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HellVictorinho3:
I don't believe because I can't believe...... it's impossible for me..... I can't consider anything as a reason to believe..... indeed....., I also think it doesn't make sense that my mother believes or considers it possible for anything called God to exist because she has passed through enough shit such that her life shouldn't be associated with anything divine..... but some bastards say anyone that suffers doesn't know how to please God or the person doesn't know how to ensure that God changes his or her situation...or the person doesn't understand the Bible or the laws of karma or the person chooses to suffer .....so much waste of mental resources in the name of trying to explain what you're not aware of........ nonsense!!!!



Those that bring up such things have no idea what the person has faced or his facing !!!!



I once had faith but I have to state that it was useless..... the so-called understanding of the Bible / Quran that some people feel makes them special is another reason why life is absurd.....so,they turn statements upside down when it doesn't get along with their reasoning!!!


I have suffered enough , already!!!



Let the worst happen!!!!!

Ephesians 6:13,16
[13]Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.
[16]above all, taking the shield of faith with which you will be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked one.

1 Peter 4:12
[12]Beloved, do not think it strange concerning the fiery trial which is to try you, as though some strange thing happened to you;

1 Peter 4:13
[13]but rejoice to the extent that you partake of Christ’s sufferings, that when His glory is revealed, you may also be glad with exceeding joy.

There is a prophecy that Egypt (a allegory of the world -the lost souls in it ) will know the lord after a cry (supplication and intercession) is offered before the lord ,and they that blasphme will praise ,they that doubt will have faith ,they that have lost hope will be revived again .
Will you join this train of those who will raise the cry to bring the fulfillment of the prophecy ?
Has you seek to be rich in the material things of the world also seek to get rich with God.

The prophecy:

Isaiah 19:20-21
[20]And it will be for a sign and for a witness to the Lord of hosts in the land of Egypt; for they will cry to the Lord because of the oppressors, and He will send them a Savior and a Mighty One, and He will deliver them.
[21]Then the Lord will be known to Egypt, and the Egyptians will know the Lord in that day, and will make sacrifice and offering; yes, they will make a vow to the Lord and perform it.

The fulfilment:
A song of intercession:
So sing it out ..........

I will cry unto the lord
for the salvation of the lost
Till the nations of the earth
see the glory of the king .

I will mourn and wail to the lord.
For the salvation of the lost
Till the veil upon their heart
is removed to see his face .

I will wait upon the lord
Till he fills me with his strength,
And
I will fly over the nations
Till the will of God is done .

I will cry unto the lord
for the salvation of the lost
Till the nations of the earth
see the glory of the king .

I will mourn and wail to the lord.
For the salvation of the lost
Till the veil upon their heart
is removed to see his face .

I will wait upon the lord
Till he fills me with his strength,
And
I will fly over the nations
Till the will of God is done

I will cry unto the lord
for the salvation of the lost
Till the nations of the earth
see the glory of the king .

I will mourn and wail to the lord.
For the salvation of the lost
Till the veil upon their heart
is removed to see his face .

I will wait upon the lord
Till he fills me with his strength,
And
I will fly over the nations
Till the will of God is done

We all should live circumspectly and always be mindful of 5he fact that some day we would be around anymore.

It is important that those who don't know Christ should give their lives to him befor it's to late .

May God grant the family fortitude to bear the loss

Yeah true talk

doggedfighter:
Religion is messing with your head and as such it's almost impossible having a logical and objective conversation with your like.


Being judgemental ,emotional and unreasonable are the trademarks of people like you who only use stories from storybook and use only fictious names to butress their points.


Don't quote me again.

We don't share same views on issues.

Well ,you have your say .
But this is a forum and a open space bigger enough for everyone to express themselves in accordance with the instituted guidelines enacted by the regulators of the community-therefore I have the right to quote you and to either agree it disagree with you.

Having said that .
It is important for you to know that whatever you say on this forum either directed to your self or communicate to a targeted people as far as it is an open statement it would have an implications on the lives of whoever sees it wether it was consciously or unconsciously determined to be so ,therefore creating the need for a contribution from the uninvited
But affected.

We might not share the same view as you've said .
But we share the same platform and the same right .

You will surely be quoted again if need be according to the guidelines of this forum

Thank you for your insult .
Hope to see you doing well on the otherside of the realm .

doggedfighter:
What do I do?, you asked?


And I ask ' how do you feel about this whole thing?

Do you like it?

Are you interested?

If no, tell her in strong terms that you have moved on, so you both should face your family and partners.


But if yes, go ahead listening, analysing, sympathising and rendering the needed assistance in cash and even in kind.

YOU CAN ASSIST AN EX. Yes !

I always say, the only danger in sleeping with a married person is being caught by an angry husband, boyfriend or wife.


Nothing more.

No spiritual, traditional or whatever implications.




It's all in your hands now !

Terrible lie !
I cast it down .
There are dangers and terrible implications if one one should have sexual intercourse with a married person .
This is because there is a covenant in marriage which bequeaths the body of the man to the woman and the woman's to the man .
If this covenant should then be broken through extramarital affairs the perpetrator would face spiritual consequences that might not be manifested immediately or in an expected time .

Reuben was cursed because he slept with his fathers concubine ,David was afflicted because he had intercourse with another man's wife .


So if you should speak in this wise I winder what you might do behind your spouse (I'm not trying to be judgemental)

paxonel:
only this your statement alone can give unbelievers enough reason not to respond to your call, making your effort a futile attempt.

I will advice, go and understand your bible first, concerning who is a believer or a Christian. It will save you from unnecessary stress

Thank you for your advice but I will also like to advice you not to lean on your own understanding but seek that he breath on you and open your understanding .

This is simply because you present no argument or exegesis other than what I wrote
Nor make yourself clear but seek to refute an assertion without a defense .

yemite100:
Good day Nairalanders,

I work as a security officer in a community, I usually work from 7:00am - 3pm in a secondary school, and also resume night duty by 7pm in a community close to my house
The landlord association gave us a warning that we must check all cars coming in and going out of the estate and we have been performing our duties in a polite way..
About 11:35pm last night, we heard the horn of a strange car requesting that we should open the gate, I switch on my touch to check those inside the car, it was three abled young men and lady inside the car, in a polite way I ask them where they are heading to and they mentioned a popular rich man in the community, as usual, I told them to open the booth of there car which they refused to open, I told them to drive back to where they are coming from but before I could know what's happening,. They got down from the car and threathing to deal with us if the gate is not opened...they forced the gate open and drove inside the community,my colleague we're just watching the whole scenario as I drag issues with them...
I don't know the report they gave the chairman of the landlords association, they just got to our checkpoint this morning and told me I have been fired without paying me off, I told them I haven't done anything wrong and was just carrying out my duties,I was told never to come close to the area again or else I will be arrested.
I left there in annoyance, I was only carrying out my duties but now I have been Sacked for carrying out order...
I don't know what this country is turning to again...

Ho no !
This is terrible !
What kind of life are we living for God sake?

If something bad had happened in the community they would still blame you

I've been out for sometimes

AntiChristian:
Where and who did Jesus himself ask anyone to accept him as Lord and savior?

Only if you would believe and stop being Antichristian .
Mark 16:15-16
[15]And He said to them, “Go into all the world and preach the gospel to every creature.
[16]He who believes and is baptized will be saved; but he who does not believe will be condemned.

Today is the day of salvation my friend

Exprofressor:
I will try to be brief as I can. Pls read on

I was born in a broken home from two different tribes in the country.
My late mom was a lecturer in one of the state polytechnics though she resigned her job when she couldn't cope with her mental illness. Me and my siblings were only in primary school then

My dad showed no concern for her health and came back to his hometown engaging himself in politics that have benefitted him nothing.




Me and my elder bro grew up with our dad while my two little sisters stayed with my mom, though we lost our last born the year 2005

I grew up with asthma and lacked mother's care. My dad and extended family even my grannies disliked me because they taught I was slow and couldn't cope with my mates

The truth is that my asthma was severe. I couldn't move an itch without my inhaler. The abuse got worse when in my early youth I couldn't do basic work to earn like my mates by working on building sites.

I was called lazy and the day I tried to prove I wasn't lazy, I nearly died of cement dust

My mom died last year April
She died poor and in pains due to liver disease.

I didn't remember giving my mom anything substantial before her demise, though i didn't have, but I feel I wasted my early youth by not making use of the best opportunity that presented itself after I left secondary which would have bettered me

Few years before her death she pleaded I move to stay with her. I couldn't because she lives in Northern Nigeria and there's no job in the area. I am in deep pains!

My mum mental health resulted to her adding hypo in her food and water claiming it's a cure for BP.(she also have BP)
I feel I am responsible for her death and hate myself for not reaching for my mom when she needs me. If I was around she wouldn't have drank hypo occasionally thereby destroying her liver


Now I feel I am becoming a demon. I hate helping people, infact when I see people in need I withhold any kind of help because God didn't give me chance to offer help to the woman I love most. I think because I couldn't do for my late mom no one is worth it.

My lack of empathy is growing by the day.
My girlfriend left, saying she couldn't cope, she says I have to start forgiving myself.
Do you believe I refused rendering help to my dad when he had accident? This was even before my mom died

I have taught about suicide but I can't just imagine how my bro will feel. Despite causing him pains too, he have always tolerated me and I know the damage my death will cause him. I wish I was never his brother


Pls I am tired of being angry and depressed
Is there a remedy for me? Sometime I think I behave abnormal, I really don't know if I am mentally insufficient too

Hmm.
Your story touched me deeply .
It's painful to live in a world where no one cares for you ,or understand you .

Have been in situations where people misunderstood me and acted negatively towards me -they could perceived that I needed help .

So in one way I could relate to what your saying but the problem is in life we expect things that no one promise or even think they owe us .
Life is war
Life is a challenge
But we are not well taught that God expect us to take responsibilities and bear burdens in many circumstances .
We were told of the goodness of god but we are most tines not told about overcoming .

I will advice you to be strong.
Have faith in god .
Keep believing .
This is called "the fiery dart which is to test your faith .
If you commit suicide you lose the battle
But if you chose to stay at all cost the enemy will back out at the end .
The end is the last day you breath .
Life is worth living if it will end in eternity .
Death is not worth dying if it will end in pain .

Meditate the scriptures if you are a Christian .
If you are not a Christian then give your life to Christ today ,and hope in his salvation .


Please stay strong and you will smile again .

Descottes:
so many things my dear. I'm a weirdo and a loner– I don't have much friends and I don't wish to.
I see life very differently from how other people see it, which makes me question whether I was supposed to be born here in this God forsaken shithole at all.
I hate everything about here. And I'll definitely leave to find a life somewhere else.. with you probably

Your situation or complain would.sound funny and comic in another man's ear my dear .
When the night comes don't say there is no light but look at the moon ,and when there is no moon then look at the stars ,and when there are no stars then look at the word of god .
As it is written

John 1:1-5
[1]In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.
[2]He was in the beginning with God.
[3]All things were made through Him, and without Him nothing was made that was made.
[4]In Him was life, and the life was the light of men.
[5]And the light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not comprehend it. John’s Witness:
Proverbs 20:
[27]The spirit of a man is the lamp of the Lord, Searching all the inner depths of his heart.

Brownygold002:
Hey, Nairalanders

Something has really been eating me up, I think I need to share. I'm a young gal of about more than 17, I'm brown, tall, slim, have a long curly hair (I'm from a mixed race - Lebanon and Nigeria), brown eyes and nice lips I'm endowed (no be mouth).

I'm a fresher at UNIZIK. I know I am attractive which I don't deny, I don't boast nor make anyone feel inferior. I have 3 roommates. I respect them cos I'm the youngest amongst them. But they don't seem to get along with me. I have tried everything I Can.

Each time we go out, I'm usually the center of attraction which is not new to me, nothing special. They just hate me. I don't boast. I try 2 look as simple as possible. But guys do come for me and they get jealous.

I have tried talking to them but they said they're fine but deep down I know they don't like me. The other day they intentionally frustrated me, they hid my assignments and burnt a new gown a guy at church got me. I'm tired of all these attitude everyday. I feel lyk taking my life, the hate is much. I didn't make myself. Help me guys!!

Remember the story of joshep in the bible ?

Apply wisdom ,and let the holy spirit lead you .

You need to inform someone and let them know

It is their right to wear Hijab.
But
It is also the school right to maintain its christian principles.

If the school says no Hi jab
Then create your own school and enforce Hi jab.

I am a christian and I believe we should all dress moderately ,and appropriately .

But when some people want.to enforce their own religious values upon another adherent of other faith in a organized setting like a school then it is a no no .

Christians have their beliefs and the other side should respect that .

saphiere:
I don't have plan B. I know the God I am serving. My plan A must work for me. He promised me through His words (Bible) that he will grant all my heart desires. I desire to have a decent home and raise wonderful kids to His glory.

Once you think of plan B, you have limited your God.



How many people in the Bible did God make a Rev Sister?

My God is not like Nigerian men who have double mouth. My God will never say a thing and then do the opposite. My God has already told me that I will leave my father's house and join with my soulmate and the two shall become one.

So tell me who God will plan for me not to get married when He has said that I will leave my father's house to my husband's house.

Correct .
This is how our mindset should be .
You made my day.

This is commendable.

Such a governor should be encouraged to do more

Ogamysamo:
nothing had or can be done for love compare to what christ did for the sake of love; offering himself as a sacrifice for the redemption of sin, for the forgiveness of sins he didn't commit.


if they point gun to my head say make i deny you i go tell them say lie lie is that statement genuine? will any courageous word come out of his mouth at that point if he discover that the people are serious?
.

.

*

only jesus did it perfectly. what have you done for him? is it a big deal accepting your mistakes? is it too hard for you to repent? why haven't you receive him as your lord and savior?


he died 4 you

This is the best of them all

Righteousness2:


Whoever Loves his/her life should listen to this warning/Admonishment.

True talk

majamajic:
Evil movie

Yeah
It was indeed evil though they might not agree with you

DropsMic:
I have watched every Harry Potter movie atleast 200 times.. No cap. A very huge HP fan ✌..

Rip prof Snape
Rip Dudley's dad
Rip Dumbledore
Rip Narcissa
Rip Ollivander aka the wand maker





Your kind is what's wrong with Nigeria..


Your ignorance will lead you to damnation

You lied .
The movie is full of demonic inspiration in the name of entertainment.
One could learn some elementary principles of witchcraft by merely watching that movie.

I was a fan of the movie but got to a stage where it became clearer to me that sorcery,witchcraft ,and different sort of demonic activities actually took place in that movie .
Even though you might want to argue that it was a mere acting ,and casting but still spiritual impartations ,inspirations,and activations do take or could take place if the soul of those who were acting it has it in mind to do so .

Our environment is constantly imparted with various energy that comes out of pictures sounds and vibrations and in turn influences the souls of individuals to gear towards a certain direction which is intended by the inspire of such energies.

You might not be spiritual but your non spirituality isn't an excuse of such realities .

Education blinded the hearts of many though it was said to open their eyes.

It did opened it torwards carnality

ajsans:
Hello sir, unfortunately I am not really comfortable sharing my personal information publicly. Since you said you don't allow PM, I respect that.

It's okay .

Please sorry about that .

Seyi2730:
Good morning guys am new here
Please I need an advice
I stay Lagos and I work from home since Covid started,last year I opened a 3bed for my mom in ogun state so she has been there with my brother so since 2021 have been living a very hard life I got sack and things begin to get more harder in the process I couldn’t renew my rent in Lagos because I still say in Lagos alone,so I went for a prayer session I was told the house I stay in Lagos is a scorpion house which it hard for people to progress there,now my rent will due soon and I don’t have money to pay up and my mom telling me to move in inside the 3bed since there is a room left but deep down am having a feeling at 30 can I still stay with my mom cos to me I fell somehow , but due to my no job I couldn’t even get another apartment
Please advice me�

Sorry for all you've went through .

Now it devastating to hear that the house in which you take shelter is a barricade that tempers with your progress .

I will advice you to pray ,and wage spiritual warefare if you have been fully equipped befor now with the requisite information your need to know before carrying out such exercise .
(Download the PDF file of the book titled "believers authority "by Kenneth hagin and read it ) it will help you understand more

But if you do know the way of warfare then fight to posses your posesion because you have been given authority and power to trample all powers of the enemies.
All you need to know is how to use your God given authority and stop shivering befor your already defeated adversary .

You can chose to keep staying in that house ,and you will still progress and do well if you can do or will do all you need to do by praying

Or still you can chose to forget the issue if age and go manage with your mom and work torwards the betterment of your situation .

As humans we must be confronted with challenges that demands either we be offensive and fight for your right or bow down to the enemy .
As christians we must be confronted with battles ,and threats that seek to challenge our faith ,and our authority .
We must learn to fight the enemy or learn to bow and be humiliated .

I will advice you to either find a way you can move out of that place or else put on the whole armor of God and fight for your destiny.

Luke 11:21-22
[21]When a strong man, fully armed, guards his own palace, his goods are in peace.
[22]But when a stronger than he comes upon him and overcomes him, he takes from him all his armor in which he trusted, and divides his spoils.

Ephesians 6:10-18
[10]Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might.
[11]Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.
[12]For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places.
[13]Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.
[14]Stand therefore, having girded your waist with truth, having put on the breastplate of righteousness,
[15]and having shod your feet with the preparation of the gospel of peace;
[16]above all, taking the shield of faith with which you will be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked one.
[17]And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God;
[18]praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, being watchful to this end with all perseverance and supplication for all the saints.


But please as you labour spiritually
Don't forget that you must not neglect or give excuse if not laboring physically (work diligently)
And even psychological (improve and add value to your self .

We must not say all our problems are spiritual ,but must engage the world physically and psychological to have better result in life .

So don't neglect playing your part by being deli gent with your work .

I think this is my submission.
Use it

Acts 4:12
[12]Nor is there salvation in any other, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved.”

I know there are many people out there who are either direct unbelievers
eg. Muslims,atheists,traditionists agnostics,humanist ,freethinkers or whatever

While some are not born-again though they were born into. christian families .

So as to give a leading to such people
This platform and thread was created to
Give such people the right utterances and vocabularies to express their faith in the finish works of Christ by whom alone we can be saved from our sins ,from eternal damnation ,and by whom alone we could get access to the father and be admired into the eternal kingdom of God.

So here we go :
If you are willing to give your life to Jesus Christ ,but don't know how or what to do
Please follow these instructions below:
say

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"Dear Jesus ,I (say your name) accept you from this day as my personal lord and savior for I now believe
Truly In my heart that you are the son of the only true God and that you died for my sins on the cross ,was buried and rose up the third day .
I confess that your are the Christ the son of God .
Clean my name from the book of deaths and condemnation,and write my name in the book of life and justification .
Thank you Jesus for saving me ."[color=#990000]

If you have just prayed that prayer I say
A big congratulations to you because you are now saved ,and born again .

For the scripture says in
Romans 10:10
[10]For with the heart one believes unto righteousness, and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.

Now I will advice you to join a Christian bible church closer to you or seek for counseling from any bible society or Christian union within your vicinity.

Please don't forget to comment your decision on this same post .
Thank you .

So many terrible news from this poster

worriedhubby:
I have been married to my wife for 10years now. My 1st child (7 years) has some health challenge. My daughter's challenge was diagnosed at age 3. Same year, I came back from work to see my child having crisis. I asked my wife why she didn't take my DD to the hospital. She responded, "no more hospital in this house". I tried calling a friend to drive me an my girl to the hospital, she got the phone from me and ended the call. Her words were , " if you are aware what is causing your child's illness, you better let me know ". I kept focused. Got my girl the needed medical help. Next day when I got home, I asked her, she refused answering. I later told the priest that wedded us, who later spoke with her.

In 2020, I got a call from a church in Port Harcourt, that someone brought my picture to the pastor. That I am the evil man causing my wife's and daughter's illness. The person that took my picture is my wife's brother. I was mad! But family and friends helped me to keep calm. A month later, my wife wouldn't UnCloth in my presence. If I entered the room while she is dressing or the bathroom while she is bathing, she will quickly cover up. When I confronted her, she told me it is because she believes my "hands are not clean ". That she was told that I am occultic before she even joined me. That because I am "hot tempere","don't pray certain prayer points ", she believes that I have some dark powers. I did my best to refute her claim in a calm way. But was deeply hurting. I reported her to a Pastor at Mountain of Fire where she now worships. She changed and told the man that she believes I am a child of God.

Just few weeks ago, I picked a paper under our bed where my wife wrote to someone how her brother had a dream in December and was told that I am my wizard causing my child's illness. In that write up, my wife also claimed she had her own revelation that I am in some occultic powers. When I showed her the paper, she tried to cause a scene, but I left her. I only asked, "are all these true?" "Why are you bent on labeling me what I am not?"
Later that day, she came up with lies, that the paper was just some prayer points she was putting down.

Just yesterday, someone called to inform me that he was with a certain owner of prayerhouse when my wife called to tell the woman why she believes I am occultic.

I have tried to ignore her, but I am gradually getting worried. What is she really up to? She doesn't believe in the medical diagnosis for my DD, hence, she won't give the child the necessary medication if I am not home.

How does someone believes that the hubby is occultic, and wants to harm her, yet still tries to initiate s3x with the said husband? When she had a surgery last year, I was the person cooking for her till she could get back on her feet. Why did she not refuse the foods? Finally, who knowingly get married to someone she believes is occultic, then start running to prayer houses for deliverance?

Could it be my wife is mentally sick? Or she is projecting who she is on me?

I think someone is trying to sow the seed of discord in your family spiritually or by blackmail .

Use your senses well .
Handle the case with maturity .
Above all pray against every spiritual forces that is trying to destroy your family.

Pray about it ,and ask your wife to pray with you so as to settle her mind .
If she is willing

JackDaAlienz:
See as 1 small boy bring down a whole school.

Because the soul of one small boy is worth more than a whole school.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

Masturbation ain't bad son

masturbation is not a bad thing

Masturbate if you want.....it is very good

And if you think that you are addicted....the solution is that you need to first stop thinking it is a bad thing....so you won't be feeling guilty after masturbating.....

You know the funny thing
When you stop feeling guilty about masturbations and stop seeing it as a bad thing that is the time you start to limit it without you knowing....
masturbation is not a bad thing

Repent from this evil and stop taking pleasure in something that is obviously endangering your soul.

He didnt plant the knowledge that masturbation is a sin within his by himself .
It was his conscience giving him witness to what is truth.

You are asking him to kill the voice of his conscience .
Do you know why it is easier for terrorist to kill ?
It because they did what you're asking him to do .
They killed the voice of their conscience band took out of their hearts that voice that condemn them when they do those evil things .

This world is very evil today because many people refuses to call sin -sin and instead chooses to silence the inner voice that condemn them .

Isaiah 5:20-21
[20]Woe to those who call evil good, and good evil; Who put darkness for light, and light for darkness; Who put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!
[21]Woe to those who are wise in their own eyes, And prudent in their own sight!

Semiaddict:
initially i fell for the trick of people trying to make masturbation look good.

I tried on my own to quit masturbation and the most I've gone is a month. I've been masturbating for almost 5 years now and I'm sick and tired of going back to my own vomit,anytime i finish masturbating i feel stupid and useless.

Masturbation has affected my brain capacity i failed jamb last year and I'm about to rewrite, I think quitting this dangerous addiction of mine is a good start.

Quitting porn couldn't help,
I'm alone i just feel the urge. Anytime i see a woman i only see them as sex objects,even masturbating to some family members which i one of the reasons i feel so dirty.
I need help.

Stay away from android phone to stop pornography.
Fast at least. 1 day a weaek
Pray always
Meditate the bible
Stay away from friends that can influence you to commit such habit .

Put your hand on your head and command the spirit of masturbation to live you Jesus name .

Most of all repent and confess your sins be for God .

Give your life to Jesus of you are not a christian by confessing Jesus as your personal lord and savior .

Make sure you do that now and today .


It might not be a 1 day battle ,so continue till you are free.