Too many hypocrites developing daily. Most of the people who gather in these new genaration churches, go there to belong. To show off new cars, new clothes, to be associated with a certain trend. In fact these days, church is trendy. You all going on about not forgetting God, do you practice what God says you should, how many of you walk according to his ten commandments and do exactly what he says? You go to church only as a religion, and then back to square one on Monday disregarding every other thing the bible tells you to do. Thos of you who go to church for the sake of it know yourselves. God is everwhere, and I do not think I will be turned back from the gates of heaven for not attending church on sunday.

This is an emotional affair my people, and an emotional affair for a man is deeper than a physical one, when a man falls in love from his soul, he falls hard. It is very hard to break such a bond. Its better your husband is sleeping around for sex with no emotional connection, than for him to be in love with one particular woman. As someone said 90 percent of married men cheat, there is still a percentage of men who are principled enough to stay faithful, and you better belive that, but emotional affairs are not planned. It happens to the best of us. If your husband manages to sleep with this women that will be the end of two marriages, because that will seal the deal completely. As I said, talk to your husband, see if you both can work something out, he may need your help in this.

Pray tell which marriage counselling do we have in Nigeria? People just open their mouth to talk anyhow. Is it the pastor who will tell you to stay there and pray that all is well? Or the society who will tell u where do you think you are going? Endure oh, marriage is all about endurance. ? My dear, trust is already broken in your marriage, and trust is like a mirror, you might try to fix it, but you best believe you will forever see the cracks. You might never be able to trust your husband conmpletely, and the onus is on your husband to build up that trust. Did he meet this woman after the marriage? Or was it during the marriage they met? You two, take a trip and talk, let him know how emotionally broken you are, and try to remember why you two got married in the first place. An emotional affair is usually harder to deal with than a physical one.

Apparently it is difficult for you to state an opinion and give reasons for the said opinion. We are not kids, statements like you already know the answer and you know it makes no sense.

We eat food to stay alive, do you go to church to stay alive? I am really interested in knowing this, as I understand there is a difference between being religious and being spiritual. Some people go to church every sunday religiously because it is what they grew up doing, they have no idea why they are going to the church, but they are just used to it.

Is God not in your house?

He will get fed up one way or the other.

Cool peoples. Men, you guys have it easy sha in this world. Women 30 and unmarried, your mother will start sending you deliverance messages.

And a husband makes you less shameless? Its a hopeless situation.

Just like having pre marital sex is disrespectful to the parents who brought you up.

@Atheist, e be like say I go dey fear oh, anytime I see your name.

@Aluta continua, is atheit Don Corleone? So I should speak on a point based on the username of the person replying? If you read my posts, I never mentioned God or bible, I simply said, I do not know why they had easy birth, it was what was written and that is why pple wish pregnant women delivery like the Hebrew women. I replied with humour to let it go, because frankly everyone is entitled to their opinions and beliefs. If I say amen to something I regard as a prayer, then it should be left at that, as long as I do not force the next person to say amen too. Please let this Hebrew women and their babies popping out of their vajajay be put to rest. I will like to be a man in the next worls, what will you like to be? (Insert whew icon)

@Handsome emmy, thanks for putting it like that, I did not want to start bringing in bible quotes and God into this otherwise humourous thread. I think maybe we should leave the Hebrew women to be and get back to the discusiion of what you would like to come back to the World as.

@Atheist, you are asking me very strange questions, someone said to me earlier one that I shall give birth like the Hebrew women, and I said amen. Why? Because the bible said the Hebrew women had painless and easy births. How am I supposed to knwo why ? I was not there, I can not explain why. I have no idea, but it is written like that, maybe we should ask whoever wrote it. No?

@ Atheist, I am not sure why it was painless and easy for the Hebrew women, the bible just says that they had easy child births, that's why people say to a pregnant woman may you deliver like the Hebrew women.

@J12, but as a man, you can also touch and handle your dick na.

Their childbirth was mostly easy and free of paiN. Some women are fortunate enough to have such painless deliveries,, they tell you I did not even know when the baby popped out.

There is nothing ill in what he has asked. Stop acting like a prude and simply say yes it is ok, or no it is not ok. Many of the people acting like Op has asked a weird question do stranger things when it comes to sex.

Pump blood in the name of menstruation.hahahahhahahhahahaha. Chai! Amen oh, I shall give birth like the Hebrew women.@Atheist, it simply means childbirth shall be easy breezy for me just like it was for the Hebrew women in the bible.

OMG hell no, I am not in that minority. I have even picked names out for my unborn kids, I just understand the freedom of choice in matters like these.

It is glorious as you said, but still not as exciting as you think it is. Some women do not derire childbirth just because they do not want it, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. And no, I do not mean that a woman wants to sleep around, I mean that it is easier for men to be hailed for it while women are called cheap. A woman can not win.

@Atheist , the joy of child birth is overrated. I will rather have the child without the pain and swelling, which is what you men enjoy. Having a child to call yours without going trhough weight gain and swollen feet an multiple orgasms...hmmmn. Believe me few women are lucky enough to find a man who can bless her with multiple orgasms...you men have the freehand to bed any woman and be hailed as a player, woe betide a woman who loves sex with different men and she is called a w.h.o.re.

Neither of them will even think of living with us. Not now or in the after life.

@Atheist be honest. Where did all the chocolate, bubble bath and scented candles story come from? Is it not lifebuoy soap and rafia bag sponge you mean? Just kidding! Sure, bathing with your lover is always fun....great sex happens in unexpected places.

I will love to come back as a man. You men have the world as your oyster.its a mans world and the women have been conditioned to serve them, so I will surely like to come back as a man.

@Jennykadry, why so violent...? The guy has asked a simple question. Everyone has a kinky side and one weird turn on or the other. Perhaps having intimacy on his parents bed gets his boat rocking. Live and let live no?

No need for any prophecies @Fussboat. I know you mean well, but I have no shame laying about for any man to take away, I will not burden a fellow human being with such task. I am complete and happy first as myself and luckily I have found a man who is now my fiance to share that happiness with. I completely understand the African mentality behind such a ludacris statement, but in this day and age ,it is sad to know that some people still think like that. That's the problem with so many young women, getting married so the man covers their shame, jumping into marriage just for the sake of being married and being calleld Mrs somebody.

@Nashville, you are right, my brain did not even put two and two together like that. Wow, imagine that! A paid w.h.o.r.e as a wife..I mean a man can not get any worse.

Join the CIA sister. Say amen!!! You can never ever identify a player. Some men have been hardwired to screw whatever nice looking girl they can lay their hands on, some have managed with discipline to screw only two or three and then very very few have been guided by sheer will and principle to stick to one woman no matter the temptation. My advice is just do you, stop trying to identify a player, you just might let a good man go by trying to follow ules and play cop.

A woman who acts that way to her husband has absolutely no regard and respect for him. My goodness, how can you travel and galivante as you wish against the wishes of your husband. @Op, you are not her owner neither you you try to chain her to your side permanently, but there should be a level of respect where you are concerned. I hate to break it to you dear, but your wife is having her nice and damp path cleared by some other male. Warn her sternly, and make it clear you will not be blown off like a kid by her. And who says you can not borrow money from your wife? Why then is she your wife? All this archaic reasoning bothers me. Seems we take two steps forward and eight steps back. Man up oh and set your wife straight before you tie wrapper and gele in that house.

From so many replies, it goes to show that a good destiny equals riches and power, open your eyes my people a very rich and powerful man may not be what you all see him to be. There is life beyond the flesh.