@Op, its sad to see that you have disconnected from your culture...and you might not marry that girl based on this.....lemme give you the meaning...


1) Coconut: it is believed that the water and seed in the coconut boosts ones knowledge. coconut is a sign of increase in knowledge.....

2) Kolanut: this means your union will be fruitful.....


3) the other black stuff ( forgotten the English name now, but Yoruba call it Orogbo): this means the two of you will grow old together.....


in conclusion, they just prayed for you two and your not touching it means you didn't accept their prayers....you are not ready for marriage. sorry

Nnamdi shouldn't have been released from the onset...that guy deserves no freedom.....


he is a big threat to Nigeria with his freedom...

ishiamu:

Your manner of death will be worse than theirs

terrorist alert! that's how they start....
cc Seun

I'm still expecting your call @nairalander2015.....08025838714....even if it's a flash

meraki:


Am guessing you are male and if my guess is correct am not surprised you are "toying" with joining the "workforce" and even contemplating getting married in DLBC even with all d toned down "marriage committee dos & don't's".
The female members got the worst end of the deal!

lolzz...sister, marriage committee is not easy doh but I learnt letting them have their way and considering my position....I started off with telling them I can get married to the same girl without them....with that in mind, they softened up....cuz I'm good at standing my ground and the lady too....we've both learnt how to deal with issues and satisfying all parties....and guess, the girl's parents are leaders too (no nonsense people).....TGIF

meraki:




Mr "real deeper lifer" is it suppose to be about the "progress" you or your parent make in the church or about your personal Christian race to heaven? God is not interested in your denomination or status in the church or whether you were in this or that position? Remember "by their fruits ye shall know them" and if you manage to get to heaven by the skin of your teeth, your so-called work will be tested by fire at the bema seat.
So don't get it twisted!

Sister I understand you perfectly well but until our parents understand that we are in a new age what we the kids have to do is to live that life of sacrifice till we stay on our own...I've walked that path and I'm living fine all by myself now and still attending the church...I still watch my darling Real Madrid and I don't joke with any Nigeria match whatever grade....just finding my way to satisfy all parties....the bible said " obey your parent in the lord for this is right"...we just have to obey them...and all the leaders that meet me are always proud to relate with me and know my mum...in fact all of them call me their son....I'm even toying with the proposal of joining the workforce....

we are the ones to bring the much needed "adjustment" to that body....God will help us...

meanwhile, I've modifies my comment, go and read pls....thanks

interleukin:



What is this one saying?

So you were born to live for your parents? I won't be surprised if you grow up and raise kids in a completely selfish manner , giving birth to kids into a full time/lifetime job of protecting your reputation at the expense of their own life and happiness.

What a depressed and unhappy lineage that will be.SMH.

You probably don't have an issue with the way your deeper life parents raise you, but this Op does.

lolzz..I'm a happy man and my kids will so enjoy me as my fiancee is doing too....that our parents do things wrong doesn't mean I'll do same...that's why they sent us to school and we are more versed than them...we are in a new age but don't have to do away with the old time religion.. just a few modification here and there and we are fine...

I'm touched by your pain....we need to see things differently....only a few parent will see fire and tell the children to put hand in it...and NO deeper life parent will do so...but they can't be right every time...wish I have tie to share some things with you.....av fun

go read up my modified comment...tnx

@Op, I think I need to meet you one on one...... agreed your mum is harsh but the sad truth is she wants the best for you and don't know how else to go about it but being direct....

I'm a deeper lifer too...and my mum has been a choir up till now and added to that, she is a woman coordinator....she was kinda direct in bringing us up (4 of us)....and guess wat, I came out d better for it...

See these people telling you to rebel don't know what they are saying cuz d Bible said, a child left to himself will be a disgrace to his father...its a fact your parents cannot allow you do things your own way, but you know adults now, they'll want their decision to be your actions...

and another thing is, if you are a real deeper lifer, you'll understand that we the children of leaders don't have a life of our own because the progress of our parents in the church is tied to how well we the kids are living the "proper" life we are meant to live...and as you know, it will be a disgrace if your parents are suspended from being a worker just because of your own "wayward" attitude...I can understand them but its not the perfect way for them to curb your excesses.......

Guess what, from the four of us, I chose to follow my mum's hard teaching....and with all humility, I'm better off than my siblings... I'm working now with a six figure salary, my own apartment, and I'm getting married in the church, presently sorting things out with the marriage committee....


You see, I found a way round that while not loosing focus...I do "things right"....what made me follow her was not because I want to but because of the discipline she got several times cuz of my siblings...and I don't want to toe that line..never ever...I sacrificed my comfort and Life for my mum's hapiness...

it was tough but I'm fine now....in fact people are wondering how I'm managing to cope in deeper life...but I'm doing great....


you can call me up 08025838714 let's talk...you are my brother and I won't let you waste away

ArodeTsolaye:
Make una dey bomb dey go as long as you keep it there in your north. No qualms, keep bombing, it's your right.

You just made a very silly statement.... don't you people have brain to think before writing? wat kind of human being are you?!

It's those oworo boys that do carry out that act...they came to our area three weeks ago..we had to improve the security measures in our compound to keep them away...and don't be surprised that the police in that area actually know them very well.....

babasanti:
I love this . I'm proudly 5% . The PDP is sleeping, apc is strategizing while pdp is just watching acting as if there was a prophecy that all this will happen but are the end pdp will still smile and apc cry. Apc are acting like Michael coreleone in the movie Godfather when he tried to kill hyman roth 'I need to wiPe out everybody. Apc wanna wipe out every thing pdp, they don't care even if its illegal. And the pdp is just watching, the so called war lord and millitants are watching waiting for apc and buhari to blin there one eye before the retaliate. The pdp,youth and militants in the nigeria need to use amaechi as a scape goat and send apc and buhari a very strong message so all this intimidation, anti dictatorship will STOP. Jonathan as the leader of pdp need to stand up and take responsibility. If he can't do that he should denounce the pdp publicly let wike,fayose,Dickson and co know they are on their own. Rather than unify the country, buhari is dividing the country more and he feels they will never be consequences. The north, south west, amaechi and apc should keep cheering having fun but when the table will turn against them, there will be a huge party in the south- south and south east even if its the death of an individual. we the 5% will celebrate that death . Pdp GRIP uP! Take the game to apc door step. Whether the north had bought amoury and weapons to fight before the elections if Gej has won, is not an excuse to chicken out and lie low. If nigeria will divide , it will divide. I urge the religious people of the south east, south south to come 2geda too and cry GOD. This philistines(apc) you see today soon you shall see them no mOre. We will not be intimidated. This is not 1998, this is 2015.

lwtmbfho..... preacher preach on...effects of taking garri with hot water...

muhyideenabdul:
You must be gushing rubbish, if corpers do not depent on govt, who else? Think wisely before posting jagon, senseless statements. May be you want them for stealing, postitution and robbery for survival.

I'm so sure u ain't a graduate cuz if u are, u should v bin tort wat dey call manners...u lack that..

go back home to learn before replying my comments....

I full ground dey wait.....

**shouts**....BM, I no dey work again abeg...I wan hear good news.....

****enters d kitchen n settled down with a cup of water from the dispenser*****....loosen tie...madam give me rice I won't b able to finish with tough meat...


let's go!!!!

kilode100:
Her Toto go hear am noni.

I remembered when I banged 5 guys in different locations sameday


I used to be bad o

the way guys are following u on this forum ehnn....he surprise follow itself.... is it cuz of ur naughty talks or wat self....can't follow the bandwagon doh....


u try well

Why haven't the Mods ban this thread?! are they waiting till when things go awry?!

cc: Seun, lalasticlala....make una send this thread into extinction abeg

akugbemike:
Awww!!

Who is the Governor of Lagos State?

Or Education was not among his campaign play?

God, please open heaven and send an Angel to Nigeria.

You and those people that liked your comment need to go and register in Modupe Cole ASAP....no time keeping you on the streets

ekemini606:




What is with ur head?
What is with ur head eh?
What is with ur head and not understanding that public figures are held to the highest moral standard...not to be compared with average citizen.

Where have u seen Obama clubbing?

so because he is a public figure, he should live a secluded life abii...so he should because of you people live a fake life.....

Awaye20:


U are talking of organizing lesson for students.. Lolz, come Kagara for Rafi local government in Niger state where dem go expect u to do lesson for deir students wey no even understand English at d rate of #2000 per month. .... Den u go hear am

see this guy, wey me dey charge #800 for primary and #1200 for secondary for all subjects o...wey u dey collect #2000 u no happy..

ziky2010:
I don't know y d OP is wailing.I served in kwara state and I didn't collect 1 naira from the state government likewise others.The truth of the matter is that some states are not paying and if they stop paying,y d noise.Just accept ur fate and manage the 19,800 from the federal government

are you minding all these lazy people? always depending on the govt before they can breathe.....make dem go Kaiama or baruten now

Mr op, u don't have to complain. I served in Kaiama local govt, kwara state which is about 6hrs journey from Ilorin compared to about 4hrs journey from Lagos to Ilorin and the state govt didn't pay us a dime!

Service year is meant to serve your fatherland, we people often expect that we get something in return for our service to others.. the federal allowee is the most important, all others are secondary, they are not a must. the govt can choose to cancel wateva remuneration they had planned to give corps members.

when you know you need money, why didn't u organization private classes and home teachings the way we did then in the villages. parents were eager to bring their kids cuz they wanted them to be like us too. stop depending on the govt for survival.

shalom

people with their hypocritical and double life style....they condemn people but do the same thing for which they are condemning.....what is the guy that saw him and put it on Twitter doing there too when his mates are with their wives at home and strategizing how tinz will be better for him and his family....

#sillypeople......

And that's how Jonathan's godfather abi na hero is going to end his fumbling life the ibori way.....please make dem extradite Jonathan follow am cuz Nigeria's judiciary is wack!!!!

Really?! So these people are just commenting without reading?!....And they'll be the first to mock PEJ, GEJ and PMB for blunders or wateva......See what yahoo-yahoo, nairabet, bet9ja, and all other fast money stuffs have led us to......so many educated and uneducated illiterates roaming the streets.....why won't unemployment be high?! why will level of poverty not be high?! When so many "leaders of tomorrow"....youths...can't use their heads properly.... Nigeria's future is in a very big trouble!

tunde1200:
If Saraki be your brother or father can you wish them that?
This is propaganda only almighty will remove Saraki in that position if he want, even PMB no fit.

Nigerians wit sentimental way of thinking..... the question is, is he guilty or not... even if he is my father or brother or not....he should face the music....look at yourself and tell yourself the truth and stop being biased and sentimental.

Only heaven knows the kind of brain that tonye guy has....I mean who acts silly all of the time and thinks he'll get same result?

In Osho Baba's voice.....
Saraki GO AND DIE!!!!

so sad for Africa and Africans.... black mind, black soul, black thought...we are our own worst enemies....when are we going to gt it right...for once...just once!....why do we hate ourselves this much.....

illiteracy is killing so many people.. and poverty has turned many heads backwards....

as my father always say "you can't sell your family member cheap and buy him/her expensive".....

The youths of these continent especially Nigerians, Ghanaians, South Africans, who are supposed to synergistically build the continent are the ones washing their dirty linens outside...

I so pity our future.....

BraniacX:


Whateva!!
Let them declare it in line with their campaign claims and promises

SMH4U

BraniacX:


Let your soldier and lawyer publicly declare their assets first before perpetrating the biggest scam ever by being worth billions of dollars four years down the line

as regards that you can activate the FOI act.....for you to think in the way of the last line of your statement shows who and what your thoughts are.....

barcanista:

It is good that you argue with sense. What is this military man and lawyer man doing here? Is Buhari the first and only Military man? Is Osinbajo the first and only lawyer? Will anybody complain if the appropriate thing is done? How can someone be shouting "I will probe this" without investigation for a lead? Have you seen any sane country that probes base on speculation? Let's be guided.


Btw: Your effort to tarnish Kukah is exercise in futility

So in your heart of hearts u believe he has not investigated abii....who are really those complaining really? do they have the interest of the county at heart or their selfish means? is it that you as against this government cuz ur people lost or you are being objective? we should stop being partisan and approach issues with open mind and objectivity......

thank you

Anyone who says OBJ is not corrupt should be shot with a bazooka