Politics › Re: Court Remands Fredrick Nwajagu, Lagos Eze Igbo Over Inciting Comment by Spandau: 2:30pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Spiritually, Tinubu Is Already In Aso Rock – Cynthia Morgan by Spandau: 2:27pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
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Events › Re: The Most Handsome Nairalander Celebrates His Birthday In Grand Style (Pictures) by Spandau: 2:22pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: VP-Elect Shettima Promises To End Bike Crushing In FCT by Spandau: 2:17pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
MasterJayJay: So Lagos ban of okada will be overturned? Oga JJ, ùna no de comprehend? He said FCT. How that one come take concern Lagos na im I no know o. Besides, he is not the president elect. Just a vice. |
Politics › Re: VP-Elect Shettima Promises To End Bike Crushing In FCT by Spandau: 2:12pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Nairalanders Please Help, My First Son Is Behaving Somehow by Spandau: 1:46pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
Jungpablo: You and your husband are at fault, you’re putting all the blame on your husband but shame on you for not standing up to your son. @booksbo0k She actually stood up to him, albeit passively. But she should have stood up FOR him. Ok? |
Family › Re: Nairalanders Please Help, My First Son Is Behaving Somehow by Spandau: 1:43pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
booksbo0k: Sorry for the long write up my people, I need advice.
My first son has been behaving somehow in our family, as if he's not part of this family... You and this boy can be in the same house but you might not set your eyes on him once for a whole day. He will be inside his room through out...
He has been telling me that he is currently working on going to rent his own place and live on his own and that if God helps him and he is able to achieve that, He will not have anything to do with our family again and that we will never set eyes on him ever again :[ ...
I would have not been bothered by such statement if it were coming from someone else, I would take it as a bluff. But this my son is someone that normally doesn't call people to check on them, not even us his parents..
When he was in his previous University before he dropped out, this boy can go for months, that is a whole semester stretch without calling anybody to know how you're doing, except you call him or maybe he wants to ask for money for something or school stuff....
We have five children and he is the first, the second and third children are away in University, he and the two last siblings are the only one's with us.. My husband refused him from going to University in a far place instead he gives him transport money to be going to his own University from home everyday...... He and his father don't even talk again except good morning greetings. He is only 21 ohh..
Let me give you guys small back story so that you can understand how all these things started.
My son graduated from secondary school (a boarding school) in 2017 at 16 years old... Initially, he said he wanted to study computer science as he said that was the course he loved and wanted to study. But my husband refused and persuaded him to study pharmacy because he worked at NAFDAC and he saw the way pharmacy graduates were living at his work place and the salary they were recieving. He and one of his chemist friend sweet talked him into going to study the course and I guess it was because he was young then and could not challenge his dad then that was why he gave in....
He wrote JAMB but he did not meet the cut of mark for pharmacy (but I later realised his score was good for computer science then)... No public University was willing to admit him for pharmacy then because his score was not good for the course but due to my husband love for the course and not wanting my son to lose admission that year , he decided to go the way of private University not minding their school fees...Long story cut short, my son got admitted into Madonna University where we were paying 1M naira every year.....After 3 years in the school and in 300L @18 years old, he began saying he was not interested in the school any longer, that he was tired of the course, that he's body is no longer in the school and blablabla that he wants to go and play football in Europe...
He came back for holiday during the beginning of covid and refused to go back to the school when they resumed, saying that he was only wasting our money by being in that school and he did not want to continue.....This got my husband really sad and angry....My son stayed home for almost two years doing nothing because my husband was adamant that if he would not go back to school, nothing for him, that all the money he has spent for school fees in that school can not be for waste that he can become a footballer after he graduates, saying no one can become a successful footballer without being a graduate, that it would later affect them in life...
But my son refused. I must confess, my son is extremely good at playing football. That was the talent i can confidently say that God personally gave to him from birth. Infact when he was graduating from secondary school, they gave him the award for the best graduating footballer and he was always the centre of attention anytime he plays at our church events. He friends used to call him "nima" then, I think...
I and my husband got tired of him staying at home for long so I went to meet with one pastor in our street who was based in the UK with his family but comes home sometimes for church related matters. I explained my son's situation to him and he offered to help my son travel out to chase his football career provided we have the funds for it. The man was secondary school class mates with "victor ikpe ekong" who was a former super eagles player but currently a pastor in Sweden. To my greatest surprise he called him on a WhatsApp video call in my presence and i was really surprised...He gave me the man's phone number to keep in contact and also scheduled a day to meet with my husband and have a discussion.. I told my son and he was very happy..I also told my husband and he was eager to meet with him at least, anything to solve my sons idleness at the time..
The pastor came to my our house on several occasions and discussed with my husband. My husband kept telling the pastor, saying he would like my son to be going to school while chasing his football career at the same time, a feat which pastor let us know would be difficult as one has to be dropped for the other. Unfortunately, my husband changed he's mind and said he was no longer interested in the whole footballer thing. He said he knew that my son wanted to become a footballer only because of girls. That he, my son knew that if he becomes a footballer, all the girls would like him, that that was the only reason he wanted to become a footballer, and that if football was his true destiny, he doesn't need to travel out for it to manifest, that he can be in Nigeria and make it from here.....That was how that chapter close like that. Pastor left for England few months after.....
After years of my son staying at home, my husband got tired. One night, he hired some Street thugs to come take my son away and beat him up...my son stayed with them for 2 weeks. When he returned, he said he was ready to go back to school. But my husband told him he won't be going back to any private University again. My son wrote jamb again to study computer science and was admitted into COOU. but my said he would not allow him go to any University that is not in the same state we are residing. Now the problem here was that all the public schools in the state we are staying will not accept you to study computer science unless you did chemistry in jamb. And my son did not do chemistry in jamb because he is not good in chemistry. If he was to study in the same state we were staying, he had to settle for another course, which he did...Now another problem arose. My husband refused to rent an apartment for my son around the school because the school is considerably far from our house, instead he decided to be giving him money (2000) everyday as transport fare to be going from home. This did not sit down well with my the boy and he again, said he was no longer interested in schooling again sef that he can't be going such far distance from home to the school everyday to study a Course he does not even like siting that it would be stressful and affect his academics and that it was unwise to be paying 60k a year as school fees while you spend 2k everyday as transport..My husband got angry and called on our estate CSO to come pick him up. They beat him so badly in public that when he got back home later in the evening, I went to check him in his room, his buttocks and back where scarred and red with huge marks...
Ever since, he has been going to the school from home and he has become very distant from us especially his dad. They don't talk again in the same house except "good morning sir"...
My son has turned into something else. He can stay indoors from morning till night. I would have said he has started keeping bad company but he does not even have a single friend, not one..Nobody calls him, and he doesn't call anybody...I have five children and he is the first. The second and third already gained admission this year in a private University and are in school currently, so he and he's last two siblings are the only one's with us now..
Why I'm writing this is because I'm scared..I'm beginning to fear that my son might commit suicide, he's beginning to show that kind of attitude.. And the plans he have to leave us forever to go and stay alone, I don't like it ohhhh...
Nairalanders please I need your advice. Madam, I am sorry to say this but your husband is the most selfish, egotistic and narcissistic man I have ever heard of. In short, he ruined your son single handedly while you remained docile and silent. Your son is destroyed. No wonder he hates all of you. You should have allowed him to study his computer science. I am sure he would have done that and then maybe pursue his other dreams. He was destined to be great but your selfish husband destroyed him for his long throat. In this 21st century you are still forcing children to read your own preferred course? I rest here. |
Crime › Re: Man Stabs His Elder Brother To Death Over Shirt And Trouser In Kano (Photos) by Spandau: 1:33pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
ponlear: RIP to the dead. They probably don’t have genuine love in their home. I see nothing wrong in putting on something that’s my siblings. However, if the elder brother had approached him in the right way, the younger one won’t have gotten mad to the point of making a fight erupt.
Anyway, He should be brought to law cause unnecessary anger has made him a murderer. What is this one saying? Birds of same feather. |
Crime › Re: Man Stabs His Elder Brother To Death Over Shirt And Trouser In Kano (Photos) by Spandau: 1:33pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
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Crime › Re: Man Stabs His Elder Brother To Death Over Shirt And Trouser In Kano (Photos) by Spandau: 1:31pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
OVB123: I am short for word. RIP man. While I am tall for it.😆😆😆😆😆😆 |
Christianity Etc › Re: Easter Monday Is The Release Of Satan From The Bottomless Pit. Don't Celebrate by Spandau: 1:28pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
sukkot: So the 3 wise men looked at the star in the east to know that the messiah is being born. The east star. Easter. And being born is not a literal birth but a reborn of dead souls. A resurrection . And so you have a literal 3 day of soul dying process called the 3 nights of darkness and then wake up on the third day and that day is Good Friday to eAster Sunday. So Easter Sunday is the soul rebirth when you live again aND are reconnected to your higher self aka your soul aka the sun hence the name Sunday. It's the rebirth of Lazarus from the dead. But on the fourth day you die again and go into darkness. That 3rd day while it is a day but it represents thousands of years of the golden age on eArth but on that 4th day you die and the world falls into darkness and the dark ages and satan is released from the bottomless pit and unleashed on the world. That 4th day is Easter mourn day. It's a day of mourning for the eastern star. The end of the golden age and the start of satans rule on eRth. It is a day of mourning and not celebration. Mourn day. When the east star is mourning Oga Sukotization! The bible never mentioned that the wiseman were 3 in number o. Yes, they brought 3 expensive gifts as per that time but those guys were more than 3. The Catholic Church and some theological goons assumed they were 3 because they brought 3 gifts.😉😆😆 |
Politics › Re: Soyinka Survived Dictators, He Will Survive You - Moghalu To Obidients by Spandau: 1:25pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
mozona: And yet he went on exile That's called survival. Only a bozo will think otherwise. |
Politics › Re: Soyinka Survived Dictators, He Will Survive You - Moghalu To Obidients by Spandau: 1:22pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
lhordspy: I pity the woke and liberal forming yorubas joining these unculutured, mannerless, immoral set of headless mob without home training to bring down Yoruba heroes. Headless mob that have no repect for anyone, not their king, or their leaders.. Not even their parents; that they wake up every morning with kick.
I pity the Yoruba parent who are allowing people from 'other places' to alter, deceive, mislead their children into bringing down the Yoruba leaders.
I pity the yoruba youth; because of internet validation, likes, shares, clout, followership are conniving with 'others' to malign, insults, cancel our elders one after the others. I see some of them on twitter even supporting the motion that says Soyinka cant lace Chinua Achebe's shoes. Very funny.
I pity for the future of the southwest. We are not grooming people like MKO, Awolowo, Tinubu, Soyinka, Fela and the other symbol of Leadership anymore. Instead we are growing weaklings, soft headed, feeble hearted kids like falz, like macaroni and a whole bunch of others with the mentality of 'I am yoruba but i dont think in yoruba' .. who are conniving with 'outsiders' to desecrate our heritage and culture; Which sprang up the philosophy and cultural concept 'Omoluabi' and 'Karo ojire' ..
It is respect, it is honour, it is our pride. It is why we are yorubas, it is why we are always ahead of all of them. It is what make us different. Unique. Distinctive.
I wish these little kids can understand. I wish it wont be too late before they do. Guy, see, no Yorubas will ever do that. The ones you see on Twitter are Obidients who registered with Yoruba names to create tension |
Business › Re: Naira Crisis: Banks Fear Heighten As Customers Shun Cash Deposit by Spandau: 12:24am On Apr 06, 2023 |
Kenneth4u205: TINUBU destroying Nigeria economy So Tinubu is Buhari and Emefiele? Some people and the way they make comments Sha! |
Business › Re: Naira Crisis: Banks Fear Heighten As Customers Shun Cash Deposit by Spandau: 12:22am On Apr 06, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: FG Gets $800m From World Bank For Subsidy Removal Palliatives For Poor Nigerians by Spandau: 12:18am On Apr 06, 2023 |
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Investment › Re: Paxful: Bitcoin Platform Shuts Down - Ray Youssef by Spandau: 12:14am On Apr 06, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: NJC , FG Help - Tinubu Ignoring Tribunal Case by Spandau: 11:58pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
seunmsg: Can you mention one Tinubu supporter with credible evidence that said the part in bold? You! Kadoso Mutairu aka seunmsg! |
Politics › Re: Ekweremadu: Obasanjo Writes A Letter To UK Court by Spandau: 11:58pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
seunmsg: Commendable. I join him to plead with the UK court to temper justice with mercy. He did what he did out of love for his daughter. Any parent in such circumstances can do the same. Can you imagine. |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Presidency: Sanusi Lamido Sanusi May Return As CBN Gov by Spandau: 1:18pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
seunmsg: I think we need a SW CBN governor. Kyadowsow, una don wake up. Oya naah. I am ready to read away.😆😆😆😆 |
Politics › Re: Peoples Gazette Suspends Reporter Ayoola Amidst Probe Into Policy Violations by Spandau: 6:41pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
seunmsg: He should resign and start his own yellow journalism platform. I’m sure he has mastered the ropes on how to publish lies, falsehood and propaganda from Samuel Ogundipe. Ogundipe himself was suspended from PremiumTimes for publishing lies before he resigned to start PG. Long live the fake news publication industry. You know something, Kadoso? I am investigating you. How you have been so successful in circumventing Seun's firewalls and bans worthy of PhD research.😆😆😆 |
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Travel › Re: Two Die As Car Plunges Into Edo River (Photo) by Spandau: 2:31pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
Creamcrest:

What sacrifice is the ikpoba river goddess demanding this time?
Female elephant or a live antelope? It already got what it wants. Human lives. |
Politics › Re: Oluremi Tinubu In A Loved Up Photo With Husband In UK by Spandau: 1:02pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
seunmsg: Lovely power couple. Ni kini? Lovely ngwa? 😆😆😆😆😆😆 |
Politics › Re: Tribunal Can Decide Presidential Election In 7 Days – Agbakoba by Spandau: 12:58pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
seunmsg: Absolute nonsense. The law gives the tribunal 180 days to decide on the petition for a reason. So, why rush them? LP and PDP raised a lot of frivolous issues and they didn’t file their cases until the last day of the 21 days given to them. APC will raise a lot of frivolous issues as well and they won’t file their response and cross petition till the last day of the 21 days given to them to respond. So, how will the tribunal give judgement in 7 days?
Agbakoba and some of these guys that are expected to know should stop putting unnecessary pressure on the judiciary. They have 180 days, let them take their time to do their work and examine all evidences. Why the rush? Kadoso Mutairu aka seunmsg! Una welcome o!!!! |
Crime › Re: Fulani Herdsmen Have Taken Over My Community In Kogi State (Photos) by Spandau: 12:55pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
Chibuzoc: Please do tell me and also make me understand how what you meant relates to claiming indigenous lands.
Oh, you sound ignorant, please pick some books and read. I won't go into details but I would have loved to educate you. 😆😆😆😆😆 Ok. Byeeeeeeee! |
Celebrities › Re: Portable Meets Bail Conditions, Released From Prison by Spandau: 10:12pm On Apr 03, 2023 |
Maryloveth: Extend that plea to your mama for house. De try to get sense naaahhh! Wetin? Ya brain na pudding. |
Celebrities › Re: Portable Meets Bail Conditions, Released From Prison by Spandau: 9:41pm On Apr 03, 2023 |
Maryloveth: BAT went with a Muslim Muslim ticket cos of Muslim votes
Atiku supported killing of Deborah by Muslims cos of Muslim votes
They didn’t call BAT/Atiku Religious bigots
PO had a harmless conversation with Bishop Oyedepo (allegedly) he’s the religious Bigot
Christians wake up TINUBU IS AN ISLAMIC BIGOT FOR CHOOSING A MUSLIM VP
Nigerians: It’s not a problem
ATIKU IS AN ISLAMIC BIGOT FOR SUPPORTING THE KILLING OF CHRISTIAN
Nigerians: it’s not a problem
Same Nigerians: PETER OBI IS A CHRISTIAN BIGOT FOR CALLING OYEDEPO
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God punish you all How is this related to Portable's issue? De try to de get sense once in a while naah! |
Crime › Re: Man Assaults And Films A Lady Naked For Rejecting His Marriage Proposal In Kogi by Spandau: 8:50pm On Apr 03, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: FG To Demolish Bishop Oyedepo’s Hangar At Lagos Airport by Spandau: 8:33pm On Apr 03, 2023 |
Nigerialabalaba: D demolition no do with yes daddy video but d truth be say....
Oyedepo no respect himself and don go chook mouth for politics so tey since 2015 na so so losers e dey back, and e call himself a winner. soroniyen?
Obi don cast Oyedepo. Maybe Obi go build hanger for Oyedepo for Agulu abi Onitshia because Yorubaland politicians go pepper Oyedepo wella as e don join politics. Dat yes daddy video don land both Obi and Oyedepo for big turobul.
Imagine Oyedepo dey insult a whole Tinubu for hin pulpit just because of politics.E must quit dat pulpit to join politics full time o.
E lose election and lose hanger join E don lule.
E don cast so tey minister sef no sabi Oyedepo.
D demolision no be politics because FG demolish odas too but dat "I no sabi dat one" na political demotion and demolition for oyedepo. Stop using bots Cc: seun |
Crime › Re: Fulani Herdsmen Have Taken Over My Community In Kogi State (Photos) by Spandau: 8:25pm On Apr 03, 2023 |
zanebaddo: Brother the joke is on you! Every single time you fools be throwing these words badmouthing and insulting when it is obviously the other way around. He called out Peter Obi first! He called people jokers for blaming the current government yet you came here to show your ignorance. Like I said. We are in support of what the fulanis are doing. Isn't it why you guys hate us? You said we are never in support of the fulanis now we support them! We support APC. All I'm saying is that the fulanis should locate your village and wipe out you and your entire family. I and the entire sout east, south south and some parts of Northern Nigeria will be happy. Who ever fails to support what fulani herdsmen are doing now is the enemy of Nigeria. We love Nigeria now more than ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yeah, whatever. Whatever pleases you. Knock yourself out. Keep up with the suffering and the fake smiles. As if the East is not suffering the same fate. Nairaland is full of threads like that. But when it happens to others, you gloat. My people don't stay in villages. I am not from Kogi. So you can say and think whatever you like. Karma is a bitch  |