₦airaland Forum

tosyne2much:
I check am begin shake head oooo my brother... Market must sell on Nairaland nah

tosyne2much:
Hahahahaha

shaybebaby:
So the punishment for child neglect and Infidelity is a beating?

Nigerian's still reasoning with their arsehole.

The woman can stay with her ex, she doesn't want to be married anymore.

The child taken from her due to neglect, dad can raise the baby on his own.

Bill her for contribution towards financial upkeep for the child.

Move on.

But the violence, it's a no-no.

donnffd:
Even as much as the woman did a very stupid and irresponsible thing, beating her like that is very much uncalled for, like seriously, she is not an animal, even animals deserve better treatment than this.

A civilized person would handle this issue without resulting to violence especially one against a woman...

I am also appalled by the reaction of many people here supporting the man, its disguisting and barbaric...

FunkyAlhaji2015:
I totally abhor domestic violence but I don't know whether this is still domestic violence cos it took place at the club . I take side with the man on this one

nikkypearl:
No be bweast i dey see so

NwaAmaikpe:


Theres no need being remorseful.
It's a total waste of remorse.

After all, she is being prosecuted for the crime.

Human beings are so wicked;
They want you to still be remorseful when they are busy punishing you.

LegendaryArnold:
15 billion and look at the below average standard of thebschools

olihilistic:
Do a surgery on your Nose..

JoeClef:
Warning to All Male Romancelanders

This is to all the guys here on Romance section.

I don't like what you guys are doing to the female gender here.

The abuse and the stalking is too much!

Yesterday, I was online and got messages from 3 different female Nairalanders. Two on WhatsApp and email.

The first one said, "Legend, I have been trying to deactivate my account for more than 20 times now but it isn't working. Maybe it's network."

I teased her by saying, "Climb a pole to get a better reception," and she laughed. Seconds later, she sent me a screenshot of her deactivated account and I teased her again by saying, "You see? Now you've climbed a pole, it worked," and she laughed my calling me crazy.

As this was happening, I began to wonder why she deactivated? This forum is fun and educative 60% of the time. "Why did you deactivate?" I asked. "Male Nairalanders are assholes," she replied.

Now, let me analyze this. Some of you (men) read online where some dating coaches say women love bad boys. The moment you read this, you become excited, create an account on social media platforms and start abusing innocent women for no reason or maybe, you want to be seen as a bad boy.

My brother, you're doing it wrongly. Good-bad boys don't abuse women. They're smart, intelligent, and futuristic. Only typical bad boys (aka touts) abuse women. Good-bad boys "tease and lead." The only time they abuse women is in the room—I mean, satisfying her in za oza room—be it slow, rough, or BĎSM.

Minutes later, another female Nairalander messaged me with the title: I Deactivated. Then she wrote something which I won't say. I was surprised, so I asked, "Why?" and her reply was about guys stalking her.

Minutes later, another one again. "Ah ah! What's going on? Abi una do deactivation meeting?" This one was about stalking, too many PMs, and abuses. These same people abusing her are the same people PMing her.

If she doesn't reply because of too many messages, they start to stalk with alternates or create a new thread with an alternate to abuse them. No real man does these. This is childishness. Rejection sucks, but men should learn to deal with it. We've all been there.

One thing you guys should know is, lots of monikers you see with (m) and male names are actually women. Some people posting numbers when a Nairalander shares money or credit are women. They have devised a means to hide under a male moniker. Almost all female Nairalanders have a male moniker.

And another thing for the guys, if all women deactivate, this forum will become boring. The yin and yang energy is what's keeping this forum fun. The feminine and the masculine energy is contagious, except you've been Bobriskylized.

If all these girls leave or secretly convert to male monikers, most of you guys will deactivate saying this forum looks too archaic and boring. Only those who use this forum resourcefully will stay. What you guys are doing is to the detriment of my boss, Séun. He won't be happy knowing you guys are making him lose visitors.

I'll give you guys some tips.

1. Stop stalking women.
2. Stop abusing women.
3. Stop asslicking women.
4. Stop bombarding women with PMs.

I'll use myself as an example.

If you really want to have your way here, be known like Explorers, Airfoce1, Tosyne2much, Lefulefu, IamSinz, and many more.

You can't be unknown and want her to reply you. If you don't have the time to make yourself known, then forget about female Nairalanders and focus on making money.

Another way to be known is to make sensible posts like Explorers, controversial comments like Nwamaikpe, be friendly with the ladies like Lefulefu without asslicking like Deadrat, or be unstoppably on your lane like Airforce1. It's called, "IDGAF. I dey my house. Cum and beat me."

All I'm trying to say is, you must stand out. No woman wants to associate with the unknown. If you're unknown, then you should be intelligent or rich.

You can't be unknown, unintelligent, or broke and expect a woman to reply you. This is not about gold digging, but replying sensible and potential men.

The people you mingle with will influence your attitude and this is why women want to mingle with the best or at least, the known, or the intelligent.

Read this: I haven't PMed more than 5 ladies here. The only ones I PMed were to wish them Happy New Year. I didn't woo them.

You'll be shocked to know I have 500+ Nairalanders on my WhatsApp. Most are my students / clients. And I have 1000+ Nairalanders registered on my site.

Everything happened in less than a year. "How did you do it?" you asked. It's my darling secret. I won't reveal it yet.

In summary:

Stop abusing women like IamJ thinking you'll be seen as a bad boy. No, you'll be seen as a tout and a hoodrat. #Yaga

Stop asslicking women like Deadrat thinking it will make you appear humble. No, you'll appear desperate and needy. #Skiboroboskibo

Stop mentioning your crush in all threads to appear lovely. No, it'll make you lose your value and appeal. #Zagadat

Stop stalking women like that guy that stalked Ivyy or Mimzyy last year. I don't even know his name. #OBO baddest.

Stop bombarding women with unsolicited PMs and don't even solicit for PMs either. Learn the way we do it like smooth criminals. #Yes o! Nothing dey happen

"Wisdom is free but kneeling and asking God for our portion of weed is where the indolence lies." — Joe Clef, 2017.

Stop smoking everything you see. Smoke wisdom, not weedsdom.

Best regards,
Thank you.

Joe Clef (iLegend)
(www.wetclef.com)

LadySarah:
Irrelevant rubbish story!!

chibabe259:
This is seriously serious!

raker300:
Nnamdi never forced anyone to bow to him...

They do so out of respect.

The oni on the other hand forces his subjects (yorubas) to bow to him

They do so out of fear...

Who is a better man now?

chibabe259:
That's the reason behind your collapsed breasts. The more you keep sampling different men to select the right person, the more such men continue harvesting your breasts and your hairy Stadium.

SatanPikin:
Stupid biafrans go die tomorrow

Diiet:
What is wrong that Ooni honoured the invitation of those youths? Don't presidents also visit schools and take pics with youths? does that dimimnish their honour or reduce their status? Is this how low you have become in your reasoning? In this same year, Canada celebrated its independent day and only Ooni was invited in the whole of Nigeria. God bless Ooni.

Sage7:
Let's cut these SARS guys some slack.....some of them leave home hoping to return home safely at the end of the day.

These guys face killers day in day out, they act strong but deep within them is a kind of fear you can hardly notice....they sometimes stumble on the innocent out of fear of the unknown.

In NIgeria, you must threaten a culprit to make them obey....only if you knew!

Hungry thieves everywhere, you can't drive safely along Oshodi....Carter bridge....Apapa road....they are everywhere...if you fall victim to this thieves you no go dey harass SARS

OboOlora:
OP, buy all those 'HOW TO GET RICH' books they sell at Marina, read them and you will be rich.

Spanner4:
Lola is older than Peter

They said anyway that age is a number when it comes to love but I am still not convinced about that

Queenlovely:
My junior brother caught the priest watching pornn movies. Through a crack in the wall.
He became an atheist immediately.
They should just leave the man alone. A priest does not equate to god. He is human after all.

25 years ago my brother joined st kizito seminary and he was sent home for having introduced other priest to mia Khalifa Porn.

baski92:
lol even buhari enter churches not just one, if PMB if enter wetin stop them from entering

chibabe259:
Any man that cannot drive a woman to Orgasm naturally, is a walking corpse. Such men should be ashamed of themselves.
I call them 'dead men in the other room'. Some of them can make mouth of how they gonna handle a woman as if their dicks are in their mouths but when the jungle matures, you'll see them breathing like a lizard that was pushed off from an Iroko tree. Pls men, stop making mouth go and take care of yourselves. My little advice.

DeutschJunge:
Mr. Man that dog needs that protein more, you get bingo they call am pitbull

chibabe259:
FATALITY

GameGod:
"He Will Not Go Back Alive" - IPOB Threatens To Attack President Buhari In South-East (Video, Photos)

And they kept on denying that they aren't terrorist. Now tell me what different between them and Boko Haram


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=duUrr13QII8?t=2

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1631938590177630&id=206270189411151

oprah007:
Hi everyone. Happy Sunday. I am a guy of 30 years of age who graduated with BA Degree last year. I couldn't go for youth service because of my age. So I decided to get myself an apartment and started hustling and hunting for job. I recently got a job which promise a great future even though the pay at the moment is not much. I also have a girlfriend who school in one of the federal polytechnics. My father is a Pastor, pastoring a small church in the same state I live.

Now the issue at hand is that my father wants me to leave my apartment and move back home (until probably when I am ripe for marriage I guess). He has been on this for quite sometime of which I told him I can't move back home with them at my age and moreover, its a rented apartment (My parents never build house).

Today, he dropped a bomb. He commanded me to pack all my things and move back home to come and help him with d church within 7 days else, he will see to it that I am sacked from my new work in one way or the other and also threaten to pray to God to make my girlfriend jilt me (coz she is one of d reasons why I don't want to move back home according to him).

I don't want to move back home at my age. I always pray against it as I see such act as pointing to a backward step in my life. I have managed to setup my apartment to taste and also aiming to marry my present girlfriend.

Do I yield to my father's "come back home" instruction or do I stand on my decision not to? PLEASE ADVISE.

chibabe259:
“ I have endured too much sex. He has sex with me every day for about six hours , to an extent that my private part became painful . I fear I will die having sex. ”

She added , “ I am employed , but my husband has no job but to keep having sex with me"


Shameless woman, ordinary six hours sex per day you no fit endure.

GloriaNinja:
SEEK FOR THOSE HAUSA BOYS THAT MAKES MANHOOD DISAPPEAR, MAYBE THEY WILL SOLVE YOUR PROBLEM.