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AngelaZ:
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I met my husband Sept, 1991. I was very young then, I had always told my mum and every one around that I was going to get married at 18, I thought i was kidding but the power of the tongue caught up with me. I had heard alot of good about Matthew (My husband) but thought he was much older and could not think of marrying me, but he did and to my shock he said " ... I am NOT looking for a girlfriend, I want a wife and I see those qualities in you". I had a good laugh first, cos it looked like he was acting a movie. That was in the hospital where my mum was lying ill.

Oct 10th was his birthday, so he took us out to dinner at Durbar Hotel in Kaduna. There he proposed in front of everyone, I was highly touched, moved by his thoughtfulness and romantic taste (He was my kind of dream man, tall, dark, intelligent and handsome gentle military man), I could not help but say Yes! He swept me off my feet, gave a big hug and kissed me passionately. He was irresistable.

... And because he was looking for a wife, we started planning our wedding, by December 22nd, we were married, there was no opposition, he had good records and was lovable. He loved me I MUST CONFESS. He helped with every thing, he had a horrible voice but loved singing to me, his favourite song goes like this

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My Darlin, how are you doin
My darlin come near min
you are the only one which God has given you to min
My darlin come and kissy your husband.

My honey moon was at my Village, a place called wedi mission (meaning missionaries quaters). It was a beautiful quite peaceful area over looking the river Gongola. If every egg were to be ferterlized, I would have had 1000000000000000000000000000000
kids then, but God said No until six months later. I started getting worried about not concieving immediately but he was there all the way, he had so much faith and kept saying, "It is you I love and want to live the rest of my life with, children are secondary, besides they will come at God's time". Thank God she come on the 7th of May 1993. We wanted a boy but SHE CAME and he named her Eremo (God's Will).

Second week of Sept 1993, he was involved in a fatal motor accident, was hospitalized at the National Hospital Gwagwalada. Four days later (Will brief you another day) I lost my love, my life on the 15th of Sept. He was a perfect Husband and a wonderful father (Wished he lived longer to love her more and the other unborn kids), I had no regrets falling in love with him, if I had to live ten more lives, I will marry him over and over again. I do not think I would have been unfaithful and if he had not gone to be with the Lord, We would have lived forever... LOVE COVERS MULTITUDE OF SINS and LOVE VANISES WHEN GROWTH STOPS. The mind makes or breaks a home. He told me, there was a day in US he walked into a restaurant to have lunch, while he was sitting alone, he noticed a couple in their (About Eighties) walking in, the old man opened the door for his old wife to come in, pulled a chair for her to sit down, went over to sit, then picked up her hand and kissed, while he was ordering for the food, he was busy robbing her hand.That moved him to get married and promised to love his wife till old age (A promise he broke). but man proposes and God ...

..............And I cried...

something needs to be done

Oluseye101:
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I think you should have a Sample picture on your profile...would like to see one

With this trend of posting pictures all over the news and tagging it as "Yahoo" all our pictures will soon be up there...

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MetaPhysical:
oya buy one of these sculpted works for me to appease my anger. Ok, you can go take the piece on Soyinka...
This Dotun guy got some talent, does he not?

Affirmative

MetaPhysical:
im not your friend again.

Awwwwwwwn! ayam sowi, be vexed not.

Now that's a working system! #powerofsocialmedia#

MetaPhysical:
...with me, or with the sculptor?

Oh phuleeeese! the sculptor of course...sowi for the quote...lol

Ofemannnu:
Look very well.It will be an O.......S......U. OSU.
The same thing they did in UNN.






https://www.nairaland.com/5114240/poor-condition-hostels-university-nigeria

Code red! mods take this down, PLEASE

Bonapart:
Only Afonja. The dude we were living together was an Afonja. Our 3yrs of staying together, dude didn't wash his clothes in 3 good years. If you go under his bed, you will lose consciousness���

...This comment sha...I laughed so hard, I nearly lost conciousness.

We should all take a leaf from this. They are both tolerant of each other...after all same religion marriages with all the marriage classes and counseling still hit the rocks

clean

I'm awed

From a friend and her boo (2010/2011) ... They were laughing to one thread " funny names of churches in Nigeria". In an attempt to show my friends I had to Google it up... And Viola! Nl has been a good 'go to' page.

.good one

It's high time they put their multiple deducution of "52 naira for card maintenance" to good use

Guinness, nice one... Wow! that's six months leave with pay

I'm scared for Ik o...lol

He did not go through the right channels

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great news for...

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Typing...

Trump Now u know...It was same Trump that accused Clinton and Obama of causing unnecessary tensions in the North East... He who wears the shoe knows where it pinches

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one male to how many females??... someone is starting to believe that thread that says men are scarce... Cute fam by the way

It all depends on her location...food stuff and provision should be an option she should consider

With the alarming rate of suicide in this country at present, the movie "Bird Cage " comes to mind, cause in an attempt to see the light( in this case- the after life and how it seems to be better than their present predicaments) they take their lives.
Let's all stay in the "bird cage"... There's no real freedom anywhere...But restrictions abound from religious, social (family , society, environment), Moral( the concience factor)etc.
In the movie only the blind and those who kept their eyes shut at all cost survived... this also pertains to our day... #while there's life there's hope# #this itself shall pass#

I pray she's found ok... With the alarming rate of suicide in this country at present, the movie "Bird Cage " comes to mind, cause in an attempt to see the light( in this case- the after life and how it seems to be better than their present predicaments) they take their lives.
Let's all stay in the "bird cage"... There's no real freedom anywhere...But restrictions abound from religious, social (family , society, environment), Moral( the concience factor)etc.
In the movie only the blind and those who kept their eyes shut at all cost survived... this also pertains to our day... #while there's life there's hope# #this itself shall pass#

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Who stays in a guys' house and washes her clothes in the morning...he's trying to justify d wet clothes...she wouldn't cry wolf if "everything" was consensual