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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Ryan03(f): 4:42pm On Jan 16, 2021
22brains:
thanks. It seems the portion she gave me is gradually fading off. No wonder a problem shared is half sovled.
funny. You already concluded she gave you a portion just by reading comments on your post. That lady better run far from you

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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Whiteshield: 4:49pm On Jan 16, 2021
22brains:
There's this girl am dating, she's beautiful and has everything a man want in a woman.

But The problem is "she had a child outside wedlock" and hardly go about without carrying The baby(5yrs old). This make me feel embarrassed among my peers, knowing am not the legitimate father.

She always get upset whenever I try to know about the father of her child. All she has told me of him is they broke up.

She also pressures me to marry her that she is tired staying with her mom.

She's 20yrs while am 26. Should I succumb or Jakpa? Please help a brother with some advice.


If she's in Lagos, mention me on a dead thread with her number. I will give you a reason to break up with her.

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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Jethrosam(m): 4:52pm On Jan 16, 2021
Bro a little word is enough for the wise.am facing an alingment wish i was not born that way,but due to this kind of siutation.pls just save ur life bro.
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Murphydrres(m): 5:06pm On Jan 16, 2021
Am even pitying the girl since her dad is late and she might have gone through rape or carelessness at teenage grin
But is better you hold on to her cos she might even be a good wife

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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Samsimple(m): 5:18pm On Jan 16, 2021
follow your heart but take your brain with you

Check my signature

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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Think9ja(m): 5:19pm On Jan 16, 2021
kiss
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Franking: 5:19pm On Jan 16, 2021
Marry her na.
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by ednut1(m): 5:20pm On Jan 16, 2021
22brains 22nobrain

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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by OlawaleBammie: 5:21pm On Jan 16, 2021
22brains:
There's this girl am dating, she's beautiful and has everything a man wants in a woman.

But The problem is "she had a child outside wedlock" and hardly go about without carrying The baby(5yrs old). This makes me feel embarrassed among my peers, knowing am not the legitimate father.

She always gets upset whenever I try to know about the father of her child. All she has told me of him is they broke up.

She also pressures me to marry her that she is tired staying with her mom.

She's 20yrs while am 26. Should I succumb or Jakpa? Please help a brother with some advice.


Guy are you telling me that all the 22brains are all on holiday?? grin

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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by DenreleDave(m): 5:22pm On Jan 16, 2021
22brains:
There's this girl am dating, she's beautiful and has everything a man wants in a woman.

But The problem is "she had a child outside wedlock" and hardly go about without carrying The baby(5yrs old). This makes me feel embarrassed among my peers, knowing am not the legitimate father.

She always gets upset whenever I try to know about the father of her child. All she has told me of him is they broke up.

She also pressures me to marry her that she is tired staying with her mom.

She's 20yrs while am 26. Should I succumb or Jakpa? Please help a brother with some advice.

With all that I have read, pls JAPA

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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by fof1: 5:22pm On Jan 16, 2021
22brains:
There's this girl am dating, she's beautiful and has everything a man wants in a woman.

But The problem is "she had a child outside wedlock" and hardly go about without carrying The baby(5yrs old). This makes me feel embarrassed among my peers, knowing am not the legitimate father.

She always gets upset whenever I try to know about the father of her child. All she has told me of him is they broke up.

She also pressures me to marry her that she is tired staying with her mom.

She's 20yrs while am 26. Should I succumb or Jakpa? Please help a brother with some advice.


IS IT A NEW THING,PLS GO AND DO UR THING AND STOP DISTURBING OUR SENSIBILITIES HERE.

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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Tjah: 5:22pm On Jan 16, 2021
Mr man, u are not prepared for marriage.
Whenever u are ready to marry, child dat is not yours won't stop u from marrying anyone

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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Geenosko: 5:22pm On Jan 16, 2021
22brains:
There's this girl am dating, she's beautiful and has everything a man wants in a woman.

But The problem is "she had a child outside wedlock" and hardly go about without carrying The baby(5yrs old). This makes me feel embarrassed among my peers, knowing am not the legitimate father.

She always gets upset whenever I try to know about the father of her child. All she has told me of him is they broke up.

She also pressures me to marry her that she is tired staying with her mom.

She's 20yrs while am 26. Should I succumb or Jakpa? Please help a brother with some advice.

You are not a serious human being.

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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Wunna: 5:22pm On Jan 16, 2021
JOACHINpedro:
I thought you were wise bro undecided
I thought so too embarassed

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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Isokoson1: 5:23pm On Jan 16, 2021
Run for your life
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Shokoloko(f): 5:24pm On Jan 16, 2021
22brains:
There's this girl am dating, she's beautiful and has everything a man wants in a woman.

But The problem is "she had a child outside wedlock" and hardly go about without carrying The baby(5yrs old). This makes me feel embarrassed among my peers, knowing am not the legitimate father.

She always gets upset whenever I try to know about the father of her child. All she has told me of him is they broke up.

She also pressures me to marry her that she is tired staying with her mom.

She's 20yrs while am 26. Should I succumb or Jakpa? Please help a brother with some advice.

1. You are embarrassed
2. You feel pressured.
3. You just accused her of giving you love a potion, which is fading out - No trust

Why are you dating her?
For how long should you manage pressure and embarrassment?
At 20 you should be advising her to pick up her life and achieve something NOT DATING HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Wunna: 5:24pm On Jan 16, 2021
thesicilian:
There's nothing wrong or embarrassing about marrying a single mom. If she's as good as you as you say, the best option might be to continue with her. But don't let anyone pressure you into a quick marriage, find out as much as you can about the father of the child and how close they still are, because whether you like it or not, except he's dead, he's always going to be in your lives because of the baby
Imagine someone gives this kinda advice to your bro. Just imagine embarassed

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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Nobody: 5:25pm On Jan 16, 2021
Innomama7:
bro match non dey start for 1, 0 na 0, 0 he sopos start
I non wat say I dey inside my room one small boy go come in the name of come check he pinkin begin shake my wife bean cry
listen to the advice my brother 0:0 no be one zero

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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by slumcat(m): 5:25pm On Jan 16, 2021
endsarrrs:
Com'on what do u gat in that 2.2brains?! Let me tell you a secret. . . She was abused at a younger age, thats why she dont wanna talk about the kids father. . cheesy
Don't be too quick to judge.

Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Lewisdinho(m): 5:25pm On Jan 16, 2021
Where is your Sense?
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by valentineuwakwe(m): 5:25pm On Jan 16, 2021
at 26yrs are you ready for marriage? are you stable financially, morally and emotionally?

woman or ladies who has kids before wedlock means nothing of you love them.
have a private talk with her n discuss sincerely with her.
my advice is go ahead and marry her and treat the son as yours..don't be shy on this or feel embarrassed about it.


that son could be the one to help you tomorrow!
God bless you!

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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by hakeem4(m): 5:26pm On Jan 16, 2021
22brains:
There's this girl am dating, she's beautiful and has everything a man wants in a woman.

But The problem is "she had a child outside wedlock" and hardly go about without carrying The baby(5yrs old). This makes me feel embarrassed among my peers, knowing am not the legitimate father.

She always gets upset whenever I try to know about the father of her child. All she has told me of him is they broke up.

She also pressures me to marry her that she is tired staying with her mom.

She's 20yrs while am 26. Should I succumb or Jakpa? Please help a brother with some advice.
Never marry a single mother that is my only advice

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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by cozy7(m): 5:27pm On Jan 16, 2021
22brains:
There's this girl am dating, she's beautiful and has everything a man wants in a woman.

But The problem is "she had a child outside wedlock" and hardly go about without carrying The baby(5yrs old). This makes me feel embarrassed among my peers, knowing am not the legitimate father.

She always gets upset whenever I try to know about the father of her child. All she has told me of him is they broke up.

She also pressures me to marry her that she is tired staying with her mom.

She's 20yrs while am 26. Should I succumb or Jakpa? Please help a brother with some advice.
First your not d father, but more importantly, she doesn't even wanna tell u abt his, father? To crown it all up, she's "pressuring" u for marriage! MY BROTHER START RUNNING NOW B4 IT'S TOO LATE. She doesn't just hv a skeleton in her cupboard, she infact has a cupboard full of bones. My brother run oo

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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by tunapawizzy: 5:28pm On Jan 16, 2021
22brains:
There's this girl am dating, she's beautiful and has everything a man wants in a woman.

But The problem is "she had a child outside wedlock" and hardly go about without carrying The baby(5yrs old). This makes me feel embarrassed among my peers, knowing am not the legitimate father.

She always gets upset whenever I try to know about the father of her child. All she has told me of him is they broke up.

She also pressures me to marry her that she is tired staying with her mom.

She's 20yrs while am 26. Should I succumb or Jakpa? Please help a brother with some advice.

e be like ur 22 brains dey hibernate

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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Whiteshield: 5:29pm On Jan 16, 2021
Tjah:
Mr man, u are not prepared for marriage.
Whenever u are ready to marry, child dat is not yours won't stop u from marrying anyone

Let the father of her daughter marry her and she should stop looking for a simpleton to hang her responsibilities on.

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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by BigBizzy(m): 5:29pm On Jan 16, 2021
she wants you both to marry cos she's tired of staying with her mum?


Guy man japaaaaa

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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Kinikini: 5:29pm On Jan 16, 2021
The signs of future trouble are apparent already. A 20yr old who already had a child out of wedlock should not be banking on another man bailing her out of her predicament like this girl. She should be more concerned about getting a job, education or training to earn herself a respect. Since, she isn't thinking in that direction, hmmmmm

uote author=22brains post=98124773]There's this girl am dating, she's beautiful and has everything a man wants in a woman.

But The problem is "she had a child outside wedlock" and hardly go about without carrying The baby(5yrs old). This makes me feel embarrassed among my peers, knowing am not the legitimate father.

She always gets upset whenever I try to know about the father of her child. All she has told me of him is they broke up.

She also pressures me to marry her that she is tired staying with her mom.

She's 20yrs while am 26. Should I succumb or Jakpa? Please help a brother with some advice.[/quote]
Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Adewunmibaba(m): 5:30pm On Jan 16, 2021
Innomama7:
bro match non dey start for 1, 0 na 0, 0 he sopos start
I non wat say I dey inside my room one small boy go come in the name of come check he pinkin begin shake my wife bean cry

Some matches Dey start with handicap 1.
If you know you know

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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Chiffy: 5:30pm On Jan 16, 2021
squash47:
You want to settle down with a 20 year old baby Mama ? And u are just 26.

She is 20 years and d baby is 5 years.

Omo, she started swallowing dicks at 15. OP, this lady is more experienced than you in sexual things. Stay away from her.


Don't use your hand and put yourself in problem. There are so many girls out there. Who are better than her.

She started swallowing at 14. Thats when she became pregnant

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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by FashionCookie(f): 5:31pm On Jan 16, 2021
After they'll come here to brag they don't have time for Nigerian ladies. Lie go kill una...see this one bombom outside?

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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by Nobody: 5:31pm On Jan 16, 2021
Please how much is Lexus in Nigeria?

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Re: She Has A Child For Someone But Wants Me To Marry Her. Help by bcomputer101: 5:31pm On Jan 16, 2021
squash47:
You want to settle down with a 20 year old baby Mama ? And u are just 26.

She is 20 years and d baby is 5 years.

Omo, she started swallowing dicks at 15. OP, this lady is more experienced than you in sexual things. Stay away from her.


Don't use your hand and put yourself in problem. There are so many girls out there. Who are better than her.

God bless you.
You've said it all...

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