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This is wrong in so many levels...

.... Something is brewing somewhere... All we can pray for is Justice and peace...

So sad..... She was so beautiful... May your soul rest in perfect peace...

Spare the rod and spoil the child was no coincidence.... flogging is part of discipline, but moderation is the key. And it shouldn't always be regular and most of all, the child should know why he is been punished. At a certain age in children, (2-14 years) words of wisdom sounds like gibberish to children. So after 14 years, you can start talking and advising them.... but till then, when a child is stubborn, and doesn't behave, after advising or telling them what to do, flogging them will not fail to restore them to their factory settings.....

Congratulations Girl. May God Bless your home.

With #500, you can cook a small pot of dry cat fish peppersoup

You can also use it to pay the bride prices of 10 women in my village.....

LOL..... It would be terribly difficult to wiggle out of this one..

Real Words of wisdom...
No 21 is one of the challenges of friendship and family in the modern world..

How old is She.

Anger is a normal and sometimes healthy emotion, but it's important to deal with it in a positive way. So it won't take toll on your health and relationships with friends and family. In the heat of the moment, it's easy to say something you'll later regret. Take a few moments to collect your thoughts before saying anything — and allow others involved in the situation to do the same.
Once you're calm express your thoughts in a clear and direct manner without hurtful or controlling words. Then have some quiet time to yourself and don't expect everyone to think and behave in a certain way, because everyone is different... Most of all forgive whomsoever have hurt you to avoid negative build up that could later explode as tantrums..Those that are close to you are those that are likely to hurt you more that's why it seems as if you can control your anger outside... but the key to it all in my opinion is never to forget the imperfection of humans including yourself. If you do, you'll learn to accept short comings and be more patient with yourself.. if it's really extreme, You could take up some anger management classes online, i'm sure there should be some free. Ones available if you do some research...Good luck.

Congratulations to them. May they put their hands on deck to be better than their predecessors

Good One Bro

Hello, i'm from Asaba, in Delta state... currently in Asaba.... though just ran away from Boko haram

I think it's because it's highly carbonated.... you know that gas molecules move faster and collide on themselves.... that's why it's fizzy... if it's filled to the brim, it will probably be too stuffed.... try putting coka cola in a polythene lether and tie it up leaving no space for a practical example. It's will almost burst open...

His Klinefelter's syndrome must be 49XXXXY...
He seems to be enjoying and embracing it with the painted and pouty lips. Plus the twerking pose et al. It's clear he has chosen the gender he wants to represent.., he can easily switch with no challenges whatsoever...

Obiwannn:
u. based in jos?

Yes.... Grew up in Jos

emusmith:
We all know that after a break up, because of the emotional attachment, the girl (especially because her nature) doesn't really find it easy to let go. She is still very used to him: the tone of his voice, fragrance, walking style, way he knocks on your door, his best food, likes and dislikes etc. As such, when she hears a voice like his, she impulsively rushes to take a quick glance with a heart full of mixed feelings.

After you "dumped" her, her emotions produced some of these questions and she wishes to ask you...

1. Was What You Had For Me "Love"?

She needs to ask because you bought her jewelries while you had a "Jewel" by one corner. She can't tell because you said You Loved Her so often that she stopped using her initiative only for you to... Break her heart. Now, she can't trust no one because of you!


2. Did You Show Care Just To Get Me Laid?

This is when she feels she's just been used. Though she's nice- she's given a lot into the relationship. She feels cheated. Probably, you're her First Love. Just any average lady will open up when you show her Care and Attention.
She will go celibate for weeks...


3. Where Do I Start From?

A feeling of helplessness and hopelessness begins to set in. She has planned settling down with you- beginning from the scratch and now you shatter her hope and broke her heart! Some can commit suicide or even go after you. It's not good! Don't start what you can't finish!


4. Am I As Beautiful As You Described?

I really don't know what she wants to do with this information o. But I guess she's trying to get the guy to the "past" which the guy is running from- Mind games! Ladies shaaa!


5. Don't You Miss Me?

NOT Do you miss me But Don't you miss me? It's like you have to miss her.

"Yes" has serious implication. "No" sound demeaning. How to put it varies for different ladies. Some stalkers need a Big NO! In fact, you need to report them to the Police! Lol! Even in your dreams, they're still on your matter! 55 missed calls in one day! Na wa oo! He doesn't miss you! Move on!


6. Is She Prettier/Hotter Than Me?

Question 5 often lead to this.

I smell jealousy and confusion already. She doesn't even want to know if you have got a successor yet oo. The tone of her voice is usually high at this point. She wants to know. Saying this isn't helpful as it will help her hate you the more. Just change the subject or be silent.


7. How Did I Ever Fall In Love With You?

After years of dating, it's now you deem it fit to ask...OK... We all know that's out of anger and disappointment. That's still because you broke her trust.She is mad at you!

All these are from my perspective. I may be wrong even as all LADIES ARE NOT THE SAME.

So ladies: When jilted or dumped and you still feeling a thing or two for him, What are those questions you really want to ask him?

Guys: What are your experiences?

Good morning

Well when/if this happens it's normal to ask one or more of those questions... Emotions has no respect for ones achievement or social statues and neither does gender. it's not restricted to females alone. If an intimate relationship ends it creates an emotional imbalance. It just depends on how we handle it, and how close they both were. Saying it's low self esteem to ask your lost love those questions is something I totally don't agree with. Even if it's someone you were committed to for a week, one would ask some of those questions at least in their minds
But guess what, the end of the race is always the beginning of a new one. And one which could be better than the last....

sainty2k3:
Pls who is that woman beside fashola

Abike Dabiri

Chudiking:
lolz u gonna froze if you were here in apata jos

You guys are still in Apata? . I heard those places arent all that safe....

Here you dont just see feel the cold, you hear it.... ...... Those strong winds though. If you mix hot water for bathing and you dont bath immediately, you are on your own..... In church even if I come late, I must find a way to squeeze myself between two big mommas, I dare not stay at the back or the aisle. And then if you must take a bike for a long distance..........the thought of it can make you cry

Damianobi:
I wonda who will boil water jst 2 brush his/her teeth

Hmmmmm. If you know how cold the tap water becomes during the harmattan in Jos, I bet you'd warm your water before you brush or wash plates. I dont boil my water but my mum does, if your teeth is sensitive, you'll find it difficult to even drink very cold water.....

gists:
I am not a member of any political party, but to the best of my knowledge, the pdp umbrella signifies cover and protection (just like you use an umbrella in the rain and sun for protection.). The labour's wheel represents the wheel of progress - "keeping the country moving forward". The apc's broom as far as I can tell signifies cleansing the country of all the "dirts" and dusting all the "cobwebs" tarnishing the image of this country. I my be wrong on all of these because I am not a member of any party. I can see that the founding fathers/mothers of the parties mean well for the country.

But I just can't figure-out what the symbol of the apga party represents and I am sure there are members of apga on nairaland and more knowledgeable Nigerians are here to help us out.

What you said is exactly what I thought about... if it's an eagle, one would easily assume it's for great soars... But a chicken . Last time I checked it's synonymous to "slaughtering".... ever wondered why words like "Dying like chickens" is used as an illustration?. Now I'm wondering what messsage the campaign managers are passing..

lestat:
@OP bruh i know the feeling i was contemplating the same thing, the nature of my job though being 99% mental it totally exhausting, so whenever i get home the best i could do was put clothes in my washing machine, drink power horse and eat pringles and go straight to bed.. as in i was living on junk food for a very long time..
I now called up my mum and asked if she could help get me a female house help, its safe to say that the sound of her scream damaged my ear drum temporarily, she asked if i was really sane.
To cut a long story short yes, i understand the need to consider this, but realize that except its a male house help you as a single guy are not advice to take a female house help.

If you had a fiancee trust me she would refuse vehemently.. all i cam say is, buy a washing machine, get a microwave, i can give a number for a caterer who cooks for my colleagues and i, she cooks soup and stew to last a month you put them in your freezer and microwave a portion whenever u need to.

do your shopping once a month, buy everything in large amounts, stock up on cereals, oats, and every beverage you like.

The only female that should spend as much time as she likes in your house is your fiancee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I've read all, and I think this is a better arrangement. Its understandable to want to come home to a neat environment and a home cooked meal, without any kind of drama and commitment if that's your choice. If I were you, I'll take this.

I wish I had a best friend

Meat and team
War and raw

Africa is truly beautiful. Naturally beautiful. ?....... But Op, when you said "interact with the animals" and instead of showing a picture of a zebra, giraffe or elephant you chose to upload a picture of lions, Do you mean interact with their intestines .

That awkward moment when you read a topic and every single sentence has a thousand and one bullets . One may wonder where to start criticizing and countering from. And then just decides to walk past it.

Good one Op..... Baking soda is also used tontake away stinge from refrigerators and fridges. Just make a paste of baking soda and water in a small container, and after cleaning your fridge place it in and cover it for about an hour...... It returns the fridge to its odourless state .

Wow shes really fit for a mother of two