no need asking questions like is this real? It is as real as a heart attack, and you best believe it. Nothing borrowed from any culture. Homosexuality has been going on in this precious continent for centuries. It is just that more and more people are being bold about it. So many poor nigerian men languishing in marriages to women , when all they want is a fellow man to rub their sugar stick, so many begging secondary school boys to give them their true orgasm, oh dont even go to the women, believe it or not 90 per cent of women here are so bi sexual, infact they want a womans touch. So condem if you will, judge if you must, just do not come here and say it is a borrowed culture.

dude, carefull. I had a friend that did this with her boyfriend all the time, turns out she was trying to act out a crazy sex fantasy she had in her head of watching her boyfriend do another girl while another guy did her in the same room. She was just shy about opening up to him about it, eventually when they acted out the fantasy, the guy could not stand the sighht of her again, and she said, such ideaa came onlyy because the guy could never bring her a true orgasm, but she liked him too much to walk away. So maybe you no dey try where you suppose try,and she wants another girl to bear thhe burden, while she has fun, meanwhile you will be thinking you people are having fun. Check yoursell man.

whatever, most of the people so angry here, are closet homosexuals, you will not believe the things they do behind closed doors. Many fornicators come here and spew gabbage about homosexuality being a sin, and then you go home and your boyfriend puts his head between your legs. Please stop the judgement, you are all better than no one, stop thinking their homosexual sin is greater than your sin of fornication, if at all god is angry, then he is angry at all of you. Confess, and stop withh the hollier than thou attitude.

okafors rule just doesnt work for everyone, infact as close as i am to my exes, i sometimes wonder for the life of me how i could let them touch me. The thought alone has scarred my mind, and why would i ever want them near me again anyway?

@poster, why bother miserable people who reply you You should have ignored whoever took a jab at you concerning your age, first off, he doesnt know you, so his opinion does not count. And dearie, matters not how old you are, welcome to 2011, you do not need a man to stand as a happy woman. Please leave that neighbour guy, let him come to you, and if he doesnt, hey life goes on eh.

in my opinion, lust is just danm good sex, sex you can not get enough of, some1 who makes you all hot and bothered just thinking about them, and it has absolutely nothing to do with what will happen to us tomorrow, where are we going in this relationship, bla bla bla, it is just hot, crazy, soul satisfying sex, and you need not love rhe person. Some people are just goodd in what they do, and love is a feeling of care, romance, compassion and closeness you feel for another, the need to share your day, and life with that person. You are blessed iif you feel love and lust for one person, but anywhere you find lust, you take it, and anywhere you find love you take it. Sometimes people get the two feelings from two different people, and there is nothing wrong with that.

hmmm, just the reason for my quarell with bf yesterday. You see, i am good friends with both of my exes, i mean really matured good friends, and between you and i, i wouldnt touch them romantically again with a ten foot pole, but ohhhhh, my bf just would not hear of it, i mean he said get them off your face book page, stop your jists on d phone, bla bla bla, and i am like dude, get a grip, guys r just pals withh girlfriends of their own, but he wouldnt listen, now he is bothered i am going to a mutual friends wedding, and my exx mightt be there. Either ways, i told him i can not pass my ex like he is a ghost, girrl is gonna say hi nicely, and walk away. We have agreed on that, but eish men relax, sometimes being a friend just means being a friend. I persomally do not care if he is friends with all his exes, well except one who still has her panties in a bunch for him, so yeah whatever.

honey, if he wants you, then he comes after you, and if he hits something off with the other lady, then you are better off without him anyway.