₦airaland Forum

Rosaline5000:
Tell her you want to date someone else and see her reaction, if she is pissed.
Give her an ultimatum if she want to date you or not.
The truth could be she likes you but not enough to date you as perhaps she didn't see a future with you or have the grandeur of who she wants to be with and you are not the type of person she wants.

I was in a situation like that some months ago, I fell for someone that isn't financially buoyant and I honestly really liked him but I just couldn't see a future with him, the place he is, it's going to take years to be financially stable and I am not ready for that, that doesn't mean I didn't get jealous when I see him with other girls.
But even tho I liked him I had to let him go because I know what I want.

Sometimes girls likes guys but don't want to date them

This justifies the saying, Women marry men because of their money and not love. Later now, you will marry a rich guy and end up cheating with the broke one you loved

okoroemeka:
I do rather say he is deep in the friend zone or maybe brother zone,but really some people they try,

he will learn.

If u have slept with her, she is ur girlfriend whether she likes it or not. If you have not slept with her, you're her brother whether you like it or not.

Lenny22:
When she gives you attention without getting sexual
When she grinds you and allow you to dry hump her without getting naked
When she always asking for financial assistance
When she says she likes you but she would never show you her pants
When she keeps her legs closed even though she is not a virgin

Bro, Just walk away!!!!!!!!!!!

Don't just run bro, flyyyy

Badboibipo:
I think admiration without financial or material backing gets boring over time and turns you to an arsehole. For most girls they enjoy it because with every admiration they get the chances are they are getting paid for it. People who admire women most often buy them gifts and then send them money, so to women admiration is a blessing and they love it.

For me? Well every girl that sees me will either keep staring or start smiling. At first I was so polite and grateful for the fact that girls looked at me with smiles on their faces. Then I started to expect privileges from it, like I felt I could just say “hello dear, I see you looking at me, can I have your number please” and the girl will just hurriedly give me with happiness. But to my surprise that wasn’t the case. The moment I say anything, shakara starts. They start forming hard to get, and start playing mind games.

So I sat down and asked myself, all these unnecessary drama I face daily from women, like being the center of their gossip, the attitude they give me If I dare act proud in front of them, I asked myself.. what do I gain from this admiration? The answer was NOTHING!!!!!!!

There is no single privilege to being admired as a man, not money not even “easy” pussy. Yes in some cases there are easy pussyy a but only the few girls with low esteem issues will make is that easy for you. Others will adore you and still play hard to get.

So you know what I do now? I don’t appreciate any stupid admiration anymore, I just ignore or hiss or make a funny face at you because admiration for a man is so irrelevant. It’s useless and so if you don’t see me smiling back at you just know it’s because your attention is not going to profit me in any way so I cannot be jumping up in excitement because of it.

Bros but u sabi complain o... Everytime girls this, girls that. We go like see this ur fine face.

Benki003:
No much cap go back village go leave

true words x 1,000

Why u dey confuse us with ur pics. This man is not 15

SultanOfAbia:
Everytime girls keep saying they love guys that go straight to the point.
Guys that are honest bla bla bla
Guys that are confident go to The point
If you want sex just say it. Instead of beating around the bush.

Oya nowww... i tried it on sunday. I went to shoprite and searched for any decent girl that look hot. I approach the first girl
She was responding well and smilling until i said "for real i want to fvck you" then she looked confused and i repeat that the reason i approach hsr is because i want to fvck her.
The babe look me one kind eye, and left me

why u no go brothel ?

blazesam:
Is Tinubu with all the voters cards? Me my card will not be subscribing to APC... I will use my voter card to vote a different political party.

Ur one vote won't change the minds of other 2m almajiri in Kaduna whom El Rufai will persuade to vote for Tinubu

Seniorwriter:
@Seun Osewa and NL moderators....This should be on frontpage....so we can get more contributions and enlightening mentions.

We need vote out APC & PDP and also vote in young visionary leaders come 2023...
The victory if we as youths do the needful will be televised!
You can only be part of the new-normal(revolution) with your PVC & voting responsibility!
We mooove!

Stop saying trash on a public space....where were his foot soldiers during EDO NO BE LAGOS ...talk more of seeing them in the whole 36 states come next year... exercise your responsibility so you can claim your rights come 2023.


@Seniorwriter

Obaseki was in APC oga. Most people that voted for him are core APC supporters. But I won't spend much time arguing with you. Even Obi knows he won't win. Tinubu go still will. It's just a painful truth. Get used to accepting it now.

Why waste my time when I'm sure Tinubu will win ? Political Neophytes think Obi will win because of social media posts...... When Tinubu foot soldiers will start campaign, all doz Obi people will discharge.

If to say u be real guy man, u go know say na format

Tinubu did more for many in Lagos.

ojun50:
Nice one

When are taking daddy out too

Ehm, comrade this vawulence u dey plant

EASYGURU:
Na this useless GAY guy from the other thread. If you like attributes all sexuality trait's to yourself, you b gay

homo na homo, and homo na evil spirit. Dem supposed cleanse that guy

Na even at that 30 the sweet life start..lol
That time u don get mind, get a lot of friends and a lot experience in reality. Nothing fit shock u again. Lot of small beautiful girls for u to choose from.
Omo, I sure say na at 30+ go sweet pass 20s.

congo4ka:
Lived in russia for over 7 years....I am against the system and government

so for the full 7 years you no know any body in the system ? Na nairaland u find them come ? U don't even know the right code word to use, u just dropped d thing like that. Omo, u be government agent looking for boys to catch. Go to hotels u will see enough boys to pick with ur crew in red vest.

congo4ka:
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na lie go kill you. Before u get that update for that work, u don get enough resources to carry out the scam....
U be CIA agent.. open up

Blunttruth:
why are you bothered about a married man. Stop being a stalker.

The married man is her husband.

I no understand. He mean one starlink Wifi abi what ?
If it is naim be say we go dey contribute money buy am.
But Nigerian politicians go frustrate d company. Cos they benefit when people suffer.

Normal life

The man no try. Ur wife is not a slave

shortIGBOman:
Bus drivers in the Skies, who go come be their Conductor?

Air hostesses..na conductress dem dey get

Divay22:
Urhobo better for where isoko men dey o

lol

Skyview01:
Your dad na Delta man?. Just asking?.

ask him if he is an urhobo man.

Ferrytech:
bro i get nothing but save funds that intent learning from you . am not saying you cant be an hacker but try to write out what you do . and about my dad you can help me say hello to him in heaven

no dey reply am again. He no know wetin he dey talk. Facebook hacker my foot. Dem go dey do phishing dey call themselves hacker. Hacker wey dey find customers. If he be good hacker, he no go dey waste time for nairaland dey find clients.

Buytrust20:
I am writing this with deep pain and regret in my heart due to me getting relocated or redeployed back to Abuja where I stay, yes I may be stupid to have fallen for this cheap scam from this Bastard @musalfk but I need help to get back my 40k I paid to him for my relocation, according to him, he said he was a staff at NYSC and knows someone in the ICT unit who can be of help to me, due to me having an issue then in my university days for late course registration in which an ICT staff helped me back then in school, in which was swift to see my late course registered within minutes, due to this experience in school, I fell for this scam by Mr musa @musalfk. We agreed 50k in total, In which I sent 40k and once my relocation change in my dashboard and I'll complete the remaining 10k balance, this was on April 13th last month, he said within 2 days the reflection of my relocation will be successful but nothing changed on my dashboard, he kept on saying I should wait, that he gave me 100% assurance that it will work out, fast forward 4 weeks nothing changed in which I told him I'm not interested anymore and to refund my money back, due to the delay, because if truly the said person he knew works at ICT unit in NYSC this issue would have been resolved within days in which made me suspect that this whole process was pure scam and he knows no one there like he said. According to him he said he stays in kaduna and comes to Abuja precisely zuba very well.


Please I need help on how to track this bastard and retrieve my money. I have his whatsapp line and he's always online probably looking for more people to scam!

I would have uploaded his picture but my file was refreshed in which the pics couldn't be found. We even did video call twice..
Pls be careful especially if u intend to do Nysc relocation, majority are scams!!!!!

U refused to follow my advice. Good for you. If you had gone to Ado ekiti pavilion and explain to the ALGI, it would have been easier. I know someone who had similar experience in Ekiti state and it was not expensive to resolve.

Nigerians and illegal business.

okuta007:
Fayemi looks like someone who ate too much Amala and gbegiri soup as a kid - whenever he talks, his mouth looks like someone who eats over feeding when no one is watching - gluttonous - HE WILL NOT EVEN WIN IN EKITI

Most Ekiti people don't like him...they said he sacked a lot of them.

post=112514724:
You bought a SIM CARD that was already registered?!
Wtf!

This is how some people go to jail for something they know nothing they about!!

Shaking our heads

Instead of helping him solve his problem, you are judging him. Typical Nigeria

Truvelisback:
But dey ooo. If u just Shit for Church like dis ehn! Ur matter don cast be that.

My own nearly cast. She be won convert me to light Bill cos na me dey collect light Bill.

Omo, na once I pack comot for the clone room compound.

Buytrust20:
Pls, I need help from someone who has experience for years on nysc issues.

We the stream 2 batch (A) were discharged last week Thursday from camp in EKITI after the 21 days camping exercise, and I was posted to my ppa, but the issue is I want to relocate/redeploy back to Abuja where I based, I tried to go for my ppa to meet the proprietor where I was posted but couldn't meet him because I heard school just vacated same last week, and I'm currently in Abuja, but the issue is I don't like that place at all, I really want to get out from the ekiti state because I don't think I can come there anymore.

Please I need someone experienced in matters like this to tell me what to do please.

Go to NYSC Pavilion in Ado Ekiti, explain this thing to the ALGI. She will tell u how to help.