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It's maturity bro, your brain is directing you to the next stage of your life which is the face of reality and real hustle, not pussy hustle

ikes9:
How long did you use it,and what was your diet like

Can I whatsapp you and bro, I need to confirm something.

[quote author=Omoh89 post=86753293]Am telling you I asked her how did the guy get to know about your body parts if not when you guys were having sex she said no that the guy asked her to tell him something no one else knows about her... I think the award for chronic liar of the year should go to that girl [/quote

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Me and my guys can't just stop laughing, what a poor contribution of lies. Your girl deserves an Oscar.

Your girl is manipulative and a chronic liar.... Still trying to lie her way out of the obvious, if she wants to be forgiven then she should come out clean. I hate it when dummies try to play smart.

You have a boyfriend of five years yet you go about posting pictures of another guy you're cheating with and expect no dust. People be stupid and still use smart phones.

Op just lets go of her for your own peace of mind.

Na your over sabi kill you.. You see free light wey you suppose dey enjoy dey go but the mumuness wey dey inside you no allow you.. It's not like you were asked to pay any money, now you don expose that house for constant billing from Nepa... Bross na you go pay the money.. HOLY MOSES!

simplepee:
He's not going through shit. Men can change in a twinkle of an eye, they are so confused .

Op please since you said you are independent, do keep the baby.

The fact that you keep meeting the chameleons does not make all men the same. Haba! Let's put an end to all these generalisation already!

I guess he's going through a tough time there just like he complained about not having money. Most men don't really know how to handle difficult times. Just give him benefit of doubt and bear with him for a while and don't complain or nag then watch if he'll change. And please don't tamper with the pregnancy.

Titogbanski:
It is so easy to predict that someone would soon tell you that GEJ did not do this or that which makes me wonder whether stories like these are mainly designed for propaganda purposes.

GEJ attempted to do a lot STRATEGIC projects for his region amidst one of the one opposed and vilified Presidency in Nigeria...but the same factors that have held the region down prevailed. I give a few instances below;

GEJ approved Onne as the official seaport for all oil related equipment and materials which PMB changed back to Lagos.

Also GEJ approved the multi billion Naira logistic handling Port at Agge and some preliminary works were commenced .....but PMB again changed it back to Lagos which is the LADOL you hear about. It is raking in Billions in revenue and income presently. Some major vessels are doing their drydocking there.

Again GEJ set off the maritime university at Okerenkoko Delta State.....the school as part of its facilities was to host the biggest dockyard in the African sub region which would have attracted large vessels for dry dock, many new skills and improved the economy of the area. PMB has now vetoed or cancelled the Maritime University in Delta.

Again the Lagos - Calabar Coastal Railway project was proposed as a PPP project with the Chinese, and all the paperwork had been completed for the take-off.....once again PMB cancelled despite the fact that the FG was not to pay much of the cost for the project. Today that project is on voice mail.

The East West Road witnessed the most accelerated construction during the GEJ era which brought it about 70% completion in spite of the terrible challenges of terrain, budget and detractors. Under PMB the East-West Road has been abandoned completely. No work for 4 years now!!!!!

The list goes on and on...the problem of the Niger Delta is not internal...it is externally induced....otherwise tell me why Tinapa cannot work as a free trade zone

Thanks for the little education.

miqos02:
This man too dey talk, what has he achieved since he left governance? He should talk on his present or most recent achievments in business or any other endeavor.

Don't allow bitterness to stop you from picking the fee things you can from others experience and use them to better your life.

Peter obi is a multi billionaire and director of many businesses. A man than opened a bank even from his university days... You want him to list his recent achievements for you... You seriously need help Sir!

From your write up, I can conclude that you're the nagging type and you're pushing your wife to the extreme.
You already know there's nothing to be worried about the drugs but you went ahead to make a case out of it that you even "intentionally accused her of infidelity " who does that!

Please put your acts together and be a gentleman, a good husband and father to your family Biko

Titogbanski:
So u can be easily deceived...or are you part of this staged propaganda....paid commentators to steer the discourse

No bro, no one is deceiving or paying me... Let's put this thread aside.
I have friends from Bayelsa and some people who have served in Bayelsa state. Two years ago I also watched a documentary on the poor state of primary health facilities and secondary schools in the state.. Some of the corp members posted in some of the secondary schools were lamenting of their plight in the state.

Jonathan no try at all. I know it's not possible to change everything and turn the state to paradise but at least ensure they get some of the basic amenities.
He should've used his office to ensure that the governors and other stakeholders in the state put the allocations into good use.

I'm a big fan of Jonathan but at the same time I'm so ashamed of the man.... Each time I read about the poor state of things and lack of basic amenities in Bayelsa state, I just shake my head for the man. I'm not sure the whole of Bayelsa state is up to a local government in kano. How come this man didn't do any significant thing for his state for a whole six years in power, instead he was busy beautifying northern states, giving them federal schools and the rest thinking he can buy their loyalty.
No drinkable water, no good road, the rivers are messed up, the primary and secondary are in a very bad state, everything is zero.
God help Nigeria.

Forced marriage is one of the prevailing causes of domestic violence in our society today. To avoid this, we all should try to connect with people we know we can live with in case of any eventually (pregnancy )

funmisticqueen2:
she can't improve someone, life is not a historical romance novel. You cannot change an adults character unless the affected person wants to change.

Character can actually be learned and unlearned.

In dealing with other people around us, we should always consider the place of individual differences, we all came from different background and must've gone through different faces that somehow shape our behaviours .
What the Op needs is a way to see if she can change her man or at least the best way to manage his attitude.

funmisticqueen2:
I am advicing her to leave an impending terrible situation where she will be his surrogate mother in the relationship.

Yes, it is good to support each other in a relationship but it is not a woman's responsibility to make a man better if he doesn't want to be or takes no action towards that.

She should not encourage that behavior. If she does, he will see no reason to stop it, and the only unhappy person will be her. This thread is encouraging it by feeding his ego. Does she really want an immature man child who sulks because she bought a red pencil instead of a blue one? God knows I won't tolerate it.

But the Op was only asking on what to do and ways to improve and better her man and not how to leave him.
Love is a beautiful thing, don't get it twisted.

Pussywar:
Sidan there dey date pikin. More than two billion men in this world, sis.

How many of these men do you have in your life?

Just asking for a friend �

Originalsly:
Some people are like that.... you can't change that. Accept that's the way he is.... at least you did well to know when he is upset about something... and he would not share what it is until a few days later. Don't try to learn what it is by force. How upset he is... how angry he is... you don't know. Some people when things upset them... they can explode at any moment.... maybe he is one such person... like a pressure cooker... he waits until he calms himself down.... then he can open up and discuss with you without blowing his top. No one is perfect..... the same way you want him to open up right away... the same way he wants you to stay away.... so whose way should it be?..... See this as Lesson One in Compromise . If this is a lesson you can't manage.... then marriage is not for you.... this is not a problem when it comes to marriage..... small potatoes!

Uncommon wisdom! God bless you.

Dande55:
Keep wasting your time with an over grown kid.

Dear op, the angels in heaven will be very pleased with you if you pay no attention to this advice.
Nobody is perfect, we can't just run away from people for any little imperfection.

With my self as an example, I think your man is someone that's likely to go overboard and say things which he may regret later if he tries to open up immediately, so I think he's trying to control his anger by holding back.... Just let him be whenever he acts in such way but don't shut him off... You can be sending him lovely messages like to wish him a nice day and to know how his day is going.
Good luck.

My friend had worst than yours, his own was always dripping blood and very thick. He spent more than 70k on creams and drugs for long and none worked.
He started eating more fruit and vegetables and other good supplements, now his face is very smooth.

Note, it's mostly age associated, you're just 15years, it could be part of your puberty so don't take it too much on yourself... Pay more attention on your diet and less on your face, you'll be surprised how it'll all clear out.

Say what ever you think of this woman but I'm loving her already, the part of always considering her children in all her doings got me.

Most of you guys bashing her don't really know what most women pass through just to make it in this country especially if the lady is a single mother.

Argon18:
Not that I'm not interested, I still love her as I have said, what is delaying me is: why did she suddenly pick interest in me despite all the efforts I made to have her in Nigeria? Wasn't she seeing good future in me while I was still in Nigeria? Is she now seeing compatibility in our tomorrow due to the present location of the two of us? These are the things delaying me not to do the necessary, I want to be sure she's not loving me based on what she's seeing.

Giving it one more shot won't be a bad idea at least for your own sanity but this time around, do it differently, don't repeat your old tricks that bored her out.

On the part of where you said something about "what she's seeing in you " Calm down bro, She's also in UK, it's not like you're in UK and she's still in nigeria. No just reason that one Joor.

Our good ladies comes in different packages... It's not her fault, some people are just like that with very high libido, it has nothing to do with promiscuous life. You guys should look for a way to balance it and look for other things to distract her and keep her mind busy at times.

Sorry bro, this one na your cross, carry am �

Nat404:
Okay but not today. You can drop your WhatsApp number and I would message you later, when I'm less busy.

Are you able to buy an IELTS material from me?

08165201852.. Sure bro, I know those materials are not for free

Nat404:
It's okay. I helped one guy here on Nairaland, he applied for admission to a particular school in the US but they were reluctant to reply his mails and grant him admission. I found out a friend of mine works in that school at the admission department, called him on phone, within 30 minutes, the Yoruba guy got a response and admission.

The guy was so excited and astonished and later thanked me. He's in Chicago now.

Thanks for the good work... I'll also need your help if you won't mind

kamikaz1:
U sent me a mail via nairaland profile few days ago.But unfortunately I cannot access my email now that's why I haven't responded..
So I am asking u to drop your WhatsApp instead so u can reach u.

08165201852

kayusely70:
He didnt tell us about their attitude, behaviour and disposition to strangers and visitors.

In my village, visitors are almost worshipped, in fact most family houses in my village are occupied by core members and people from other places. They live freely like every other member of the community, when you go get problem na when you start to dey give girls belle, they go table your matter for village square.

kamikaz1:
Refer to my message above.

I can't see your message. Resend please

AfroKnight:
Exactly.

You have a wonderful thing going on with your boyfriend but that evil spirit that's always following some girls is already pushing you to the wrong direction.... You better stop that rubbish you're doing with your ex and focus on your boyfriend

How about dried grinded pandoro?