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Cutehector:
Naah... I guess its all abt team work.. U dnt hav to be blind.

MrsChima:
So men just so happens to be qualified in every job opportunities? So why aren't many women being hired in male dominant fields such as construction to name one?

gj22:
They arent given the same opportunities as men

ofcourse, its getting less now because of the feminism movement but its still there.

If a man and a woman apply for a job, the man is most likely to get picked without even giving the woman a chance to prove she is capable.

ofcourse you might say women dont really try but i will tell you that its what happens when you nurture someone to grow up and be submissive. Its the way society has formed them like they dont stand a chance competing against men.

Just look around you, the signs are everywhere.

gj22:
Oh really?

Just so you know, i said it was belittling not oppressive

In today's society, "man" is synonymous to "strong, in control, brave"... "woman" is synonymous "weak, scared , whinny".

You dont see anything wrong with that? or are you saying i am lying?

when a man acts scared, you call him a woman. when a woman acts brave, you call her a man. you dont see anything wrong with this?

man is seen as a positive word while woman is as a negative word.


Let me bring it down to something you can relate to... racism

have you ever wondered why no one cares if a black man is racist to a white man but once the white man says the N word, everyone goes gaga?

gj22:
Take a look at history. Women had no choice in matters at all.

You hear of a woman wanting to become a doctor and her dad tells her "there's no point sending her to school"

Statements like "a woman's place is in the kitchen"

Girls doing men's job are actually laughed at and called men-like names

Girls doing weight lifting or in the Olympics get laughed at.

All these are social oppression.

And they still happen today, they are not just history.

A man will say stuff like "stop acting like a woman". This statement is sexist and it is belittling. It implies that women are lesser than men.

Daninya11:
Guys, these rules works like magic. It's like a formula you must follow to safely arrive at your answer.

1-When a girl ignores your message twice, leave her alone. She ain't blind, she just choose to ignore it. There is no more need sending more messages. Move on to the next girl sharply..

2-When a girl accept your request, seriously typing "thanks for accepting my request" is very lame.. Do it in her inbox. Some of you get ignored when you type that crap on your wall..

3-You don't need to be a male LovePeddler. Don't woo every girl on your list. Some are good enough to be just friends with you..

4-Guy, don't be thirsty dude on a girl's post, simply hit the like button and move on. If you need to comment, make it brief and interesting. Don't go begging her to add you..

5-Bro, if the picture is beautiful like it and give a simple compliment. If it's not, there is no need lying to get her Attention..

6-Buddy, when chatting you don't spend your whole time telling a girl how beautiful she is, a hundred guys have told her how beautiful she is everyday. They find it boring when you join the train..

7-If you find yourself always starting the convo with a Particular person, like you are always the first to message her, please stop it for a while. If she doesn't notice, you are not important to her.. Leave her alone..

8- If you both don't roll, don't tag her to your pix. She might find it offensive..

9-The lesser of you, the better for you. When you are all over her wall, all over her pictures commenting and liking everything, you are less appreciated because you are acting thirsty.

10-When you compliment a girl on her pictures and another person compliments her on the same picture and she thanked the other dude and skip your name, please remove your comment. It wasn't necessary..

tushbobo:
4 bedroom duplex
Plot size= 400sq.m

Ground floor:
Ante room
Living/dining(Double volume)
Guest Room
Kitchen,Store&Laundry

First Floor:
3 bedrooms en suite
Box Room

marveangel:
There was a point in my life when I came so close to taking my own life.......School Issues....but somehow God made realize i had more to live for....For any1 who had or is still dealing with challenges of life...believe me i understand why suicide might appear the only way out but it isn't take it from me....u have a lot still to do with ur life...hang in there and don't give up just yet.

Dklef:
MY CHATS WITH A NIGERIAN GIRL : .

.

.
Me: Hello

. . . She: I

. . .Me: uhm,ok..how are you?

. . .She:5n

. . .Me: how's your day going?

. . .She: (after 15mins) 5n

Me: Please,kindly tell me about yourself
She: Y?
Me: nothing much dear,just want to
know you better
She: check my profile
Me: seriously??
She: kk
..Idiots

cococandy:
He could have just told the lady he wanted to have sex.
That's the thing with some of you guys. You don't know what you want. If she opened her legs that first day she went to visit him, he would still be the one to come and open a thread on how she's a hoe and so easy to lay.
If she does otherwise, she's still bad.

It's like there's no way for a lady to be respected in some guys dictionaries. It's in their psych. Do or don't, she will still be damned.

That's why I think she's better off without him and the so called friend.

By the way what's commendable about being a layabout?

dangotesmummy:
how much did you pay sef?


did you buy her from her parents as a sex machine. If we now look at the so called dowry the things there no go pass 10k

Roidatom:
It's been educating. How about you? What do you do?

Youngpo413:
character matters,no sane man will take a pretty biitchh for a wife.

Roidatom:
From Unijos. You?

Insidous:
_Ode!

freecocoa:
If ever there's a machine that can do everything for me including bathing me, I'll really appreciate it.


I just will cook once in a while.

Artistree:
I'm glad you got the message,, thank you once again.

Artistree:
That I don't like it doesn't mean I don't do it, I simply hate the nauseating feeling I have after sweeping.
Thank you snake.

chomytex:
I will go first..
Mine is sweeping,its not like I don't sweep,I see it as a heavy duty!
I prefare washing of clothes and dishes..
So fellow nlanders,wats urs..share it with wit us.
This's actually my first post here so let's keep the ball rolling!

Artistree:
I hate sweeping

timy22:
Hate washing clothes!
Even with washing machine , the thing still dey give me headache!

Bt still ve to do it!
God help me!

Judeoxide:
Am not having any of these problem because I realise some very early especially the " living a life people want and not the one you want" I live my life the way I want..make mistakes fall stand endure and explode when needed..because after my sisters death...although it was hard but eventually I moved on...
But my point is if you live the life people want you to live, when you die, young or old,, you will be history and every body will forget you...just live you life biko...

ColinAdua:
It seems, I have been very critical to the womenfolk.

Please, I don't hate women. Women are very beautiful, sweet and attractive to behold, but I don't want to have any emotional relationship with anyone of them, at all, marriage or otherwise.

The issues are; the selfishness, the attitudes, the pride, the arrogance, the foolishness, which leads to distractions, stress, clutters, clusters, arguments, wastefulness, anger, hate, malice, bitterness, bickerings, disorganizations etc.

Hence, I prefer singlehood for life and encourage it.

If you feel offended as a result of my stance, believes, writings and beckonings to my fellow guys.

Please I sincerely apologize; SORRY. Kindly forgive me, but I have to present the truth as I see and understand it. And I have freedom to express myself.

God bless you all.

naijainfogalery:
First of all you need someone to love you, care for you, adore you, and do anything for you these are some other reasons

1. to bring up children that will be your source of joy for the rest of your life
2. To actually take up the responsibility of leadership - it develops your leadership skills
3. It gives you a companion
4. You become Mrs
5. Its natural to get married cos thats the way God ordains it
6. You will have a family of your own
7. You will have a helper that assists you financially, sexually, materially, spiritually
8. Gives you a spirit of commitment
9. You know someones got your back anytime anyday
10. You have someone dedicated to you through out your life
11. Someone to talk to when you lonely, need advice or when you are down
12. Someone to tell you how beautiful you are and cant do without you


And please dont let anyone rub you of your happiness you are going to find someone that will love and adore you

raayah:
I am female and I agree with some of the points you have made.

Feminism has turned men into evil and abusive beings. Men have no rights and have been subjected to unfair practices especially in divorce cases and child custody battle.

However, I don't see anything wrong with men cooking and taking care of the house, especially if the wife is working more than the husband, or if the husband is a stay at home dad.
Fun Fact: Do you know that 91% of executive chefs are male?

unuane1:
No i haven't heard abt it. how effective it is?

unuane1:
l stay in Edo too Benin city to be precise. There are existing drugs already why not see a doc if u have not done so? are u on whatsapp?