The best way to help the guy if you really see him as your younger brother is to try and ask him what's happening in his life and what he would like to do... Try to see how you can empower him... It's after then you can come in if the problem still persist... It's not compulsory you empower him, neither is it compulsory you try to Intervene in his personal matter with his dad... The matter may be bigger than you... So no just go throway the small respect the boy get because of you... But if really you can help him, then help him be meaningfully busy with his life....


If you can't help him, just let him be ... Las las they will find a solution...

I will not sugar coat words ...

She left you because you are broke and time is not her side...

You did well by letting her go...

But make sure you reject her her if she ever comes back to you after some months or years....

jahlove4jah:
The worst thing to happen to you now is to loose your job.

You have made the mistake.

You have also taken the best steps to show how sorry you are. It's up to her now to decide if she will forgive and sort things out with you. Don't pressure her to do that her let her do it at her own time.


Focus on yourself and your job. Don't let this one mistake ruin you.

FACT... I pray he doesn't lose hi job cause it will not be funny especially in these trying times...

placeofallure:


I agree with most of you saying he should stop begging her.

He did bad but he's apologised.

Men have ego and if they can stoop to beg.... Who are we? Even God forgives.

I had a scuffle with hubby yesterday afternoon and he said things to me. In the evening, he came begging. He took back his words. It was a moment of anger, which I am responsible for. He then made promises of things he'd do just to appease me. The way he was reeling out promises, I felt pity, I had to let go. This morning alone, he's delivered three out of his promises. What else?

My problem here is why would she zip up for 2 months?

What has the man done that she found so unforgivable that'll make her to just recline into her shell?

Mr. Man, stop begging really. I believe in communication. She should talk to you before this issue degenerated to this level of having to leave the house.

Later, when the dust is a bit settled, seek to talk things through with your father-in-law. You might get lucky. Good luck to you man.

Nice one... Wish you and your hubby better days of favour and understanding in marriage... You have a reasonable hubby... You also acted well by not prolonging the matter ...



Nice comment by the way...

allahkaduna NZEOGU will ask
#why you #why me #why us
why must it be you that should be brotherzoned... Why not Kwame...

If you had stopped begging her and focused on your life and daughter... She hardly would have moved out from your house... Now that she is out of your house.... Stop begging her... You have lost your dignity and self esteem in trying to make up with her but to no avail...

Maybe you need a slap to reset your mind but something tells me even if Nigerian Army beats you , you will always remain the way you are...

Unigrad:
Nigeria defenses should avoid penalty, they are seriously looking for a penalty.

it was suppose to be a penalty against Nigeria... Handball by Ekong...

The sad reality is that Nigeria has only two political parties in reality... It's either we vote for APC or PDP despite both of them being evil... Las las make we choose the lesser evil...

When God pick your call, even if you no sabi trap ball like Philipo Inzaghi , you go still dey start match and score goals ...

Another married woman will be among the contestants

fykes:
It's because you are a spiritually awakened soul.
You re a deeply spiritual person, ur spiritual vibration is higher than most normal humans.
U will also notice that u are drawn and react against issues like injustice, dishonesty, and other vices.
You will also find that u have an insatiable appetite for knowledge and often worry abt things others won't even consider.
U are ur own best friend, u r most stimulated mentally. You hear behind the words and read behind letters, u can feel the mood in an environment especially negative energy.
U are seeker of light...a true disciple ad there are so many of your kind...highly sexual and very energetic, highly intelligent souls yet with a thick moral fibre.
It's not a vice...it's a great virtue...
It will take u very little stimulation to interact with the spirit realm.

everything you wrote here is 100% me...

Op in as much as I will say you are very wrong but I must also say that your wife is a highly manipulative wicked soul... The worst part of it is that you don't even know she is heartless that is why you keep painting her like a saint....


Your story is a lesson to all men that we should learn to handle issues with our women without violence or rape because the woman will have something to hold on to use against the man in the future...

This woman already has you where she wants and you will keep apologizing foolishly... Unfortunately, even if I tell you to let her be and give her space , I know you can't keep to that because you are already under high level manipulation.... It would have been better for you to even have a side chick than to be violent towards that manipulative soul looking for excuse to perpetually keep you under her spell...


I will not be surprised if she is already gathering evidence of rape that she will use to make your life useless both in your community and on social platforms like Nairaland etc... You married a bitter feminist ... Unfortunately, she has succeeded in manipulating you to do what you may regret for the rest of your life...

portplus:
If we use there days as Governor to judge...there choice will be easy.

You are right... And if we are to decide who will loot Nigeria more, the decision will be very easy...

Heavance:
I can't even advice.
I just hope and pray a lot of young people are reading the comments, to know its nit about how fine the pre-wedding pictures are (which sometimes turn post-wedding pics), or how fine the uniform (aso-ebi) cloth is, or how big the day is....
I think people need to be asked serious questions, questions about life before they get into it.... Questions like, what if you find out your wife/husband is cheating after 2 years of marriage, what would you do?
What if your husband /wife is so disrespectful after 2 years of getting married?
What happens if another women turned up that she is pregnant for your man?
What if he/she is the type that reports everything in the house to his/her family, without regards?
What happens if he/she becomes abusive?
What happens if he/she becomes so lazy that they don't get involved in house chores, and dirty habits sets in?
What if life happens and one is hospitalised?
What if life happens and financial aspect is really affected that to eat becomes a problem?
What happens if your wife change and your siblings and mother are not comfortable coming to your house anymore?
What happens if your wife and your mom are not on good terms?
What happens when you are not crazy about each other again, when those energy for love has vanished, what do you think next?
Then finally they should think, what could lead them to divorce?


I believe these questions will help all young people know what they are going into, and know how to tackle whatever wants to damage their home...those questions are the reason for those plenty talk of in sickness in health....
Forget all the fasting and prayers, leave religion out of it, these questions are reality check.... In fact, it happens after 1 year of the wedding, check many homes, this things happen steadily.

Wise questions I must say..

Lol...

Psoul:
One bathe them
The other one rub them anointing oil
And the other one gives pants.

You see this thing called women,
They don't have brain.
How can they be so gullible.

Just as you are so gullible to believe this skit... The man in question has been doing similar skits for some years now...

Rilwayne001:



All these amongst many others..

Everything you wrote that you discovered, I also discovered it... Nice one... It was as if I was reading what I wrote when I read yours..

TheKingsmann:
I honestly don't have anything bad against him whatsoever, but he should know his limits, I felt so angry when he told a married lady that he wants to have bluefilm with her, if you were a female would u have love such joke? like I said earlier there are some limits to some things, he can have the liberty to clown around , no one gives a damn but telling someone that's married that he will pay her to have sexual intercourse with her is way bad

RoyalBlu you are free now, I guess he has been banned by the mods already.

Anyway I understand, we may not understand eachother... I use to be like you, I think I hmeven attacked him once cause I misunderstood his person ... But it's all good..

TheKingsmann:
The way he disrespects people on here, he must be banned, how can someone be a troll for more than 10 years? don't he have anything to do with his life? even others dat were clowning everywhere back then have move on, let him move on too and get a life

a troll that adds humour to what he does.... People already live very serious lives outside nairaland, so nairaland may just be another means to unwind... Anyway sha, I understand some persons will always be misunderstood.... I too misunderstood him some years ago on this platform ...

KarinaLove:
I have a good Ass but I can never snap a backside picture of it to Post online.

I don't just fancy snapping or posting such.

Nuwa Nembe togu..

TheKingsmann:
Leave the pumpumking aka mrcork to me, I will make sure he gets banned, the troll keeps going around disrespecting people and using vulgar words on people

You already know he is Mr. cork.
So why do you want him banned? The guy is just catching cruise and giving some persons like me something to laugh about... He is the funniest clown or comedian on nairaland... Nairaland is actually boring without him...

My regards to the Great MrCock aka pumpumking

Lostchild:

Jerimoyamah....

Jehovah
Jesus Christ
Holy Michael

Okay

kals4luv990:
Ur prophesy came to pass just last month ontop tiwa head

Hahahhahahhahaha I had forgotten I even said something like this...

Okay

SarutobiEky:
lmao. I no get gf sir

Hahahhahha okay Bros... No vex...

SarutobiEky:
you have pictures of the said girl? Congrats bro

this one you dey ask for pictures, abi you leave your girlfriend travel today?

NwaAmaikpe:




Your girlfriend did not try.

When you arrived, she should have put on a cuckold porn for you to watch since your balls are for fancy.

He should be encouraged to store his fancy balls in deep freezer

Kuriosmynd:

I'm not sure how this is related to the shame question though

you wrote many things there and I was only expressing what I was told that relates to what you said about stories of some women being raped and experiencing pleasure at the same time...