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HealthRe: How Can One Treat A Smelling 'Private' Please? by soliq55(m): 6:40pm On Mar 26, 2023
Actually douching or washing out the vagina will increase the odour. There are good bacteria in the vagina that maintain the pH by keeping it acidic. By washing out the vagina too many times, the pH increases and the good bacteria will be reduced allowing the bad ones to increase thereby increasing the smell.

Go see a physician to do a vaginal swab MCS to see if anything grows on the culture.

Good luck.
RomanceRe: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by soliq55(m): 5:18am On Aug 12, 2018
smileing:
@richy

this isn't a bad scripted movie as you think
true he forcefully had sex with me and I'm hurt
I need to help myself first before thinking of what to do to him and that's why I'm here

did you read were I wrote that we were courting? we were working towards marriage but I indicated some of the hurdles I see

but things turned sour the moment he displayed this act.
you are right cos I visited. I shouldn't have and I blame myself .i wish I can rewind the
hands of time

thanks
Don't blame yourself. No one deserves to be raped. Even if you walked naked into his house, you don't deserve what happened to you. You should have gone to the police immediately after the act to file a report. They would have directed you to a medical facility where physical exam will be be done and samples collected via a rape kit. Unfortunately it may be too late for that but you should talk to a lawyer to get professional counsel. i strongly think you should talk to someone - a social worker or psychiatrist about this in order to prevent PTSD.

The man is coward.
FamilyRe: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by soliq55(m): 4:48am On Aug 12, 2018
chukwudi3:
Ur genotype can be turned to AA nd ur son' s too. A friend of of mine waited prayerfully nd God did it for them before marriage. There is nothing God can nt do....do nt divorce! Go to chosen
I'm afraid genotypes are fixed, it can never ever be changed. How I wish the government crack down on religious centres claiming such. The ministry of health actually did a good job with the ebola situation by warning TB JOSHUA to stop claiming he can cure ebola, a virus that has 50% mortality rate and no known cure.
FamilyRe: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by soliq55(m): 4:36am On Aug 12, 2018
aonag:
Is it only in Africa or nigeria this AS SS thing happens? I have not seen oyibo person suffering from this... can someone help out please?
AS,SS genotypes are rare in Caucasians. They are more prevalent in Subsaharan Africa and in people of african origin worldwide. Hemoglogin S came about as a survival mechanism for our red blood cells to survive against malaria, the RBC get sickled thereby preventing the parasite from affecting it. Have you noticed most SS and AS patients rarely gets malaria. This prevention against malaria came at a cost, the sickle cell disease. Evolution is a bitch.
CelebritiesRe: Weflo: "As An Upcoming Artiste, You Either Have A Sponsor Or You Are A Yahoo" by soliq55(m): 12:53pm On Aug 11, 2018
mrtayesynchro:
May God bless you abundantly and tremendously baba mi for saying it as it is,you really bursted my head as in you nailed it.l will use my self as an example....I do not believe in internet scam which is the trend among youths or any illicit act but i toil so hard for my money in order to push and promote my song but unfortunately its moving at a snail pace due to lack of adequate finance.
But as it is I am not ready to compromise but the positive thing is that I am fulfilled with my song because there is no radio station I have taken the song to that they don't marvel but due to the Naija factor they will make their demand's which is herculean for now.but ironically you see these codene/shaku shaku boys with wack songs shooting all sorts of expensive videos because they are into the "ji masun awon boys ti wa online" things; and being the kind of materialistic society that chooses to relegate valuable music to the background but that will never deter or discourage me.

Please download Percero by Taye Synchro
This is a nice song bro. Better than a lot of songs out there in the industry. Keep working and stick around.
PoliticsRe: Are Nigerians Resident In Uk Jealous Of Their Visiting Counterparts ? by soliq55(m): 6:07pm On Aug 01, 2018
Guess so. Many naija dudes in the UK are semi-broke hustlers that barely try to stay afloat. A lot also don't have valid papers and cannot get decent jobs. The ones with valid papers do not have jobs that pay that well and so are unable to come back to Naija often to 'show off'. The ones without papers can't even come back because they may never be able to get visas to return. In either case, many of them are stuck in a rot, so to speak. When they now see 'lucky' folks who dart in and out of UK 'shere shere' to distract their work they can't help but feel resentful. . .especially if you're financially much better off than they are. They either avoid you to save their pride so that you wouldn't witness their skint condition first hand, or they shamelessly 'tax' you all over the place. But then the few that are quite successful and rich over there are in another class altogether: you would do all the envying when you meet those. Different strokes, I suppose.
HealthRe: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by soliq55(m): 8:56am On Jul 16, 2018
osborn4u:
I understand your plight. I am AS and was in a relationship for the same number of years as you Stated. However, God was with me all the way. You won't believe that it was while we were already preparing for my wedding that i asked my then fiancee now wife to go and check her genotype because, she was oblivious of it. You needed to see my state while i waited for the result. It was worse than waiting to know ones HIV status after living a very promiscuous life. I prayed like never before while waiting for the result and as God would have it, it turned out that she was/is AA. I jumped for joy like I just won a billion dollar contract. My advice to you is to have absolute faith in God. See a true man of God if you are convinced that you are meant for each other. God is not the author of confusion and would not sanction what he knows would end badly. I have witnessed Gods miracle here in Benin ( Believers Ministries) first hand where God changed the story of one of the couple that intended to get married from AS to AA. Miracles are real but you also need to have an unwavering faith. Conclusively, don't proceed any further if God doesn't do it. Stay blessed
While this it's great your wife turned out to be AA, I'm afraid it is impossible for one's genotype to change. Any church, pastor or prophet claiming that is a liar. Your genotype is coupled with your hemoglobin. Your hemoglobin is a component of your Red Blood Cell. For any non medically oriented folks reading this, YOUR GENOTYPE CANNOT BE CHANGED.
BusinessRe: I Need Someone To Receive Money For Me Through Paypal by soliq55(m): 5:16pm On Mar 01, 2018
Hey,
We can work something out. I have a paypal account linked to a North American bank account.

You can contact me on oluseye55@gmail.com
FamilyRe: Husband Chases Out His Wife And Daughter Over Inability To Have Male Child. PICS by soliq55(m): 3:41pm On Feb 27, 2018
Do most africans even know how sex of a foetus is determined? The male parent actually determines the sex of a child by contributing X or Y sex chromosome.

This fact should be a common knowledge in our society. Give the husband a JSS2 integrated science book.
RomanceRe: She Is Not A Graduate, I Don't Know If I Should Marry Her by soliq55(m): 3:27pm On Feb 27, 2018
Are you looking for a wife or an employee? Personally, I believe a high school graduate should is a "graduate". You should be more concerned about about other variables like loyality and compatibility. Those variable can not be taught.

But if being a graduate matters so much to you, why not advise to enrol in part time school if that is also what she wants?

Good luck.
Christianity EtcRe: Is Prayer The Solution To Nigeria's Problems? by soliq55(m): 2:13pm On Feb 26, 2018
No. Prayer isn't the solution for our country, better governance, organization, transparency accountability and stewardship are.

If prayer is the cure for Nigeria, the country would be better by now. Albert Einstein said insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting is different results.
PropertiesRe: Clean Self Contain For Rent In Abuja by soliq55(m): 1:12am On Feb 26, 2018
Hey Kingobyno,
Is the place still available?
Music/RadioRe: Music Adekunle Gold – 'Ire' (Video) by soliq55(m): 9:02am On Feb 24, 2018
soliq55:
It means goodness.
Music/RadioRe: Music Adekunle Gold – 'Ire' (Video) by soliq55(m): 9:01am On Feb 24, 2018
visijo:
Ire means?
It means goodness.
Christianity EtcRe: What Is The Source Of Morality by soliq55(m): 10:24am On Feb 23, 2018
butterflyl1on:
Christians do not follow the 10 commandments as it were. We follow Jesus the embodiment of Love. The ten commandments were laws given to expose sin in man so no man was able to keep them because if you break one you break all.

Below was my response to this same question on another thread.
Doesn't matter if christains follow the 10 commandments as it was written by moses. As far as christain teachings go, going against any of the 10 commandments means one is committing a sin whether e ought we are using the new or old testament as reference.

My point was that I will take a morally conscious person that his psyche is based on Super ego anyday than some dude that says he's doing good because it is in the book of Titus or something.
Christianity EtcRe: Has Christianity Been Bad For Nigeria by soliq55(m):
DejiSantos:
Such a tricky question
It's not actually.


While religion has helped us through the building of schools, hospitals and the likes.It is not without its downsides.

Firstly, the distinction between the state and religion is extremely blur in Nigeria which is a recipe for underdevelopment, poverty, lack of creative ideas. Imagine when you ask for a solution for a societal problem facing us in 2018 and people start opening up the bible to the book of Jeremiah. Unfortunately, we can not find practical solutions to improve our quality of life in 2018 from a book written 2000 years ago.

Secondly, religion promising us that our reward is in heaven subconsciously affects us from striving to make a better planet for ourselves and our offsprings. How many Nigerians give a damn about recycling or their environment? We dont because religion teaches us that the earth is not the only place we've got. Since we are going to heaven, why bother making earth a better place. Why invest in medical research since God is the ultimate healer?

So religion as we practice it in Nigeria makes us passive human beings.
Christianity EtcRe: Do You Think Christianity Had Crushed Our Native Cultures? by soliq55(m): 9:37am On Feb 23, 2018
Yes it has. When you hear Ooni of Ife that is supposed to be the custodian of the gods in Yorubaland say Jesus is his dad, one can't help but think it is affecting our culture in a negative way.
Christianity EtcRe: Please Christians In The House Explain This by soliq55(m):
LordVoldermort:
Okay so only the new testament is the word of God and you think people won't see something wrong with that too
My argument was not about proofing what is the word of God and what isn't. It is about the religion having a book that is consistent so that all its followers can be on the same page.
Christianity EtcRe: What Is The Source Of Morality by soliq55(m):
Legality and morality are two different things. They are not completely mutually exclusive but they can be independent of each other. Legality is absolute while morality is subjective. Legality is about the law but ones moral view is shaped by the society, religion, culture, tradition and more. It is morally right to help your parents financially but you are legaly obligated to take care of your children. But in most African culture it is the morally right to take care of your parents.

Now lets talk psychology. Why do we do the right thing? The Freudian model of pyshe has what he called id, ego and super ego.

Id: think of the little child. The pysche do things in order to seek pleasure, this is why a kid usually put everything thing his/her mouth.

Ego: the individual do the right thing in order to get a reward or does not do wrong things to avoid punishment. For example, you do not kill someone that offends you, not because you are a good human being but because you do not want to go to executed according to capital punishment law. Another example, you are not having premarital sex because you want to go to heaven according to your religion.

Super ego: the individual do the right thing not for any reward and does not do the wrong thing in order to escape punishment. For example, an individual does choose not to kill someone that offends him, even though killing is perfectly legal in his country and he wont deal with any legal complications.


A question to the religious folks out there. If there is no hell or heaven, will you still follow the 10 commandment or the teachings of Allah?
Christianity EtcRe: Is The Christian God A God Of Slavery? by soliq55(m): 7:57am On Feb 23, 2018
No, the christain God is not a God of slavery. There is no correlation between religion and slavery. According to history, the arabs were also involved in the black african slave trade even though this always get sweeped under the rug. Is the muslim God a god of slavery?

Iyalode of Ibadan, Efunsetan Aniwura wasnt a christain and she had more than 2000 slaves. She was a traditionalist. Are ogun, ifa, obatala, sango gods of slavery?

Slavery is about power and economics, not religion or the color of our skin. Most humans will not say no to free or cheap labor in order to accumulate wealth.
Christianity EtcRe: What Happens When You're Dead? by soliq55(m):
budaatum:
Buda's Perspective

So, you took your last breath. You don't exist as you did anymore. No more waking up to a beautiful new day, or seeing and talking to those who love you or those you hate. No more posting on social media, no going to work or paying bills or enjoying food or having sex. Unless someone knows you, we wouldn't even know you are dead for how many have you discoursed with on here but do so no more. We know nought of them, whether dead or alive.

Dust, basically, thou art, and dust you will become, food for worms and fertiliser at best, on the day you die, and nothing else.

Hard to take in, I'm absolutely certain. So post a consolation, an alternate reality.

What would happen after you're dead?
There is a difference between dying and being dead. Dying is not a state of death but the pathway to the state of being dead. Unforunately, nobody knows definitively what happens when humans are in the state of being dead but dying can actually be observed and even quantified physiologically.

During the process of dying, depending on the severity and cause, the organs usually shut down one by one. It is not uncommon to hallucinate when the brain is in the process of shutting down. A common variable to to stories about people seeing heaven, God, Jesus, Allah and hell when they are in the process of dying is that it is culturally specific. For instance, a Yoruba man sees a Jesus that is black man wearing agabada speaking Yoruba, a white man sees Jesus in heaven wearing suit and tie. And so on.

These near death experiences are usually our brain repacking the data in our subconscious mind to give us images and even stories. Just because these pictures can be very vivid does not mean its true. It is the power of our subconscious mind.

The billion dollar advertisement industry is well aware of the power of the subconscious and tap into this to make their fortune. For example, when you go to the grocery store, where I live there could be up to 20 different brands of cereal. Have you ever stopped and ask why you picked the one you chose instead of the other perfectly good brands of the same cereal within the same price range? Your subconcious mind told you to do so. It may be due to an advert of that cereal you've seen as far back as when you were 3 years old that affects your decision to chose it.
Christianity EtcRe: Please Christians In The House Explain This by soliq55(m):
LordVoldermort:
"Then it shall be, that whatsoever cometh forth of the doors of my house to meet me, when I return in peace from the children of Ammon, shall surely be the LORD's, and I will offer it up for a burnt offering."
Judges:11:31

"And Jephthah came to Mizpeh unto his house, and, behold, his daughter came out to meet him with timbrels and with dances: and she was his only child; beside her he had neither son nor daughter."
Judges:11:34

"And it came to pass at the end of two months, that she returned unto her father, who did with her according to his vow which he had vowed: and she knew no man. And it was a custom in Israel,"
Judges:11:39

"That the daughters of Israel went yearly to *lament* the daughter of Jephthah the Gileadite four days in a year."
Judges:11:40



Is just me or is this a reference to human sacrifice?
There are no christains in the old testament as far as I know. Why cant christainity as a religion do away with the old testament in order to avoid its contradictions with the new testament?

I have been to churches where the pastors says Jesus dying for our sins has made the old testament obsolete, so we dont have to engage in human sacrifices like God commanded Abraham to do, no more killing of cows at the alter as burnt offerings. While the same pastors would open the book of Malachi(which is a book in the old testament) to justify offering and tithe.


The doctrines in the old testament are based on the law of moses while the new testamemt is based on the teachings of Jesus, his disciples and apostles. From my readings of the old testament, its doctrines and teachings is more compatible with Judaism than christainity.

Why is christainity packaging a judaism book with a christain one?



Disclaimer: this message is not for or against Christianity but just my unbiased view about the practice of it.
Christianity EtcRe: Jehovah's Witness Refused Blood Transfusion For His Pregnant Wife Till She Died by soliq55(m): 6:18am On Feb 23, 2018
Story is most likely fake. As far as medical law goes, the wife does not need the permission of her husband in order to consent to treatments or procedures as long as she is competent. From the description of the story the woman seemed competent.

I believe the law applies irrespective of religion. Please research on the legal aspects of medicine before turning this into a thread on religious war.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Drop Your Number And Location, You Might Get A Date by soliq55(m): 1:21pm On Feb 19, 2018
Based in Canada but currently in Lagos. Ladies add me on whatsapp @ +15877075996 .
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 10 Popular Job Aptitude Test Formats Used By Companies In Nigeria. by soliq55(m): 9:42am On Feb 16, 2018
Fifthwave:
Lol. Find the product of the HCF and the LCM of 8,24 and 30 grin
2 and 2
TravelRe: QATAR And UAE GENERAL VISA ENQUIRIES PART 2 by soliq55(m): 7:46pm On Jan 08, 2018
Hello, Pls I need help with applying for residency permit in Qatar. I am a doctor but need Qatar residency permit number to apply for medical residency training in Qatar. I already have access to a 30 days visa on arrival. I really appreciate your help.

Thanks.
CareerRe: Medical Doctors' Forum: Let Us Know You! by soliq55(m): 6:16pm On Dec 26, 2017
Hi everyone,
Does anyone knows the location of the April 2018 MDCN exam?

Thanks.
RomanceRe: I Love My Boyfriend But I Fancy Another! by soliq55(m): 7:36am On May 15, 2007
You already know what u wanna to do, so what is the point in asking for opinions?
If u like go to the "gorgeous" guy and let him chop grin that's ur choice. Just remember that its your world. cool
FamilyRe: New Wife, No Womb by soliq55(m): 7:09am On May 15, 2007
Well, I have some wombs for sale in my lab.
Contact me if you want one cool
FamilyRe: New Wife, No Womb by soliq55(m): 7:08am On May 15, 2007
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