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What am I doing here self?

Opinedecandid:
Wow!

That was so witty.

I wish all Nigeran Presidents attended the University.
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The one that attended university most is the greatest failure of them all. So, pathetic.

bobosydney:
Why making noise on social media ? This is same car i c bought for my wife last year and i didn't put it or talk about it on Social media.

Thank God you are still not putting in on social media

Dalastically:
a very good example all men should emulate, spoil your wife and your mother with gifts and LEAVE REGINA DANIELS MAKE HER KPEKUS REST.
hit like if I talk your mind.

And leave father to suffer abi? You deserve award

izzou:


What I still don't understand is why the poor steals from the poor

simple. That is because its only the poor that is accessible by the poor rubbers

Pkingman:
HELP! My Wife Is Abnormal

Hello house, Pls I need mature advice on this issue.
I had to create this account as to remain anonymous.

I've been married for 2 years plus, with a son and expecting another.
The problem is that my wife is not proud of me, not proud to be associated with me and does not show excitement concerning me or gifts that I buy for her.. She is just too plain, too emotionless.

It started from our dating days.. We dated for a year plus.. She never wanted people to know about us. Always hiding me. As if the relationship was a secret. She never asked me for a pin.. I was happy she wasn't the demanding type.
When I proposed to her, I expected her to go over the moon, show excitement and flood social media with pictures.. But no way.
She was just mute and calm about it. She didn't even accept the idea of pre-wedding pictures when I suggested it.. Said it wasn't compulsory, she doesn't have time and energy for that..Few weeks later, she uploaded very beautiful studio pictures of herself alone in nice clothing, shoes, accessories on her facebook timeline without any caption about getting married or love.. Nothing about me at all.

Wedding came... She opted for a small quiet wedding.. Although we could afford a big wedding.. I was surprised.. So unfeminine... Women always prefer loud crowded weddings to show off.. She was supposed to be extremely excited as she was getting married esp at over 30 years when a woman is considered by societal standards to be hopeless and too old for marriage but no! She went about the whole festivities like nothing special was happening to her.

After the wedding, she didn't upload our wedding pictures on social media like normal women do. I then uploaded few pictures of us and tagged her. She immediately untagged herself and told me I could post whatever I wanted without necessarily tagging her.
Months after, she uploaded 2 pictures of herself alone in wedding gown and traditional attire.. None of mine till date.
She doesn't have any picture of me or us together on her facebook profile, she doesn't upload any picture of me or us on her whatsapp. It's always her picture alone or with our baby or her parents and siblings.
She hardly even takes pictures with me at social functions. She prefers personal pictures. Sometimes, she will even crop me out of her pictures and post only herself. She just keeps going on as if I don't exist. When I ask her why, she says she doesn't need to display me online to know she is married to me.
On my birthday, she didn't wish me HBD on any social media platform but she uploaded pictures of her 2 male colleagues at work(she is a medical doctor, a surgeon in training and planning to relocate abroad soon) and wished them HBD, wrote nice things about them.
Back home, all I got was a small get together, cake, drinks and gifts but I would have preferred to be acknowledged online as well. On her birthday, I dare not show her off or say anything on social media, she won't find it funny.. She prefers everything we do is private.
The part that breaks my heart is her attitude towards gifts.. When I met her, she was working, earning big, lived alone and had a car.I was happy she wasn't demanding or greedy... But I noticed if I buy her something, she just coldly thanks me and that's all. I am an Architect, working in a firm and also into private jobs.. I recently completed a project and was paid in millions.. I thought I should surprise my wife so I bought her a new car(an SUV).... She acted so plain.. Just said thank you and that was all.. Instead of displaying it all over social media platforms, write lovey dovey epistles about me and celebrate me like other women do.

By all standards, I am handsome, tall, dark, educated, nice guy, well to do, so why is she not proud to show me off?
Why does she not want me to show her off?

In all fairness, she has been a very nice partner so far but why this cold abnormal attitude ?This is not how women ought to behave.
I am getting tired already,i have discussed this with her but she doesn't wish to change.
What could be wrong with her?

She married you yes but you are not her kind of husband she hoped for and she sure hoped for opportunities to leave a free life without you in future. she is never married. You need prayers for her for deliverance

Obasanjo should just shut up and save us his useless advice

NaijaRoyalty:
Bukola Saraki, The best senate President ever .

The tamer of Buhari and the slayer of Tinubu .

You've played your part in the nation's building .
History won't forget you sir.

Stay blessed always .

What are you saying? slayer of who and who? I am sure you are using irony to console the loser. They slayer got slayed and becomes nobody in the next few days

hello

It is not about what they do, its about what they have that you don't have. 1. They have better brain than you. 2, They have more time than you. 3. They have more materials and lectures than you

Somehow, I kept pushing myself not to believe this story. After all the evil, he still confess easily?

Gforce2019:
Say goodbye to your medical practitioner certificate

He surely can not also escape life imprisonment

PotatoSalad:
No lie.
It's clear that Atiku won the election. Let's call a spade a spade

Keep giving yourself hope, Buhari is not joking where he went to the senate and showed them 4×4 fingers. BUHARI though not perfect but he is the BEST President Nigeria ever have

tropaz:
Everyday I wake up and realise the president of my country is Buhari, I feel very bad.

Sorry, but you still have more 4 years to continue feel bad

He don't mean business jare

There are a lot of beatings that even make it difficult to remember the worst, however, I remember stealing #200 to buy ball and as if my father got a spiritual eyes called me and ask me to bring my school bag for inspection, the beating for that day was special because at a point he ask me to write a statement and sign it as if we are in police station that anytime i repeat such that i will be electrocuted to death, to everybody's surprise, I refuse to sigh the paper and start shouting ' come kuku electrocute me for this offence because, it is sure I will steal very soon because, if you keep maltreating me and give me no food, I will surely steal again'. All our neighbours present there just quietly leave because they understand that I am leaving with my dad and step mum is very wicked.

Everything has ended for both you and bukola now. Anything Saraki is what we don't want to hear again

A friend of mine keep insisting that man u will surely loose the match just by using the wolve winning old on bet9ja to judge. Some people are already prof on gambling. He actually bet with the whole 21k he has on a single game and i thought he is mad.

LuciferRedeemed:
The driver didn't play Grand Theft Auto?


Ogbeni speed up, kick that door open so he will somersault & his cone head can hit the ground, crack open and splatter his brain all over the asphalt.
On-coming cars can then help paint the town red.

People are not sharp in this country!



*spits

baddest, I sight you

iammo:
If it was claimed that Aisha married baba as at December 89 and yusuf claims 88

And so? you won't mind your business for a sec.

gbam

olaboy33:
Ajimobi joins the club of failed Nigerian politicians...

, Fayose, Saraki, Ajimobi, Amosun.....list to be updated soon

Amosun just won senatorial seat for himself. edit your list pls

ivandragon:
the incompetence of this administration continues to exceed all known parameters of rationality.


the worst cases of the Lassa fever outbreak has occured under the incompetence of PMB.

just last year, Nigeria had the worst outbreak in the history of the disease, PMB through his incompetence, has allowed this year's outbreak to exceed that of last year.


Nigerians do not yet understand the curse that is PMB & the woe that his 2nd term will bring.


while some continue to be decieved with crumbs & sell their souls for peanuts, the devastation being wroght on the nation's critical facilities will soon show that the crumbs are insufficient to cater to the disaster that is PMB...

The day you stop seeing Buhari as your problem that same day you are free

God forgive me for I concluded on what I don't know

oruma19:
This people are talking rubbish. Is it about writing waec with them or about the result? I know a couple of classmates that didn't pass their waec but we were the same set back in 1995. In fact it was recently I got to know that a few other guys that were in the same set with me actually graduated the next year 1996 because they went back to write waec since they failed in our set. So if those ones Forge results I will now come and be defending them? This issue is not whether he went to a secondary school or wrote waec, the issue is about whether he passed the waec or forged the result. Haba!

That is where you are getting it wrong, Nigeria constitution does not say you must pass your waec to be eligible to use it to contest but you just have to legitimately sat for the exam.

tommykiwi:
I just hope the Governorship election will be free and fair as to that of the Presidential, where APChit party and INEC rigged the election.

You are in cevia pain

I came here to cheat his beard. by the bear bear you shall know a fool

Donald95:
Sadly, that is the truth.

Come to think of it, Many thinks that Nnamdi Kanu is brainwashing Umu Igbo . Now it is clear that Nnamdi Kanu is loved and respected just because he speaks and does exactly what Umu Igbo wants him to. Whenever he gives order that is not aligning to what we want, it is simply ignored.

Igbo People has been saying it time without number that they are not interested in nigerian politics but they think we are lying.

Have you seen how they boycotted the election despite Order from Nnamdi Kanu for us to vote?

Go and sleep my friend. Turn out for voting is generally low in all region and not Igbo alone. keep consoling yourself, you really need it

hadaydhollarpo:
Okorocha's arrogance has grew beyond normal. The word " I " is very instructive and connotes pride. How can you say you founded APC? On what basis? With only one state with less than 800,000 reg. Voters? If truly he does own Apc he should go ahead to attend their caucus meeting if he won't be bundle out. Does the Apc followed the due process? That may need an answer too.

Don't mind the idiot, what due process do you think should be followed to suspend someone that want to kill the party?

This Okorocha is a fool o. You want your son Inlaw and the party want a neutral man and you claimed the chairman is imposing. Only a fool will believe you

Tinubu is too much. Now if APC win Oyo state for governorship election, people will be shouting 'na rigging' This is a pure political tactics