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chybykee:
Nawa oh.... but Chidinma fine oh

Who is she? Never heard of her. A singer?

It's either she's just getting off an escalator or the picture is photoshoped. Even dwarfs are taller than this.

What language is this? English?

Now I know some people wish they are mentally challenged, cos of the talents. Not for no damn N50, 50% of the reward sounds better.

Nigba non ko?

I swear i don't understand what this thread is about.

The fact that you said a woman dumped you could translate to being lame.

Why? It's less men out there than women - statistics.
Even if every available man in the world decides to stick with 3 women each, some women will still be left over and available for the available men.
Pls don criticize this if you can't relate it to statistics.

What exactly is the purpose of setting up the committee of wives for top Lagos government workers? What do they do for Lagosians?
An opportunity to show off I guess. I bet the funds spent on the event came from the government; not from their pockets. Yet the wives are not government employees.
This appears to be some socialite club that we yorubas are known for. Parties and agbo sha, since the days before Ayinla Omowura...

If the committee has touched any lives apart from musicians, please elaborate.

With all this, a poor thief stealing a bag of rice is set on fire or imprisoned by a judge, yet all the judges and some politicians are scared of one man. Nonsense.

The pix doesn't show they lasted that long together. They could be newly weds.... old people marry too.

Chanchit:
Thanks for taking time to explain this. Man this is a serious issue, everything has its advantage and dis'ad, cos ladies have abused this privilege. It means I can't give my di ck the liberty of taking decisions on its own if I live in the us unlike Nigeria.

Lol. Many men have fallen for this trap already. I know many that had to flee back to Nigeria because they fell into traps like this.
One of my Nigerian friends here in the US, will be celebrating his freedom in two years and he's all excited. What freedom? He got himself stuck with a woman like this over 16 years ago. She had her third kid for him, the first two kids from two other baby daddies. He's been making child support payments to her for 16 years, I'm sure the other men were doing same too. Now he's just waiting for the remaining two years it will take for the kid to turn 18. He lost his jobs a couple of times and couldn't make no child support payments and got locked up them times for not paying for child support.

Now his plans afterwards is to visit Nigeria to see his family after about 2 decades here. The kid in question, he can't take with him. He also plans to find someone in Nigeria to marry and bring down here. You know many girls in Nigeria think a lil weird. Some only care about being brought to the US, not knowing what the man is dealing with here or why he chose them in the midst of the so many women here.

Messed up, right?

Chanchit:
So who would pay the bills of the 4kids too,the man?

Women like this are all over the place in the US. Four kids from four men means getting child support from four different men. That's how messed up the system is.

So, most likely she gets money from each of the men every month until each of the kids turn 18.

Men that don't pay child support usually end up locked up or with suspended licenses in some states. Some men cant even work anymore because child-support is automatically withdrawn from their pay checks.

Depending on how many times some men have been hit by women like this, some men's pay check is less that 10% of what they actually worked for. The rest is taken by the system, for their various baby mamas and taxes. At the end of the day, men like that don't see nothing in working anymore and would rather hustle to make it on the streets. I guess that's why many American women like foreigners, we work and get the bills paid.

I've met several women like this. They spend extra much on their appearance and cars, in reality, their only income is from men they have kids for and the tax refunds they get on each kid during tax season. Some of them let others claim their remaining kids for tax reasons, which is illegal.

If she doesnt want any more kids, it's most likely because of the tax return restrictions - you can't get tax refunds for more than a certain number of kids in the US. That's another part of the women hustle.

I won't even trust using a rubber for someone like this; I know a lot of dudes messed up from dealing with her type.

Goodluck to those guys that like her appearance and don't mind her having the fifth kid for them. Additional income for her.

If "night", and "light" mean the same thing to you, I'm sure many other words would be. I'd say ure probably better off talking in the dialect you're comfortable with. After all, it's all about communication.

gab264:
#Not funny #
I don't go near girls at all..
Am still searching for a reason to do so.
They are too annoying.

Near girls at all? Or near girls like that? If the first is the case, bro what are u into?
I asked cos it's several things we read about some men these days; gay, castrated, into animals, impotence, underaged etc. Hoping none of that is your portion.
What exactly are you into if you don't mind explaining.

menix:
Buh u look am, ain't she looking like that camel on front page..

Yes, she huge and really not all that. But somehow she still has fans.

ExInferis:
He is.

Identity Theft.

Igboes can steal anything.

Lol. Bad guy

He paid for a return flight for you to come and see him in his town, obviously both of you lived far from eachother. How did he end up with your best friend? Met her online too?

I'm saying cos I'd assume your best friend lived close to you, which probably would be far for him. Unless you met you best friend online too.

He simply may have not been attracted to you. Raping you is wrong, but some boys would say why would you fly all the way down there without wanting something.
The story seems made up though.

ExInferis:
One yoruba in a sea of igboes equals a drop in the ocean

May be the forced him to do it, he's not the type, right?

ExInferis:
Are they from.....

......yep.

Na them.

Monsuru Ademola is not one of them o. Lol

I'm waiting on Akpabio's driver to post his own part of the story. If nothing is said about the man driving the car, and the man sitting in the back at the owners corner had to be flown overseas and he's making so much noise after he returns.
These politicians must think everybody is stupid at this mordern age, whereas na them mumu pass.
They all need to be replaced by smart, young and brilliant Nigerians.

This shameless man still never find somewhere go hide him wowo face. Who ask for him opinion?

bamidele029:
We have seen the video of your disgrace already

He's making false statements like this video is acted. What an embarrassment in his own hometown. If his people don't like him, I wonder why he won't be facing all these charges.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0dLLbpXrYlA

SFSNIPER:
Most Beautiful Creatures Ever.

Huh? Snakes?

buygala:
See last-minute Sallah hustle



I honestly don't give a damn about the policemen's death . ... Na the bankers death and the now impoverished local government workers dey bring tears to my eyes

I wouldn't say that about dead people. They have family members like us all, and their death actually touches everyone in their lives, that may be bankers as well.

EgunMogaji:
Dude you misunderstood me.

US and Nigeria are not the only countries in the world.

Go seek another country whose moral compass matches yours. I just don't understand folks that complain instead of taking action.

I wasn't complaining, i have no reasons to.Neither do I have any reasons to go to any other countries in the world, I've experienced much of life overseas and only shared what my thoughts were with OP.

I refused to be held down by any system and I can brag of the rewards. I'm fine the way I am and I'm glad of what I've accomplished that many I met when I returned here are yet to start working on.

Sorry if ur expectations was that I wanted to return to Nigeria the way it is at the moment. Neither did I complain about the US. You may want to re-read my original post- the message was clearly to still think about doing something back home versus getting entire consumed by the system like several have been.

Raymondville:
Enjoy your money while it lasts...
Do u care to reduce your tummy and cut down on excessive fat from your body, click the link below

https://www.nairaland.com/2572413/natural-way-reducing-tummy-fat

Are you calling Davido fat?

12inches1:
And I thought I was the only smart one. To summarise what this guy just said. 30 years from now in that u.s, what will be your legacy? You can't even own a home or own a piece of land. At best you'd be an immigrant with with children that have no roots. Even with your citizenship the best you can be in the u.s is a minority

Bro you just hit the nail on the head. Right on. The big picture is what I encourage folks to look at.

justwise:
Then that makes you a hypocrite, somebody reading all you said about US and living there will think that you will be taking the next available flight back to Nigeria. If US is that bad for foreigners and got nothing to offer you then why are you still there?

I've heard that before several times. I was actually born here in the US by Nigerian parents, but I lived in Nigeria through most of my adolescent ages. I came back to the US about 12 years ago right after I graduated in Nigeria. So I have a decent knowledge of what's happening where I was raised especially with helps from following up with current happenings that I read about in forums like this.

Don't get me wrong, I don't hate the US or any country for that matter. I never even mentioned coming back to live in Nigeria, so where did you get that from?

I can be either in Nigeria or the US for however long I want, I chose to be where favors me at the moment. I visit Nigeria quite often but chose not to live there at the moment even though I have investments back there.

Why leave a place with good roads, steady electricity, safety, steady income, etc to return to loud generator noise, police/area boys extortion etc, weird judicial system etc?
It was ok when I lived there, for me today, it's not same in every other country ive visited, and I choose not to go backwards.

So, why do u think I'm a hypocrite? Cos I chose to live elsewhere ?

Can you find a friend to stay with temporarily? You risk so much reporting him. In my days in school, I've seen deans, lecturers and administrative staff that belong to cult groups. So, your name may not be as anonymous as you may expect.
I've had to vacate my room once in school for the leaders of one cult group. They liked my room and the lil effizy i had in it and started staying there more than me. Rather than report them, I just looked for a friend to stay with until the semester was over and moved far away from there.

justwise:
When are you moving back to Nigeria?

Not sure I'll move back to Nigeria, it however pays me to flip-flop between both countries. Both places have opportunities. When one however finds himself entirely immersed in the system in a foreign country, it's difficult to know what their home country has to offer.

So, in my opinion, the smart ones are the ones that choose to leave the comfort of a foreign country sometimes and explore what they can do to make their home country better, or better still setup something at home.

Bollinger:
You are still going back to my point about thinking long and hard before you make decisions. See all those points you just laid out? well, i got a job that takes care of all that for me. No student loan, no daycare. Everything is taken care of by my employer. And i mean everything. It's a hard job, but it's worth it. All i got to think about is work period. Everything is on auto pilot. Many naija boys be like "heckdaphuckno, i ain't doing that shiit". Just because they want to parry. Well, to each his own. Hard choices bro.

Proud of you bro. Let's pray it stays that way.

Stelvin101:
Whoever created this thread is carrying out a serious survey on why Nigerians can't move this country forward and the person is really getting a positive result. Y'all moda4ckas claiming different countries, nor be people work together and build those countries? Silly Nigerians. Instead una to fight corruption and bad eggs in government, y'all moda4ckas dey there dey find Obodo-Oyibo una wan run to. Na only God go help Una. Am ashamed of u people

"Naija remian Naija, come rain come sun"

Would you say the same thing you're saying now if you're presented a Canadian, US or major European country's citizenship tomorrow?