₦airaland Forum

Richy4:
Some parents are too judgmental... those kids will be there when their parents were criticizing others... they usually hear their parent's tongue wagging most times when they were watching movies together or on a family gathering.....

You will hear a parent saying things like why should that parent allow their daughter to have a boy friend @ 18...Not in my house etc... So if their daughter was in a relationship, she will never say, if she got abused, she will never say... because she has already heard her mother or father say some stuff....

But that's the truth. Why keeping a boyfriend at that age? What do you expect when you've started what you ain't expected of. He'd definitely ask you for sex someday and possibly force himself on her

Do you expect the parents to encourage their daughters to start keeping boyfriend or what?

You don't start what you can't finish

iamdapsyj:
You don't seem to get my point. I am not saying proposing to the lady is right. What I am alluding to is that you don't just slap someone just like that. If she does not like it she has two options.

1. Ignore the idiot and walk away
2. If he continues to embarrass her, she can report the guy to the police for harassment.

We don't have to be babaric in the way we do things

Well said bro!

Wiifesnatcher:
let any of your sisters come and try it with me then you will know I don't make mouth or chest beat

if you don't behave abnormal no guy will step on your toes talkmore of a lady

You don't have what a man should had. Yet, you are proposing to a girl. I'm not saying what the girl did was right though. Nonetheless, the guy deserves it to some extent

No girl has insulted me talkmore of slapping me Why? because i respected myself

Why proposing to a girl when you don't have all pre-requisite expected from a man to start a family

Isn't that madness?

The IP address of this bastard should be tracked. He's one of those useless guys we have in our society

He should be behind bars by now for raping/ attempted rapist

Wiifesnatcher:
the pussy must be sweet for him to be getting slap by a lady, the day one of my dad junior sister want to slap me sef, if you see the way I grip her hand, five days she couldn't use that hand to do anything



I can receive slap from an elder men but not from ladies no matter how old they're, so one young girls go come one slap me? she no go use that particular hand again forever

So for your mind you feel say you dey superior pass ladies abi?

If you comport yourself well no man will even beat you talkmore of a lady. The guy deserves what he got. Probably they are still paying his school fees or he just graduated and he's proposing to the poor girl to journey with him when he never even start life. Who does that biko

iamdapsyj:
Which right . That is assault if you don't know. She should have declined and just walk away. We very uncivilised in this part of the world and besides I will never understand this kneeling to propose of a thing!!!

The guy deserves it. You just graduated and you are proposing to a girl for marriage. I woulddisowned him if he was my son. Naso poverty take dey start

You never start life you dey propose give girl. He deserves more than that

bigpicture001:
OP u call these stuffs "outta nothing..? ".

U don't understand when peoYou ple say they are broke and can't feed.

It's so fvcking real!

i swear bro

I last ate something like this early last year. Omo this life no balance o

adanny01:
In other words, you need to fvck her. You need us to tell you how to convince her to fvck you.

Are you a Dr that you have concluded she has PTSD?

For one, how genuine is her story.

Two, the help you need is selfish, don't expect anything from anyone here.

Very selfish biggot

He needs a sex partner not a relationship

Omicron007:
Greetings

Let me hit the nail on the head.
I have been searching for a girl I can build a relationship with. I don't really fancy one night stands.

I have been rather unfortunate so far. I have posted about two girls I met on this forum. The posts hit front page and you can check them on my profile.
The first girl told me she was fickle minded while the other one told me she can't date any guy that has a body count of three and above.


Fast forward to my current episode. I met this girl in October. Fine babe. All the curves in the right proportion and she has a high sense of humour.

We connected and started hanging out. The problem is that she is suffering from PTSD because she was raped at age seven.
Whenever we are together, we cannot have penetrative sex because she often remembers what she passed through at the hands of the evil man years ago.

She is afraid of sex all because of the Post Traumatic Stress Disorder she developed during the ordeal.

Fellows, how can I help her overcome this situation.
I really like her a lot.

Barely last month (October) and you are already haunting for sex? Please define your purpose and stop hiding under the umbrella of relationship. You are seeking for sex partner, keep telling them as you meet. Before you get to 100 you'd gladly meet the one that would accept you.

Girls needs to grow sense seriously

BIGDADDY000:
YOUR EXCELLENCY! with all due respects, you don't put more effort on this

issue of recovery and rescue, 48 hours after? people life is at stake here

The probability of surviving of those people trapped in there is so tin.

PLEASE DOUBLE YOUR EFFORT SIR.

Seriously I'm even worried myself

Why can't they seek for help within neighbouring state and get all these done within 48hrs/2 days

lollmaolol:
I am that man who returned to say thank you.
This is to inform you that I will be getting married n December, thanks a lot.. i made peace with my parent and I found love

God bless your new home bro

Boss29:
My heavy pregnant wife went for a scan on Saturday and the scan review that my wife suppose to be put on bed today(November 2) buh till now, I haven't seen any outcome ..
Please. Is there anything to be worried of

Be strong sir. Your wife will definitely have the child at the right time. Doctors only predict the period not the exact day or time

Safe delivery upon her IJN

wordapostle:
We can share brother, maybe I could give my wife the sun and half earth

why not consider Saturn and Pluto

All i know is no matter how poor i am, that doesn't block my sense of reasoning

I know there are many rich men in this country of ours whose source of income aren't genuine (irrespective of the tribe/ ethnicity)

Also, we Nigerians should stop glorifying evil or bad thing. We all know some government officials and politicians aren't holy. Nonetheless, that isn't an excuse going into crime or supporting crime

If my friend was a successful criminal without being caught. Does that gives me the liberty to go into crime? If i get caught even at first attempt then so be it. What is not good isn't good no two ways about it.

Miyachi:
Finding those guys is not going to unrape her. It will make him feel better but what about the girl? Will everything just go away because the attacker has been caught.

I would rather suggest he channels his effort to helping her get past this. (be kind to her and don't let her feel like it's her fault). If possible she should get therapy.

She's carrying a heavy burden and needs all the love and support she can get.

Are you a rapist? How would you claimed he should channel the energy in getting the bastard arrested to the girl

A rapist deserves death penalty.. the bastard is still roaming the street of Lagos freely and possibly looking for another victim

If I'd kill anyone in life, it would definitely be a rapist.

001spice:
yes it was her fault why leaving your work to attend one stupid party by that time. I am convinced it wasn't just a party she was going to a club. Dirty olosho looking for sympathy

may God deliver women from your hand, that is all i have for you

Mystoree:
I am not putting chains on her, I forgave her already but that doesn't take out that dark part of our story. If I don't love her, I will not be feeling this bad.

forgave her you say? What crime does she committed that warrant your forgiveness?

Please bro endure and never give up. Don't consider your age please. You've gone way too far to quit now. It is well

moralistic:
..it is obvious you still eat free food

Not all bro.. I live with a friend though, but i spend within 2k per week. Having two square meal seems difficult

It is well..

MALIGNANTGuest:
Inform me when you start encouraging your daughters to tow such line.
Then I will take you more serious.
For now, we have nothing in common except Nairaland. I wouldn't blame you much because on the SOCIAL MEDIA platforms everyone is of same social status and Age.

Bros Please ignore those people defending her illicit act. You've said it all already. Let them encourage their daughters to follow suit

PrinceOfLagos:
Tell that to the Nigerians insulting Tinubu on social media and off social media

Buhari was insulted much more and still flaws all other contestants

Emotions doesn't win election

MAMMAN777:
Hello guys,
Please will NYSC starts Mobilization for 2022 Batch A?

Till February/March

lalasticlala:
Snake? She doesn't like snakes oo

happy birthday to your beautiful daughter

Born2winKingOG:
i fit tell you when to talk because me and you nor be the same.

* i get prick, na toto you get

* i dey stand to piss, you dey bend down to piss (if you try stand, na your body go smell)

*i dey hustle since to survive, you dey your mama house dey wait for a simp nigga to sub you.

* on my way to the gym, you on your way to give blowjobs for some cash.



so many reasons, I can tell you when to talk and when not to.




so I nor go tell you again, I noe won see your post for this thread again. (sit down there jejely dey observe)

Your Mumu go last..

[sup][/sup]

mannatech:
Madness dey some girls body because then think say man keep them for house mean say dey go dey forget their manners anyhow.

A lady really annoyed me this morning.
I had gone to the park to board a taxi back home. The guy who was loading for the driver directed me to the taxi that was loading. An elderly guy sat at the front seat while a lady was seated by the door and she was the only one sitting at the back. Note that the drivers take three passengers at the back.
Immediately I saw how the lady sat at the door- her body language- I decided to enter from the other side but another passenger beat me to it plus I was approaching the taxi from her side to I just decided to enter through there.
The lady rather than shift to the middle came out for me to enter without any form of excuse which I found annoying.
I made my displeasure know to her but she just kept mute as if no be human being dey follow talk. I still repeated myself.this lady just start blowing out like burning charcoal, shouting at the top of her voice that "do I think she is a baby for me to treat her like that".

To make matters worse,the passengers and driver were telling me to not retaliate because na women. Na so we go continue to dey tolerate nonsense. Even na guy, I go still tell am wetin he do no correct.

Guy stop looking down on women o.. You better go change this your mentality.

dominique:
If self-centered was a person it would be this silly op. Not once has he spoken about what the pregnant girl, it's all about me me me. You're not the one who will go through the discomfort of pregnancy, it is not you who will face the shame or stigma of being pregnant out of wedlock but you're here weeping and crying for sympathy like a pesky wimp. If you decide to be a deadbeat dad and abandon your girlfriend to look after the child alone, nobody will arrest you. Don't worry, the child will grow up one day and look for you. Just go the deadbeat route and stop disturbing us.

Who knows if this whole pregnancy brouhaha to solicit for funds (some people are already considering sending him money). You can never know with this shady Nigerians

Exactly my point seriously. The girl was the one pregnant. He isn't married to her yet. She can chose to get rid of the pregnancy or not. She's the one taking the risk of keeping the pregnancy or not and not him

The girl should better go home and inform her parents. Then they take it up from there.

Easylion3569:
nairaland we always be my happy family, joined this great family since 2011, even if i had to lost my old account, i refused to be a guest on nairaland..
thanks to the moderators of this forum, to lalastic.lala and to all whom i may not mention..

and now, i'll have to spend the rest of my life alone!

My own concern is that you don't have a say to that pregnancy because she isn't your wife. The girl and her parents (family) has the final say

If you are scared of informing your parents for whatever reasons, would the girl also do the same thing without informing her parents?

Please let her go back to her parents

Help2020:
Who really dash him presidency? Sometimes I feel so ashamed of some people. How can somebody really wish this corrupt human being to become a president, how?

All politicians are corrupt

Their access to national cake do determine their level of corruption

Even Osinbajo that still looks saint in the eyes of Nigerians isn't left out completely

highchief1:
u come from a poor home.no man born of a woman can intimidate any of my sisters.We have worked hard to check mate insults of money.

Absolutely

ideatoprince18:
You are not alone

I eat bread and beans/plantains like up to twice daily ..... It's a real hustler food .... I can't see myself buying Rice or fufu/semo/garri outside at the restaurant .... To me it looks like waste of money cos I no go belleful.

I go just use that money buy bread 250, beans 200 plantain 100 .... With two cold pure water.... Morning and night .... Am done for the day!!!!

Wow! You be big man o.. You spend more than 1k daily? Nawa o

Nukilia:
Waiting for Nigerian girls to do the same

Nigerian men don't deserve such a huge sacrifice.

LILTJAY:
Inter tribal marriage is not good.. marry from your tribe next time abeg

I love this.. Nigerian Men are turning to something else. Treating their fellow Nigerian women like a piece of shit