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Olatlaccon:
you are fvcking mean

Olatlaccon:
why u look am like that

Godishelp:
please help a brother in need, my landlord has threatened to throw me out tomorrow. am owing one year rent. I have been feeding from hand to mouth for months now since I lost my job. please I need your widows mite to gather something reasonable to appease him. please am depressed, frustrated and helpless. UBA 2066177700

Serene123:
I learnt from his experience.

And the best thing to do is stay back and think, analyse the situation. Rushing to end the relationship immediately may not be the right idea cos everything staring me on the face are ASSUMPTIONS.

I have been thinking. Okay right now I end the relationship.

Why did I end the relationship?
My babe is cheating on me.
How did I know she is cheating on me?.

On Xmas day she was out with a guy who always call her.

I don't really know how that sound to u?.

I am am staying back for now to clear my head

shadowmancer:
Wait!
I can't believe, a mere respond to your drivel could go so far as to get under your skin, so much that you had to quote me twice just to react. Jeez!

I'm always on the move because I've always been alright, as I'm not your dear. You can save your phony appeasement for the next guy who's going through a lot emotional machination from the hands of you treacherous Nigeria bimbos.

If by textual expression you somehow could determine I'm such a depressed person who critically needs help, then you should also be able to determine why do you keep struggling in denial, for refusing to acknowledge how much you reek of low self-esteem. Relax , breathe out and take a deep look at your moniker, it's not hard to figure unless you're a bimbo!

success10:
this is my WhatsApp number
08023406640..
I need the skill to hack WhatsApp

Akilou:
That's the idiot oo. The idiot urgly as fvck.
I told him to counter it with fact, he's blatantly refused.
Somebody discovered that Urgly ape and posted it here.

Serene123:
A married man dropped his number here and we spoke at 3am till 6 am.
He told me he has similar situation like mine. Ended his relationship cos of assumptions due to calls he was seeing.

He spoke to me maturely and while he was speaking, I saw my own self and my errors. They are happily married.

He advise I give it time. That's what I am doing

binarykid:
I am a guy and I will be candid with my opinion. YOU MIGHT BE OVER REACTING!!!
YES! i know what is trending now, YES! I know we are all quick to accuse every lady that we suspect of being unfaithful but YOU MIGHT BE OVER REACTING!.
I Say this categorically cos I know a couple that had almost similar issue and the guy messed everything up cos of his 'insecurity'.
The moment you keep checking her messages, snooping on her social media accounts, check for everything and anything, my guy, your heart would always lead you to see (and continue) seeing what you are looking for. Honestly at some point you might feel that you are losing your mind cos of different thoughts.

She is obviously hiding her phones and other stuffs cos she already knows you are snooping and that you would read unnecessary meaning into whatever you see. You can't just ask her to break a friendly relationship based on your own insecurities. (That's selfish)

Solution: Call your girl, apologize to her, have a heart to heart discussion with her (let her know your fears) and then analyze her response. Also ask her to introduce you to that "her friend".

In relationships nothing is entirely guaranteed. The person that is giving you attention now and you are already catching feelings hmmmm do you know the kind of bones she has in her pot?.

Calm down and take a deep breadth. From your description, you obviously have a good woman and you know it but your insecurities wants to mess things up. I hope you make the best decision for yourselves.

Peace!!!

endsarrrs:
Woman beater. . .

endsarrrs:
Com'on what do u gat in that 2.2brains?! Let me tell you a secret. . . She was abused at a younger age, thats why she dont wanna talk about the kids father. .

endsarrrs:
Have a great day ex-b pensioneer

endsarrrs:
You are disoriented guy. . . Go away!

endsarrrs:
hey! Okay i'm sorry. Gush!! Stay away please will you?!

EFULEFU1:
I proposed love to my neighbors girlfriend
And to my surprise, she slapped me. When she turned and was going back, she was shaking her bum bum at me. Please, does that mean she loves me? And do you think she will inform her guy about my approach? Please , I love her so much. Help me

endsarrrs:
Stop that indomie kid!

Serene123:
Thank you

Serene123:
Money she brings in?.

You misunderstood it Ma. I just stated her readiness to build a home with me by getting somethings. Not that she brings in a lot of money to confuse me. I am the one bringing in the money.

I haven't really gotten an evidence despite the chats , just the calls.
Yes I love her.

Just like u said, I now understand people handles things differently.
I will give her the time she wants, when she come back then we will renegotiate.
Thbaks for your opinions

Realestatevixen:
I curse you angel of death hovering over the land in the Mighty name of Jesus. Enough is enough in Jesus name. Let the spate of bad news cease in Jesus name. Amen

casdoruche:
Our greatest fear is When Tesla and electric cars takes over. Nigeria will become a dumping ground for fuel cars. Our oil will less in demand. Electricity will be a problem except it is fixed. Then we will discover that we are actually living in a fools paradise.

As for me I pray for one thing. When all these happen let me be among the rich 1 percent.

Siberry:
Most of the advice here are from insecure men, please shove their advice up where the su doesn't shine.

My husband lives in Nigeria and I live in the UK, and he's always accusing me of one thing or the other. I'm full time job and schooling full time at thw same, and I don't even have time for myself not talk of cheating on him. I get at 5am, read before I start work and I do lectures during the day as well. After work and lectures, at night I catch up recordd lectures and do assessments. I barely even have time to eat, yet this man accuses me of cheating whenever he calls and I don't pick up. Sure his friends just like many men on thos post will swear to him that I'm cheating. Now whenever he accuses of rubbish like that, I give him silent treatment for many days. My head is already full, and I don't want him stressing me out again with some stupid cheating accusations. Mind you that alll these are based on assumptions

The story here is don't allow these men on here ruin your happiness.

From your write up, it looks like you only engaged her because of the money she puts into the relationship. If this case was reversed, you lot would call the girl a gold digger.

Now ask yourself these geniune questions: Do you really love her or the money she brings in? Do you really miss her or the money she brings in? Do you have proof that she is cheating on you? Let your answers help you make the best decision.

ubola:
Guy, follow your heart. Relationship is built on trust, stop the discreet investigation and go for what you want. From your write up, she helps out in certain areas and you love her. The guy in question might be her financier not necessarily a bedmate. To the best of my knowledge a woman has the ability to say no to a man to the extent of the man helping her out financially not minding he's actually getting anything in return. I have supported one of my exes with 50k during her Tm, but had never slept with her in our 1yr of dating. She turned down all my advances for sex, yet I loved her more than my main babe cos of certain xteristics I saw. At a point we became very good friends that my main babe knew her and we all became like a family. There's no girl you'll meet that never had a relationship before meeting you except the ones you deflowered. Act wisely in order not to lost a gold fish. Keep sending messages to her, break that gap between you and her immediately, the devil fights what is good. The Biblical Sampson killed the lion while on his way to Marry, so every marriage has a lion to be killed.So better kill yours now.

Serene123:
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Truth. I asked for advise yes. But I already know what I will get from Nairaland. Insults and the rest. Most people think is easy to handle emotional issue until they afe there.
Due to constraint, I won't be able to state everything here.
We have spoken about this for a long time. She has said is nothing. From their conversation self there is nothing. But I realised she don't even wanna be with the guy. Nah Money she dey collect from the guy. She has told me that the guy gives her money. I come to understand is all these older men things and it hurt me more. That was what led to my reaction.
As it stands now, I have ddcdied to let her be till she is done with her thinking then we talk. If there isn't any chance for that, I move on

UncleKoboko:
You people just like fooling YOURSELVES.

You claimed to trust her, yet you're bothered about a guy (probably her sex mate or ex) she refused to let go.

Let me say this to you, and it's the blunt truth.

THAT GUY IS NOT JUST A FRIEND

SHE DOESN'T RESPECT YOU

SHE HAS MANY THINGS THAT SHE'S HIDING

IT WILL DEFINITELY END IN TEARS...

skyreaper:
Bro, you seem like a good man and normally I will usually read post like this and get one or two points from commentary then move to the next but I'll share my quarter. To be truthful, she may like you and she's only with you because you are the next available guy for marriage to her, that guy she calls and talk to everyday is who she really love. Forget the sacrifice you think she has done for you and even if she has had sex with you or you even disvirgined her or she bought things for your future home, it doesn't mean a thing to her. You are probably a relationship she's waiting to fall apart. Its just like a lady I did everything for, spent on, made comfortable but she has a friend that is always telling her, I'm only spoiling her to get under her pants, im too nice to her because that's how people pretend, nice people eventually change in marriage, she may even say you were pretending before and it's now she knew your attitude, thank God she didn't rush into marriage. Now whatever you do, she's only seeing the ulterior motive, the guy is probably brain washing her and using her to pass time, she went out with him on a special occasion and she lied about it to you is enough sign for you. Pls move on, she doesn't feel the same thing again and the truth is she never felt anything from the start. Pls if the second lady is someone you like, give the relationship a chance and trust me, she will use this second lady as another reason to break up with you that you were cheating on her that u were only seeing what you are doing.

All she's looking for now is a reason to break up with you without becoming her fault.

Pls if you are looking for a long term relationship with a lady, let her be the one to want you, let her be the one to want marriage, don't force it down her throat. Make sure you likes you with no reason and be wary of ladies that has lots of female friends or a lady that has a guy they call their best friend and pls don't date kids, its not about age, make sure the lady is matured in the mind.

God bless, you don't need to thank me, I look forward to your marriage post with someone that deserves you

Sandydayziz:
Come and beat me na

Sandydayziz:
That’s wart. It can grow anywhere in your body including your private part. If you don’t get rid of it now, it’s gonna grow on other part of your body since you use that hand a lot.
Before you start treatment just bandage the hand for now so it doesn’t spread.
It’s caused by HPV virus which a lot of people have without realizing. This is its major symptom anyway.
The major way to get rid of it is Apple cinder vinger.
Get ACV, mix a part of it with little water just to neutralize it a little, soak the solution on cotton wool, use a paper tape (cellotape that can hold) nd wrap your hand with it. Leave overnight. Remove the tape for some hours nd reapply. Do this for a few days nd it’ll leave.
This is a home remedy that works. Buh you should see a doctor if you can.

letitrainnow:
Don't bust it ooo, leave it to bust alone