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Romance › Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me Slowly by Speaklove: 7:46pm On Jan 27, 2022
Animegirl:
cheesy

Masturbation can never make you fail exam except you want to fail(so die that talk).

I know is introverts and all these tech guys grin that mostly engage in this kind of sex, maybe you should go out more often.

As for masturbating to your family members, omoh!!! This one na spiritual cleansing.

My advice: if you have money , look for one hot girl and enjoy yourself with her or fast and pray.

It is well my dear.
Hmm!

And you said this in peace
Sports › Re: Gambling Has Turned Me Into A Serial Debtor!!! by Speaklove: 10:41pm On Jan 26, 2022
Austinboy:
i really appreciate your advice. As we are speaking. I've sent a mail to both sportybet and bet9ja to deactivate my accounts. I hope that can be a step in the right direction
The problem is NOT ONLY in those bet houses but also within you.

You have to learn to be conscious of the voice of the holy spirit because he gives you impression within your heart ,and then surrender and move your body forwards where he direct you.

You have to totally do away with your phone.

Most of all you need deliverance because it is a demon that is now manipulating your will.

You can never stop even if you want to
You will only stop when you chose to suffer in the flesh ,and yield to the voice that speaks to you within your heart.

When I say you must suffer in the flesh I don't mean to say that you should go and hurt yourself NO !
I mean you must Lose everything that gives occasion and opportunity for that to take place.
Lose your phone by maybe selling it .
Lose your friends that inspires you to bet.
Lose going to that location (bet house).

Then give yourself to the word of God
Especially the book of Romans chapter 5,6 ,7and 8 and also Galatians chapter 5
Read from verse 1 to the end everyday .

Pray a least 3 hours everyday.(including tongues)

But first of all repent ,confess your sins to God,and rededicate your life to him .
Please don't commit suicide you will only endanger your soul for eternity.

Now for self delivarance:
Place your hand on your head and command the spirit of betting,gambling,and debt to come out if you in Jesus name .
Say it with faith without fear or doubt and it will happen .
Keep saying it till there is a reaction within your body ,and then thank God for delivering you.

But if you are not a Christan then I will advice you to give you life to Christ today by confessing these words.

Dear Jesus
today I confess you as my personal lord and savior ,I believe that you died for me and rose again ,I believe that you are the son of God,
Clean my name from the book of death ,and write my name in the book if life .
Thank you for saving me .
Congratulations.
Sports › Re: Gambling Has Turned Me Into A Serial Debtor!!! by Speaklove: 10:20pm On Jan 26, 2022
Austinboy:
thank you for your comment. I agree with you that i need to avoid it but anytime i make up my mind to do this, when money enters my account like this, i totally forget about it and return back to it. I think I'm an addict. Might need help.
Read this carefully.
This is the origin of your problem

This is you complaining

We know that the law is spiritual, but I am not. I am so human. Sin rules me as if I were its slave. I don’t understand why I act the way I do. I don’t do the good I want to do, and I do the evil I hate. And if I don’t want to do what I do, that means I agree that the law is good. But I am not really the one doing the evil. It is sin living in me that does it. Yes, I know that nothing good lives in me—I mean nothing good lives in the part of me that is not spiritual. I want to do what is good, but I don’t do it. I don’t do the good that I want to do. I do the evil that I don’t want to do. So if I do what I don’t want to do, then I am not really the one doing it. It is the sin living in me that does it. So I have learned this rule: When I want to do good, evil is there with me. In my mind I am happy with God’s law. But I see another law working in my body. That law makes war against the law that my mind accepts. That other law working in my body is the law of sin, and that law makes me its prisoner. What a miserable person I am! Who will save me from this body that brings me death? I thank God for his salvation through Jesus Christ our Lord! So in my mind I am a slave to God’s law, but in my sinful self I am a slave to the law of sin.
Romans 7:14-25

This is God's solution for you.


So I tell you, live the way the Spirit leads you. Then you will not do the evil things your sinful self wants. The sinful self wants what is against the Spirit, and the Spirit wants what is against the sinful self. They are always fighting against each other, so that you don’t do what you really want to do. But if you let the Spirit lead you, you are not under law. Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified their sinful self. They have given up their old selfish feelings and the evil things they wanted to do. We get our new life from the Spirit, so we should follow the Spirit.
Galatians 5:16-18, 24-25
Christianity Etc › Re: The Five Fold MINISTRIES :DISCERNING Your Calling By BURDENS by Speaklove(op): 11:03pm On Jan 23, 2022
Many are called few are chosen
Christianity Etc › Re: SPIRITUAL EXPERIENCES You Might Have Had,might have in future,and THEIR MEANINGS by Speaklove(op): 10:46pm On Jan 23, 2022
KNOWMORE56:
Can you share testimonies of the exploits ( i.e unusual victories) you have had since the experience started?

What was your motives ( i.e your reasons) in asking for the experience?
What should be my number one reason for asking for this experience?

Can you understand what you are saying in tongues?

If one is not baptized in the holy spirit he won't get to Heaven?

Those who commit sin and still blast in tongues are their experienced genuine?

Some of the people who speaks in tongues that I've interacted with, when I rebuked them for something I noticed that it's not in accordance with the Word,

they would say as long as their consciences did not blame them, they have not done anything wrong...

My question is

with the baptism of the holy spirit, one does not accept rebukes from human beings again?

Sorry for bothering you with a lot of questions...
It's been long sir .
Hope all is well.
I'd like to wish you a happy new year (2022)and a prosperous day ahead.

Now.
The purposes of my reaching out to you again
Is simply because of one of these question of yours that you asked me concerning wether one would go to heaven if one does not have the holy spirit .

Now after studying,researching and meditating again on that topic -the topic of salvation ,and baptism of the holy spirit and water baptism.
God help me to see that some of the answer I gave you concerning weather one would made it to heaven if one does not have the holy spirit was wrongly asserted or explained.

So inorder not to led you into believing an error,or proclaiming error or falsehood
I was prompted to let you know about my mistake ,and to apologize to you and others who might have taken one or two things out if what I have told you .

Know .
In studying the scripture we are helpless in knowing the true mind of God without the help of the holy spirit who inspired it.

Many have proclaimed what they deduced as accurate by mere human reasoning or calculation ,and this has led to so many proclamations of falsehood,and has led to establishing demonic teachings has path of foundational doctrines in the body of Christ.

This singular act of wanting to know the true mind of God is one of the major reasons why it is not advisable for a believer who has the chance of getting filled with the holy spirit not to do so .

It is very important for every believer to be filled with the holy spirit however
I have come to understand by the grace of God that salvation is not until you get filled with the holy spirit ,or by getting filled with the holy sprit as I was trying to portrayed in my former reply to you sir .

But the word of God said
Romans 10:5-10
[5]For Moses writes about the righteousness which is of the law, “The man who does those things shall live by them.”
[6]But the righteousness of faith speaks in this way, “Do not say in your heart, ‘Who will ascend into heaven?’ ” (that is, to bring Christ down from above )
[7]or, “ ‘Who will descend into the abyss?’ ” (that is, to bring Christ up from the dead).
[8]But what does it say? “The word is near you, in your mouth and in your heart” (that is, the word of faith which we preach):
[9]that if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.
[10]For with the heart one believes unto righteousness, and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.

It says with the heart one believes unto righteousness,and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.

So salvation is not about getting baptize in the holy spirit but believing in the finishes works of Christ in your heart and confessing with your mouth what you believe in your heart.
So all you need to do to get save is only believe ,and then confess.

The baptism of the holy spirit comes to sanctify us and to empower us to live as children if God .
We become righteous when we believe and confess ,we get power to live righteous when we get filled with the holy spirit .

The believing and confessing is like a score mark.
The baptism of the holy spirit is the gift you get for what you scored.

So please I would like you to discard any thing diffrent from this from my former post that ha a find entrance into your heart and has become a belief .
Because that will be unscriptural.

Secondly when the bible says
Romans 8:9
[9]But you are not in the flesh but in the Spirit, if indeed the Spirit of God dwells in you. Now if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, he is not His.

If anyone does not have the spirit of Christ he is not his what does that means?

I think I will okie to keep mum on that for now until I get a more clearer and convincing understanding from the holy spirit or other believers ,but as from now I can't comment on that .

I have learnt not say things for the sake of saying or in the name of preaching ,but to have a good ,and spirit inspired understanding concerning them or keep quite and learn from others.

Please sorry that this is lengthy but I have to make myself clear and free you from holding error as a firm doctrine.


This was the screenshot of my discarded reply to you below .
The scripture itself is not or was not an error but the issue was my own understanding which has now being corrected.

So I am informing you of my decision to delete or erase those statement or comment .
Thank you .

Christianity Etc › Re: The Five Fold MINISTRIES :DISCERNING Your Calling By BURDENS by Speaklove(op): 5:00pm On Jan 23, 2022
You need to find your place
Music/Radio › Re: "Give Me Compassion" : A spiritual Song For Evangelical IMPARTATION by Speaklove(op): 4:59pm On Jan 23, 2022
It does matters
Christianity Etc › Re: Have You Ever Had A Thought About This ? by Speaklove(op): 4:59pm On Jan 23, 2022
HellVictorinho3:
Saved from what ....... things that don't existhuh


Or problems we can solve ourselves ....or the inevitable ones or the ones with no solutionhuh?




Someone said I had a spirit of madness......... I didn't argue...... I just looked past it.....then she almost blinded me with oil...... I wasn't expecting that sort of thing......


Can you help me with any money.....?


I want to get an eye treatment medication....or some fruits....


You know circumcision of hearts is figurative...if you just wanna prove you're a better Bible user...., that's unnecessary.


Trying to prove you're a better Bible user has caused many problems between several people...... you might choose not to give me even 600naira because of that...



I will not stop seeking financial assistance because I have no other option... I will keep asking people till I find another means or die trying..



Don't shed crocodile tears when I die.
You don't believe because something happened or what ?

You have to make your point clearer for me to understand you better .
Nairaland General › Re: An Open Letter To "Righteousness2" And Others by Speaklove(op): 4:56pm On Jan 23, 2022
Looking unto the Jesus the author and finisher of our faith.
Family › Re: The Actual Cause Of Problem In Marriages And Families :part 1 (one) by Speaklove(op): 11:21am On Jan 23, 2022
ajsans:
Thank you for this wonderful teaching. Please can I send you PM.
Sorry for taking Long before replying.

I scarcely allow or reply to email in this forum
For some reasons

So I think it would be better if you can just
Please state your thought here if you feel it's comfortable for you to do so .
Romance › Re: I'm Fed Up. My Boyfriend Thinks I'm A Prostitute. by Speaklove: 7:36pm On Jan 22, 2022
Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??
Well I will advice you to stop having sex with whoever you haven't got married to.
God said so -I know it's difficult but stay in Christ .

If you continue the relationship and end up getting pregnant for him you might not like what the out come would be .
Family › Re: The Actual Cause Of Problem In Marriages And Families :part 1 (one) by Speaklove(op): 11:01am On Jan 19, 2022
Hmm.
Good things coming ahead of this
Sports › Re: Salima Mukansanga: The First Female AFCON Referee (Pictures) by Speaklove: 8:58am On Jan 19, 2022
One day they will demand that male and female fotballers are equal therefore should play together .

This is a pure propaganda and a conspiracy to reset the world into a new order .

Female coaches for male footbalteam soon .

Then you will know better.
Sports › Re: Salima Mukansanga: The First Female AFCON Referee (Pictures) by Speaklove: 8:56am On Jan 19, 2022
One day
Family › The Actual Cause Of Problem In Marriages And Families :part 1 (one) by Speaklove(op):
The rate with which divorce is taking place in this world can't be overlooked.
Almost or more than 50 percent of family issues you would come across here on nairaland are issues relating to husband and wife not being able to get along smoothly .

Majority of Court cases on family issues are husband and wife having issues .
The rate of adultery,infidelity ,lack if trust and
Physical abuses are always on the rise .

So this I think this has brought us to the point where questions has to be asked or ansewred by everyone who already has a family or is planing to settle down on what could be the major cause of such bruhaha between two people who apparently loved each other before getting married ,or even at the early stage of their marriage but end up having issues that seems to be beyond the control of social settings ,family members,religious and community leaders to the extent that some end up killing each other.

Another question to ask or answer is "what kind of wisdom or program can be put into place to insure or see that families are kept bond,safe ,and peaceful .

We are humans who all have weaknesses in the flesh ,and could be subject to the evil manifestation of the flesh when one yields to the flesh .

Because of the flesh and it weaknesses trouble is for sure bond to happen.
Mistakes are sure to take place ,
Misunderstanding are sure to prompt quarel,
the tendency for separation to take place would seek to find space within two or more individuals has long as they are in the flesh.

For The causes of this bruhaha between families to be fully understood we will have to study the very beginig of man in the book of Genesis
Where the first woman because of her fleshy appetite erred and also Caused her husband to err .

And for the first time "The two felt uncomfortable with each other because of the condition of their flesh which was formerly hidden from them while they lived with their consciousness in the spirit (that was while their thoughts and consciousness was focused on their spirit and on the spirit of God ), but the moment they choose to live in the flesh (that was the moment they chose to think on the things that has to do with the appetite of the flesh )
They each began to consider their personal self ,the condition of each persons flesh,and they immediately began to feel uncomfortable with each other ,that the bible said they sew leave and covered their (each person's)body .

Before that: time the presence of God was their covering ,but after their fall the presence of God suddenly became to them an atmosphere of exposure that exposes their unclothedness (weaknesses) that they ran to hide themselves.
The bible giving us details concerning this said In
Genesis 3:8-10
[8]And they heard the sound of the Lord God walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and Adam and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the Lord God among the trees of the garden.
[9]Then the Lord God called to Adam and said to him, “Where are you?”
[10]So he said, “I heard Your voice in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; and I hid myself.”

So the man and his wife could no longer feel the same way they use to feel when in the presence of God ,because they each now live in the flesh (are mindful of the condition of their flesh which came from the dust of the ground (an allegory of the world) ,and could no longer focused on their spirit which came from God .
So every one now is selfish ,has hatred for the other,couldn't feel comfortable before the other and even before God (that's one of the reasons some can't believe ,pray or meditate the word of God or practice coming to God's presence or church)

So. you see the problem of each person is primarily the flesh and it's desires ,weaknesses ,selfishness ,and consciousness.

The bible says

Genesis 2:21-25
[21]And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall on Adam, and he slept; and He took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh in its place.
[22]Then the rib which the Lord God had taken from man He made into a woman, and He brought her to the man.
[23]And Adam said: “This is now bone of my bones And flesh of my flesh; She shall be called Woman, Because she was taken out of Man.”
[24]Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.
[25]And they WERE BOTH NAKED, the man and his wife, and WERE NOT ASHAMED.

The man and his wife were both naked and were not a shamed.
This means they both had something that could separate,or make them feel uncomfortable before each other but still they were united because they both were not conscious of the weaknesses of one and other .
They were not looking at the imperfections of one another but the perfection of one another .

The bible continued and says
Talking about the discussion between Satan and eve Satan told her

Genesis 3:4-7
[4]Then the serpent said to the woman, “You will not surely die.
[5]For God knows that in the day you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”
[6]So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree desirable to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate. She also gave to her husband with her, and he ate.
[7]Then the EYES of BOTH of them WERE OPENED, and THEY KNEW THAT THEY WERE NAKED; and they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves coverings.

Satan told eve "the day you eat this fruit your eyes will open And you will know

YOU WILL KNOW WHAT ?

Their eyes wasn't close or blind befor then but what Satan meant by "your eyes will be opened" is "you will now be able to see faults ,weaknesses,bad character ,insufficiencies,
Ugliness,poverty, unattractiveness,laziness etcetera in your partner, in your husband, of your wife ,in your brother, in your sister.etc.

So this has help us to discern that the problem within husband and wife is first of all the manifestation and desires of the flesh

THE FLESH IS SIMPLY
THE human nature without the influence and input of God over it .

So If there is a problem in your family ;before you point fingers first of all deal with the flesh
By allowing God's spirit to rule over your life ,
Influence your actions and reactions.
Define your philosophies.
Let thee word of God be the Gage with which your decide issues or steps to take .
Etc.


These discussion will continue if God's willing.

This will be the part one of this important discussion and I will continue by God's grace to bring update.


Please do not hesitate to comment or make contribution to this subject.

And if you are blessed by this writting please bless and glorify the name of Jesus Christ .
Thank you.
Family › Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Speaklove: 6:28pm On Jan 18, 2022
Do you and you wife pray together?

Any family where there is no time to commune together before God
There will be time to commune before Satan
In rancour,in strife,bloodshed,hatred,and divorce.

Many of these things happening in marriages
Are manifestations of demonic pollution through witchcraft and other satanic mediums
In various territories.

Satan knows that for the body if Christ to be united ,then that unity must began from the homes of the members before they will ever be unity in the general body of 'Christ.

Strike the sheperd and the sheep will scatter.

God led me to tell you to start praying with your family together.
Study the word together,and have good times
Together before the lord.

Follow this steps and your family will be fine again.

Open up to your wife ,ask her for forgiveness
And let her do likewise to you
For the sake of your children's destiny and for your own relationship with God.
Education › Re: 19-Year-Old Virgin Graduates From Taraba State University As She Celebrates (Pix by Speaklove: 9:16am On Jan 17, 2022
Yes even God celebrate you .
You know the worth of your virginity .

You were not after men to sell your virginity for mere gift .

Even though it it now considered a sin and a shameful thing to be a virgin these day .
Still you went ahead and preserved your self for your husband.

You will gain the spiritual and natural benefit that virginity gives at the end .
Many who are not virgin had regreted in the past and many will regret in the future like esau who sold his birthright for porrege .


Lord have mercy on this generation .
Family › Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Speaklove: 9:02am On Jan 17, 2022
Gkemz:
I've never seen a woman as forgiving and tolerant like this op. Your understanding amazes me. I believe you genuinely love him and you believe he will change. Things like this are settled in the spirit. Your husband is not acting with his senses. This is not about you not becoming attractive to him any longer. He's under a strong demonic influence and until he's delivered, this addiction will continue even if you divorce him.

Every addiction is a demonic oppression.
You spoke in wisdom ,
But many will not agree with you because they are carnal .

The man is under a demonic influence .
Even himself might not be happy with what he is doing but he can't help himself .

He needs deliverance .
But folks don't want to hear that demon poses people
Family › Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Speaklove: 8:51am On Jan 17, 2022
ChiomaCa:
Hello everyone, I'm in need of an advice, I got married to a man 5yrs+ ago. He relocated some months after marriage to Canada, I went to meet him 2 years after. And we had a baby 10months after my arrival. Immediately I arrived his place, I noticed he flirt alot onlline, Sex chats, Video sex chats, Visit porn sites, visit Prostitue Sites, and the rest. I caught him red-handed twice and he begged and pleaded not to do such again. I forgive him and I believe maybe because of the distance we had in two years.

We move on and I promise myself not to even go near his Laptop or mobile phone anymore.

I adhered to that for more than a year, which I'm still doing that till December 23 of 2021.

My daughter threw his I-watch inside water. Then I picked it up to drain for some minutes, after I drianed, I realised a message popped up , which Read " Do you enjoy me yesterday Do I book you for tomorrow again"

I was forced to check what's this. I saw hell. In short, he visited two different Prostitues in a hotel to book 30 minutes session with them for $160 and $220, I also saw other messages asking for Anal sex from these Escorts. I realised, he visited them 3rd, 1st 22nd of December. During these period, I was the one begging him for sex. He said he's not interested that he's Fixed with many activities and Shifts at work.

I was in the house hopping my husband as gone to work, not knowing he's doing something else within his short break and free time.

Immediately I saw this, I was devastated,I was mad at my self. We are very religious. Why all these for God sake, this is the 3rd time, what have I done to myself, have made a wrong choice?

I called his brother back in Nigeria and I inform and sent all what I saw to him, he called and talked to him, the next day, my husband came to me, apologize and promised not to do that again. I accept and forgive him.

Few days ago, I have been having this kind of feeling, I feel like I'm not beutiful because why will my husband prefer a Prostitue than me.

I hate myself, I think about it every minutes, whenever I see him, my mind keep breathing fast. I'm sad and I'm not happy, I don't know what to do.

I can't discuss with my parents, because they see my husband as the most religious person.

He doesn't talk much, keep friends nor drink.

I need advice dear mummy and daddy please is this a red light?
Pray for him .
Ask him to go on fasting.
Create a family session where you guys pray ,meditate the word of god together .
Practice waiting on the lord together.

But most of all "call his name and command the spirit of immorality to depart from him in Jesus name ."

This last one is very important.
Ordinary advice will not do
He needs deliverance ,and you are the closest person that can help him.

You have authority in the name of Jesus Christ to cast out demons .

Your husband is held bound by a demon
No amount of advice or counseling will do
He would only get worse ,and might even fight you or threaten to divorce you ,stop speaking to you.

All these are not his own direct attitude but demonic influence which you have to help him deal with by ,commanding every demonic forces treating his sanity to leave in in Jesus name .

You can do this even in his absent.

It not until someone is present before you can cast out demons from them .

Just pray deeply for long .
Then declare what you want and sealed it with the name of Jesus .

Help him to give himself to prayer ,fasting ,the word of God,and waiting on God ,after his deliverance or he might go back again and get worse than before .

Read thus scripture below .

1 Corinthians 7:1-5
[1]Now concerning the things of which you wrote to me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.
[2]Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband.
[3]Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband.
[4]The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.
[5]Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
Politics › Re: Prophecies About Buhari, Osinbajo, Others That Never Came To Pass In 2021 by Speaklove: 8:25am On Jan 17, 2022
This doesn't mean they are no true prophets or prophesy .
God is still speaking through his genuine servants .
Christianity Etc › Re: My Open Reply To "Lordreed" On His Argument Concerning The Existence Of God by Speaklove(op): 6:07pm On Jan 16, 2022
LordReed:
If your god can tell you my present full address, I will start to believe.
I myself have no power to tell you such things but God does .
His power and majesty is above what you've ask for ,because he is the one who knows the beginning and the end of all things before they began .
The bible has a record of such challenge of yours presented to God in the days of Daniel
And God shew himself as the majesty who know all things -the alpha and omega .

And I trust him to give you a reply best suit for your request ,and let him show his glory to others like you that his name might be glorified at the end .

Let God be truth and everyone a liar .

See lordreed my God is supreme above your question and he will reveal his majesty to the world through your question and your life that you will end up being a proclaimer of the glory and knowledge of God that is in the face of Jesus Christ -even the word of God .

Only wait for God to give answer to you
And it shall be done .

#speaklove 16 -1 -2022 (6:08pm)
Christianity Etc › Re: Have You Ever Had A Thought About This ? by Speaklove(op): 12:46pm On Jan 16, 2022
HellVictorinho3:
This is not new.
Yeah not new .
Always sound old and the same inside uncircumcised hearts.

Ezekiel 36:26
[26]I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; I will take the heart of stone out of your flesh and give you a heart of flesh.

Sorry if you meant otherwise.

But what can you do to make a different my friend ?
Which role will you play to get them saved
Christianity Etc › Re: 900-Year-Old Church Carved Downward Into A Huge Rock In Ethiopia (Photos) by Speaklove: 12:39pm On Jan 16, 2022
chariisGRACE:
Africa! smiley

There is a belief that Angels built the underground churches at Lalibela.

This is just awesome.

Why is this not among the Wonders of the World?
If the saving grace o f Christ wasn't considered as a wonder by the world then how would they consider a building named after him ?

They called perishable things wonder ,but refuse to acknowledge the wonderment of the eternal existence of their own souls
Nairaland General › Re: An Open Letter To "Righteousness2" And Others by Speaklove(op): 12:26pm On Jan 16, 2022
CX "spartan117"
You once wrote

And you are right.

Nairaland General › An Open Letter To "Righteousness2" And Others by Speaklove(op): 11:55am On Jan 16, 2022
Open letter to "Righteousness2" and others

There is a preacher here on nairaland by the name "Righteousness2" who always emphasizes on living righteous ,having faith in Christ Jesus,
the need for repentance ,etcetera.
He also seems to be an end- time cryer who don't find it difficult to connect various sensitive and critical events Taking place in the world with biblical teachings or prophecies .

as a result of these views of his ;he has gained enemies for himself ,his faith ,and his God .
Some do call him all sort of names ,
Others waging their head ,and mocking within their hearts.
some thoughts he must be out of his mind. It's just different forms of reviling from different quarters .

Now being a Christian and fellow worker in the proclamation of the gospel .
I have observed this fellow for sometimes, and i saw zeal ,determination ,and doggedness in his exploit for the kingdom of God, And God's holy spirit also knew .

The spirit gave me inspiration to write this letter to you and to others who are doing the same thing for the kingdom but were not so noticed .
This letter is by the inspiration of God directed to "Righteousness2" especially ,and to all others who are doing the work of God but receiving backlashes, abuses,insults, and reproaches from men of debased minds .

I want you to know that God is aware of your predicament ,challenges ,weakness ,strength,zeal ,faithfulness,concern and other issue you might be facing in his service .

And it is important for you to also know that Satan is also aware of you doggedness,your courage ,your determination and your zeal for the work and proclamation of the gospel of Jesus Christ on this forum ,and he is working and waiting to see you get discouraged, feel insulted ,backslide and even put aside your confession of the faith .

So he has chosen to operate through the sons of disobedience in whom dwell the spirits of unrighteousness having taken them captive to do his will on this forum and in every other places they might find themselves.

But the word of God even Jesus our savior admonishes you today by his holy spirit saying 2 Timothy 2:24-25
[24]And a servant of the Lord must not quarrel but be gentle to all, able to teach, patient,
[25]in humility correcting those who are in opposition, if God perhaps will grant them repentance, so that they may know the truth,

So don't be discourage but be strong in the lord ,and in the power of his might .
Keep preaching ,keep proclaiming
Do the work of an evangelist
Fulfill your ministry .
For even the hair of your head are numbered and nothing shall by any means hurt you .

Only keep the faith of Christ in spirit and in truth ,walking blameless before God and man
In secret and in open .
Do not be among the hypocrite who proclaim the faith with unrighteous motives deceiving men - they themselves were decieved by Satan ,and refuses to come to the light .
They are Wolfs in sheepskin ,
demoniacs who put on the clothings of angels ,brood of vipers who refuse to escape the condemnation of hell .

Ho thou man of God !
Fight the good fight ,
Run the race ,and keep the faith ;
For there is laid for you the crown of righteousness ,which the lord Jesus Christ the righteous judge will give to you on that day ,and not only to you but to all who love his appearing -even to to all others who are also facing the same mockeries ,insult and temptation from the sons of the fallen man ,and from the Servants and agents of the fallen angel .

Thus say Jesus the alpha and omega
Revelation 3:11
[11]Behold, I am coming quickly! Hold fast what you have, that no one may take your crown.

to all those who stand against the love ,grace and gospel of God the evangelist says
Isaiah 55:7
[7]Let the wicked forsake his way, And the unrighteous man his thoughts; Let him return to the Lord, And He will have mercy on him; And to our God, For He will abundantly pardon.

To all soul under heaven the word of God comes saying
Revelation 22:11-15
[11]He who is unjust, let him be unjust still; he who is filthy, let him be filthy still; he who is righteous, let him be righteous still; he who is holy, let him be holy still.” Jesus Testifies to the Churches
[12]“And behold, I am coming quickly, and My reward is with Me, to give to every one according to his work.
[13]I am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End, the First and the Last.”
[14]Blessed are those who do His commandments, that they may have the right to the tree of life, and may enter through the gates into the city.
[15]But outside are dogs and sorcerers and sexually immoral and murderers and idolaters, and whoever loves and practices a lie.

He who has ears let him hear
He who has heart let him believe
He who has mouth let him confess Jesus as his personal lord and savior today .

Saying
"dear Jesus .
I accept you has my personal lord and savior ,I believe you died for my sins and rose again ,I believe and confess that you are the son of God , savior wash away my sins and register my name in the book of life today . thank you because it is done,
-now I believe I am born again by the grace of the father in Jesus name .
Amen .
thank you Jesus .
Halleluja
Romance › Re: 'how Do I End A Blood Covenant Relationship I Made With My Boyfriend? He Refuses by Speaklove: 6:40pm On Jan 15, 2022
Giftlove11:
I was being blinded by love to the extent that my boyfriend and I took a blood covenant, that was about some years ago..

The truth is that I was so madly in love with him, and when he brought out the ideal, I thought that was the only way he will be mine forever. So I agreed with him, and we made the convenant.. We use needle to cut out blood from our thumb, and we made a vow never to live each other or make love with another person..

i've been discussing with him to end this convenant, but he always refuses. We took the convenant when i was 17yrs, and Its been 8years now, and i've loved only him. Even though i don't love him again, i'm afraid to have or make love with another person.
he say we can't end it and that we must mary each other.

I already found someone else i love, i'm planning to report him to the police or his parents if he dosn't give me a chance to go away..

*i don't kno if it will actually hurt me if i love another person.

i really want to go away from him
Well we are all humans ,and do make mistake
In life .
Please be careful next time .

Now are you a Christian ?

If you are a christian don't worry much .

Go meet your boyfriend and tell him why you don't want him anymore ,ask for his forgiveness ,talk to him with humility ,and respect , cry if need be .

If he refuse ,then go meet his parents and tell them the whole issue ,explain to them why you did it and why you are not interested any longer

If still nothing happens
Then go to your parent ,pastor ,guidance or anyone you can trust
Narrate everything bro them
And by gods grace you will be help to connect with him and set your free .

But if he still insist then you still have an option with is to turn to jesus Christ completely for your freedom.

The bible says
" The law says we are under a curse for not always obeying it. But Christ took away that curse. He changed places with us and put himself under that curse. The Scriptures say, “Anyone who is hung on a tree is under a curse.” Because of what Jesus Christ did, the blessing God promised to Abraham was given to all people. Christ died so that by believing in him we could have the Spirit that God promised. Brothers and sisters, let me give you an example from everyday life: Think about an agreement that one person makes with another. After that agreement is made official, no one can stop it or add anything to it, and no one can ignore it.
Galatians 3:13-15

But Christ has become a curse for us ,has taken the punishment of our sins

So if you have a genuine reasons why you want to leave then you should face Jesus ,present your case be for his court (by praying) and ask him to set you free from the repercussions of your action .

And then declare all evil that should happen to you as CANCELED because Christ has suffered in your place .

I think you should talk to your pastor and seek more counsel concerning the last point I made to you .
And you could search the scripture for yourself to see what god says .

Now tell me
"Why did you want to leave him ?
Do you know the consequences of what you did when you took that oath ?
On what ground did you two convenanted with each other .


Lastly be careful of fraudsters who proclaim to be delivarance ministers ,so that they don't add to you problem ta the end please .

Relax ,trust God for there is a solution to this ,and you will smile at the end
Only don't cheat the other person in this case .

Matthew 5:34-37
[34]But I say to you, do not swear at all: neither by heaven, for it is God’s throne;
[35]nor by the earth, for it is His footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King.
[36]Nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black.
[37]But let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No.’ For whatever is more than these is from the evil one.

Jesus can set you free from this evil one .

Just repent and turn to him in prayer ,and seek more counsel from spirit filled believers
Around you.


But if you are not a Christian
Then give your life to Jesus today ,and immediately you confess Jesus as lord
Then know that salvation has come .

only be truthful tobthebother person .
Feel free to ask me any qouestion
Christianity Etc › Re: My Open Reply To "Lordreed" On His Argument Concerning The Existence Of God by Speaklove(op): 7:14pm On Jan 14, 2022
Workch:
It's amazing how you think you can convince any athiest by using quotes from the Bible.
The flaws in the Bible which we have read is why we are mostly atheists
It is rather amazing how you think you could interpret another man's (spiritual) language simply by exercising your brain


It is like a french man trying to interpret fulfude by his intellectual capacity without seeking insight from the indigenous.

Think again
Christianity Etc › Re: My Open Reply To "Lordreed" On His Argument Concerning The Existence Of God by Speaklove(op): 7:09pm On Jan 14, 2022
LordReed:
There is one thing that will get me to start believing in your god. Will you ask your god for it?
What is it ?
Career › Re: Baba-Aji Mamman Refunds N11 Million Unearned Father's Salaries To Yobe State by Speaklove: 5:38pm On Jan 14, 2022
naija4life247:
Now tell me who will go to Hell. You and your fellow fraudsters on the pulpit using God’s name to scam people, or the man who refunded money he thinks he does not deserve?

Use your head. To whom brain is given, sense is expected
The man did very well by refunding the money , and mind you that action was inspired by his desire to appear blameless before God .
But the bible says all have sinned and has fallen short of the glory of God

He settled the isssue of what he considers has his personal sin which is very good

But there is a wages of sin that every human has to pay to God ,
For when Adam sinned all sinned
And the wages to pay for this general sin is deaths which this man must also pay

He paid the debt of unrighteous gain back to the gorvrment ,so he also of necessity must pay the debt of unrighteous act to God
Which he has to pay with the currency of his own soul.

Every soul is guilty befor God and can't be offered has a pleasing payment to God
So God had to take care of that ,and then gift back the right to live back to everyone who is willing to accept that gift -which gift is Jesus Christ and his finished works .

So the point that "RIGHTEOUSNESS"
Was trying to make was
"Was the man able to settle the issue of debt owed to God which God had already settled
Through Christ Jesus for all who believe
The same way he was able to settled debt owed to men ?

Use your heart and meditate deeply on what you just read .
For to whom a spirit is given
Laws will also be given
And to whom laws are given
Righteous requirements will be demand
Career › Re: Baba-Aji Mamman Refunds N11 Million Unearned Father's Salaries To Yobe State by Speaklove: 5:19pm On Jan 14, 2022
Kriss216:
Which kind yeye eye service be this?

Hypocrites!

Abacha's returned loots still doesn't make Abacha a saint. Once a criminal, always a criminal.
You are wrong
Things has changed.

For it is written
"Put off the old man and put on the new man
Old things has passed away behold all things are made new"

Once a criminal can forever be a saint
Because of the finished work of Christ .

For as many has believed in him he gave power to become the children if God
Even them that are reborn into the newness of life by the eternal spirit of God.

The man did well to return what was wrongly earned ,
That act is a sign of repentance
But it was a repentance done before an unknown god
Because there is no other name given under heaven by which we (men )must be saved
Except the name of Jesus .

Once a saint can be a devil like Lucifer
And
Once a prostitute can be a saint like Mary Magdalena
Even forever like the spirit of just men made perfect
Health › Re: Having A Heart Problem At The Age Of 28.. I Need Help And Advice by Speaklove: 11:46pm On Jan 13, 2022
udomonday:
just like that?wise up and be realistic.
You came to this world and suddenly found out that you are what people call "human "

You found your parent calling you a certain name to which you gave answer always .

So if I should ask you now
"What are you ?
You would answer "I'm a human "
What's your name ?
You would give the name you're bearing

But you should have been realistic and not accept what others tagged for you
Because it is unrealistic to accept what you can't comprehend even though it might have the power to influence your life .

Your name has influence over your life
But it is beyond you because it was given to you without your knowledge or (consciousness of it )
But you grew up and accepted what you could have rejected has yours .

So let the sick accept his healing in faith
Even though how it would happen is beyond human comprehension
The same way you accepted the name given you has yours even though it was beyond you

When he is called "healed "
Allow him to answer "amen "

The same way you use to answer "yes "
When someone calls "Monday "

It is by faith that you are saved not by reasoning or by being carnally -realistic

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