
Now follow these steps.
1)confess your sins to God in prayer, if you are a Catholic, go to confession.
2) do a 10 days midnight prayer and a 3 days fasting, as long as you can do the fasting, it mustn't be 6am to 6pm
3) pray this prayer in midnight "by the power in the precious blood of Jesus, I break every covenant with spirit wife in Jesus name and I destroy every spirit of masturbation in my life.
4) make up your mind not to masturbate, remember that God is watching you and the holy spirit will help you overcome, the first one month will be tough but stay away from watching porn or any thing or person that will trigger you to masturbate. Take care brethren. @Blackurglyboi if you see my post pls, take the approach above. It is the best approach, something i took that helped me. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by olaodun: 4:40pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Fine man I appreciate your sincerity and openness, masturbation is a spiritual battle and also satanic weapon to destroy your life and future . it weakens your physical and spiritual strength .
To get out of it please do these
1 Confess your sins to God in sincerity and with humility that you want to get out of the desire of flesh and you need the salvation of God through Jesus Christ
2 Call on Jesus to clean your heart and thought and give u a holy spirit
3. Accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior and invite him to your life
4 Read various portions of Bible relating to holiness , work of Flesh and holy spirit Mathew 5 , Romans 6 Eph Chap 2 and others
5. Do away with pornography and other sexual and nude picture
5. Look for good church to attend and be active |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by LVStone(m): 4:43pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Masturbating is good....it is not a bad thing....
First of all....you need to stop thinking it is a bad thing....so you won't be feeling guilty after masturbating.....
You know the funny thing son.....
When you stop feeling guilty about masturbations and stop seeing it as a bad thing that is the time you start to limit it without you knowing....
May God deliver you from the demon that has employed you as an agent in Jesus name 1 Like |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Adavizeee(m): 4:46pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
It's never too late to get back to the right track my brother. I was once a chronic masturbator just like you but God has healed my soul. You need to get closer to God, pray, fast and so on. Don't allowed yourself to be feeling lonely or bored. Engage yourself in certain activities like reading books, watching movies (not erotic movies) and hanging out with your friends when feeling lonely or bored. Always try and keep off your mind from all sexual activities, abstain from chatting naughty with your female friends online that might arouse your sexual feelings toward masturbation. God shall surely heal your soul my brother.. |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by earnit3: 4:54pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
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| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by SlimzDboss(m): 4:59pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
My brother, get something doing that will keep you occupied mentally and physically so at the end of the day you will be tired to think of masturbating. I’m sure this would help a lot. |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Twenty8: 5:13pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.
Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.
It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.
I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..
My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.
I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.
I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .
Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.
Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...
It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...
For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .
Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved. Jss 3, 2011? you sound just like me bro, we are in this same war together. It's been 9years that have been in this fight too, but WE CAN WIN THIS FIGHT don't let anybody tell you otherwise, they'll tell you masturbation is healthy, they'll tell you all sort of crap but you and I know they are saying glorified bullshit. DON'T GIVE UP BRO, WE CAN WIN! |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Dannyremy: 5:20pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
I also masturbated for like 3 years before I stop it this year
I stop this thing by distancing myself from any pornography stuff, Praying and learn how to control my mind.
This thing really work for me 1 Like |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by lightangel65i(m): 5:24pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
slimkhalifa:
u mad gan oo .. See advice wey u dey give person Its a very good advice |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by lightangel65i(m): 5:25pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
northvietnam:
So this drug kills every sex drive even the one u have a a woman’s punna
If so then it’s good Oooooo..... so that man can focus and hustle wella with no punna distractions Thank you you get it 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Akharmony: 5:28pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
IkwerrePikin:
Do females who are addicted to masturbation also have this issue of sexual satisfaction when with a man?
Is it only the males who masturbate alot that suffer from poor erection and inability to release and have complete pleasure with a woman? women are built with this confidebce of male folks must come to ger them. So an average woman doesn't feel the kind of rejection / depression that might manifestest itself after masturbation. That shit isn't good for real men. 1 Like |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by lightangel65i(m): 5:28pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:
WHY ARE YOU TRYING TO RETIRE WHEN YOU'VE NOT COMPLETED 35 YEARS IN SERVICE? How many years you don do faplord |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by lightangel65i(m): 5:30pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Akharmony:
women are built with this confidebce of male folks must come to ger them. So an average woman doesn't feel the kind of rejection / depression that might manifestest itself after masturbation. That shit isn't good for real men. True women don't feel that shame after sex or masturbation. I think masturbation is just for women 1 Like |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by buksolowe: 5:34pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
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| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Akharmony: 5:37pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
my advice for you is to try as much as you can do to sell/.market a product more to the opposite sex it will help you acheive your goal quickly on masturbation.Also read books on how to b strategic in your game to speak confidently to the opposite sex.. like meet ladies and tell them n simple term, you hair do is beautiful, i don't mind you been my friend, comment on thr look and i can tell you your confidence begin to rise lime never b4. We all fall to rise. Every man out there is fighting one thing or another secretly. B wise to speak the truth always. |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Mafyoso: 5:39pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Just to be certain, it’s not only you that masturbate. The act is actually healthy and it doesn’t stop you from getting girls. Come out of your shell and ask a girl out. I do it too but I can tell you I still have regular sex and give girls orgasm cos I have learnt to hold my orgasm/sperm for longer than usual 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by omotola90(m): 5:40pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
ArticleBeast:
Masturbation is a normal thing it is the guilt that destroys most you. addiction ruin lives... If you've come across an addict, you will know addiction ruins life |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by afoobabs(m): 5:48pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.
Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.
It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.
I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..
My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.
I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.
I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .
Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.
Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...
It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...
For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .
Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved. Good day Bro, First and foremost erase the thought that masturbation is a bad thing from your mind, masturbation can at times be a positive or less evil thing to do. Like a man whose wife travels and then decided to masturbate instead of having extra marital sex or vice versa. As well masturbation can be a lesser evil compared to pre-marital sexual intercourse. Addiction and over do is what should be guard against. If you are addicted to masturbation the following things can help you overcome it: 1. Exercise: This is the most potent weapon you can use against masturbation; sexual urge is derivative of excess of energy, channel that energy into exercises like jugging, GYMING (very important) and work outs. when you expend the energy on these stuff, trust me, sex will be the last thing to come to your mind. When you are alone in your room and you feel the urge to self service do 50 push ups instead or abs training, by the time you finish this, I can assure you the urge will be gone. The most fascinating thing about using Work outs to overcome masturbation, is that it tends to gives you a beautiful body/shape which in return will give your appearance and self confidence a great boost. 2. Avoid pornography at all cost: Pornography or lewd content is mostly what triggers masturbation, try as much as possible to avoid it, clear your browser history, block the sites, instead of watching porn, watch a movie instead (not semi porn movies) or play games. 3. Get a girlfriend: You are 23, Bro Its normal for your hormones to run riot, if you don't want to dwell on masturbation, get a girl. 1 Like |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Clinton12345: 5:52pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.
Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.
It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.
I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..
My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.
I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.
I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .
Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.
Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...
It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...
For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .
Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved. I myself, I have been masturbating for 11 years now, from jss3. All you said is true, I don’t even know how to socialize even with boys to an extent, my penis grows so slowly, now I have chronic waste pain and head aches but when I don’t do it’s for like 3 days no head ache. I’ve tried everything to stop, although I just recently began having sex with girls at 24 year I still feel like I’m not doing it a full potential. Masturbation is evil, it’s similar to abortion to Be honest. It gives hardluck I think. Sometimes I feel impotent so I take a lot of ginger, hot water and excercis to get back my testosterone at an adequate level, But I need help tbh. I watch porn to stupor. God help me, God help us. |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Nobody: 5:54pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.
Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.
It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.
I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..
My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.
I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.
I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .
Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.
Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...
It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...
For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .
Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved. Send me a mail if you don't mind. via.ofida@gmail.com Also, any other person looking for solution to any form of addiction can also send me mail. Peace to you all. |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Gptins(m): 5:56pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.
Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.
It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.
I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..
My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.
I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.
I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .
Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.
Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...
It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...
For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .
Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved. I can help you out...... Send an email to @godspower_ikpotokin@yahoo.com |
| Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by mascot345: 5:57pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Just try get a beauty babe. U forget everybody about masturbation.
My girl friend is a super woman. She helped me stop that rubbish. She doesn't joke with giving me good sex.
He curve and her boobs are wonderful.
She is the best. |
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, tell me what worked out for you please