22brains

Your ages also provides you your answers! She's way too young to marry at 20 years. She's still going through her bloom of youth. Worse, she seems to love life. She's definitely not mentally ready.

You too aren't mentally ready. I would say wait till you're between 30 and 32 years to settle down.

Just be frank with her. 20 is simply too young. Let her use her young to develop herself. She got pregnant at 14 and wants to settle down now. Where's she rushing to?

Which kind yanmayanma story be this?


Make I watch match finish.

Don't be a mumu ooo. A girl at 20 years old already has a 5 years old child. My 2 kobo advice is that you should put the brain to work. At 26 years old you want to fall into a big trap. You are too young to marry her as the pressure that will come after marriage will lead to serious problems. Be wise boy!

JOACHINpedro:
I thought you were wise bro

SMAN comes to my mind.

squash47:
You want to settle down with a 20 year old baby Mama ? And u are just 26.

She is 20 years and d baby is 5 years.

Omo, she started swallowing dicks at 15. OP, this lady is more experienced than you in sexual things. Stay away from her.


Don't use your hand and put yourself in problem. There are so many girls out there. Who are better than her.

@bold

baralatie:

so why the but?

She is a single mother with a 5 year old and THAT is a big but,or do you think it's as simple as ABC?

airminem:
I suspect same.(father) .

I suspected equally.

DarkJeddi:
She is a single mother with a 5 year old and THAT is a big but,or do you think it's as simple as ABC?

it was the op that wrote she is beautiful and has everything that a man wants in a woman

I hope he was not writing under the influence?

The biggest mistake you will make as a man is to marry someone OUT of Pity or because of PRESSURE....

Honestly, it always end in tears.

LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP

endsarrrs:
Com'on what do u gat in that 2.2brains?! Let me tell you a secret. . . She was abused at a younger age, thats why she dont wanna talk about the kids father. .

How did you know?
I have seen many Nigerian single baby mamas of 22 - 23 years on dating sites looking for a man to marry, the man had impregnated and dump their ass.

squash47:
You want to settle down with a 20 year old baby Mama ? And u are just 26.

She is 20 years and d baby is 5 years.

Omo, she started swallowing dicks at 15. OP, this lady is more experienced than you in sexual things. Stay away from her.


Don't use your hand and put yourself in problem. There are so many girls out there. Who are better than her.

Hahahaha

There is nothing wrong marrying a single parent, but:
She 20 and already a babymama.
She doesn't want to talk abt her baby daddy.
20 year old already tired of staying with her mother, is her mother a bad one?
She is pressuring u to marry her.

Please do your findings properly before you talk of marriage. Besides do the both of you have stable income?

baralatie:

it was the op that wrote she is beautiful and has everything that a man wants in a woman

I hope he was not writing under the influence?

Obviously,he has an issue with her being a single mother..

DarkJeddi:
Obviously,he has an issue with her being a single mother..

then he lied when he said she has everything a man wants in a woman.
therefore he is dating under influence!
he should reaccess his true beliefs and allow the lady to enjoy a stress free life or accept his fate

endsarrrs:
Com'on what do u gat in that 2.2brains?! Let me tell you a secret. . . She was abused at a younger age, thats why she dont wanna talk about the kids father. .

Op find out abt it from her just reassure her that she has to be honest abt it. Maybe that's why she wants to leave the house by all means.

: I suspect same.(father) . I suspected equally.

endsarrrs:
Com'on what do u gat in that 2.2brains?! Let me tell you a secret. . . She was abused at a younger age, thats why she dont wanna talk about the kids father. .

You are absolutely right

Deep down you already know what you're supposed to do, but of course you had to come to Nairaland and ask. Makes me wonder the kind of men we have these days, spineless sissies the lot of you.

Grow some balls and do what you're supposed to do.

If you marry her, know that you already have a child to take care of. You have a first born before marriage. Know that for sure.

baralatie:

then he lied when he said she has everything a man wants in a woman.
therefore he is dating under influence!
he should reaccess his true beliefs and allow the lady to enjoy a stress free life or accept his fate

She might have EVERYTHING a man wants BUT..
The lady is obviously not being straight forward with him..
She wants him to marry him and yet she is not being forthcoming about the child's father..
So,he should go ahead marry a woman whose child daddy he knows next to nothing about?
All in the name of love?

22brains:
There's this girl am dating, she's beautiful and has everything a man wants in a woman.

But The problem is "she had a child outside wedlock" and hardly go about without carrying The baby(5yrs old). This makes me feel embarrassed among my peers, knowing am not the legitimate father.

She always gets upset whenever I try to know about the father of her child. All she has told me of him is they broke up.

She also pressures me to marry her that she is tired staying with her mom.

She's 20yrs while am 26. Should I succumb or Jakpa? Please help a brother with some advice.

Make sure you watch the below video, later you thank me with a bottle of Moet.

Video >>
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MdzLfiLCkrc

Evening newspaper aluu

Am sure if you love her you won’t be asking this question

endsarrrs:
Com'on what do u gat in that 2.2brains?! Let me tell you a secret. . . She was abused at a younger age, thats why she dont wanna talk about the kids father. .

Making sense

endsarrrs:
Woman beater. . .

Na joke I dey o. I'm actually very gentle and romantic (if given the opportunity ). Na cruise I just dey catch for here

22brains:
thanks very much

Follow her advice at Ur own peril. If she is sincere, she ll come clean as to who is d father of the boy. Secondly, she just don't want to live with her mother cause she is tired hence the pressure and not out of love for u.

22brains and yet no sense? Oga tell me u not serious!

22brains:
There's this girl am dating, she's beautiful and has everything a man wants in a woman.

But The problem is "she had a child outside wedlock" and hardly go about without carrying The baby(5yrs old). This makes me feel embarrassed among my peers, knowing am not the legitimate father.

She always gets upset whenever I try to know about the father of her child. All she has told me of him is they broke up.

She also pressures me to marry her that she is tired staying with her mom.

She's 20yrs while am 26. Should I succumb or Jakpa? Please help a brother with some advice.

The two of you are babies, if you were not, you won't be asking for advice.

One airhead would come and be mentioning over the stupidity of their gender.


Your hole, your life.

squash47:
You want to settle down with a 20 year old baby Mama ? And u are just 26.

She is 20 years and d baby is 5 years.

Omo, she started swallowing dicks at 15. OP, this lady is more experienced than you in sexual things. Stay away from her.


Don't use your hand and put yourself in problem. There are so many girls out there. Who are better than her.