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Nigeria and their love for mysterious deaths. The woman probably died of cardiac arrest. Nothing mysterious about that. Sad but true. May she rest in peace.

Original post by Ivie Edobor. Please anyone who can help bring her enstranged hubby, Mr. John Edobor (a staff of Zenith Head office, Risk Management department and living in Yaba districts) to justice should inbox me. Thanks.

Dear friend,

To shed more light on my ordeal, this is my story.
Two years ago my husband kick me out of his house along with my 3 daughters ages 9, 7 and 4. I was forced to move back to my father's house and struggled to provide for my 3 children as he completely neglected them and even took them of his medical insurance provided by his office Zenith Bank Plc. After much struggle, I finally got back on my feet. Got a great job, enrolled my kids in a new school and rented an apartment for my 3 kids and I. About Easter time this year he decides he was to be part of my children's life again. I allowed him access to the children as I felt we could be civil to each other for the sake of our children. At this time I had started putting my documentation together for the divorce process. Early hours of June 19th on my way back from a function, a friend had parked right in front of the gate of my apartment to press the bell for the gateman to open the gate and let me into the compound when suddenly he was rushed at and attacked by a man waving an object. The first impression was that it was an armed robber trying to rob us. My friend(a man) pushed he away but he came charging back; at this point I looked out the opened door and realized it was John Edobor my enstrange husband. Before we could react a group of area boys showed up but rather than saving us from the assailant, they joined him. The proceeded to be my friend on the floor giving John the opportunity to focus his attack on me. He used a metal bar(wheel spanner/ metal rod) to try hitting me on the head through the opened drivers door but I shielded it. Not satisfied with that, he turned to the passengers door dragged out to the floor. I landed on the floor with my legs extended where he proceeded to hit me on the leg continuously with the metal. When he was satisfied he was about going back to join the area boys who had gathered my friend when my neighbour who had heard my screams for help and seen from his window a man striking someone on the floor thinking it was an armed robber, numbed down his balcony with a machete to save whoever was being attacked. On getting down he was faced with my enstrange husband whom he had prevented from entering my compound without my permission on 2 occasions so he recognised him. It was at that point he overpowered John. The area boys recognised him as a member of the security team for the street and backed off my friend. By that time I couldn't stand up and my leg was bleeding profusely. I was rushed to the hospital where my jeans was torn off my leg to see the nature of my injury. The injury was so severe that my broken bone torn through my skin puncturing an artery in the process. Almost 3months and 2 surgeries later, I have titanium plates and screws to keep my leg in place and I am unable to use my right leg. I still have my 3 children to care for and my life is at a stand still. The perpetuator was charged to court and released on bail 3 days later. Now he moves around freely carrying on with his life. Now is it wrong for me to cry for Justice.

gentleagu:
Op i marvel at your stupidity.....after na singles ladies go come full Shiloh and Redemption camp....As long as you discourage them to disregard "being submissive", its better the woman stays single, cus either no reasonable man will come or there wont be peace in the home. BTW submission is not slavery

so if the woman is not submissive, there will be no peace in the home ke. I see!

lgboks:

wow no-3 is so out of line and not entirely true
Being submissive doesn't actually mean she becomes a slave.... even the holy bible advice women and wives to be submissive to their husband.... so if you advicing ladies to not be submissive it just doesn't seem right.
Don't get me wrong here, am not saying ladies should act like slaves or act dumb or do some thing silly for her man.....but being submissive to her man(in the right way) well that never goes out of style

ehen they have seen the word submissive.

To each his own. if your guy feels awkward dating a tall girl, let him find one of average height.

Stop with these ridiculous rules already. It will not help anyone. Most men will cheat and many more women are getting on the bandwagon. It is normal, you get bored and you find something new then come back to the old, familiar and trusted person. If he is cheating, just nicely ask for an open relationship. Monogamy is overrated anyway. #yawns#

If he cheats with you, he will cheat on you. Get with the programme girl, aint nothing so special about you and your pussy is not made of flo ridas gold buggatti. A man who had no respect for his wife and his vows of fidelity? Women are just so gullible and silly sometimes. Why are we our own worst enemy. Move on and find your own man and pray to God he does not find another woman outside who makes him happier than you do, for you know you have sown, best believe you will reap it.

Why should she want them and not ask for them? Abi she be deaf and dumb ni? All these ridiculous cinderella rules! Op are you not a bit too old for all these?

Ijele-igbo:
Actually I feel Kanye's passing a message!
Figure it out this way........... I remember the Jewish soldiers put that thorn on Jesus head as a sign of mockery as being the KING OF THE JEWS!
I feel kanye's trying let us know he's being crowned as KING OF HIP HOP......

wow, you have made so much sense. See how you have spoken with your emotions intact and I do believe you are right. He is probably saying he is the king of hip hop. It is nothing to get upset about really. Kanye has always been and will always be very controversial. Be his fan or be not....it is always about choice.

poor woman, what a miserable life she must be living. a life without a man to call her husband. that is a life condemned by the evil forces. i bet she cries every night into her lonley pillows....God give me my man, God give me my man! her heart must be heavy. to be single at 40, imagine the trauma. poor child. her life is incomplete, makes no sense and should be pitied until the man who comes along in his shinning armour brings back colour again.....abi?

Was it time out for the court or what? There is something not right with the brains of these two people. From the sublime to the ridiculous.

Then change the freaking chanel. Abi na neighbour window you dey peep watch am? Or your DSTV has 3 stations ni? You see my problem with self righteous people like you is that you are not morally better than any of the housemates, but you must be seen by the public to be a moral person. You must appear moral and sound moral and act moral, but yet in your closet you are as immoral as they come. TV is for information, education, relaxation and some people choose to relax by watching BBA, let them be. It is a show for adults. The world will be a boring place if the entire TV content is intellectual. Live and let live. Life is quite simple.

Hahaha. This man is all kinds of crazy but I still like him a lot. This should give a lot of obssessed christains something to talk about.

The kind of unselfish love many people keep dreaming of exists only in the movies. Face it! Human beings by nature are very selfish, most things they do is because they will gain or benefit from it, this rose tinted view and butterfly kisses idea of love neeeds to stop. The sooner the better.

Entertainment. You understand it does not just appear on ur screen? You have to subscribe to it right? So if you do not want to watch it, fine. Do not bother your pretty head trying to decipher the purpose and aim. Perhaps you have too much time on your hands no?

The most useless way of living in whose context? If they ask you to swap lives now, you will do so without batting an eyelid. Hatters gonnna hate huh!!

What exactly do you mean by you can not dance? Everybody can dance. As long as you can move your body and shake any part of it, you can dance. You have been brainwashed to think that you need to dance according to a rythmy in an alingo, kukere or whatever else is in vogue. It is simply not true. Your weddin day is a happy one, no one will b watching to see if you are getting down to the latest dance steps, once the music is one and you are surrounded my happy family and friends, just shake your body and smile. Do not worry about how you look or what people are thinking. I like to think of dance as a happy movement. You are happy, move your body and you will be just fine.

@chd, as i said earlier, do you and i will do me. it is nice you are going to church to build and develop your spirit. i wish you luck in the building process.

it is funny when grown ass men and women use the term, husband and wife snatcher. what? since when did men and women become objects that can be picked and snatched at will? we need to stop putting the blame on the person being cheated with and start holding our partners accountable for their acts of indiscretion. i can imagine, how easy it is to blame the other person, but it is totally uncalled for. That being said, i wish people will have a little more respect for marriages and stay away from married people. women especially, becoming cheaper and cheaper by the day, willing to open their filthy legs for another womans husband and mostly for hair and gadgets. If all single women kept their legs closed to married men, then those randy things who think with their dicks will have no one to cheat with.

Try agin one or to more times, and then forget about her. carry on though if you have the time for games.

THis just goes to show that the hydroquinone is messing with Tontos brain cells.... are her own(TontoS) mates not married with kids? women are sometimes just very shallow and petty, now LINDA ikeji is less of a woman because she has no husband.... i better find that my annointing oil and go and start living in MFM and pray and fast for a huband before society burys me alive.

you want all the christ embassy rangers to come out brandishing weapons of destruction on you abi? continue at your own peril oh, me i have to take cover.

I go to church when i feel like, and most of the time i do not feel like sef, so it means i hardly go to church. for some people this church going is like an obsessive compulsive disorder, they can not help themselves, they have no relationship with God, but their brain has been hardwired to wake up every Sunday morning and head to church. some people have given reasonable answers as to why they do. it is all good, my philosophy is live and let live..... keep going to church in your Sunday frock, but please quit asking me every Sunday morning the same old question..... did you go to church today??

bukatyne: Are you waiting until you get married so you can start praying and fasting abi?

my dear are you not aware that majority of Nigerian women spend all day fasting and braying and binding the demon, meanwhile the demon is the cheating husband living with them and sleeping in their bed. she will go ahead and marry him, then move to the church campsite praying and fasting for Africa......

Limaoscar: You diss Nigeria, diss the Pastors and the Society and all you had to say to op was "you two take a trip and talk"?
You are such a pathetic pessimistic disaster to marriages. People like you should NEVER offer to type any form of advise to anybody on Marriage matters.

@OP,
Please you both should see a Marriage Councellor that comes recommended or your Pastor if you do have one. Most Churches actually have trained Marriage Councellors. If you are in Nigeria I can recommend the Pastor in Charge of Family Life at House on the Rock. Reve (Dr) Yinka Akinbami. I trust God to fill you with Wisdom and heal your marriage by the day so you don't make a bad decision because so far you have handled things well. Blessings!

stop it at once, this need to brandish God at every given opportunity is the reason why Nigerians keep praying and praying while folding their hands and refusing to attend to things before them.be diagnosing churches and pastor there. HOW SURE ARE YOU THE op is a christian?

@lamaroscar, there you go prescribing one pastor from a particular church. Gerraway from here. People like you and their obsession with their pastors irritate me. I have adviced the op as best as I can, there is no marriage counselling here, women and men are told to endure the crazy institution known as marriage. Let her talk to her husband, she married the man did she not? I am sure they can both work their way back to love and trust again.