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I prefer white Gold and an emerald engagement ring.

@ poster

This is a hard one, you realy messed up, i hope she can take it. Please next time run from all this so called young ladies, am sure she came in as a friend. That is what they all claim to be before they show you their real intentions. Man try and visis your wife more often or vice versa, body no be wood o, stop tempting each other after all she is in nigeria not australia.

@ Titi

Look girl, you can onl ydo so much but dont stress it too much, your sister in-law is not God. I had same issue with my Future brother in-law coz he's too bossy and likes too order everyone around. I just gave him a piece of my mind. What happened was that i bought a fairly used air conditioner from my office and kept it in their house (fiancee's family house) for a while. I decided to pick it up after for use and he said he wanted to put it in his room that he had told his brother about it. I was so pissed, i just picked it and left and since the he has been beefing me kind of. who cares? na him money i use buy am? thing is he is so used to taking what is not is from is younger ones and he thinks he can try it with me. Hell no.

Girl forget her

@poster

I think you are just being selfish, someone loves you to a fault and all you can do is love another instead, I know your type, you dont apreciate what you have until you lose it. Love does not fall from the sky, it takes a lot for your man to love you the way he does. I know you think the grass is greener on the other side but believe me if you lose your guy to fantasy, God help your soul.

Right now i know you think your man is probably a fool or dummy for loving you so much but he is not. He is just a total lover, who gives his heart totally for the one he loves. He dosent know how to love any less else he should have given you a red card all these years.

We humans always think we are smart but most times we end up hurting ourselves.

My advice is give back to the person that is giving you and not to the one who hardly notices you else every good thing your guy has given will be like a whip later to demand justice. Dont break your man's heart because if you do he will find happiness elsewhere because of his good works but you, you

Your work wil follow you too.

Ok doc, what can be used for a cut around the vigina area?

The cain wey husband take beat first wife still dey onto cupboard, he go use am beat second wife too.

I pity you no be small.

What evidence does the poster have? Did she get an alert on her phone to the effect or its just a threat by your friend so you can pay up? The GTB I know does not condone such nonsense so please give us evidence. [s]Madam Borrower, you too pay your money now, abi your friend na bank, shuo? [/s]

I will discuss it with him and demands that he stops it but if he repeats it, then i will ask for divorce, thats just me. My tolerance level for infidelity is almost zero.

@ poster

You are very funny, haba. Someone who has not being there for 11 years giving you advice? You better get married else you will really suffer no be small.

Run for your dear life except you dont mind being no 3 out of 20 wives (whether legally or not)

Hi doc.

Please, this is a bit urgent. I have a freind who has had staph and serious pile for more than five years, this things according to him affect his sex drive. He tries to avoid sex because he dosent want people to know his condition but now there is so much pressure from home that he should settle down ( he is 31 years old). He needs urgent help. What do you suggest the do?

sexyLeamon:
Childbrith is something that scares me more than anything in the world. honestly I have really been thinking is it really
as painful as people says or is it a bit exaggerated? my friend just recently give brith and she really freak the hell out of me am scare to have babies now. she decribe it as the most painful exprience in her life.

Am with you leamon, am so scared! Please more advices from mothers in here.

I think oceanic offers better job security.

What post is she being offered in GT Bank?

We are both gentle altho am more on the quiet side because he enjoys large company while am loner.

We both love being pampered.

We both prefer homemade food, he especialy does not like eating out at all.

We both enjoy giving out to the needy ( he does this a lot and he is so blessed for it)

We both love privacy at home (intruders are not welcomed at all)

Please dont quit but do yourself a favour, write your will and choose your burial ground real quick. You may choose the one at LUTH, ebutemetta or the one in your village,

Just my advice.

Koko, you are really on your on now.

amebo

I still think you should take it easy on her. You sound as if you her perfect and you know it all, sorry no insults intended. If Adam the first man could goof and God provided a way out thru Jesus Christ , i dont think you should be this hard.

osareimwen:
thx @sparta

im still a student and it remain 2 yrs to finish

yea, he's loving, kind and respectful

Then good, as long as he is ready to continue paying your school fees and taking care of you. Look girl it is not when you married that matters, it is who you marry.

Ameo no 1,

Take it easy, she has been thru enof already and what she is getting here is not pity, its advice.

I f a child goofs, you use one hand to spank him and the other to bring him back, we are allhumans and we all make mistakes. She did not delibrately enter into it. I pray that God sees her through it all.

You have a point, there are women who are even more daring ( i guess they believe what is good for the Cock is good for the Hen) but i stilll insist that there are more men at it than women, it is oh so glaring.

No buddy, me still thinks you find more nigerian men at it.

Na u sabi

Thank God they didnt ask you for akoto.

So whats your point Ben?

Girl, beleive me when i was in school, i attended this so called bornagain fellowship and beleive they showed me sege, The things that happen their honey? God forgive me. i cant even begin to mention them here.

The bible says "by their fruits (character), you shall know them not prophecy, title, position or tongues. A man that could not save, get a good job, he was oh so unbalanced in some ways and yet he deceived you. I dont blame you dear at all because when i was there i made some mistakes too because i was very naive. I beleived everythig they said but thank God i escaped the marriage thing.

My sister has a friend who was dating this so called brother, he speaks in tongues, preaches and does almost everything but he showed her sege. He was stingy and he used to  report her to every body in church whenever they have a misunderstanding. He so much defamed her that she had to leave the church. Do you know the worst  part, he left her and started asking my sister out not knowing my sister knew everything that was going on (my sis used to attend the church too but left because of these vision thing because it caused a lot of drama and tore so may friends apart. at times seven people will say they saw one sister in a vision, i wonder if God will show one person to seven guys)

Myy sister so much lashed him that he could not come back.

please, please and please for those that are not married yet, be extremely careful about this vision thing, it has caused so much damage .

My dear, if the battery continues ( a bornagain beating his wife, i fear) , i will advise you plan your strategy and leave with your children. Beleive me, you may say , you have children but it is if you are alive that you can take care of your children, dont let him kill you before your time. If he dosent continue to batter you , then you can pray to God to change him. I beleive he will see you through.

Girl, he's taking advantage of you. he is a tortoise and he is using you. He prefers his ex but he dosent know if things will turn out well so he is keeping you around. if it turns out well for them you are a goner, if not he will come back. You are second best, a last resort to him, Run for your dear heart.

Girl, even in my late 20's am afraid but am still getting married this year, so i can understand your fears. i love my boo and cant wait to be his mrs.

What do you do though? student, worker?

is your man loving, kind and respectful?

If you know you are going to be happy with him then you can go ahead.

The best

Too much of everything is bad, dont over stare at any woman's behind. it can be embarassing. I was about to cross over to my office when i highllighted from a bus and the way a couple of men stared, it was really disgusting, abeg no be me create the thing there, i dont have to be ashamed. Some men pratically UnCloth you with their stare.

@ poster,

It is extremely sad and sistawoman, your hubby is right when he said looking for a married man in Nigeria without a girlfriend is looking for a needle in haystack. The sad part is that it is okay most times for the man to cheat but 99% of these men cant stand it when another man layng their wives. If you want to see the true anger of a nigerian man then lay with his wife , God help you if you see the next day.


What happens to the saying

"treat others the same way you want them to treat you"? Do men think they are superior beings or are they just loose? Are they that weak when it comes to controlling their urges? Me thinks they should use their so called manly strength in controlling themselves, we are humans, we have the power to control ourselves.

Not ever woman thinks that way dear. As soom as some women get pregnant, all they want is to bear Mrs. Even if it is mrs Were.

busybody20:
lol. . . . . .

abi busybody no be so?