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A friend is calling off his wedding plans because he thinks his girlfriend lacks integrity. They have known for about 3years and he has not complained about her to me or any one.

Problem started when he got a call from the bank pleading with him to tell his girlfriend to reverse/return the excess amount credited to her account when she visited the bank to make a deposit into her account. He called his account officer to investigate the issue. The account officer confirmed that she got excess of what she wanted to deposit and she has moved all the funds to another bank.

She used the guy as her next of kin that was how they could contact him. He called his babe who denied initially but reluctantly agreed when he divulged that the bank contacted him. Dude became angry and paused all wedding plans.

The lady s begging and has cried her eyes out...what do you think? can you compromise integrity...?

I got permission to write about this here incase you think xyz and my friend is a Nairalander!

An acquaintance is calling of his wedding because he believes his lady has integrity issues. They have been together for about 3years. The guy works with an FMCG coy and the lady is a nurse. The guy has previously complained about her not being accurate and exact with events but they often find a way to reconcile. About a month ago, the guy got a call from the bank, that he should plead with the lady to refund the excess amount mistakenly posted to her account by a teller. The lady used the guy as her next of kin. The guy called his relationship manager to help him look into the matter since it was same bank and he was at work. The relationship manager confirmed that she was overpaid and she immediately transferred the money to another of her account in another bank. He called her at first she feigned ignorance, when she saw that the guy was serious and wouldn't let go, she transferred the amount back to her account. The guy has already lost interest and she is begging.... I was granted permission to post this here! please air your view he may reconsider.

dawnomike:
Venture into exportation of commodities

hello bro please can you elaborate...please

drmikeadams:
Why did he arrest him?
The driver wasn't paying up?

Not just that the vehicles were mismanaged he was ready to dispose both ...I am sure he must have done so sef

gershal:
SSpeter
Have you ever thought about being a wholesales rep?
You already have the skills, even though time isn't your
friend, which you can make it be. You can also reduce
your workload via this bulk purchase.

That means I may have to quit I am already doing whoselase for an fmcg product but we about 5persons that gathered resources together to register as a single distributor. My mum and sis are managing that. I am looking for something different that will add just a reasonable amount with less little risk

drmikeadams:
Buy a car for uber

Nice idea but I am not presently in Lagos where I believe uber booms. I might be wrong though.... A colleague arrested the guy that was doing delivery for him. He bought two vehicles for taxis.

OYENIYIJK:
person wey don work and weak for body go come advice you

well, all those forex, affiliates and $1000 in a day is coming

lol...bad guy

Is everyone asleep, I thought this is the best time of the day to discuss business

Hello friends, I am a sales person with lots of targets and pressure on the job hence I am looking for a business that won't sap much of my time. Prior to this time, I invest in Tbills, FDs and Commercial papers with good credit ratings and FGN bonds.
Lately the interest on these portfolios are nothing to write home about. I have matured certificates I don't want to rollover leaving me too liquid. The best interest (500bps) I have gotten recently was from a CP with a low credit rating and no bank guarantee. I am left with idle cash sitting on several savings accounts peaking at 4.08 percent.
I am thinking of venturing to the real sector but the problem is I love my job and I am too preoccupied to monitor a business. Secondly I have a low risk appetite.
So guys l want to test the waters first. I will appreciate a business that is scalable.
Thanks.

Hoodbilonia:
Abegi
Fela dis
Fela dat
He wasnt so good. We too dey over hype
Abegi

shut up bro, Fela is not overhyped. Fela got balls. When asked the best moment of his life, jimmy cliff said "when I heard Fela Kuti listens to my songs"

It is tough to be a father. The life of a man is hard. Now I understand why bobrisky left.

Dshocker:
This Regina girl is too small to be doing the stuffs she does on the internet and i bet her that at age 30,she would hate herself...I saw her last post and i have vividly see her boobs is deflecting by the day.

bros you strained your eyes until you saw her boobs...you sef no get work

landmark86:
Let them be fooling you
Some idiiiots dey South/East, South/South dey talk rubbish about Kwara State, can u no the state than the indigen?

For your information if u care 2 no, Saraki lost woefully in Kwara State. I'll advise u 2 wait for the final results no argument.

the result pain you?,

sholaadeyemo:
Beautiful female Member of the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) has been repeatedly dead.
She was serving in Oyo State, 2018 Batch 'C' Stream2.

According to a report, Kemi Adeniran passed away in a ghastly bike accident in Ibadan, the incident took place when she was on her way back to her lodge after the INEC training for 2019 general election.

Kemi's colleague, wrote;
Gone too soon!
A batch C2 corps member serving in oyo state died in a fatal accident on her way back from INEC training. May her soul rest in peace."
[http://simplyshola..com/2019/02/oyo-corper-dies-on-her-way-from-inec.html?m=1]

today the sand is below us, tomorrow the sand maybe above us...

We are all free...

adetoroamos:
is not all Igbo that have legit business, the guy wey I buy my generator for him shop is a G... and I also have a G guy here that get big electronics shop for alaba market and most cases you guys robbed to support ur business. here in our area we count any Igbo business man as a former robbery cos that's what they do before u guy open any business

wailing is a TM

adetoroamos:
I tell u my bro, imagine a printing company I just opened and they send a letter from local government for tax bill and PHCN give me 70k bill withing 2months and association is also billing me to pay certain amount of money. meeeeen am tired I wan blame myself gan cos I should have process Canada then.

modify:- with an half cord machine of #950k and #125k generator in a shop am paying #90k per year is one unfortunate guy here call obsolete printing press. if only he can show me his achievement in life then I will accept that I am wrong.

that is enough reason to respect the igbos doing business all over Nigeria

fatymore:
Look at the money. They are too mutilated joor.. Even the one that is abit tear.. People are rejecting them

babe this your grammar give me heart attack... ...na pidgin sure pass o

medadson:
also in the same shoe i'm kind of feeling gulty receiving my salary but we have to keep pushing that is the word i got from my team leader

That is what we hear too. Funny thing is we did a survey on all our distributors warehouse and our goods are just lying there like logs of wood...I pray things happens fast...we shall overcome

geekybabe:
In your mind now, you think you are intelligent . Olodo. Topic of discussion is 'What type of career endears you to the opposite sex?' But foolishly u chose to derail it.

If you want to seek relevance, ask oga seun to create guidance and counselling section. I did not ask you if u have a job or if u work for a non fantastic company. stop trying desperately to get attention. Its a freaking faceless forum. Once again, if you have nothing relevant to contribute to the topic of discussion, just waka pass.

You sound so excited. Your harsh use of language is clearly understood...you 're just a kid!

geekybabe:
Delusional human. As if marriage is the ultimate of all achievements.

Oya come and beat me because i choose to pursue my dreams now. Is it your life?

Next time If you have nothing sensible to say just waka pass.

When people talk about pursuing their dreams I laugh like other people are folding their hands and drinking beer. I have worked with two fantastic companies and currently heading a sales team. Intelligent people on a good career path don't talk much or flaunt it. Rather we chase other things we can't control because the career growth path is already set. This is Nigeria we can claim anything online...don't bother quoting me enjoy your life...

geekybabe:
Yea.. we tech girls rock. We are evry guys delight.

I trust you are married by now or you have a minimum of 10 guys per week killing themselves over you... + or - 35 years and the whole career thing is history. I wish my elder brother had not factored in career when he made his choice.

@op you must be a matured guy to know feeding is a necessity. We have almost all spent more than 20% of our lives that is if we are going to live till 100 (for those above 20yrs) and the the last 20% is a rounding up.(80-100yrs). We have say 60% left. 50% would be spent to cater for children and family. We only have 10% left to discuss career in marriage and other futility...

@ OP I only want a lady with a good heart not an interesting one!!!

shaybebaby:
I actually do know who is single in every sense of the word. She is too busy parenting a young child of preschool age to have time for such. Ofcourse that may change as her child gets older and starts school but for now, she just doesn't have the time.

She is not single as you claim only distracted and unavailable. Like you suggest, when she becomes available her current status expires

bukatyne:
@OP:

I think a truly mature single lady is rare.

You 're objective and unbiased!!

jhudit:
I don't know why anyone will want to change the definition of being single!

that is because you have not define the term "single"

UIA04:
Wonderful

So you are saying that if a lady has a male platonic freind whom she ccan leean on in times of emotional, financial or even ssspiritual distress she is Not single I don't agree op

It's a pity the world has bastardiZed friendships and relationships and sex is So easy to get at the bart of an eyelid


Now I understand what my ex was saying when I asked him why he liked me and thought himself lucky to have have me one of the things he said' “B***A you don't have problem at all ”
At 22 He was the first guy I let into my life as confidant and later boyfriend

What is your definition of "Platonic"? there are several ladies in a... NO SEX, NO ROMANCE...relationship will you also classify them as single?

Gluthatione:
You are very wrong man, there are millions of single ladies out there, I mean those who are not in any form of relationship and not yet married.

they are getting support, those in a relationship are getting

I am talking about a lady of 25 and above. I might be wrong, but sincerely I have not seen a 25 year old lady who would say she is single! Unless online. Seriously when people talk about "Single ladies" do they mean ladies who are not in a relationship at all or those in a relationship path that is void of marriage? (I am just thinking out loud). Every lady in this world has got someone somewhere rendering either emotional, physical or financial support!!! I might be naive in the art of relationship but I have never met any single grown up lady. "Single" in all context!...seemingly every grown up lady has a boyfriend...perhaps the single lady got separated yesterday...just thinking...perhaps I don't understand the female version of being single...can someone elucidate on this subject...

omerta07:
Thia can be traumatizing at times. Im currently facing the same challenge at my unit now. Although mine just started a few days ago...guess the Easter break kinda caused this. You have to take some things into consideration ie - the kind of products you offer, - the location and your customer"s accesibility, What were you doing differently when sales was high? Is your product seasonal? There are quite a whole lot of factors to check out.
Buckle up and face it head on.

We have done several researches and analyses. We have also employed external consultants. Thanks for sharing your thoughts

I have been a bit sober over the last two weeks. I am presently the head of my sales unit and my performance is nothing to write home about. Not just me, the entire sales department. Sometimes I don't feel justified getting paid ...the first quarter was terrible! I don't feel like going to work sometimes because everyone is wearing a frown. We have exploited almost all techniques...I am just sad sha.....

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