Men wwill not forgive a cheating woman because most of them are selfish, self centered pricks with an ego bigger than Kano. They are like spoilt pampered kids who do not want to share their toys and who throw a tantrum the moment they find some other kids playing with it. Women have enabled them and encouraged them to continue in this way, and because women are their own worst enemy this strend will continue. A woman will know that a man is in a relationship or married and wwill ggo ahead and open her whoring legs to him. How then will these men stop cheating? As long as the LovePeddler litter. The sstreet and women open their legs to unavailable men, men will never stop cheating. It has become a rite of passage and a norm for them. Women are starting tto match them in tact and style. One idiot wwho believes he is smart and phuking the whores on the side will be surprised to find his wife is doing the driver or even better his brother.

There is no correct answer to the Ops question. Some relationships can ssurvive without sex and some caan not survive without sex. Most guys are controlled by their dicks and have no self discipline anyway, and most women have now made the middle of their legs their self esteem guage.

@OP, I think I get what you are saying or maybe not. Are you saying that because nigerian women will not marry unemployed men, that they should leave the vacancies for the men and return to the Kitchen? If that is what you are saying, it is as the second poster said....Crap!! Get with the programme, this is 20w2. Only a foolish woman will sit back at home, spread like butter all over thhe house and wait for a husband to meet her every financial need just so she cooks, cleans and make sure the kids are wwell brought up. Sexism is a bad trait to have. Reject it.

@OPp. I hear having intimacy with your cousin is a good income booster. I was told by an old uncle that back in the day, cousins usually slept together and somehow they gained financial freedom. My dear OP, do it, do not mind these hypocrites here acting like you are evil. Go ahead, phuck your cousin....

Damn...@OP, you can not cure stupid! Its a default setting.

Yea, I heard that illuminati story too. Heard the eye is a window to every viewers soul. Its scary shit sha. I will advice everyone not to watch it. May we be kept safe from evil. #shudders#

Jonathan indeed looks like a clown...the thing is he acts like one in real life.

Ladies lie about their shoe size? Well colour me confused. What kind of ladies do you hang around?

@Omaojo1, thanks for your post. this generation feels they are the ish. I do not know what happened between these two, but i can not believe that single friends will cause such a thing as divorce. except she suddenly started getting new single friends after marriage, but if these women have been her friends even b4 Frank came into the picture, he knew them when they were dating, how can you ask her to get rid of them? Thats crazy. He must have been a very insecure man who was ban.ging every chic, so he had to start imagining Kate was doing the same. Or maybe she was, but whatever the case, sometimes some things are not meant to be.ting, how can you ask her to get rid of them? Thats crazy. He must have been a very insecure man who was ban.ging every chic, so he had to start imagining Kate was doing the same. Or maybe she was, but whatever the case, sometimes some things are not meant to be.

I do not understand the argument about him not giving the money to his relatives, another Nigerian retarded mentality. The pastor deserves the who.re he is taking into his home. They both deserve each other. She will sh.ag that doc till the day she dies. The stupid pastor might as well carve the mental pic of the docs head btwn his wifes legs in his mind, because that is exactly what is going to happen. Karma is a bit.ch on heat.

What kind of rant about single friends is that? They really do not belong together if such stupid issue was the reason for the divorce. Frank must have been sleeping with a bunch of them, and who knows who Kate was sha.gging Infidelity is the norm, and monogamy is abnormal for this generation. The lord must hasten his coming.

Wow, wow, calm down my people, lol! Muslim tradition and culture allows them nore than one wife, in that case you can not cry bigamy, especially beacuse traditional marriages are not bound by the common law. A woman is no longer a mans wife after a traditional marriage if her bride is returned. Christaians after the coming of christ were instructed to marry one wife. Adultery is having sexual relations outside of your marriage, how many married christian men can boast of being free from adultery?, its like searching for a needle in a haystack. Bottom line, if Mercy Johnson is ok with being 2nd wife, then she should just do the traditional marriage rites and call it a day.

You are here asking us what you should do? You just need permission and justification to cheat on your wife, Go ahead and do it, i bet most of your friends will show you the trick eh.

I would be carefull to use the word adulterous on muslims simply because their tradition/sharia allows them more than one wife. its their culture and way of life, i bet many christian men would love to marry more than one wife, if the bible did not frown against it. Moreover majority of christian men are adulterous in nature, and have a bevy of beautifull women they shag on the side, who are we christians to talk?

Its easy for us to sit here and say what ought to be, but some adoptive parents have their reasons for keeping such info from the adoptees. I think people who adopt kids have a a large heart, its always so heartbreaking to see the child search for the real parents no matter the simple reason for such search, it always brings back the pain of infertility. anyway, its a blessing science has made having your own biological kids an eazy breezy thing(if only you have your green)

Unsubmissive Seriously? We really do have some goats who have managed to take over their owners computers. You open your primitive mouth and utter such rubbish. A woman should be beaten because she is unsubmissive?.

It is a law you should believe, because it is as real as the sky. Most Muslims do not conduct court weddings, nor are their weddings registered. The law only applies to marriages conducted under the matrimonial causes act of Nigeria, of which traditional weddings are not part of.

Most adopting parents would love to tell the adoptee about his origin, but of course the children always end uo heartbroken and always seeking their biological parents, this situation leaves the parents heartbroken and they go back to square one of delaing with the pain of childlesness. Sometimes, especially in a Coountry like ours, its best to shut your mouth and pretend the child is yours. adopting is a good idea, but i still insist that if the rich infertile couple in this country is aware of the ease and simplicity of having their own biological child through GESTATIONAL SURROGACY in India and Ulraine, they will prefer that option.

@OP, no you are not paranoid. Your wife is a spoilt biatch and has take you for granted, and if you do not draw the line on this matter, i am afraid, you will start wearing buba and iro in the house, maybe you should get your shade of lipstick too. I too could never say sorry, always wanted my way and threw a tantrum when i did not get it, until my fiance drew the line and said, nah nah nah, its either u cut your  bullshyt, or i walk out of this relationship, men, i get to understand myself oh,  he helps me with the cooking and all, but now i apologise if i wrong him and i understand that i can not always have my way. Draw the line now, or ignore @ your own peril.

@Ofido, you took the words right out of my mouth. Never ever let anyone know you are adopting a child in Nigeria, its never a good idea. We are still under the impression that a woman who can not have her own child is to be mocked. Infertility, is such a hard thing to deal with, add to that snooping relatives and an ungratefull adoptee. No. Not a good idea. Pretend! Pretend! Pretend! Or if the couple has enough cash, and the cause of infertility has nothing to do with the mans swimmers and the womans egss, opt for 'GESTATIONAL SURRROGACY', that way you have your own biological child.

@Bashy, just listen to what you are spewing. WTF? Yes, i guess you must have married an illiterate or something. You bought a car in your name and took it from her, and in your home you are king? You should have stayed single. Most chauvinst and sexist men like you harbour a deep seated self esteem issue. You are with your kids passport? Abeg, abeg, e don do. As long as you got married in the church, you are bound by the matrimonial causes act, and the law will always prevail, its the court and not the church that will order you to pay alimony. You are going round and round in circles, maybe its time you call one of your smallies to satisfy your lust and forget about this topic.

@Bashy, lol. Of course you are afraid of child support and alimony. Believe it or not, if you got married in a licensed church, you wil still be bound to pay alimony and child support, of course in Nigeria, the woman can not kick you out of the house. Simon Cowell, can be afraid all he wants, he has done the right thing by staying single, maybe you should have remained single too. There was no law stating you must get married. You are married, you chose to get married. End of story.

@Bashy, you are so funny. Unless you got married under a tent in bar beach or in one of those unknown churches, then you have nothing to worry about. What so many men and women fail to understand is that getting married in a church duly licensed to carry out marriage rites is the same thing as getting married in court, your certificate will still be submitted at the registry, and your marriage is still bound by the matrimonial causes act applicable in Nigeria. So stop beating your chest about a matter you really do not understand, if you got married in a catholic, Anglican and many other authorized churches, you are in the same boat as your friend, do not get it twisted. What are you so afraid of anyway?

@Bashy, seriously i think its time you stop posting on this thread, you are starting to reveal a very weird side. Its not just the fact that you think every man cheats, now you did not marry your wife in court. why did you get married in the first place? You sound like your wife is a slave in your house, i almost feel sorry for her.

@Bashy, exactly. Have no idea where this thread is going. So many strange/dirty talk going on, maybe we should just sit back and watch.

Enough   with   the  pathetic   cynicism   about   trusting   women.  Just   because   some   mariied  women   have their   brains   in   their  p.u.s.sy,   does  not   mean   you   should   paint   every   one  else  with   a  bad  brush.  @Op, flee from temptation. Temptation will arise, but my brother flee and do not look back.

Can we not see and understand that the end of her relationship was the last straw that broke the camels back. We seem to enjoy the 'she killed herself over a man' part of the story. Woman was depressed, had loads of issues. I wish she found a way to get past it, and that would have been easy if Nigerians even understood the gravity of the disease called depression. i feel sad for the parents who will forever be changed by her selfish act.Can we not see and understand that the end of her relationship was the last straw that broke the camels back. We seem to enjoy the 'she killed herself over a man' part of the story. Woman was depressed, had loads of issues. I wish she found a way to get past it, and that would have been easy if Nigerians even understood the gravity of the disease called depression. i feel sad for the parents who will forever be changed by her selfish act.

@Sarcastic kpele. Seems your marriage is not a happy one, and you are just sticking it out for the sake of the kids. Too bad, you will probably end up being a very resentfull man(or woman). your kids will eventually grow and leave, maybe then you will walk out of the marriage. So many wasted and unhappy years. Sorry.@Sarcastic kpele. Seems your marriage is not a happy one, and you are just sticking it out for the sake of the kids. Too bad, you will probably end up being a very resentfull man(or woman). your kids will eventually grow and leave, maybe then you will walk out of the marriage. So many wasted and unhappy years. Sorry.

This argument over Amy Winehouse? Ok. I almost feel no sympathy for her, she was in a society that could have given her all the help she wanted, but No! No! No!, a million horses could not have pulled her to rehab. RIP.

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