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I was walking with a friend and he saw a particular guy on the street and started laughing seriously, at first i thought he was begining to go gaga but what he told me made me even laugh harder.


This guys girlfriend got pregnant for him and when he was told he denied it vehemently, when pressure became too much on him from folks, he tried to commit suicide. First he drank otapiapia but the thing no work ( he be like say the pikin head too strong), next he tried to jump into a well but neighbours held him back ( that pikin just dey say papa, na u do am, u no fit run). At the end he accepted responsiblity and funny enough when the child was born he was his carbon copy, can you beat that? (some children naughty from womb o). He obviously didnt have much financially then so he was afraid, his mother talked to him, set him in a little biz and now he is married to the girl and they are doing well.  My friend says everyone who knows his story cant stop laughing and i can understand.

Is lack of financial capability enough reason to deny your own child (just pray say the pikin no resemble you) or would you for an reason deny your own child?

he should let the past go unles he wants his younger brother too to bag a psychiatric certificate. He wan kill am? how many days to his wedding?

Seun is right, a troubled family indeed! I hate it when people tell tales about others especialy about their own family members. There is just no love in that family! Run for your dear life before they throw their family garbage on you.

@ poster, where is your papa in all of this? I havent seen anything about him in all this.

It may sound ridiculous but at times death is better than some level of pain. I have never prayed for a loved one to die but i cant remember how many times i prayed for death in 2006 when became very ill, the pain was just too much. I hate being a burden to people around me , it was so bad because i could not be diagnosed for anything in particular. I thank God he didnt answer my prayers then as i am okay now, bouncing. I guess it must have been divine healing for me.

2 to 3 weeks and they are out, i no want wahala. Th next thing you know she will want to run your house and tell you the meat in your soup is too big.

So, whats the big deal. Life goes on.

flirting,, cheating and lieing. I cant stand it for one minute.

@ poster

Girl relax, it may not be as bad as you think. First what was the loan for?

Do you work too?

From my understanding, if your boo works in a bank then he does not have a choice because it is compulsory for you to take certain loans as soon as you are confirmed. I think housing and car loans are compulsory. What you sholud be worried about is what it was used for. Talk to him about it and if you work too, you can support your spouse.

Man, what do you think a 36 year old wants in a relationship? Casual fling?please grow up and take responsibility for your actions, its just aint fair for you to get a woman pregnant and bolt. Come to think of it, you said you know she will be a great mother, what else do you want?

So that is the insult you are talking about. Let me now give you a proper insult. You are an idiot. You better respect yourself and get off my back



@ outstrip

Now i can see its a habit, anyway, thanks and God bless.

@ poster

I think you should just get out of nairaland , i mean hit the road and dont come back. You mean you beat a woman you are not even married to yet and you have the nerve to post it? What? .  Is that how you were brought up or perhaps you grew up seeing your father beat your mother? You cant even express yourself in simple english,  Olodo rabata. 

Queen, have you ever been married? Anyways if you love him and you know you can be happy with him you can go ahead, love has never been abt age. What matters is your peace of mind. Wish yo the best

Dont give yourself hyper because of a guy, give him the benefit of a doubt, if he then goofs you can take action.

Ifedisky, what kinda advice is that?

Pc guru you are right, most people have all the money but you know what? They are oh so lonely!

Anything is possible but best friends rarely fall out.

Outstrip:
sparta she does not wake up at 1pm everyday. They have a child and the poster works so obviously the wife is the one taking care of the child unless they have invented a way to take care of a child in your sleep

I guess you didnt write this madam, maybe instrip did. Please i dont write crap, you seem a bit agressive though, you need to loosen up and be more polite, what has[b] madness[/b] got to do with this? I thought you were not into name calling?

No need to loose hope Gab, you look chubby enough, you could still try.

@ OUTSTRIP

I would suggest you hit the game and not the player, i wonder what my dreams have to do with an open discussion, you realy need to learn how to fight without name calling. Thank God you are not the poster o, i wonder wetin you for tell me next.

yes the Children need to be protected so that they don't think their mother's way of life is normal. I dont support it when a man expects his wife to do all the chores because no man can try that with me but i can't stand a lazy woman either. Call a spade a spade, she needs to sit up and take charge of her home.

The guy really deposited inside her. GBAM

For crying out loud madam, why cant you keep the pregnancy? Were you just a booty call or fling as they call it? So you now know he is 46. Banker, Banker, abi na one of your customers or prospects, sorry if i sound sarcastic but its funny, if you can sleep with him then you can keep his baby and get married too.

JJYOU

Oga its not cooking alone that is the problem, i suggest you go thru the thread again. She cant even keep the home clean and i suppose her not been able to keep her job is husbands fault again.

@ Poster,

Why dont you talk to her any of her employers that you love so much and can do her job for her combined with yours so that there can be peace in the house.

She is plain lazy man, cant clean, cook, keep a job, run a salon, wakes up at 1pm (please dont stay in bed unless you can make money in bed), Loves partying and blah blah. On a second thought she is not just lazy but she can best be described as somebody with no future ambition. (NFA)

There is no love without character.


Madam sillyyou, What you gat against yoruba men?

Ok, JJYOU, I get you now. I hope She knows what she's doing.

Yeah, right get someone to do it but please protect your children from her, you dont want another set of lazy folks in your custody. It is enough that you have to deal with their mother. You need to see a movie called "aiye olomo kan". Mo le po tea, mol se custard, mo le gbe omi eba kanna but mo ti mo te."

Please protect your children o, Abeg, Laziness is a stigma on its own.

I wonder what JJYOU means.

Na one hand the guy go use put me down, i be complete madam lepa and my boo weigh well well so no need to think about am sef.

She don forget you tetey. Stop wasting your resources on her, she is just taking advantage of you.

She may or may not br pretending, some folks are just naturally calm, she may just be a phlegmatic by temperament. They are usually easy going but like someone rightly said, find out about her true person from her friends.

Shuo, will he be your children's father or grandfather? Please dont tell me he dosent have a wife and kids somewhere.