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Oocc:
You graduated 15, 10, years ago and still no job yet. You talk to people around about it, to get help but you are mocked behind you and they talk about you and say all sorts of things.

You walk almost all the roads and streets in Lagos in search of job, still no job. Any company you go to, they tell u to apply online whenever they have vacancies.

You stay at home to search for jobs online and neighbours gossip you and say he stays at home doing nothing, instead of him to go out and hustle like his mates. They term you a lazy man.

You come on nairaland to talk about your joblessness and how you have suffered, and you see people advising and some even opting to help, but at the end, you discover it was all but a show. No one wants to help.....Nobody wants to help, even if they can. I even doubt if any man helps any man these days. Mostly they prefer to help women! I've had about 4 different Nairalanders that have opted to help, but they just stop replying when you send them the mail or CV they requested.

You lay on your bed every night, thinking, sometimes praying and crying.. ..soaking your pillows with tears, but it just seem like God is just far away.

The truth is.. ...nobody cares! Nobody gives a damn about you. If you like kill yourself inside your room......nobody cares! You don't have a job for 20 years, nobody cares! You discover that the more you tell people your problems the more they mock you and use you as a topic of discussion, and the more you get frustrated. Nobody helps anybody again in Nigeria.

This is to me and all those nairalanders like me, coming to seek for help......coming to seek for job.....Stop begging for job, stop hoping that someone will help you here. Drop that your certificate, in fact go and hide it(i just did that today) Go out there, carry concrete-in-pans on your head and climb a 3- storey building, wash toilets, carry loads for people, work as labourer on site, carry packages from container to store, carry cement, do all sorts of dirty jobs and make money.. ....no matter how small. At least you won't beg anyone, or hope on anyone.
Just do anything to survive, cos no one will help you except you.



#bowing out

......... On your own by the Prince.........lesson learned from this song... Nobody fit help so anything wey u fit do, do, even if na yahoo after all life a risk..... Either u get rich or try dieing.

Futo don't offer law or accounting oooo...... Mr op.

1stblood:
I'll send you a PM

pls..... Help a brother...... M still waiting for ur pm.

Instead of me going through this shit for A pussy..... I rather die than to kill myself.... 😁😁😁😁..

1stblood:
thanks bro.

I'm guessing what you want to ask me, hope I'll guess right tho

please teach me ways u make money online....

Guess everyman must experience..... It(heart broke)....... I have passed this stage and its has made me a man..... Women u can never trust them....... But dis I want u to know NEva give them ur heart 100% or better still never give them ur heart......... Anyway brother..... I want to talk to you about something.... Pls m waiting for ur reply..... Thanks

It ain't nothing to cut a bit*h off....... The story hold the answers.... To ur future.... Nd pls don't start 2017...like dis.

Sweet....

HDee:
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Did mmm freeze your money? [/color]

i no see acCara buy

HDee:
[color=Teal]
Did mmm freeze your money? [/color]

i no see acCara buy

? 333

If he now makes it in life.... She will be like i thou know.... Were you begin to plant na another woman go come reep from there..... I don't know what to say sha.... Since na she let her follow here heart.

Brother A lady who has porn on her phone..... I don't see anything wrong with that...... AFAR she's committed to u.......even u can't Deny that u have never seen porn movies before since tym of birth till now.....help her and stop the criticism....coz the devil u know is better than the angel u don't. If she dey sleep around na different case..... Bt that no go make u say u no love or marry anymore. Even some couples do watch porn together.. Before and after marriage.. She only lied because of the way you approach her..... That is one of the self defense mechanicanisim of women don't blame her.... Thnk u.

Like Jalinco Said, if a girl doesn't date an angel it is the devil she will date, I have gone through every advice here with people telling you this n that, let me tell you the truth, a guy will only become a player if he has experience a heartbreak or he has a close friend who has, he knws how faithful he is to her and later she broke his hrt..... M a guy believe me if u will bt dis is A guy secret m telling you....... U wrote about the guy who has as been with with you even through pain n laughter, now tell me what else r u looking for? Let me ask you... Has he ever ask sex from you you during that period ..... If no believe that is the right person u r meant to be with..... Don't follow the guy who u love, instead follow the guy that love u then later developed ur feelings.... Not just lust.....because after breaking the hrt of a guys like that..... It's not u who will surely suffer the pain In his hrt but ur fellow female that is how players r born ....after all you created a monster......all m saying guys like that are hard to come by(the guy who is with u through the pain and laughter) ...and If luckily u still meet one because players taken all over the game be truthful to him.

...........i really never planning on posting...... Bt gul if you don't hear the truth believe me.... U still be making the same mistake AL over again..... M saying from a guy prospective.............

can u please upload the file

flat chest......
even after the three years of service



..........he!he!!he!!!

congratulations ////******in***//m.i voice ****now u gat something to worry about

08115608728

even right now m also loving someone who doesn't love me






...m trying to get hold of my Insides demon .I don't want to be what i don't like...... a flirt.

lol....

columbus007:
mehn you are really into her,ask some1 to help you speak to her then,i don't really like it when love goes wrong when it's one sided,i feel you now bro,dont do more of voice calls only text her because dis kind thing fit make ur heart get muscle pull oo.

lol.....

columbus007:
Op in dis case this is lost not love,u only lost over her which is not love,relax and give her time and find the defination.

lust u say? why then do i feel happy everytime m with her.. why does it give me that joy everytime I look into her eyes .......the day I was sick, weak to stand up ....when she came to visit..
how come i find that strength In me to stand up from my bed walk down stairs and up again.. ND lastly why is my heart been broken now... I cry sometimes when I see that the way I love her i don't love anyone else......

halfricanadian:
why are u with d person
why is d person with u

nd many more liks dat

y she's with me i don't know. why m with her is because of i love her so much for right now she is in pain and I want us to face it together..

maikbanj:
Osas you carry this thing reach here!

bros u self knw say i no fit go babalawo house..... na here be where I go find help

RelationshipPro:
She doesn't hate you, but love you just as a friend. I think you should respect her wish first. Who knows, she might change her mind when she observe that you respect what she wants.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n81NB0tIkp8

what about if she doesn't.

gimakon:
Remove the tears. Wipe em away, you a man. Just be strong.

pls m on whatsapp my phone number is 08115608728 pls add me so we can talk thnks.

in love with a gul that has no feelings for me (broken heart )

introvert..
pervert go to church .