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Bowing out of a senseless thread...

omotohdarajugbogbolo:

But dunno whats wrong with me.
Finding someone im compatible with in all aspects is an uphill task.

Epp me edakun cry

Calm down... there's nothing wrong with you! The thing is, you've simply not met an appealing partner yet, it doesn't mean you wouldn't...

And yes, this thing isn't peculiar to you alone... So cheers...

Exactly how to deal with busybodies. I can imagine the number of troubles your husband has avoided by this act.

Mikylopez:
these is too much tho....the world has lost her morals...den it used to be only for the husbands to see.... now itz a thing to let everyone see

Yeah... which is why I'm so proud of you...

Cool narrative. The thing is, we don't planned to fall in love; we simply fall in love...

Please kindly check yourself into a psychiatric immediately. This is not a mental home...

Fabulousb36:
I personally blame d lady for putting up with a violent man for So long nd now her son had to pay for it. This reminds me of What happened in Tyler Perry's "For coloured girls".
#SayNoToDomesticViolence

This is no time to blame anybody. All you need to know and watch out for is the wickedness of man.

Here's a question that has remained unanswered till now: "The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately corrupt; who can understand it?"

mizlovette:
The thunder that will fire u is doing press up. You didn't think of where u guys met before u disvirgned her? U never thought about it all this while that u have been climbing her and she's been cooking and doing other stuff for u. My dear u better wife that girl and stop d foolishness

You mean something like this...

The last I cried was when I was still on all four. Since then, nothing has move me to tears even death.

But, this doesn't means I'm devoid of human sympathy.

She's asking for N1500.00 card Op, don't tell me you're suffering from Mr. President's inept leadership- is it recession

Gosh... how do these guys even get to breath with these Olympic size balloons...?

Michelle55:
And i guess you're not coming back from your trip to the moon or are you?

Nope, not at all. I don't love twice, i.e, once in love, then it is always in love...

So, loving her to the moon will be so till the moon is no more. Can't afford to disembark from my beautiful trip...

Op, you're right you know...

Hmm.... Quite a familiar case though rare.

Op, it's nothing to worried about. She'll eventually have sex in no distant.

Jenny1010:
its so amazing how people become damn nice and sweet the moment they are dead.

if you have anything nice to tell me better say it now that am alive...dont wait till am death to come shed crocodile tears

Sure, which is why I'm gonna say this now: I love you to the moon...

You mean you used nine good years just to come up with this... Incredible!

Well, I have a thing for these people (lesbians/homo). I don't believe they're born that way, I mean, God wouldn't have created them that way and then turned around and condemned the act.

I do not also believe that they're simply practicing their sexual orientation. I believed these people are under the influences of what is bigger than them!

So then, if you can pity them, pity. If you think you can talk them out of it, good luck. And if you think you can deliver them through prayers, fine. But please, do not crucify them.

CorGier:
Actually He's on point.

I'm more concerned with the context of its usage.

Too much exaggeration. You're kidding me I know...

uzoclinton:
If a girl should give me a very dirty -burning- slap and even though I really want to, I don't slap her back because she's a girl. Does that make me a sexist?

You need to check the meaning of "sexist" again.

I appreciate your concern for population explosion coupled with limited resources to cater for all.

But suggesting just one child for families in this part of the world is going extreme and unfeasible.

I think women have greater responsibility here, since most men (mostly irresponsible ones) don't care if a woman will get pregnant while having unprotected sex with her, even when there's already a truck load of children in the family.

So, it is my opinion that women should be taught on the need to embrace Birth Control, especially when they've already bore like 3-4 children. This way, breeding children like chickens will be seriously curbed.

Op, it is well. Your life is and can never revolves around that unfortunate guy who's undeserving of your love.

I know it hurts, feeling pains is what makes us humans anyway.

So, just get over it already. You got a life to live...

Sorry.

mysticgal:

Every woman who wants to get married must build virtue,take your mind off instagram and have a purpose for getting married

Nice.

Mikylopez:
its all for the money

If paid something higher, will you give it a try

windeal:
No like this

BrandNewIV:
Just assume i don't have a mum or dad.
Now tell us what you learnt from yours.
In the meantime , we are talking about relationships here not marriage.

I learnt and still learning a lot of things from dad/mum relationships. I tell you, it's simply an amazing union which serves as a guide to me as their child. I believed you were taught as early as in the primary school, the roles of a father & mother in the family.

Coming down to bf/gf level, I think it is EVEN. I mean, if you think that it's only a guy that provides money, protection etc, then you may as well think again.

The truth is, there're some bf/gf relationships where the girl is the all and all.

It depends on what you called "relationship".

By that do you mean as shared by husband and wife or BF/GF kind of relationship

If as the former, the best person to see if she offers anything to a man is no other than MUM. Does your mum has anything to offer your dad

And if it's the latter, the question is: what were you honestly expecting from a woman in a relationship that is majorly flirtatious in nature, other than sex

Be the judge.

That nigga be like, "my brothers & sisters, I want to testify to the goodness of igho- it has save my soul. That is why I am shedding this tears of joy...".

BabaRamota1980:
ok, somebody finally open a sensible thread.

Listen, my grandfather and i are best buddies in the world, i share things with him that even my parents will never ever ever know. I took my girlfriend (who is now my wife) to say hello to my buddy. She slipped tongue and answered one of his questions awkwardly. The question was "this slacker (referring to me) told me he is serious about you. if he decides to take a second wife in future, what would be your reaction?" She responded to him and said "the more we are the merrier, i just hate to deal with discoveries, they are ugly".

OP,
a smart man should never cheat, there is no ground for it. Relationships will take away your freedoms, it's a given. So before going in, set clear expectations and stick to it. When expectations are not set assumptions fill the gap and when the limitations are broken dissapointment and disillusionment sets in.

Nice one bro. "...set clear expectations and stick to it".

But I wish we can always get to keep our promises without failing... Oh poor man!

SlimmB:
Cheating does good to the victim but most victims don't see it that way cause they're to weak, afraid and selfish...

I think you have a point. Personally, I love & respect strong hearted women a lot.

Sexxkillz:
[color=#000030]Not really a big deal, until the lady you "changed" for, and left all the other ladies for, does it to you.

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Well, I must also add at this junction that I'm not encouraging cheating at all.

I'm only saying that whenever we slip and realised our mistakes by pleading for forgiveness, we should be forgiven since to "err is human...".

It's very important to forgive in a relationship without which, I don't think we can start or keep any one at all.