₦airaland Forum

Yield: Hi!

Yield: Looks like y'all had a good time.

drnairalov: My wife scored a free Kick against me with Mikel OBI while playing FIFA 13...i broke up with her...aint no way she learnt how to do that if she wasnt taken lessons from another man *sadface

2ndChance: Ahh!!! That makes two of us, the more reason we should avoid our exes!

emmanuel4fire: My friend, the truth still remains. It is very wise for a married couple to stay off his or her ex. In the short run, keeping in touch with her might mean nothing to you, but some how and some where in the long run something stupid might happen. If not you then the other will. Many see the present forgeting the long term effect and disaster it will cause.
I know of a friend who had similar issue that almost crumble her lovely home but thank God she yielded to advise and today her home is restored. Many men have been sent to their early grave because of this. I know of a village that it is forbidden. In that village if a woman sleeps with another man or have even kissing affairs by mistake with another man and sleeps with her husband the husband will be sick and if their gods is not consulted the man will die. Many men you see this days who know nothing about their tradition and are not serving God die young as a result of this. And as you know many women will not upon up to their husband after making a silly mistake. A woman from that same village in Delta state had an affair with another man and the husband died. It was when the children fell ill that she confessed ( true live story that I witnessed).
So my advise is that women should stay off their ex so as to prevent early death of their husband and likewise men stay off your ex girl.
Don't pity before you marry, marry because of love. If you love her you will guide what you have with jealousy.
Keep your ex far from you. Thanks and God bless.

2ndChance: Please avoid your ex'es like plagues o, Okafor's Law of Congodynamics is very potent

Okafor's Law of Congodynamics

C1 + P = C∞
It states that once a Congo has been shined once (C1) , it can always be shined (C∞ ) provided it was shined properly ( P) the previous times.

In scientific circles, opinion is divided as to whether it is actually a law or just a hypothesis. There is a large body of evidence to suggest that it is a law but there are others who think it is merely a hypothesis and does not take into account other variables such as M (marital status), O (opportunity) and F (Financial status) of either one or both of the parties.

pyramid777: @OP...you have spoken well

Let me share my own story... i got married last december and my wife currently doesnt work so i placed her on a monthly allowance. My wife is really very smart cos even though we set a budget and i give her money for the basic needs at home she still finds a smart way of making me to pay for most of the needs at some point. e.g she is expected to buy groceries for the house from her allowance but when we go see a movie together at the mall she ensures we stop by at shoprite for quick shoping and i end up paying for all that we buy

I'm getting smarter now so I've had to review giving her monthly allowance to weekly allowance cos she smartly passes most of the MAJOR expenses to me...but recently fuel for my Generators has been eating very deep into my pocket

Sincerely, its been quite difficult for me to save as a newly married man