₦airaland Forum

blessedvisky:
The problem with your suggestion is that, 9 out of ten times, they will require more and more help in a geometric progression.

How many people can keep up with that? Charity and giving is not that easy o

Yes you're right. But i think giving them just money no matter the amount without guiding them through would mostly result coming back to you

Enrolling those kids in school
Establishing a business for the man and woman
Have a descent accommodation

I believed this will go along way in helping the family and stop the children from being exposed to the public.

MeynaTK:
Please is it true that January clearance is automatic for all CMs

Ofcourse Not

You intend to travel home for Xmas and new year?

Karleb:
Where did I claim I loved God?
Pure love?
Love christ expected from us?

What are you talking about?

You are the the one using the wrong words here.

A set of individual can not be creating problems for another set of people to take care of it.

Even teenagers know if they have sex, they'd get pregnant.

Most teenagers know what a condom is and how to use it, how much more a married woman?.

I'm sure the woman in question has been to ante-natal at least once in her life and over there at ante-natal, they teach them various ways to prevent pregnancy.

What of the irresponsible husband that turned his wife's private part to consolation for poverty?

6 kids and the eldest being 13 means they were having new baby every 2 years.

Maybe the guy should marry the woman and take responsibility for the 6 kids on his N25k salary or he can face his front and seek for his own help because, obviously, he needs it.


I hate irresponsible people in my life.

Since You said the Op should leave the family to rot in perpetual suffering. Also, from your statement @Bolded. Would you help the Op?

I believed you aren't talking for nothing. You meant every tiny words you said. Starting from the Op should leave the family to continue living their misery life and should stop looking for how to ease their burden. Then you later said the Op should focus on his life that it's quite obvious that he also needs help

The question is, will you help the Op who is responsible, educated but just unfortunate of the Nigeria system in getting a reasonable job?

Don't forget you claimed to hate irresponsible people in your life. I believed Op is very much responsible. Do you mind helping him?

IgiveLadiesBj:
Shut the entire fcvk up..

I really need to see what you look like in real life fr. You have opinion on every topic.

I won't be surprised if you're an evening newspaper.

ITK woman

Bro please calm down. She probably felt pained about the family and believe bringing that into law would help put all these to stop

Teleprompter:
If I was the owner of the uncompleted building, I would make the man sign an undertaking to never sleep with his wife again....just kidding.

Life was not unfair to them but they brought it upon themselves. As hungry as they are, having no shelter but having sex enough to yield six children is irresponsibility and wickedness to the society. The man and woman should be separated and rehabilitated while the children should be confiscated by the government.

If we help them get a better source of living, I think they would relax and have more children. Those children are already a nuisance and problem to society. What is the location? Let me see if I can get social workers to evaluate them...

According to the Op the woman had been taken to the hospital for family planning. And they seems to have regretted their actions having too many children. They're already seeing the consequences gradually as the first child stealing and always available for messenger. It's a whole danger for that family. The innocent children are the culprit. Please do help them in any way you can. The sounds real to me honestly and the Op family are also supportive in one way or the other

You know we can't continue condemning the family and leave them to their fate. It will later backfire to the society at large as the children will become nuisance joining bad gang disturbing the peace of the community/nation at large

Kobojunkie:
Tell me that ain't the face of foolishness, of evil right there?

Not all are foolish. Some are ignorance coupled with illiteracy. Illiterate parents breeds kids with the hope of having a successful one amongst them. The literate who had money and still breed kids, does that based on their own satisfaction and not as a retirement benefits

Majority of northerners breeding kids like fish are not only poor but illiterate. Very few percentage of their rich and educated elites breeds kids like that. Even at that, most of their kids had a good quality life and get educated

Illiteracy is a leading factor of high population. Coincidentally, the OP said both parents are illiterate. Illiteracy can birth so many things

There's always a general notion that says "if you think education is expensive, then try ignorance"

These people are ignorance with high level of illiteracy. Some of them don't know anything about family planning not until they inform them and make them see the importance. We don't refer to such people as foolish. They are only ignorance because of their level of illiteracy

Foolishness is when someone knows the right thing to do but do otherwise

Some of these people doesn't know the right thing to do. They are very wack, myopic, short sighted et al. Why would you tell me that I'm foolish because I'm eating just one particular type of food without having a balanced diet? when i don't even know what balanced diet was and the importance of having it. I'm only ignorance because i don't know the needful and importance of balance diet


Mostly, illiteracy could birth ignorance. Particularly, in this kind of discussion (family planning)

Some don't even visit hospital for treatment and antenatal. They do patronize local herbs and auxiliary nurses within their neighbourhood

Ignorance and illiteracy are core leading factors

SportsHD:
When I was still at Abuja. There's was this couple living out of a missionary in my estate. The missionary gave them a place to stay. Not permanent though, but somewhere to lay their head. Now, I know businesses can go wrong and how the economic situation in Nigeria can bankrupt someone. But, the couples went and had two more kids, for bleeps sakes. Like they had the third kid in the missionary, In a poor, hand to mouth situation, they had the Fourth one again. I just don't understand. Family planning is free, condom is not that expensive. But no, they keep bringing kids to this life to suffer!


The mother and the last born sleeps on a makeshift bed while the other three daughters and the father slept on the cold bare floor. The woman has a make shift shop in front of the missionary. Husband is jobless. One day, I went to purchase something from them. I usually buy something from them because, I just buy from them from time to time because, I kinda pity them. There's this man that comes to buy from them also. I overheard him asking the oldest girl if she had a boyfriend. If she was still a virgin. The girl would be around 13 years old. If the girls gets raped now, I hope she doesn't, the rapist can offer the parents money to forget the matter. So and so, we keep on breeding fuvcked up individuals, they end up being prostitutes, ritualists, skull harvesters, kidnappers and all manner of things just to survive. Tragic, It's just tragic.

No doubt those stupid boys often take advantage of these female children from extremely poor background. Some even get rape without doing nothing. The parents no try at all. Having more kids in such horrible condition

Their parents are to be blamed not the children. Public enlightenment on the need to stop seeing children as achievement and something to always brag about

This family shared by Op is really touching. They needed to be assisted to avoid doom

Those children won't end well if something drastic is not done.

SportsHD:
They should've opted for family planning in the first place. Stupid parents, bringing kids to this life to suffer. The one that was caught stealing; that's a slippery slope. I hope he doesn't degenerate into something bigger.

The parents are to be blamed for this, fuvck!
I'm pained as I'm typing. And, this is the situation of millions of nigerians. Fuvcking poor couples with 6, 5 kids in this economy.

I don't have any solution to their Matter as I'm angry and just here to rant and blame the parents. I just wish the kids turn out well.

Which state are you though? I just hope it's not those states that's cultists reign there. Because, small time now, them go cut the boys.

Seriously that's the problem at bolded. Hungry children with no education. If something is not done now, it will be disastrous later

The deed had been done already. You know they can't kill the children nor unbirth them

Kobojunkie:
How exactly is life to blame for a poor couple amassing 6 kids? Seems more like foolishness and greed is what happened to them.

You may need to contact orphanages, or catholic programs around as well in case they can come take some of the kids off the hands of the parents abeg.

The parents are more likely to be illiterate or semi-illiterate. Average Nigerians had more kids than those doing pretty fine. They aren't greedy per se

Omo this is disheartening. Not even this period man!

I can't even imagine what that family is going through. May God turn their story to glory

PlanBizNg:
I am sorry about your experiences bro. I strongly believe that success in business awaits you pretty soon.

You see, failure, especially in business, is something we work hard to avoid. However, you hardly achieve success in business without failing a couple of times. This is because each time you fail at something, you've learned something new.

If you read the histories of successful business men, you will find out that most of them didn't achieve success in the first instance. They tried and failed many times before success embraces them.

My advice to you is Never Give Up!! Don't let your failure discourage you from following your dreams.

Robert F. Kennedy ones said; “Only those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly.”
And Gena Showalter ones said; “Giving up is the only sure way to fail.”

Finally, failure should be your teacher, not your undertaker. Failure is delay, not defeat. It is a temporary detour, not a dead end.


I wish you all the best in your future endeavors.

PS: When you've decided to go back to business, I will advice to do something you've tried and have some experience on. For example, the Nylon production business you tried. It's a good business, and something you can start on a small scale with little funds. This I'm sure you know by now.

Do not try the mistake of producing to some customers specifications except if they are paying for it beforehand. Instead, produce what is used and in demand by the majority.
There are thousands of customers, mostly traders that use and will always need your product.

Make sure your product is of good quality. Get a bike and use it for distributing to these customers. They will most likely buy from you since as a producer, you can afford to sell to them at a discounted price. Most will buy on credit and you get paid the next day/time you bring more products.

Avoid those large nylon dealers until they come to you on their own. Most of them are killers of small businesses.

Do not be in a hurry to expand. Let genuine demand from your customers dictate your rate of expansion.

Food production business is another business that thrives on Nigeria. However, most require you have some significant startup capital.

food production, you mean farming or what?

Omoslim26:
You are too emotional to be logical
I dont do the tribal shit so you might just look for another playmate
what you have there is my opinion which is drawn from my little meetings with some
other tribes
oga ask an average hausa man
ijaw man
middle belt
if they will vote for sw.
e never reach sw turn.
I am not a campaigner for Igbo presidency but if it comes to a point where
its SE vs SW it will go to SE.

presidency is earned either by crook or whataview. They don't dish it like a pot of soup


Nobody stopped anyone from contesting. Not even me, if i chose to. The highest bidder is most likely to get it

Richandsimple:
These comedians actually over rate themselves.The fact that u make pple laugh does not mean they take u seriously.

Ur influence on voters is negligible and all this uncessary explanation makes u look quite foolish.

That was how some pple refused to visit VP cos of a virtual mob.

See eh,all these pple u see online are mostly, teenagers,jobless youths,bored adults and introverts that cannot even look u in d face in real life.
Very few of them have opinions that count for anything in reality.

So stand by ur decisions and leave yeye likes and habitual trolls to continue dr miserable existence.

Finally Tinubu is not likely to contest d 2023 elections. Its all a grand and strategic plot to install someone else.

So apt at bolded

vicstorm:
Are u sure about this

Not hundred percent certain though. Had a friend whose friend's PPA was there

Dstar434:
Hello house. Pls when do they pay PCMs the transport and local transport allowance? I mean Which week of the orientation camp? Secondly, how much is it?

Second week of camping

1800 and 1500

Ali12345:
what are the procedure then boss

reach me on WhatsApp 08097040690

vicstorm:
Please those who play for nysc national band abuja do you have an idea how much they are paid?

heard they are being paid 30k or thereabout

Dhatgirl:
Please if my relocation request is successful, do I have to report to the nysc secretariat of the new state immediately. As this stream2 will be ending December 14th, do I have to travel to the new state immediately?

A message will be sent to your email some days after your camping. The message would contain when to report to the state secretariat for documentation. A date would be assigned for you

Ali12345:
hello everyone just finished my sch this year and am above 30 and I want to go too nysc what will I do and when is nysc registration starting next year thank you

NYSC mobilization/registration will commence late February/March next year

As for your age, you'd have to work it if truly you wish to serve. If you've clocked 30 on or before he day your school senate approved your result then you'll be exempted from service except you chose to influence it by working it

Hungerbadoo:
A wrong advice. It's like you've not been in the labour market. You probably got a soft landing after graduation. OP if your certificate is not SSCE then dust it off and go make use of your opportuninity. Oh yes! You can still study.

This country is tough no doubt. Moreover, there's no job for graduates. However, dropping out of school to join police force with his ssce isn't an option. If it was degree, fine!

I'd advice him to continue with his studies

Shutting the boarder, coupled with insecurity is the major cause of inflation affecting food commodities.

Favfables1:
Kikikikikiki
Why do I have a feeling that this is a trick question

Anyways...
I'll be very real with you...

I ALWAYS look for the motive behind every gift I receive... Every single one...
Cause some gifts can come from a clear mind, buh some may have a hidden agenda underneath it... Some are in truth a trade by barter system wrapped and tagged as a "Gift"

So we have to be super careful what we accept these days...

So...
I'll advice the girl to ask her man a few questions...
Why is she doing it??
Does she owe a favour in times past that she wants to repay doing this for you??
Is she helping you because she wants something in return?? If yes, what?? And can you give it??
Is she lending you the money or something??
Or is she doing it with a free mind on the basis that you were once friends back then??
If supposing you think she's doing this with a free mind and you're wrong, will you be able to pay back without compromising us??

It is only after he has answered this questions without any loophole that she can give consent, buh if HE KNOWS, that there's something she's looking for and that something will compromise us..it's either he forgoes it or he forgoes me...

Why not write same epistle or even half about a woman whose friend (a guy) wanted to gift money?

just2endowed:
bro take it easy, this hatred is not good for your health. Not all naija girls are like that na

Lol. He's a kid who had access to mobile phone

just2endowed:
bro take it easy, this hatred is not good for your health. Not all naija girls are like that na

Lol. He's a kid who had access to mobile phone

MNDY:
You are scared that she will snatch and marry your man?

Same way Men are scared that he'd snatch and marry her woman

Fumiex:
wow really..... thanks for the heads-up o. What state would u recommend i relocate to?

South western states are okay.. even south-south isn't bad though, except that Bayelsa.

I'd have recommend Lagos because of its opportunity, but you can't get Lagos unless you work it

fof1:
Who will Advise You to go and Die...is NA d Only Work available? Get Sense Pls

He said that's the only connection he had. You know this country is messed up. Getting a job is not easy

I'm a fresh graduate with no job. He's even lucky to have got a connection for NA. I don't know anyone to even help me with police job sef

This country is hard for us, because we came from a poor background. Nobody to help

Toji:
What are the required conditions for redeployment

It will be announced after a week in camp for those interested to redeploy. You pick up a form, write a letter why NYSC should redeploy you and a medical report indicating your ailment. All will be submitted and scrutinise. Then you wait till the last day of leaving camp to confirm on your dashboard if your application for redeployment was successful or not

nerdyD:
Hello. I just got posted to Yobe and I'd like to know some things
1. How can I get to the NYSC camp from lagos?
2. How safe is the route?
3. Is redeployment automatic?

I'd appreciate with some answers. Thank you!!!.

it's not safe travelling by road. Yes, redeployment is automatic but it might not be your desired state

donjosh47:
What are the consequences of not reporting at camp despite being deployed, hope i am not attracting any consequences to myself?

no consequence. You just have to revalidate with the batch you chose to go with later

Just that you'd be deployed to same state you got deployed earlier

donjosh47:
Hello Kings and Queen on this platform, I registered for Nysc and got posted to the North but I don't want to go with reasons best known to me, I don't even intend reporting to camp due to this, what can I do?

You can change it now before your resumption date to your desired state or wait till next batch and change it.. either of the two options required much money to get rectified

Or you go now and work your redeployment to your desired state after the 3 weeks camping