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Whao whao whao !. do such women still exist? Is she an only child? How did you meet her and man didnt you notice these things before getting hooked? Oh i forgot love is blind ah? For how long did you date her because i cant imagine my self even dating someone who cant keep the house neat or keep a job let alone marry such.


Since you have talked and talked, start praying or take drastic measures of reducing her allowance. She will sit up.

@ Poster,

I really feel for you, whao, your parents gave you out in marriage at the tender age of seventeen  You were just a child still trying to find the woman in you and all they could think of was marriage.

I think we african children push this issue of parental consent and respect for them. At seventeen my father could not even choose a course for me to study let alone choose a man for me. What the heck?

Anyway sweety, the deed is done, i feel you have been cheated but i stiill do not believe in divorce because the other guy may even be worse if not why do we have people who have been married for 3, 4 or five times. Please for your child, reconsider, Pray for God's guidance and help, he cares about every litle detail of our lives. Talk to your ma about it too, am sure as a woman she will understand.

Its good to respect our parents but we have a right also to be happy.

I am not diabetic and am not on medication except for the antibiotics (amoxycillin) and supplements a nurse prescribed for me for the same tear, all my other wound heal very fast i guess because of my dry skin type. My boo and i were getting down and he was a bit rough with me and cut me with his zipper absurd as it may sound. Hope you can help.

Thanks

Congrats girl, whao am so happy for you. God is good! Ehn but sha o you have to invite us to the wedding o, abi no rice for nairalanders.

chyemma:
ROFLMAO,
Bros, you neva jam, this is just the begining; me I have to eat my crackers and cereal on the bed before I stand up and go straight to the kitchen for a cup of hot tea and then while going to work I package a full plate of rice in my bag, and when I get to the office I simply forget it because I have bought two wraps of Okpa or moi moi and a bottle of coke, and right infront of my office is one woman that sells fruit she already knows when to bring my cheries and oranges or garden egg and then later in the after noon, I will send send for a plate of my fufu or eba with vegetable or draw and when am done I will remember I have a plate of rice in my bag and then gradually gradually the rice go finish I will start calling for anything, may be gum,chocolate or ice cream, then when I get home in the evening all the house will be smelling I will go outside the compound and stay then there I will buy anything that comes around as long as it enters the stomach, but guess what? in the night maybe around 9:00/9:30PM, I will simply vomit everything and start another round of food and my husband will simply say oh! my God, am not sure you are going to have another baby after this, your own don too much; and my reaction, its not my fault after all, you put me into this and you must attend to my needs, but right inside of me, I dey vess because I don vomit all the things wey I don chop.
At times pregnancy na disease.

Very funny, after gobbling everything and anythin, u end up throwing up? Madam, you just dey waste food na. I no like am o. LOL

Hello doc,


What can be used to treat a tear/cut on the vaginal lip? its just not healing.

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Yetkem, oh sorry english


Yancey

Wunmi the next name is supposed to start with T.

Now correct yourself before i spank your bum

Clement

Models advertise mostly for relevant issues so they are not sluts.

Good, since its for money, then let them have the money and be seen as sluts! For some pple money is more important than a good name

Girl that is scary, you better tell your ma about it and pray. I beleive a lot in prayers, just pray girl, you will be fine!

Why dont you ask the women who allow themselves to be used? You can do a research ans ask some of them. I blame women because nobody will force you to do what you dont want to do.

There is no need to help your brother, we all have our fantasies but life dosent always go our way so bear your man's name and be happy!

Thats al that matters girl! Happiness

Guys  take it easy on  the dude, He is simply asking for your advise and like someone suggested, if you dont like a post, ignore it.


Man, why don't you wait till you are married, she will feel more relaxed then.

How much does this baby go for last?

Tcrack:
The ONLY reason i will do it is if she is ill and cant do it herself and I will make sure its in private. Imagine my friends or her friends seeing me washing it. Ki lo de?

So what if your friends see you? Please learn to take your stand. Dont live by people's opinion, you cant please all your friends but you can please your sweetheart.

Can the 1998/1999 fly for 800? I am realy interested.

It works for some and for some it dosent but believe me on the general , it has wrecked many beautiful relationships. I dont need no prophet to tell me if a man will be sweet or pain, i just need to shine my eyes

V got five bothers and ma dad is military, so no man would dare.

Forgiveness does not mean approval, it just means giving someone a second chance. However you have to make it clear to the person you are forgiving that you dont expect them to do the same thing all over again.

If i can wash his, then he can wash mine, big deal.

That is incest, god have mercy

Hi adeniyi,

How much will fly it last? Can i get your no so my hubby can call you . He needs a car, he is on leave and you guys can meet and negotiate.

I am interested in this ride too. Can 400 fly it?

Go for the first one, you will come to love her with time.

[b]Your story is a very sad one and it will take a lot of grace to forgive but i believe it is possible. You courted a man for eight solid years and yet he had this kind of secret, the heart of humans is realy deep. I know you are hurt and you have every reason to be but please since you know your husband is a good person try and let go. As for the child, she needs care too so that she dosent become a destitute. Take care of the child if you have the heart to bear it, if not you both can arrange for an alternative way of taking care of her, she dosent have to sufffer for your husband's mistake. I just pray God gives us all the grace to be straight and stick to our spouses during courtship, all these supposedly one nite stands [/color][color=#990000]have wrecked so many lovely homes because people are so selfish and canot see beyond temporary enjoyment they want to get. I also pray that God will give you and your family grace and strength to stay to gether. Amen.[/b]

@ poster

I believe you guys would have discussed the number of children you want to have together before you tied the knot. I dont believe children make women lose their figure, her problem is ignorance. Victoria beckham (a model) has 3 children (all boys i believe) and she still has her figure, your wife needs serious orientation. Come to think of it, what is her dear mum saying about it? My mama is over 50, her first child is over 30 and believe me she still has a great figure that still makes people wonder if is even over 40. As for career, when we grow old which is inevitable, it is our loved ones that will be there for us not our collegues. Living a blanced life is very important unfortunately most people dont know how too go about it. Am a career woman too (workind and still studying) and i want to have 3 to 4 kids so that i will have lots of grand children running around me when i grow old. Dont want to grow old and be lonely, nah nah.

Yeah babe,, he needs serious time to heal, give him 6 months plus. Scars of love dont leave so easily else he will never love you back instead he will take out his frustrations on you. Please dont rush him, try and be empathetic, he will come around in his own time

I need a bull dog too.

@ Poster,


Look man, the prophecy thing does not work for everybody. Haba, your woman is so indifferent to almost evrything about your relationship and you are talking about prophecy. if it was meant to be then God wuld have confirmed it to you through her attitude. God is not the author of confusion. Open your eyes and dont just marry for love, you aint compatible at all. You dont want to end up with someone who does not reciprocate your love. I am in a relationship that is heading to marriage by december and believe me if i dont see my guy in a day, you will think i am ill. We so much want to be together all the time. We always walk hand in hand. Does it mean it has been without its own travails? No, we have ben thru thick and thin together and we have learnt to love each other , we worked on the relationship together. we were even told we aint gonna make it but time has proven all their prohecy wrong. If you are not crazy about the person you want to marry, then it aint worth it.

So what should men who do the same do? Reduce the time they spend snoring?