₦airaland Forum

theButterfly:
Not every woman is money-hungry or materialistic. The right woman for you will love you, irrespective of how much money you have.

True shaah, but they are remaining only 20 in the whole of Nigeria.....

Thegeneralqueen:
Ladies listen well and listen carefully don't settle for less go for the rich guys all these broke guys opening threads daily saying they can run a family for 30k are all fustrated even their sister's can't marry a man that earns 30k not to talk off friends.......They're all out here looking for who to trap they should go and marry their family members with 30k not us

What you should be advising ladies is to go for a man with Vision....
I know many ladies who married rich guys without even knowing the source of income,some married a man living a flamboyant lifestyle, now they are back home to their fathers house suffering and regretting for not staying with that broke guy who has made it big legitimately....

Na your type de enter one chance for gbese....

The News of this guy always gives Buhari and APC members goosebumps....
But Baba is busy doing so many classified underground work across the globe

Sure this ain't one of their pranks cos this guys no one knows when they are serious....

This exactly what u get when u allow radicals and ragamuffins to flourish in your premises....

The only Marley i know was a bulb(Bob)

YungJo207:
Let just keep hoping it doesn't happen cause if it does those same people too will be affected none will be saved from it.

They are fully aware of the consequences, reason they will keep doing anything to appease the sheeples

Tolulopefinest:
Juventus vs Sassoulo
I picked Juventus to win.
That was my last game on the ticket to win 10 million.
I was already feeling like a millionaire because I was sure Juventus would win. Moreover, they're at home.
But the result of the match leads me into a great depression.
I pray to stop this shit !!

That was same game Ronaldo blocked Dybala's shot from entering the net when the scoreline was 2-2.... Chai, ur village people capitalize on CR7

aojully:
worldly and satanic way of life. He would have just played d video btw d two of them and end the relationship privately.

Then he will start explaining in words why he called off his marriage abi.... For a real nigga, this is the bestway!!

Michelle55:
This is not good at all ... What do some women really want?

Good question oO...
Give a woman money, she will start looking for someone with more money...

Give her big dick, she will start looking for someone with a bigger one....

braimeddy:
The groom went too far in doing this. He couldn't have exposed the video since it also involves his brother. He could have simply walk out of the relationship

Which brother?? Then u didn't read up the whole story... The bribe was accused of having an affair with her Pregnant Sister's Husband....!!

YungJo207:
This government no go get sense until there's a cry for revolution from every corner and the people stand up....seems that is what they want and I won't be suprise if it happens.

But unfortunately, this can never happen in Nigeria, as far as 80% of the Citizens are willing to accept peanuts as bribe at any opportunity been presented to them by elite ruling class....

Next level indeed.....
Lai Mohammed, same man that fought tooth and nail as an opposition against PDP & was rewarded as a minister is now telling people there is no benefit in scorched-earth opposition

Inside Life....

Lemme pullover for more comments...

Hmmmm.... Ike Nsi everywhere

Mad oO.... In as much he cashed out bigtime this yuletide period, The only problem i have is that the prices of fowl has skyrocketed beyond measures, imagine getting one at the rate of 6-7K this December, it means we are on the verge of getting them at the rate of 8-10K by next year.....

It was an agenda/insight of how Nigeria will transform in terms of project execution and infrastructural development but the vision has since been abandoned as usual....

Biafrareform:
They dont even know me. I have agreed to let him see her. But he must come visit me with his family and everyone that once made mockery of us when we went to talk about the pregnancy. I will so embarrass them ehhh. Make them come, i dey wait for them

Lol.... That's my nigga

Brunosamel:
Hello guys, I have been worried about this issue.
I just graduated recently and am at the peak of my career trying to shape up my life for the better future with my girlfriend, someone that I have been dating for the past 6 months.

We have so much in common and built our relationships with love and trust. The journey wasn't easy but we were able to settle our differences and understand each other.

Recently she met a childhood friend whom she had a crush on when growing up, but the guy never asked her asked to be his girlfriend never said anything to her cuz he saw her as a small girl then.

The guy is into business and has quite established himself. Last 2 months the guy asked her out and she told me about it cuz she needed my permission whether she should go or not and I said okay she can but it will only be first and last time she will go out with him.

To cut the story short, last night I called her line and she was on another call for more that 30 minutes. I confronted her about it and she started crying, was begging me that she was sorry and that the guy is really disturbing her, asking her to give him a chance, to the extent that she should leave me for him, he will give her anytime and even train in the university.

She told the guy she can't leave her boyfriend becuz she loves me so much. I was dumbfounded and I don't even know what to do about it cuz I don't have the resources (money) at this moment

Relationships gurus what do you think about my situation I need your opinion and suggestions cuz I love this girl so much and want to settle down with her cuz she suffered with me and I suffered with her.

Say whatever you want to but just be brutally honest with me....

This reminds me of when i was doing my diploma, I forced my then GF to church, there she met a girl, after just common ordinary 2days, The said girl introduced my girl to her Cousin bro....
The next day omo....!! na better clean ride come pick my girl as a hustler, i no even shout
To cut the story short, That was how i lost my girl....

@OP.... When Money enters into any relationship, it comes with confusion, if u think am lying, observe ur girl from now on, They will buy her an Iphone (Most convincing factor) she will start looking dapper, getting gifts you can't even afford....

Just forget the girl and move on bro, after all, if they no do you like this, you nogo get the vibe to hustle well

Lightangel65:
That isn't broke, broke is when you can barely take care of yourself

Then this post doesn't concern the Igbo tradition Cos you must buy goat and yam for Umunna

Lightangel65:
It's a priceless piece of advice to save you from much trouble and suffering you future kids

I code... But a man that can pay his bills and stay comfortable & live beyond his means shouldn't be tagged broke

Niyeal:
How can u allow a woman to hold your scrotum(ball) for a very long time.
That man killed himself

Same here o...
I was thinking how a man can stay and watch someone grab his manhood from close range until he died..... What happened to Mike Tyson KO aimed at the Jaw

Lightangel65:
I see different posts on Nairaland about girls not wanting to date or marry broke guys, you can't really blame them. In this world men are bread winners no matter how much we talk about splitting the breadwinning with females it can't happen, even if she is rich that's the world we live in.

If a girl should get married to a broke guy what of if he doesn't get rich, that's a life of poverty and also damming you children's future.

It's better to make it first, before thinking about marriage and women.

You would be surprised when you have made it women won't even be on your wishlist, there is more to life than women (there is games, movies, food and much more) you can also adopt kids if you feel lonely and can cater for them. And marriage is not for everyone.

It's different strokes for different folks....
I have seen situations where marriages breaks barriers and bring forth financial breakthrough in the family....your spouse can be the key to unlock your financial freedom!!
So don't just wake up one day after eating Xmas rice and meat and be forming motivational speaker on social media by scaring away hustling men planning on getting married....

MrStan11:
You can't treat somebody as nobody. Just to send a message sometimes madness is allowed.

I swear.... This is not the case to even debate on!!

MrStan11:
Tell your sisters husband to start abduction process on the girl.

Legally the efulefu has no say.

Secondly, ask your sister to invite him to the family house, then make sure you use matchet to pursue him and his people.

Thirdly, the girl will know only what you and your sister tell her as truth. Make sure you spoil her mind over years where that idiot dey.



You can't just get a woman pregnant, run away without support and return after 16 fu. kin yrs to claim paternity.



Since naija no get law, we creat our own law.

The 2nd point Mad oooO......!!

iamosmania:
Which kind head you get ?
We dey talk about law you dey talk about culture
Who culture help?

There is a customary law binding cultures and tradition as well....

Biafrareform:
Good evening all. I need your honest opinion on this .

My elder sister was put in a family way 16 years ago. The guy responsible, his family rejected the pregnancy Infront of my family .

We took her in, cared for her and she gave birth to a lovable baby girl . Dam, she is so pretty and was well loved.

She grew to become my pet . I loved her with all my heart. Infact we all loved her .

My elder sister is married . She has told her daughter that her present husband is her father when she start asking questions.

She is done with her secondary school and currently running a fashion design program . I planned on sending her to the Uni once she is done with her program .

Just got on phone with my sister now and she is telling me that , the dude that got her pregnant family has been disturbing her to allow them access to the girl . That they are ready to train her to any level .

And she is considering telling her daughter the truth about her birth .

Can you imagine the nonsense. I have warned her not to do that not to talk of giving them access and I am currently furious right now . After 16 years of loving this girl, someone is now claiming father .

Please how do I handle this .

People are just talking shit, because they don't know what you and your family passed through in the cause of catering for the child....
But i understand perfectly due to past experience with my sis, it happened to us...

Now they want you to forget the shame of giving birth to a child out of wedlock....

The Cries of your Momma blaming herself for scoring F in parental guidance....

The extra adjustments and sacrifices y'all made just to accommodate an unplanned circumstances...

The Money and Time been channeled in catering for the girl knowing fully well it should have been avoided...

Bro/Sis all of the people giving you advice to forgive easily and grant the man access are all mad....

-The man must give a clear and concise reason for coming back to his senses after 16years, if he claim he was young and naive, then what about his parent, were they also young and stupid??

Secondly there must be utmost signs of repentance and gnashing of teeth before he should be allowed to see her picture self

Ndi ara Ndi ara everywhere......!!

Alexaonfleek:
Na your sister fu¢k up
Sometime last month,a thread about deadbeat fathers was discussed.
The fact is that you can't deny the girl the rights to see her biological dad.
What you guys should have done at the beginning was to drag the father and make sure he has at least a financial impact in her life.
Now the man wants to reap where he did not sow.

Tell your niece the truth,but make her see the biological dad as a sperm donor,after all that's what he was.Still you guys should forgive the deadbeat dad,at least for the sake of your sanity.
It's actually up to the girl to decide what she wants,she's not a kid anymore.
Most likely she'll forgive him too,but the bond can never be replaced,and she won't give him the same respect and love she'll give to the present husband

How do you drag a mAn to bear the financial impact on a pregnancy he and his family rejected right from Adam....??

God bless all the gallant soldiers out there....
Rest on sir....!!

#Salute.....

Mad ooO..... That's the prayer of every good parents out there

TechCapon:
Goat. You conquered England.

As if that's not enough, you landed in Spain and you conquered Spain.

As if that's not enough, you challenged yourself further by moving over to Italy and you conquered Italy.

As if that's not enough, you conquered Europe with Portugal.

You're the real goat.

Meanwhile one player is hanging on with one club as if his life depends on it. Scared that if he leaves, he'll be exposed

Eya.... Okwu N'kasobi, So CR7 Arab rich men in Dubai decided to honour him with an unopposed award, that's very nice of them.....!!