₦airaland Forum

CalliDora1:
Why would you even marry a woman you don't trust well enough in the first place?

It serves you guys right because when they say marry in the Lord, you'll laugh yourselves to scorn now you're all running Helter skelter like headless chickens looking for DNA that is not lost.

I want big boobs, I want big bumbum, I want beautiful face. At the last, no peace of mind as every man wants her too.

Marry the will of God and have some peace.

Nobody should come for me o. It's just daybreak and my brain is still initializing.....

This same individual will wail from here to Babylon about blaming the victim when women suffer their own turn.

Women really hate accountability bitterly.

Happy New year my nairaland people, may we have more sense this year

Why won't they be afraid when marriage barely adds anything to their lives and brings with it a lot of stress and headache with insatiable demands.

WoundedLamb:
Eewww... dude, what makes you think anyone would want your

Lmao.

Even better, let's stay in our lane pls.

I cover my nyash in the blood of Jesus.

Sixfeetbelle:
You're a rape apologists. Don't try to excuse yourself

You're rape apologists, you're rape apologists, now the whole thing has been exposed. See why people are sick of feminists and ask for the guy's side of the story?

And as usual the news was FAAAAKE

SimpDetector:
The singular act of getting married to a woman makes her subconsciously lose respect and attraction for you. You've reduced your value by offering her your everlasting commitment. As the days go by you will gradually begin to become less attractive in her eyes. When this happens, she will look outside the marriage for sexual satisfaction with someone she is attracted to, and because of her willingness to please him, due to how attracted she is to him, she will opt to fuçk him raw, without condoms.

While you are out working your ass off as the breadwinner to make your loving wife happy, she's out having multiple rounds of sex with men she finds attractive; men who's attention and commitment aren't cheap; men that she'd rather have children for than you low value simp.

Because let's face it: There is nothing attractive about a man that a woman sees everyday, sleeps on the same bed with him everynight and knows everything about him. She has seen you finish. That's why I'm strongly against marriage and cohabitation. For a woman to respect you and remain attracted to you, your commitment and attention have to be something she can't get easily. It should be something she has to work hard for everyday. But with married men and guys living in the same house with their girlfriends, their attention and commitment is cheap and this lowers their value and attractiveness.

Secondly, women do not usually marry the men they are sexually attracted to. The men they marry are those beta males that will offer them commitment and financial security for free after they've spent their youth having sex with all kinds of bad boys who refused to offer them commitment and treated them like shit. Even while married to these men, they still are attracted to these bad boys, and they will cheat on their simp husband's with them and have kids for them.

Look through my profile and see my post about marriage. Marriage was originally about resource control and favoured the rich and powerful now instead of marrying multiple women the rich and powerful just have mistresses, girlfriends and baby mamas.

Another stupid hoe spotted.

Why did you block out the name? Let's identify her so any unfortunate man doesn't have to live with that mess.

Meaning "I have reached the end of my hoeing stage and am about to slam into the wall at full speed and I need a guy to wife me up fast."

Nonsense Buhari has fulfilled ALL his campaign promises,name one and see that it has gone to the next level you guys are just bitter.

Read the art of seduction, no more Mr Nice Guy and the redpill handbook.

Everything will be clear.

Wahala don enter private jet.

Mad man on the loose, somebody arrest him before he kills somebody's child.

Everyone has their wavelength but if the person isn't putting any effort into the friendship, especially when they have grown up and meeting is difficult I just take the hint and move on.

CryptoClub2018:
Where is the lie? With what is trending on social media this days, it only takes the grace of God for one's wife or girlfriend to be contented

They can go and chop sand, if men collectively decide to stop indulging their excesses they will stop making stupid demands.

Or you could just have a backbone and tell them no. I don't understand why men allow women to use their finances anyhow.

longetivity:
she's my girlfriend

Eh?

My girlfriend is who you're claiming, bros take time!

Typical visa marriage scam

Man couldn't keep up the lie once he went into her aged kpekus.

Congratulations to her.

Nigeria has never been safer all thanks to Buhari, honourable Garba Shehu is just busy telling us of the great works Buhari had done in the country.

Sai Baba!

They shouldn't, they can't go unpunished for things like that or they will continue abusing other children. Many schools are breeding grounds for abusing students which in turn abuse their juniors and take that attitude out into the world and continue abusing people as adults.

capitalzero:
Not true. There are more unwanted pregnancies, abortions, domestic violviolence and high divorce rates in climes with rare arranged marriages.

Like I said before women in countries with high arranged marriage don't divorce because they have fewer rights and job opportunities so they stay in the marriage for their survival.

https://www.guttmacher.org/fact-sheet/induced-abortion-worldwide#

Arranged marriages have the least divorce because they happen in shitholes where women don't work and rely on their men for survival.
Those countries also have high rates of domestic violence, child marriage, unwanted pregnancy and so on.

Gerrard59:
I like your post about women being realistic esp about the economic situation in Nigeria but for most posters to say people (men and women) aren't getting married is entirely false. As it's, almost all of my female classmates (secondary school and university) have gotten married in Nigeria. Notwithstanding the economic crises and Covid-19, people within my circle have gotten married this year than previous years. So when Nairalanders opine that people aren't getting married, I find it amusing.

First how old are you and what is the income range of your circle?

“Honestly, we should be more concerned about the number of unmarried women that are unemployed, visionless, and are standing akimbo waiting for the man that would solve all their life’s problems

This man knows exactly what he is talking about. Women will demand heaven on earth while bringing less and less to the table and expecting men to wife them up and be their poverty alleviation plan.

More men are simply waking up to the redpill realities.

Don't know people still watch man u match

Don't be knowing.

Also grow some balls and tell him you just want to be with her alone, worst case you both leave the bar.

BiggyB242:
Nah most women are looking for men, who willl give them freedom.

Freedom to do what?

Be a hoe?

Insult him and his family?

Take his money and children while doing nothing?

If she wants that kind of freedom she can stay single.

A relationship which is supposed to be a partnership, you contribute and I contribute, if one is not happy they leave.

I don't want somebody to be disturbing my peace so marriage isn't on my mind.

Beatings.

I don’t think i will marry someone that is old enough to be her father, if not for love. Will you?

Money.

2. Pleading, begging and crying for men to marry them; Dear sister, you don’t have to do all that to make him marry you, if he is interested he will ask you himself, you don’t have to beg or plead; By doing so, you will tarnish your image in his eyes.

Desperation

BiggyB242:
The truth is most men are looking for women they can control.

Most men are looking for woman who won't see the relationship as a competition some have taken that to mean they want a slave.

Women too will say that men these days have gone soft and their reluctance to lead is off putting.

Netanya:
Miss COMELY queen ke.

Dirty minded individuals