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Arostar2023:
Is Nigerian life easier? I have tasted both, and I know the one to chose at any given time. Aside community living , I see no other advantage we have in Nigeria over those in Canada/UK. Although personally, if money dey, na Nigeria I go chose any day. But this one una de kill una self with reckless abandon, I wonder...

Having tasted Nigeria and UK, no amount of money can make me live in Nigeria again.

My children deserve better

After bragging online that marriage doesn't benefit them, marriage is rub.bish,marriage is this and that, kneeling down to propose is haram, etc... This gender still kneel to propose and cry like sore losers if their proposal is rejected.
The ones that are accepted go on to spend their life savings, even borrow to marry .. The same marriage they claim not to like.

Lol

ufotunang:
.. while they were dating..don't they discuss about marriage... from that discussion that is where the guy would had known if the lady is willing to marry him or not....then it will make the guy to propose to her in public or not to do it if he knows the lady is not willing to marry him

Men automatically believe that every lady is desperate for marriage and will accept to marry any man at all, esp at a particular age .. so they don't think of the possibility that a woman can reject marriage proposal.
They say men are the prize, so women are expected to rush them.

pocohantas:
They owe soldier salary for months?
That is totally absurd and wicked.

Can anyone confirm this?

Yes.
They owe soldiers and medical doctors for months . It's a "normal" thing in Nigeria

mycar:
She should not worry, a better job is coming her way

There is no better job anywhere for nurses

Japa is almost impossible except you are from a verrrrrrry wealthy family.

Private hospitals won't employ her to even pay the usual 50k salary.

sonnie10:
I know most places have an agreement signed by new employees about conflict resolution and dispute management. In those agreement, steps to channel grieveness are spelt out. Also, there are often clauses restricting speaking to the press and use of social media to communicate about the work place, Failure to adhere to those rules is ground for disciplinary action up to termination.

They should go back and read the terms of their employment.

That's if they even had employment letters to start with.

Sirchiboy:
Those who are married. Tell those who are not yet married something they need to know before marriage?

To the women: When the chips are down, when nothing makes sense. The single most important thing you gain from getting married is having children who call you "mother".
Every other thing doesn't matter.

How come she wanted to save her husband?
They say Nigeria women hate their husbands and rather have them dead.

Strange!

grandstar:
Make the guy retire. He is aging.

Men don't age.
Only women age and grow old

ChizzyBuna:
Them go collect all this money still come tax the living hell out of you when you finally enter

Let them tax.
My life here in the UK is better than it was in Nigeria.

What exactly do women enjoy in sex?

Please don't reach out to her again.
If she tries to communicate, ignore her.
5 years relationship... Some ladies dey try ooh

amaridigital:
Live and let's live. If those gays have mental health issues it might be because of the public hatred displayed by people like you.
Look, i used to hate those gays and lesbians until one day I asked myself wether they are actually the source of my problems or the problems facing Africa.
We have the least numbers of homosexuals in the world yet we are still the poorest and the most backward.
I told myself what is my business with those who prefers different holes from the ones I'm used to? What's my headache with those tongue specialists? Are they the reasons politicians fu**ked up my continent?
Are those pulpit Yahoo boiz not worse and doing more hard than the homosexuals?
That's the only way I could help my sanity. I shouldn't be a judge of other people's harmless decisions. No one forces me to become homosexual so why should I care?

When I relocated to Europe, my mentality gradually changed about gay people.
They are just so everywhere and seen as normal.
I have adjusted now.
Na home cause all the problems in Nigeria?

epainos:
E don finish patapata na. Namibia. Botswana, Rwanda, Kenya, Ghana, etc be countries una dey recommend for japa say dem get better quality of life than Naija.

E no go better for the all the leaders of Naija from A to Z from 1960 till today. The ones wey don kpai no go sleep well. Na me dey talk am.

I was wowed when I visited Namibia last year.

Men with good intentions hardly pester women who say NO.

Most times men pester women, it's because they want to chop and clean mouth.

Alusiizizi:
Which money do you think that they have?? The only people making money are the ones that actually make the videos, not the actresses, who, if you look into it a bit more are not making much more than food money. The actors(boys) are in even worse situation because they typically don't get paid at all, with the directors reasoning that the sex that they perform is payment enough.

Sex is always a trophy for men.
See someone up there saying he will act for free as long as he gets to knack the babe in the second picture.

bobogogo:
You may not like religion but dont disbelieve the existence of GOD.

That's your business, not mine.
Believe what you wish.. as for me and my household, there is no supernatural being that can protect us from any evil.

Why are you bothered about this?

The 50 year old man is trying to catch them young as advised on this platform.


And yes.. the girl is not your wife.. Not even your fiancée.. Just a girlfriend.. the same thing you have been doing with her is the same thing the man also wants to do with her.

It's up to her to decide what to do with her body.
She is an adult.

See how a man is thinking of getting married.. the same marriage they claim does not benefit them.

While the woman who they say is desperate is not interested in marrying him.

But he is foolishly trying to force himself to be accepted despite obvious red flags

You are not serious.
Na evening newspaper better?

Some of you men are the real architects of your own problem

It has been agreed on social media especially this platform that men should not get married as marriage doesn't benefit men.

I'm surprised there are men who still want to marry.
God forbid oo

seanery:
THE BOYFRIEND GO JUST FAKE TEARS FOR 1WEEK, AND MOUVE ON.

SUCH IS LIFE

Wetin be boyfriend?
Even husband go carry another woman same night.
No time.
Na who die lose

Obinna67:
When I tell people that there is no god anywhere that can save you , they will argue , now she is coming back from church and this happened, government is the god that will save us , if there is security cameras on the street, strict traffic laws and speed limits, this wouldn't have happened, stop going to church or musque thinking that one god in heaven will save you, church, musque and god are all scam.

Indeed , you have said(typed) it all.
I totally agree with you.
Imagine the recklessness of a convoy..
Here in the UK, security cameras on duty 247 all year round

Such incidents hardly occur because there are strict traffic laws, well trained drivers and very stern penalties for breaking the simplest traffic rule... And if unfortunately, it happens, authorities have footage to carry out proper investigation and punish the offender(s).

Every road has a speed limit..they no born the driver that will drive pass that limit for any reason.They will fish you out and punish you immediately.

These people brought Christianity to us but they depend on technology for security while we depend on a supernatural being that doesn't exist.

Last Sept, at about 7pm, I drove out to get to the mall.. I had not even moved for 1 minute, police on patrol stopped me. Happened that I was driving without headlights.
The street lights confused me but that was no excuse.
Immediately, they took the car from me.
The following day, I started receiving mails and letters to that effect.
I was fined heavily and made to undergo psychiatry evaluation before I was allowed to resume driving.
A system that works.
Will I ever forget to put on headlights again? Definitely not!

Meanwhile, the idea of attending church irritates me. I never liked going to church and the moment I left home for university,I stopped.Been more than 15 years.
Religion is a scam.

If she had stayed at home on that particular day and at that time, she wouldn't have been killed by that incident(accident).

Imagine getting killed on her way back from church where she offered prayers for her safety and protection and was deceived to believe there was a supernatural being somewhere who could keep her well,safe and alive.

Yet not even an irking of what was coming , no one could foreseen the danger ahead..not the pastor,the elders,the prophet(ess) ,not even one spirit-filled prayer warrior.

No supernatural being could avert the accident.
She could have just sustained injuries ,the vehicle would have missed her by inches and hit another person..for her to testify how she was saved by a supernatural being..
But hell NO! She died because it was meant to happen and what will be will always be.

Religion is man-made.

Tenrack:
lol. Hand go still touch you. I love your confidence though.

Until then..

Bendeco02:
Funny

You switched the topic to sex and I replied you on that aspect.

You just confirmed why the man is taking the rubbish from you because you're more financially stable than him.

Remove the money and know if he will still keep you as his wife with your attitude.

Money stops nonsense!
In the contract of marriage, there MUST be a victim.
I refuse to be the victim.

OredoPikin2:
Because marriage only favour women.

So why are men getting married and feeling bad if a woman rejects their marriage proposal?

Britishcoins:
Chai, I did not blame that innocent woman, I blamed ojukwu who out of greediness married young lady like her, now ojukwu died too early and her engine room is still steaming and looking for original rubricant..

I am so sure that one self acclaimed city boy is sleeping with her, with a promise of office

But they say younger women are better. A 70 year old man can marry a 20 year old woman or has anything changed?

ajalawole:
Na her husband kpai no be she kpai am, so make una all her to enjoy her life... Dear men take care of yourself oo, if you kpai someone will take you wife go UK dey knack am

Was Bianca supposed to Kpai before Ojukwu?
How would Ojukwu had taken care of himself so that he won't Kpai(before Bianca)?

Rep9jaCom:
A Nigerian lady has gone viral after expressing emotional pain over her dating experiences as a single mother, Rep9ja reports.

In a video shared online, the lady was seen in tears as she lamented how potential partners often turn her down once they learn about her situation.

According to her, the phrase “I can’t date a single mother” has become a recurring response she faces.

Despite the emotional moment, she tried to maintain composure, adding that life must go on.



𝙑𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙤 𝙀𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚 𝘽𝙚𝙡𝙤𝙬 👇👇

Lady Breaks Down Over Repeated Rejection As A Single Mother https://t.co/hAR6kJw7I5 pic.twitter.com/Lxy1mYX536

— Rep9ja.Com (@Rep9jaNg) March 21, 2026

https://www.rep9ja.com/viral/lady-breaks-down-over-repeated/

Serves her right.
When some of us advise them to close their legs and stop having sex outside the confines of matrimony, they will say we are old school.

Women decide when and who to have sex with.
Sex cannot happen if a woman says NO.
Even if she was raped, pregnancy can be prevented.
But because of greed for material things,ladies cannot stay celibate.
Many of them are having sex not because they enjoy it but because of what they stand to gain.
Women will continue to be the losers and bear the consequences of premarital sex.

She never start to cry.